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Teresa Giudice Says Melissa Will ‘Spin It’, Cheatergate, So That It’s All Teresa’s Fault; Melissa Gorga Takes Another Dig at Joe Giudice’s Mother

July 22, 2013

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Melissa and Rich’s Bashing

Teresa was shocked to hear what was said about her.

By Teresa Giudice
July 22, 2013


There are no words. No words. I wouldn’t wish this situation on my worst enemy. This was not a fun episode to watch mostly because I was hearing the things my family was saying about me behind my back for the first time. Richie, really? Melissa, really? This is how you talk behind closed doors? You see how me and my husband talk. No bashing. Never have.

I have to say for all Melissa’s accusations, you have never heard me call her a gold digger, a stripper, or a cheater because I never have. Not once. (If I had, you know it would be played back over and over.) But I couldn’t list all the things she has called me and my husband. Did she really whine through an entire blog because Joe called her a “horsey face”? He said my brother was a “dum dum” this episode, so I can only imagine what’s coming. Alert the tabloids!

In five seasons, no matter how much people have tried to get a rise out of me, I have never ever laid a hand on someone. Melissa, not so much. First her own son’s Christening it looked like she was kicking people, then she goes after her brother-in-law, and I didn’t even see until I watched the episode that it looked like she wanted to charge me when I was leaving. And I’m the animal? OK.

I lost count of how many names Melissa called me over the last two weeks but I could care less what Melissa says to me. Call me every name you can think of (or if you can’t think of any, just keep calling me the same one over and over). It’s my brother’s words that hurt. We grew up in such a house of love with the utmost respect for each other. He never called me names. Never. And suddenly now he calls me these terrible things in front of the whole country. It’s confusing and hurtful and it breaks my heart. But still, I can’t hate him. I’ve never hated him.

I don’t know why he has so much hate inside him. My husband isn’t full of hate like that. Maybe Joey and Melissa need to drink Fabellini more often. I don’t know. I can’t wait to hear what the secrets to her hot and happy marriage are when her husband is running around this angry attacking people all the time… He’s either angry or he’s crying… Will there be a chapter on what to do when your husband cries in bed? How can you see your husband hurting like that and not want to fix it?

Of course I did not want to see my brother and my husband fight. Once my brother started calling me names, I went to get Joe to leave. Not so that Joe would do something. Melissa seems to forget she called Joey last year at the fashion show for exactly that reason, so he would come and fight. I didn’t want it then, and I didn’t want it now. I just wanted to leave. I was done.

I was very proud that my Joe walked in the room and asked for an apology. He didn’t call anyone names. As soon as Joey charged him, Joe was figuring out the safest way to hold Joey off. If there was ever a “safe” fight for my brother to be in, it’s with my husband. He would never hurt my brother. Joey knows that and Melissa knows it too. Why she was acting all hysterical was insane to me. I get that if Joey was fighting with a stranger, she might be afraid for him, but not with my husband. Then, you should definitely jump in and try to stop it, Melissa! When he’s being an idiot with my husband, you can let them be.

I did run to get security to break it up, but I got back to the room before they did. And I broke up the fight right away. How is that? There were 4 people there trying to “break it up” but only I could do it? Seems to me they weren’t really trying to break it up, they were also attacking my husband. Poor guy!

I had no idea that Melissa felt so strongly about my cookbooks and my products. I guess that explains why she never publicly supported me even though I supported her. I do them because food is what I know best and it makes me happy. It’s sad that she feels the need to belittle me for doing what makes me happy and trying to make a better life for myself and my family. Although I’m sure it’s somehow my fault anyway.

I have nothing else to say except that I can’t wait to see how Melissa will spin this. Here’s a free hint: it’s all my fault.

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Melissa’s Mama Bear Mode

Melissa opens up about the Joe vs. Joe fight.

By Melissa Gorga
July 22, 2013

Hi everyone. I hope you are enjoying your summer. I can’t believe we are almost half way through! I know these last few episodes have been very dark, but we had to go through what you are seeing to get to a better place.

When Teresa went out and told her husband what her brother called her, Joe Guidice came flying into the ballroom yelling and aggressive. Ten years of hurt and anger in my husband just exploded. He had reached his breaking point. Joe Giudice immediately demanded an apology when his wife was called “scum.” I wonder how he would have reacted if his wife were called, say, “stripper,” “cheater,” “skank ass beotch,” or “horsey face.” How about if he were called “pussy whipped” or that he “took it up the a– with a strap on?” Joe said one word — one syllable — to his sister, right to her face, not behind her back or using other people to speak for him, and look at what happened?

The fight was about anger, frustration, and resentment. We held it in for so long that eventually we just broke down and couldn’t take it anymore. What Joe was trying to explain to his family is that when you speak negatively about his wife, it is disrespecting him. From the past few seasons, I think it’s clear that neither Teresa nor her husband will ever understand that.

When the brawl started, I just reacted and jumped in to break them apart. I’d jump in front of a moving train for my husband and kids. If my family is threatened in any way, you couldn’t drag me away. Watching the fight last night, I think I confirmed my take on marriage. It’s about love, honesty, passion, respect, and loyalty. Loyalty means you stand by your man and defend him in a fight. You don’t take off and blame others later.

Even though Joe Giudice might have deserved to get slapped for the things he’d said about me, I really wasn’t trying to hurt him. I just wanted to get them off of each other. It’s pure instinct to try to help your loved ones when you feel like they may be in danger. I was in Mama Bear mode. The claws came out. I might be small, but I can and will do anything to protect my husband from people who tried to do him harm, physically and emotionally.

Immediately after the fight, Joe was devastated. He knew that his sister and her husband would spin the fight their way and he was upset he let it get that far. He was right. Teresa told Joe that she was the one that had to go in there and break up the fight! Really? She wasn’t there! Whatever her excuse will be, the fact is she ran in the opposite direction when her husband and brother were trying to kill each other.

It was agony to watch my husband cry. Joe is a passionate, sensitive man. He really felt destroyed over what just happened. The suffering had to stop. I was desperate to separate him from the source of the pain and get out of there.

After the fight, Teresa came to our room. She asked to talk, and Joe said “no.” She then asked me to leave my husband alone with her. I said “no.” I know my husband and we all needed to cool down. I’d say we should have slept on it, but Joe and I didn’t sleep a wink that night. We were too upset. Joe was a wreck. He could barely speak and I was shaken up watching him.

Now I know that while we were crying, devastated, and embarrassed over in the other room, nothing but giggles and Fabellini toasts. The Giudices must have felt like what just happened was no big deal. They were having sexy time in the hot tub. Hey, whatever floats your boat. I wonder what Filomena “too much boobie” Giudice would say about her son and daughter-in-law’s Jacuzzi action and his “I’m going to jerk off”?

The next morning we felt more done with trying to repair our relationship with Teresa then we ever had. I said some not nice things about Teresa’s brands. I “eggmit” it. She’d thrown mud on my projects for years, especially my singing — her rendition of “On Display” at the reunion was unforgettable. Multiple times she said I lip sync and even my nieces have repeated it. As I’ve said before, tit for tat will not get us anywhere. Two wrongs don’t make a right. When I am wrong, I say I’m wrong.

I know I’m being a bit of a hard ass this season, but I just can’t be fake. Watching your husband so upset would make any women see red. I toughened up for him. He needed to be strong for our family, and I needed to be strong to back him up. At this point, I was beyond fed up. I had lost hope and believed that the nonsense was never going to end.

As you can see, I might have had the right idea. Just last week in her blog, Teresa outright threatened us saying I am “very, very lucky that [she’s] keeping quiet about the things [she] does know” about me and my marriage. I thought we are supposed to be in a better place? This is exactly why I didn’t want to just put on a fake smile and pretend that we could snap our fingers and the animosity would disappear. Teresa can threaten me all she likes. All day long, or all night in the hot tub. In fact, I beg her to write in her blog what she “has.” What lie is up her sleeve? I’m dying to know. Do share with us all, Teresa. It’s been open season on me for a while. You might as well bring it out. I’ve been called everything under the sun. What else you got? I can’t wait to hear directly from you, not others.

Obviously, I’ve had to toughen up for a reason. I thought staying at the castle and more talking would only make things worse. It would take a miracle to change my mind, and turn things around. Maybe that miracle is Dr. V. She was very pretty and didn’t look like a saint, but God worked in mysterious ways.

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The Root of Teresa and Joe’s Problem

Jacqueline thinks Joe and Teresa’s issues just go back to their spouses.

By Jacqueline Laurita
July 22, 2013

It bothered me that Teresa kept saying that it was my fault she wasn’t speaking to her brother. If you ask her brother, he will tell you that is simply not true. I think Teresa’s memory is a little fuzzy on what I actually told her brother at the fashion show. Someone please rewind that tape. We all saw Teresa’s actions last season confirming what I told her brother was true, and it proves that I never lied about anything. I only stated the obvious.

I told Teresa’s brother that someone texted me at the fashion show saying that Teresa was at the salon earlier in the day with Kim and that shady bald guy that had just tried to embarrass Melissa. (Which was true.) I also said that someone texted me that the shady bald guy was heard laughing while saying something about embarrassing Melissa. (Which you also saw was true.) You actually see him on the finale last season saying that Kim and Teresa asked him to do it. The last thing I told her brother was that it was all a set up. (Which was also, clearly, very true.) I told the truth.

I never said that Teresa was the only person involved, but it was clear to everyone that she was involved in the set up on some level. Even if you didn’t know all of the details, it was clear that Teresa set Melissa up by not telling her what happened earlier at the salon until she put Melissa on the spot in the bathroom at the fashion show. It was obvious that Teresa was still friendly with Kim and the bald guy knowing what they had done earlier. It was clear that Kim and the bald guy felt very comfortable doing what they did in front of Teresa and that they all still remained friendly with each other afterward.

I was confident at that point that Teresa was love, love, loving every moment of humiliating Melissa, instead of love, love, loving her sister-in-law like she seemed to in California. It is becoming increasingly clear to me now, as the show progresses, that Teresa still resented Melissa, like she still resented me after she publicly made up with me.

In hindsight, I could have just let her brother watch the show to see it all unfold himself, but there were already other pieces to the puzzle that Joe and Melissa were putting together themselves. I guess at that time, I still felt hurt about how Teresa made up with me publicly and then later I found out she was still mad at me. When I saw her doing the same thing to her family, it just bothered me. I was tired of the charade. I felt like things were being taken too far.

For some reason, putting me at fault for her family feud helped Teresa to cope with it all. I guess it helped her take a load off her conscience. I think Teresa was involved in things she now regretted.

I believe as upset as Teresa was with her brother, that she loves him and is hurt that they are not as close as they used to be, but it’s very hard for her to accept Melissa as his wife. Neither of the siblings like the other’s choices in spouses. It’s a very common problem in a lot of families. I believe her brother loves Teresa, but he just wanted her to cut the B.S. of trying to hurt them and just wanted Teresa to be real and have a real relationship. He was just as hurt and frustrated as Teresa.

Melissa and Joe Giudice were caught in the crossfire and were just frustrated with the whole mess of seeing their spouse’s feelings hurt and just wanted to give up on trying to fix things. We’ve all been there at some point.

Honestly, this episode made me cry a few times. I could feel such deep emotion from everybody there. All that anger comes from hurt. Being hurt by someone you love can bring out the worst in anyone. I felt for every single one of them on this episode. They are all just frustrated with each other. Their pain runs deep, but there is still love.

Sometimes, when you hit rock bottom, there’s nowhere to go but up! Keep the faith! Keep watching.


  1. Confused
    July 22, 2013 at 3:01 PM

    After reading both of these blogs there is no way I believe that they are in a better place. I think they will need to be placed behind bullet proof glass for the reunion. Horsey face, lover of ball munchers needs to take cover, because I think that not only is sh*t going to hit the fan, it’s going to be coming from far and wide. She just couldn’t let it rest with her poor me victim role playing. She made her bed, now’s she’ll have to lie down in it.

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:59 PM

      Other people she has tried to destroy, use, and manipulate will come forward now that they feel their story will be heard. When I spoke up about abuse, I stood alone but the day came when more victims came forward.

  2. July 22, 2013 at 3:08 PM

    The sheer audacity of Melissa’s blog has me on mute which is a rare occurrence. Can’t believe she took a shot at Juicy’s Mom. And if she was so disgusted by Juicy joking around that he was going to jerk off, or something like that, why did she allow her husband to post a video of her son simulating jerking off on his twitter feed for weeks so that every pedophile in the world could download it to their computer. She is offended by Juicy kidding around with his wife in the bedroom, but not by what her husband posted? Oh, that’s right. She never goes on twitter. I forgot.

    • Confused
      July 22, 2013 at 3:25 PM

      Yup. I’m still trying to wrap my arms around her blog. Personally, I think that she knows she’s been caught (same by her reactions in the last episode). Didn’t she look like a trapped rat?

      • vallygirl
        July 22, 2013 at 6:19 PM

        That goofy cum bucket looked like a trapped rat alright!
        The look on her face when the shrink requested that that Teresa and only Teresa come with her to speak to little Joey was priceless! It’s clearly obvious by the look on her face that she feeds on having total control over that sissy husband of hers! Melissa made it quite clear with that pathetic look on her face
        that she ddidn’t approve of the shrink requesting that Teresa come with her to speak to her brother and not Melissa there to chirp in his ear to make sure she dominated her sissy husband and override whatever the shrink had planned for Teresa and her brother! What’s amazing to me is without that manipulating gold digger Teresa and her brother are giving eachother a hug and being there for eachother after a few minutes of being in the same room without that manipulating piece of trash! It was amazing to see Teresa and her brother hug!

      • July 22, 2013 at 9:19 PM

        Little Miss fidget on edge. Funny how she can not trust her husband to be alone with his sister “because he is weak” That had to drive her up a wall to watch him hug Teresa after all the work she did to keep them apart lol

        • Confused
          July 22, 2013 at 11:49 PM

          That is the definition of pussy whipped. lol

    • lucille mason
      July 22, 2013 at 4:53 PM

      did melissa make a peekhole thru the wall to hear what teresa and juicy were talking about in the tub, remember these are old castles and would have thick walls

    • Anonymous
      July 22, 2013 at 4:56 PM

      That video of Little( oops, younger) Joey is on YouTube. It is unforgivable that his pea brained father put it out into the Internet universe for all to see.

      • July 23, 2013 at 1:02 AM

        when did the fight with penny’s husband happen? wasent that filmed too?

        when would that air? theres no way she can keep spinning their innocence story, with all this violence coming from their side..i guess she will though

    • Sackem
      July 22, 2013 at 7:39 PM

      Let’s not forget Clasdy Wakilie chasing her around the caravan with morning wood or her husband flashing Chris Laurita, her husband shoving his boyhood into her face in the promos for all the world to see, her husband discussing his poison, her husband trying to copulate in a bathroom – on air in Punta Cana – I’m sure there’s more. If she needs to physically defend Joey, what does that say about his skills as a man? Ugh. There were so many things wrong about her blog, and interestingly a lot of familiar things in Teresa’s.

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:14 PM

      I would not be surprised if what she wanted to happen was teresa to get mad at her husband for fighting with her brother, but instead they are having a wonderful romantic evening.

      No healthy boundaries for her or her husband so I am not surprised by any sexual comments they make nor the things concerning their children.

      • Silvana
        July 23, 2013 at 2:00 AM

        Yeah I thought joe gorga had sex with his wife when he’s angry with his sister so why weren’t the gorga’s in the hot tub as well?

        • July 23, 2013 at 8:29 AM

          TSIL tries to console him but he pushes her out of his way yet when Rich puts his arms around him he is somewhat annoyed but settles down, his ego soothed by “You got him”

    • lucille mason
      July 22, 2013 at 9:25 PM

      but melissa is miss innocent

    • Silvana
      July 23, 2013 at 1:56 AM

      Hey Gessie u should post this on her bravo blog or on her twitter 🙂

    • lucille mason
      July 23, 2013 at 4:50 AM

      juicy needed a good soak in the tub, after all those nuts climbing all over hit, and clawing him, besides they are married, let them have fun,

      • July 23, 2013 at 8:37 AM

        Their conscience was clear. They are friends and lovers at a retreat with no kids.

        Juicy must have a great deal of respect from other Italian men. I can see why Chris would miss his friendship after hanging out with TB and Rich.

  3. Jeannie5233
    July 22, 2013 at 3:13 PM

    I think the Sr. Gorgas would have been more open to accepting TSIL had she and TB not gone on the show, as well as the Wakiles. They knew there were skeletons and they knew all was not happy in the Giudice/Gorga/Pierri family. The last thing they wanted was to have their dirty laundry aired on televeision and also knew that there was no way to avoid that happening. But the Whorgas and Wakiles disrespected them and went on anyway.

    I believe the straw that broke the camel’s back was the Season 4 Reunion. The Wakiles, Rosie, and the Whorgas’ behavior was repulsive and embarrassing. You just don’t bring disgrace to the family name. It is unacceptable to disrespect your elders in most cultures, in this case, Italian, and because of what transpired, it was grounds for the Sr. Gorgas to cut ties with them all. Frankly, I don’t blame them.

    • Goldenthread
      July 22, 2013 at 4:01 PM


  4. July 22, 2013 at 3:20 PM

    another classy blog by Teresa where she states the SAME things she has said all along, and another blog full of lies from Melissa. How long will it take before the Manzos and Lauritas wake up and realize they are on the WRONG SIDE of the feud? Will they ever eggmit it??

    • LifeIsGood
      July 22, 2013 at 9:30 PM

      I wouldn’t hold your breath for an admission, Camm. If I had to put money on it, I would bet that caroline is most likely to turn on MeGo. But in doing so she will never admit that she was wrong about Teresa – none of them are capable of it.

  5. chachapaa
    July 22, 2013 at 3:30 PM

    Teresa’s sister in law is a DISGRACE. I am so glad Bravo is finally showing the truth. PS to the marco’s- looks like bravo is finally “coming” for poor wittle messy…now what are you going to do? We are waiting for you to do whatever it is you threatened months ago…tic tic.

    • Silvana
      July 23, 2013 at 2:04 AM

      yeah lysa posted on twitter that watching the latest episode was hard boy did she cop it not too many friendly responses. Loved it!!!

  6. Rxnnz
    July 22, 2013 at 3:35 PM

    I don’t understand how Whacko Jacko and the others lie in their blogs about how things happened and about things they’ve said when it’s all on tape. The transcript you posted here totally goes against her blog. She clearly stated that Teresa “set-up” TSIL and in her blog she denies, denies, denies. If these people don’t take the proper medicine I may have to.

  7. windycitywondering2
    July 22, 2013 at 3:37 PM

    Teresa is winning! Melissa keeps spinning. Lewd Laurita wouldn’t know the truth unless it came in a bleach bottle or a waxing kit. The Wakiles need to get their money back on Richie’s chicklet teeth (he couldn’t close his mouth now if he tried) and Kathy’s nose/lips because they don’t improve the nastiness in your hearts. And Caroline, oh Caroline please thank Teresa for being a good Bravo employee because you really didn’t belong on that fambly retreat!
    AND for those who still don’t get it – Juicy won the fight, Melissa called Juicy the “C” word so she can’t use what Juicy called his wife as justification anymore and Rosie is the only one who actually has a higher education because she knows how to use four syllable words correctly!

    • vallygirl
      July 22, 2013 at 8:56 PM

      Windycitywondering2 – You know I gotta say little Joey and Frankenstein Richie are quite the humiliation think about it other countries are watching this show and these two bozos are what is taking place in this great land. We have a sissy man who cries faster than most pregnant woman do and then joining him is Richie with his chicket teeth and by the way who gave Richie the chicklets? Mr. Magoo?? What dentist that wishes to have repeat business puts teeth like that on anybody? So it comes down to these two idiots representing the great State of New Jersey! I’m not sorry to say that these two are an embarrasment not only to New Jersey but to this country. Seriously everytime I see Richie’s big ol teeth they remind me of Dennis the Menis remember when he put chicklets into Mr. Wilson’s dentures after he broke them lol?
      All I can say is thank God my husband’s teethare normal and he doesn’t cry at the drop of a hat infact in all these years of being married I’ve never seen my husband cry I’m so grateful for that!

      • charok
        July 22, 2013 at 10:22 PM

        lmao on the richie -mr wilson chiclet gum dentures!!!!!!

      • lucille mason
        July 23, 2013 at 4:52 AM

        and richie needs table manners, close your mouth when you chew

      • July 24, 2013 at 5:05 PM

        when I hear Richie’s jalla jalla…it makes me sick

    • LifeIsGood
      July 22, 2013 at 9:26 PM

      Bitchies teeth went from “Sunshine Yellow” to “Glow In The Dark.” They wouldn’t be as noticeable if he would close his mouth – it hangs open all of the time.

  8. Goldenthread
    July 22, 2013 at 3:42 PM

    I won’t even read Melissa’s part. She really is an evil person.

    • windycitywondering2
      July 23, 2013 at 1:56 AM

      LOL I wouldn’t read Wacky Jacky’s and I really feel better for it!

  9. Goldenthread
    July 22, 2013 at 3:46 PM

    I seriously hope they get rid of Melissa, she has to go. The story is getting old, I hate the bullying. Everything is always Teresa’s fault. Umm I know they can join the show too if they want, but Teresa was there first. However, then, all of a sudden her whole family showed up. Wendy Williams always says Teresa should quit the show, that annoys me because she was there first! Why should she leave?! Who told all of her family to join… anyway…I really detest Melissa.

    • July 23, 2013 at 2:18 AM

      I agree with everything you said especially when it comes to Wendy Williams. Also why no one ever says anything about what Melissa originally did to betray Tre with Danielle just to get on the show.

      • lucille mason
        July 23, 2013 at 4:54 AM

        who watchs wendy williams anyway

  10. Saddle_River_NJ
    July 22, 2013 at 3:47 PM

    LOL – I just took a peek over at Bryan’s Twitter feed. He references how The cum bucket keyed up a female friends car and hit women he spoke to. Isn’t Our Little Harlot just the perfect devotee of Emily Post?

    • July 22, 2013 at 4:36 PM

      Cum bucket. I’m stealing it. Only, because I’m such a lady 😀 I will shorten it to CB.

      • Saddle_River_NJ
        July 22, 2013 at 4:58 PM

        Someone should post all of the aliases ‘da bitch is known by…

        • July 22, 2013 at 5:06 PM

          Jeannie, get on it… 😀

          • Jeannie5233
            July 22, 2013 at 6:14 PM

            TSIL – I will stick with that one – has managed to earn so many monikers – deservedly – there is no way one could keep up!! 😉

            • Jeannie5233
              July 22, 2013 at 6:53 PM

              I just read one over at another blog that I had not heard – “Gnomeo”!

            • July 22, 2013 at 8:21 PM

              That’s no joke!

    • Miss Alicat
      July 22, 2013 at 5:17 PM

      Omg that’s awful, but sooo funny!!!! 🙂

    • July 22, 2013 at 5:29 PM

      I knew she was a little street thug.

      • corky21
        July 22, 2013 at 6:52 PM

        For sure. And she says she was just trying to stop the fight. Really, through the window before she slaps Joe Guidice her teeth are clenched and her true evil bitch blares through then the slap, slap, and the eye gouging right after. She’s so full of it.

        • Laram
          July 23, 2013 at 2:06 AM

          I know. She is truly a witch. That glaring out window with her arms crossed was eerie.

      • charok
        July 22, 2013 at 10:23 PM

        i was gonna say she is a little hood rat myself, but street thug will work just as well

    • lapband lauren
      July 22, 2013 at 6:02 PM

      Saddle, read that. Also the fact that she used to make bryan fight every week at clubs. (p.s. Bryan is so damn fine….mmmmmmmmmm) but it makes sense. Remember christening? She was egging on joey. Remember PFS? She was smiling while calling joey to come over (potentially risking her husbands safety, also risking him going to jail) even with the retreat “stop hurting us!” it is true, what has tre or juicy said that has hurt them? They have both kept their mouths shut to protect joey.

    • July 22, 2013 at 6:27 PM

      I missed that tweet, Saddle River. I just added it to the article. Thanks!

    • Sue Ling
      July 22, 2013 at 8:52 PM

      I would love for somebody to ask Melissa who Emily Post was. She’d probably think it was a pseudonym for someone’s first dog and the name of the first street they lived on. That’s where her piggy mind goes.

  11. difromnyc
    July 22, 2013 at 3:48 PM

    Ya know, at first I was skeptical that MeGo really thought THIS blog was started by Tree. But after reading that last blog, its hard not to believe it. EVERYTHING she says sounds like everything we joke about here.

    MeGo needs to stop catching feelings. She wanted fame and fortune. I can’t believe they are so surprised at the price they pay for it. And now, is it really worth it? Clearly all her endeavors have left her frantic. She’s a crazed lunatic at the castle and I’m sure she’s reeling right now with people threatening to come out and talk.

    And with that comes her very clear threat. Yes Tree bring out the dirty laundry, so it coincides with people airing it out to the world and she can say – see!….see Tree is behind it all!

    I don’t even think Bravo wants MeGo anymore. If you look at it, JoGo gets more play, more air time and it seems more and more talking heads. The truth is Bravo never wanted MeGo. They wanted Joe. But you can’t have him be a Real Housewife.

    • Goldenthread
      July 22, 2013 at 3:52 PM

      Good point! What happened to her “singing career.” If any of us had a sister-in-law as mean and as vindictive as MeHo we would all be Teresa’s shoes.

      • July 22, 2013 at 10:41 PM

        Well Joey could be a rgw, with they way he crys all the time.

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:42 PM

      well said! I was also thinking the same thing. Andy has a thing for Joey & it’s obvious that Tre’s family are the stars of the show. Plus the drama in the family helped.

      Melissa is pathetic & after this, there is no way she can’t redeem herself. I think Joey however can.
      Joey comes from a good family & used to have a good reputation. There is always a chance for him to restore it.

      If it is true, & the Whorgas check this site out, I’m sure the comments about Whorsey face & the opinions we viewers formed on their relationship is seeping through his head.

      As a viewer, I would give Joey a chance to redeem himself. He doesn’t have to come clean to us 100% but all he has to say is “I was wrong to put my family in this situation” & drop that whore, & find someone new!

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:49 PM

      Oh my, that surely will piss her off if she breaks up with TB and he becomes “famous” without her.

  12. Goldenthread
    July 22, 2013 at 3:50 PM

    Oh and do not even get me started on Richie. He is so mean and negative, it almost seems like he has the hots for Teresa and is also jealous of her. He is always putting her down too, like he is so great and perfect. Based on what I have seen, it appears Kathy is not too fond of the things he says on camera.. It might be because of the problems it has caused her mother with Teresa’s dad. It looks like she is trying not to be negative, but her husband is just like a gossipy woman. She should ditch that loser.

    • Cee_See
      July 22, 2013 at 11:24 PM

      I agree with everything you mentioned, Goldenthread! Richie seems to be trying way too hard to stay on camera! He seems like one of Tsil’s cheerleaders, at times, her only cheerleader! Which makes him bias, just like Jaq, so his opinion cancels itself out because he can’t think rationally! I was hoping Juicy or Rosie would have set bitch Rich straight when he was accussing Tre of starting the whole fight! If Tre had it her way when she left after being called scum her and Juicy would have left the retreat! I was kind of ticked off at Richie for blaming Tre but now I think the joke is on him! Maybe the reason Juicy and Rosie didn’t set him straight is because his opinion seems irrelevant to them? Plus, I hope he feels like a d–k head seeing that he was wrong, dead wrong and now his opinion will be cast aside as “irrational” just like Jaq’s opinion of Tre is! When I read Jaq’s hateful comments about Tre I just SMH and wonder how she can live with so much crazy hate and resentment?

    • lucille mason
      July 23, 2013 at 4:58 AM

      richie is a business man,knows it all, he’s mad because he can’t handle teresa’s businesses. loll

    • July 26, 2013 at 6:07 PM

      Honestly Ritchie is super creepy, I think he likes Theresa or something, maybe he asked her out and she said no, or who knows, but he hates her and it isn’t justified.

  13. difromnyc
    July 22, 2013 at 3:51 PM

    And what was up with Mel’s comment about Dr. V??? “She was very pretty and didn’t look like a saint, but God worked in mysterious ways.”

    • charok
      July 22, 2013 at 4:28 PM

      yeah that comment missy made kinda made me go WTH?

    • lapband lauren
      July 22, 2013 at 5:56 PM

      Because shes a bitch and she cant appreciate the fact that others want to help. Hmm..makes you wonder, does she really want the help??? No. Why do you think shes been pissed off at caroline all season and wants caroline to “back off!” because tre and joey listen to carolines advice. Dr V was another help that could pull tre and joey together again. Remember melissas last comment before the show ended? Something along the lines that we cant fix this. She knows she has joey wrapped around her finger. I think he knows his wife is a liar. Hes desperate and a hopeless romantic who doesnt want to lose his wife. Thats why he is crawling on his knees for her. Think about it. Hes been engaged three times. Hes a lover and he does love hard. Hes been brainwashed by love and pussy.

    • Anonymous
      July 22, 2013 at 5:59 PM

      I thought that was a bizarre thing to say, too. Actually quite telling on Melissa.

    • Bullie
      July 22, 2013 at 10:34 PM

      Yeah, I’d like to know how Melissa thinks Dr. V didn’t look like a saint. I’m sure Creepy Dick Wakile & Rosie would disagree 😉

      She is so jealous, the claws come out on any female that might get male attention besides her. This is why she is friendly with Jac, Caroline & Kathy. All ugly, wrinkly, old potatoes next to Melissa.

      • charok
        July 22, 2013 at 11:09 PM

        you hit the nail on the head with this one bullie, she esp now tends to pal around with more older/unattractive women so she stands out like the shining hot star…

  14. Goldenthread
    July 22, 2013 at 4:00 PM

    Teresa is not the problem, neither is the husband or the kids. The issue here stems from MeHo and Slow Joe not having a back bone. MeHo is super jealous and envious. I am not saying Teresa is a saint, who is, right?! I do think that Teresa can never win with these people, everything she does is scrutinized. I will have to admit, I know parts of these shows are scripted, but seeing Teresa so upset and crying about how much she wanted to fix things with her brother made me teary eyed. I hope bravo takes MeHO off the show, I probably won’t watch next season if they don’t.

    One more thing…do you remember MeHo was talking about Juicy Joe going to jail saying he deserves it…. Right there you can see her evilness!!! He has children for God’s sake!!! How can you say that!? You never know what can happen to you in the future, yet you wish harm on other people?! She truly is a horrible person.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 7:37 PM

      I just posted a comment downthread addressing what TSIL said about Joe. Horrible doesn’t even begin to do justice in describing her and her husband.

    • July 22, 2013 at 10:09 PM

      She tells him what they deserve which is good things. She tells him what others deserve which is bad things. She tells him Teresa is the devil and they are the angels of God. It is evil and yes it is envy at the root of it. She will be jealous of anyone who appears to be a threat even her children.

    • lucille mason
      July 23, 2013 at 5:01 AM

      melissa better be careful, poison, chris and wacko should be getting court date soon, because of beating up the greek.

  15. Candace
    July 22, 2013 at 4:14 PM

    Eh. Blow it out your bum, Melissa Whorga. Your full of poop.

  16. July 22, 2013 at 4:24 PM

    Does this snippet from Melissa bother anybody else..?

    The fight was about anger, frustration, and resentment. We held it in for so long that eventually we just broke down and couldn’t take it anymore.

    The “we” part is creeping me out because Little Joey is the one that charged so he would be considered the one that broke down because he couldn’t take it anymore. Why is Melissa making herself part of “holding it in” and then breaking down? I think I’m probably losing my mind and looking into this more than I should, but doesn’t that seem pretty weird? I wonder if someone could be saying “we” all the time to keep Joey in check about their partnership (mind manipulation? Boy, I am losing it) All those WEs up there. Too bad it wasn’t wee, wee, wee all the way home. I would like to see them close up shop and go home for good.

    Ha! I just realized that the first part of Melissa’s name was ME. It’s all about me, me, me! Sounds about right.

    • BionicMe
      July 22, 2013 at 4:38 PM

      The fact that she is creating all those excuses and yet blames others for defending their spouse is scary. Crazy slurp.

    • July 22, 2013 at 4:39 PM

      We because, don’t you know, her and Joey have such a wonderful relationship that they have become one. VOMIT!

    • July 23, 2013 at 9:03 AM

      She projects her emotions on to him so much, she has convinced him that it is the way he feels. She needs to feel like they are a team with a inited front. She needs backup for her emotions. If people don’t believe her, surely they will believe him.

      • July 23, 2013 at 9:44 AM

        So true. She’s desperate.

  17. NCGal
    July 22, 2013 at 4:26 PM

    Just read some of the comments on Melissa’s blog, they are showing up faster than I can keep up but she is getting SLAMMED!

    • charok
      July 22, 2013 at 4:51 PM

      oh yes she is and im enjoying all of them…just a FEW pro missy comments, the majority of them are anti missy..i LOVED this one

      Wow you are a truly disgusting person! After reading this blog I dislike you even more! Just wish Teresa would slap you stupid once and for all. God knows you deserve it”

      • corky21
        July 22, 2013 at 7:56 PM

        Yes almost all are bashing Melissa, finally. there are too many to read, I saw only 3 for her. I wonder if this is all a Bravo plan? In the past, it was rare to see very many bad postings on her blog.

        • Cee_See
          July 23, 2013 at 12:07 AM

          I am wondering what is up with Bravo, too? Because, Tsil is hanging herself with every inch of rope given to her! Don’t get me wrong, I’m luving it, but I’m a little skeptical of Bravo’s plan? I wonder if Bulldog gets a descent offer how his story will fit into Bravo’s storyline? Hmmm….

          • lucille mason
            July 23, 2013 at 5:03 AM

            bravo knows now, that teresa fans are mad, and if teresa leaves, they’ ll lose all her fans too

            • July 23, 2013 at 9:48 AM

              I hope that is what they realize. I too am loving that they are no longer letting Melissa hide behind a good edit. I may be naive, and it may be wishful thinking on my part, but I believe Bravo has had it with Melissa and Joey. And the hag sisters and their threats. I think Lysa’s threats to Bravo just might have been an “okay, we will show you, Bitch” moment. Maybe not, maybe it was all planned before then, maybe it is all about the change in producers. I DO think the change in producers was the catalyst for all the changes, but also think that they got too big for their britches and gave Bravo plenty of ammunition.

    • Saddle_River_NJ
      July 22, 2013 at 4:51 PM

      I was shocked to see how negative they were towards her. I expected the Tre-bashing which is “normal” – but to see the amount and level of vitriol aimed at the Shore Whore is amazing

      • July 22, 2013 at 5:05 PM

        I had to quit reading them…way too many for me to keep up on. Cannot believe Bravo is letting so much negative towards her go through. There’s a plan somewhere…I just know there is.

        • Miss Alicat
          July 22, 2013 at 5:20 PM

          I’m only just now catching up with the blogs, but the comments on TSIL’s blog from last week were all pro-Tre. I’m pretty sure Bravo’s done with her & her crazy sisters.

          • July 22, 2013 at 8:26 PM

            I sure hope so. Think maybe Lysa’s Tweets about messing with her little sister had anything to do with it?

            • Miss Alicat
              July 22, 2013 at 9:37 PM

              oh yeah, cuz Lysa’s the great and powerful? Did they never learn not to bite the hand that feeds you? Tre is the only reason why any of them are getting paid. I really think TSIL thought that she could get her sisters on the show and push the others out, since that’s how she got on the show, except it’s become very clear that Bravo only hired her to get TB on the show, if he divorced her tomorrow after all the cheating stories come out, she’ll be gone, but he’ll still be on because it’s the Tre show now. See how little air time the Manzo/Lauritas get? That’s what happens when you are no longer a friend of Tre.

              • July 23, 2013 at 9:50 AM

                Exactly. She and her sisters think they are the best thing since sliced bread and have such inflated egos. I hope they fall and fall HARD. The book publishers have GOT to be shitting their pants right about now, don’t you think?

                • tnnv
                  July 24, 2013 at 8:46 AM

                  I emailed the publisher. I politely asked if perhaps they might want to reconsider releasing this book considering……

                  • July 24, 2013 at 10:10 AM

                    Let us know if you get a reply!

          • YouOldMattress
            July 22, 2013 at 11:22 PM

            There are even more negative comments about TSIL this week. I’m sure she’ll say that the hundreds of negative comments are from Teresa’s army. Teresa must be the Wizard of Oz if she has that much control over people.

        • July 23, 2013 at 1:00 AM

          Bravo can’t afford to lose T! She is the money-maker. If her contract is indeed up this year, they should be kissing her ass like crazy to keep her!

          • July 23, 2013 at 9:08 AM

            I think she will get her I Love Juicy Show, or a serious cast overhaul of RHONJ

            • July 23, 2013 at 9:51 AM

              I certainly hope so. There HAS got to be some type of reward for her for putting up with this crap and being such a good employee.

    • TSF
      July 22, 2013 at 9:30 PM

      Kind of new here, been following this site for months now. I enjoy reading everyone’s insight to this Tre/Joey (brother)/Melissa train wreck. Mostly, I just like the bash Melissa fest. Anyhow, I have tried to post multiple times on Melissa’s Bravo blog. THEY NEVER GET POSTED. I had some pretty good insults directed at Melissa to. That poor excuse for a human being is not worth the ground a dog craps on, nor the crap itself. Brother Joey? I almost feel bad when insulting him only because Teresa loves him so much and he is just too easy of a target. The others are too insignificant to even comment on. I support Teresa and, of course, Juicy. That’s all…just wanted to express my thoughts and actually get something of mine posted.

      • July 23, 2013 at 9:53 AM

        Ahhh, don’t feel bad. That little piece of crap hasn’t worried about his sister or brother-in-law. It’s always poor Joey and Melissa.

  18. BionicMe
    July 22, 2013 at 4:34 PM

    What I find hilarious yet so disturbing is the fact that everything Mel complains and is blaming others of doing, she’s been doing for the past 2 seasons.

    Filonema should beat her with her large bust. Let’s see how she is going to backpeddle out of that one with Juicy. Juicy should have pressed charges against her. It is on tape that she assaulted him. Funny thing is that she is defending her husband and in the same sentence blames Juicy for defending his wife and himself. Hypocrite.

    • July 22, 2013 at 6:34 PM

      This is the second time she’s taken a dig at Juicy’s mother. Nothing is sacred or off limits with Melissa, not even her own father, who she won’t allow to rest in peace. She’s playing with fire going after Juicy’s mom. Them’s fightin’ words!

      • Tassie Devil
        July 22, 2013 at 7:18 PM

        Fame do you think Pete and family will sit back and let some trash BELITTLE their mum, you said it in 3 words THEM’S FIGHTING WORDS

        • July 22, 2013 at 7:26 PM

          Teresa will probably stop Juicy (I don’t know about Pete) from saying anything worse than horseyface. If I remember correctly, there are only four things Melissa can say that Juicy said about her that were negative:

          1. Raccoon eyes (big deal, right?)
          2. Horsey face
          3. That whole white trash family from down the shore
          4. I know plenty of guys she’s been with, before she was married

          • Tassie Devil
            July 22, 2013 at 7:38 PM

            I can’t understand why she is offended with Horsey Face, maybe a horse would be offended that Juicy compared her.
            TSIL should be honoured there are some famous HORSES in history Phar Lap for me comes to mind, now when I watch the Great Melbourne Cup (the race that’s stops a nation) I will see her running round the track.

            • difromnyc
              July 23, 2013 at 9:11 AM

              They call Sarah Jessica Parker a horse face (and I agree she does have one) and ya don’t hear her bitching about it.

              • Russkaya
                July 23, 2013 at 2:21 PM

                That’s because Sarah Jessica Parker has class and confidence. Melissa is very insecure and zero class. This whole season she’s been acting even more desperate and mean. Anger and rage is depression turned out wards. She is severely unhappy because she knows she didn’t become a star like Tre and her chance is over. She will be remembered as horsey face stripper and cheater

          • Jeannie5233
            July 22, 2013 at 7:43 PM

            According to TSIL’s tweets today, Joe also called her a skank so he probably deserved to be slapped. No mention of the scratcing, pulling his hair, boxing his ears, and gouging his eyes.

            • corky21
              July 22, 2013 at 7:58 PM

              But did he call her a skank at the moment of the charge?

            • charok
              July 22, 2013 at 10:26 PM

              well as missy cb infamously said ( was it last episode or two ago) calling a “spade a spade” well whether juicy said it before the charge or sometime ago, you sometimes gotta call a skank a skank LOL

          • popsy
            July 23, 2013 at 6:32 AM

            I can’t help it but whenever I hear anyone call TSIL Whorsey face, this is what comes to mind. Sorry the clip I found itsn’t great quality. Cracks me up.

          • July 23, 2013 at 10:06 AM

            She does not want to be compared to an animal, she wants people to believe teresa and Juicy are animals. Horseyface probably bothers her the most because of her nose, large forehead and receding hairline.

            She wants people to see the JLo in her not a Horse. TB cares about how his wife looks as well for his own ego. I doubt there is encouragement that she is beautiful just as she is. He probably hates mob references about waking up in bed with a horse head lying next to you.

            • Russkaya
              July 23, 2013 at 2:29 PM

              Really look at a picture of Joey and horsey next to each other posing. Her head is literally two or more inches longer than his. Granted he is a midget but still men’s heads are usually larger. Her head is so disproportionate to the rest of her body it makes me laugh every time I see a picture of her. Look at her when she is down on her knees in front of tre her face is a good three inches longer than tre. Too funny. As far as her attempt to look like Jlo, just wow. More like a busted version of jwow.

  19. Pippi
    July 22, 2013 at 4:37 PM

    I hope her shitty book never makes it to print and the useless piece of shit has to pay back the three hundred grand!

    • charok
      July 22, 2013 at 11:11 PM

      THAT would be such sweet delicious karma pippi!

  20. July 22, 2013 at 4:38 PM

    Well well, I hope you are reading this. You hide behind a mask and play your word games but there is something you can not control and you never will. Squirm some more – what is done in the dark always comes to the light.

    Once your mask is ripped off your face, you can cover it with as many as you like, people will NEVER be satisfied with what you need them to see and they will see your true identity time and time again. You will NEVER be satisfied because you always need to control and use people to get what you want and when you have it you are still an empty pit.

    Love covers a multitude of sins. Words used to wound also heal. You can plow drive through peoples lives like a Tornado and rip everything they hold dear to shreds. The joy and power you obtained will fade away as fast as it appeared because you know you did it and feel the need to cover up, make an excuse, or blame it on others.

    You can not hide from your true self. You can not control your true self. You can keep you husband away from his mother and his sister physically but you can not break the bond God put there. They all cry which means the bond is not broken. You can distract him all you want. When he lays his head down at night he can not rest.

    Jesus makes everything new. He is in the restoration business. Sometimes when people see nothing but pain, it looks like He isn’t doing anything at all. Some things require a total overhaul, a new foundation and timing has to be just right.

    He already knows who you are. He knows why you think the way you do. Take your mask off and get real with Him then you will be satisfied, and your pit will fill up. You will not have to control anything anymore.

    • Pippi
      July 22, 2013 at 4:42 PM

      Kimberly that is a awesomely powerful post. Loved it!

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 6:10 PM

      Kimberly – Beautiful.

      Sadly, while TSIL would have the public believe she follows Jesus’ teaching during Season 3, she has since dropped that “persona” and she will never get real with Him.

      • July 22, 2013 at 10:41 PM

        I think she eased up a bit but she has not dropped it. She still wants the impression that she is right with God and teresa is the devil

    • Laram
      July 23, 2013 at 2:11 AM


    • July 23, 2013 at 7:08 PM

      Kimberly I haven’t posted in a while because I have been going through some things but I do continue to read and i just had to respond and tell you how much I love, love, love your post!! It is like it was meant for me to read it as confirmation for some things I’m going through.

      Your post was awesome and so very true!!

  21. Rachel
    July 22, 2013 at 4:49 PM

    Oh TSIL be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it hon. Also, I don’t condone cheating but TSIL is not married to a man, she’s married to a woman, maybe thats why she did what she did with Bryan, she wanted a real man. I feel like pappa Gorga is embarrassed of his son “Go cry to your mother” the only thing missing from there was “you little b*&%.” Sorry but old school italian men don’t cry in front of people (not saying that’s a good thing) but when my nonno died (may he rest in peace) my dad did not shed a tear in front of us, or my mom. Maybe thats why pappa Gorga wants nothing to do with “lil’ ” Jo cause he knows hes a “lil’ ” b*%&.

    BTW! I hope Kathy, Tre and Rosie rip TSIL a new one for talking about the way they were raised, they talked about Tre’s dad and aunt, she knows no boundaries that girl. Oh did anyone see how she kept rolling her eyes at Kathy, Rosie and Caroline?

    • July 22, 2013 at 10:53 PM

      Ya I saw the eye rolls and if she herself thought Dr.V. was very pretty, why look annoyed when Rosie commented on nice legs.? All of them were not against Teresa and TB working things out so everything they said was annoying?

      • Russkaya
        July 23, 2013 at 2:32 PM

        Because next to dr v TSIL looks like a cheap used up hooker.

  22. Calypso
    July 22, 2013 at 4:57 PM

    From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate~Socrates

    • Cee_See
      July 23, 2013 at 5:08 AM

      That’s tsil’s motto!

  23. July 22, 2013 at 5:07 PM

    It is always Teresa’s fault! Waking up to the horse’s head can never fix the lies, deceit, and betrayal! Neigh! Neigh!

    • Anonymous
      July 22, 2013 at 6:21 PM

      “Neigh! Neigh!” Just made me literally LOL

      • DonnaLee
        July 22, 2013 at 8:21 PM

        LOL me too me too!!!

  24. July 22, 2013 at 5:21 PM

    Perhaps she TSIL doesn’t consider it cheating if it does not involve entrance to a certain area. Perhaps she should google Lewinsky because she obviously insults our intelligence by referring to googling as doing research. I hope she reads a book before writing one.

  25. Squeezy
    July 22, 2013 at 5:22 PM

    Is Me-Ho jealous of Joe’s momma’s real boobs? Who paid for Melickassa’s fake big boobies.
    Joey was crying cus he got his ass kicked and national TV.
    did anyone else notice when Joey stepped over the top of Rosie on the ground he didn’t even acknowledge that he had just ran over her

    • windycitywondering2
      July 22, 2013 at 8:11 PM

      I think TB stepped on Rosie’s hand in his haste to get to safety – she was shown favoring it a couple of times last night.

      • Pippi
        July 22, 2013 at 11:56 PM

        Rosie screwed her hand while punching the shit out of a table two episodes ago (all be it because she was shit faced). However her hand was re-injured while aiding in separating the two Joe’s. Not one of the big names (and yes I mean Kathy, Rich, Messy, SloJo, Juicy or Teresa) not one of them remotely acknowledged or even gave any concern to Rosie’s welfare. DMT!

        • tnnv
          July 24, 2013 at 8:54 AM

          Don’t like her drunken raging, but I feel bad for Rosie she was shunned by Dickie and the cannoli woman. Now, she is thrilled to be around and does a little people pleasing. I love that she has become the most loved out of that sorry crew. Wish they would stop using her for laughs by encouraging her to chase after straight women at their drunken get togethers.

    • July 22, 2013 at 11:11 PM

      Of course she is jealous of his mother and it may be the only relationship left, he don’t want to let go of. He could easily talk to his mother to find out the truth but he does not want to face what he most likely knows.

      When others tell him Teresa did not do it that it was them and he still holds on to it, he is hiding just like telling everyone I don’t know what all that black stuff is yet you know they did. It was a simple thing to lie about. They could have just kept their mouth shut about it but coming up with a different story has become a knee jerk reaction. It is not a stretch to believe they are capable of repeatingly bearing false witness against someone.

  26. lapband lauren
    July 22, 2013 at 5:43 PM

    I say bring mama filamena to the reunion so she can kick melwhores ass. I just tweeted this to melwhore too. What kind of an italian are you? I thought italians were all about “respect!” you are your gutter sisters prove every day that you are not REAL italians! Even if kat called her uncle a coward she apologized immediatly. You have stabbed your in laws for fame, you have ran over your fathers grave for money, and now you are disrespecting another elder cause she said you need to cover your bubbies??? Did we all watch the same thing last night? Yes tre was sitting in the tub naked but they werent full on having sex!! If Tamra Barney and Joanna Krupa do it its okay, but you wanna poke fun at a couple who got attacked and they just want to relax? Because you and stumpy mcgee were crying for physically attacking another human? Juicy had a bunch of scratches on his face, did you see one on stumpy mcgees? He was held in a headlock. Juicy was not punching him or none of that. Melissa darling, continue to live in that glass house of yours. “sexy wife, loyal wife” right?? Didnt know loyal wives suck peepee in parking lots. Can I take that page out of your book??? Continue to dig your holes while we all sit back and laugh. Also funny they want to act famewhorgas and teresa are working together. What about the almost 200+ comments about them? It goes to show there are REAL fans that despise you. You can continue to buy fake eggs on twitter while the real teresa fans can see past your bullshit hun. The tides have turned “buckle up, bitches!”

    • NinaK
      July 22, 2013 at 8:01 PM

      Right on!

    • charok
      July 22, 2013 at 8:17 PM

      yes please bring juicys mom to the reunion….i would LOVE to see missy CB “deer in the headlight” expression then! LOL!!!

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:30 PM

      Suck peepees 😀

    • Jeannie
      July 22, 2013 at 9:48 PM

      wow!!!! Very well said!!! I’m loving this !!!! #TEAMGUIDICE

    • Russkaya
      July 23, 2013 at 2:36 PM

      Awesome comment!

    • tnnv
      July 24, 2013 at 8:57 AM

      Tell it!!!

  27. Elle
    July 22, 2013 at 6:08 PM

    There ‘s no denying that Bravo editing of TSIL has taken a 180 this season. So many possible reasons why. I suspect despite the WWHL polls, Bravo Blogs and media pals of Andy making it seem like the support was for TSIL, Teresa became even more popular, and thanks to several blogs (thank you, Fame!) more of the background info left out by Bravo was getting out there to bolster her support so Bravo could see that the story had to change. Have to wonder if TSIL dropped the fascade because she decided a negative edit would do for her what it did for Teresa, or if Bravo suggested it and sold it to her on that basis to get her to drop the suffering Madonna act in front of the camera, or if she was letting it all loose before and it was just ending up on the editing room floor. Regardless, the chances of TSIL being rehabilitated seem slim, particularly since she doesn’t appear to be the same source of revenue for Bravo that Teresa has been. The singing career appears to be going nowhere fast, and I think her book has a bigger chance of being found on a shelf at the Dollar Store rather than the best-seller list.

    Oh, and Jacqueline, do yourself a favor and just shut up. You’re embarrassing yourself. Same goes for you, Teresa’s brother, you little blubbering ball-biter.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 6:25 PM

      I would agree with that, Elle.

      While TSIL was filming, in real time things were being leaked and exposed through all the media outlets. The Whorgas may have become so frustrated and couldn’t hold it all together so the cracks began to widen and true colors began to bleed through. There is no way TSIL could maintain her fake Jesus-loving, adoring loyal wife, and “born to be a mommy” facade she had so carefully crafted. Too many people saw through it then and now more and more are becoming enlightened as well.

  28. Jay
    July 22, 2013 at 6:35 PM

    Okay so reading the blog comments are hilarious. Here are the top 5 for me:

    # 5 “uzurag
    Lil Girl…please! You need to stop!

    Does “Love Italian Style” give pointers on coming between family while looking hot for your husband so he won’t know which way to go?”

    # 4 “piperbeau
    Melissa when Teresa and Rosie walked into your room and Teresa asked if she could speak to Joe alone, he actually looked at you like a scared child would look to their mommy for a yes or no?? In Teresa’s words WWWTF??? was that??!! and you are writing a book about marriage??!! The title of your book should be how to get your husband p*ssy whipped! what a pathetic show case you put on!! You really under estimated the intelligence of the viewer’s this time!!! Get real Melissa!! ”

    #3 “LuvBravo.
    1.) Famous: having a wide reputation, usually favorable

    2.) Infamous: having an extremely bad reputation

    Melissa, you are number 2 and I’ll say this again, all press/ attention is not good.”

    #2 She was so good I listed two

    There is so much WRONG in this blog, I can only take it a paragraph at a time.

    “He knew that his sister and her husband would spin the fight their way and he was upset he let it get that far. ”

    No, he knew that the cameras caught the fight exactly as it happened, with him being the aggressor, and Joe Guidice tossing him like a rag doll. He probably also knew that you would try as hard as you could to spin this your way, but it wouldn’t fly.

    “Whatever her excuse will be, the fact is she ran in the opposite direction when her husband and brother were trying to kill each other.”

    Her “excuse” was that she went to get security. What part of that do you not understand. At that point, it was your husband biting Joe Guidice’s privates (failed to address that, I see), you scratching his face, and the others all over the place. If Richie, Kathy and Rosie couldn’t break up that fight, what good would Teresa getting involved have served? Oh, you could have blamed her for NOT going to get security.

    “It was agony to watch my husband cry. Joe is a passionate, sensitive man. He really felt destroyed over what just happened. The suffering had to stop. I was desperate to separate him from the source of the pain and get out of there.”

    Please. Your husband cries every episode and according to him, he cries every night. All of a sudden it’s “agony” for you?

    As far as Theresa and Joe being in the hot tub – good for them. While all of you were busy trashing them, and crying and clutching your fake pearls and trying to spin the fight into their fault…seems like they were having fun”

    OMG, Im only done with the first page…and already I’m frustrated with your words. You really are a mess. You think way too highly of yourself and it seems YOU CANT ADMIT your wrongs. Your always talking smack about Teresa. So what if your called a horsey face? Is it your BLOOD FAMILY calling you that? This is her BROTHER, her FAMILY. It frustrates me that you are making excuses for yourself. I knew all the other seasons that you were PRETENDING with Teresa, I always knew you didn’t want your husband to be close to his sister. This season PROVES IT. It’s not all the pent up anger, like your saying…it’s that you never wanted them to work it out in the first place. You were putting on an act.

    I also couldn’t believe you called her Sister Teresa, when YOUR THE ONE, bringing your Bible, saying THANK YOU JESUS in one mouthful while wanting us to see you happily showing your bedroom seducing act in front of Richie and US… Come on! Really? Did you think we care that you can pole dance or that you have intimacy with your husband….whooopiee! You know what they say…”the ones who talk about their sex lives publicly ALL THE TIME, are the ones who aren’t really getting it on.” at least not with their spouse…quit talking about it. You seem pathetic trying to prove your sexy. I don’t think anybody cares but you.

    I believe YOU have been a HUGE instrument to PUT WORDS in your husbands head to break him up with his sister. He looks like he is TORN between you two and HE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO BE. But that’s your doing. Us viewers see and hear all the comments your putting into his head. He looks at you confused. You can tell, he wants to have a close friend/family relationship with his brother, but then you are there trying to manipulate a division between the two of them. It even looks like he KNOWS what your doing, but doesn’t want to go against you. Iv been married 30 years. My husband has 10 siblings, IN OUR CITY…do I like all of them? “no”…but I am never rude to them and I have NEVER tried to keep my husband or kids from being close to his family. That is just plain crazy. I know how important family is. The times I dont want to go with him, he takes his kids and he goes and has a WONDERFUL time. And when I want to go, I go. To me, your ways are despicable.

    D r. V is RIGHT in that Joe and Teresa should spend time alone without YOU or Juicy Joe. The truth is, your husband LOVES TERESA and he wants to be friends with her. You are being used for division, open up that bible and read about it….hello?

    When you were on your knees, you weren’t really wanting her to stop hurting you…you were making drama, it was FAKE. You hurt Teresa, just as much as she hurts you.

    You say she looks at you like your S**T…. maybe it’s all in your head…maybe it’s not…earn respect, you haven’t earned many of this seasons viewers respects…and you haven’t earned your in laws respect. That’s ON YOU, not Teresa. Take responsibility for your own actions.

    You take every chance you can to TALK TRASH ABOUT TERESA with whoever you are with. But then you judge Teresa for sitting at the table and not saying anything? Even IF she did orchestrate it….your no better than her because you trash talk her, her marriage, her buisness, her children, her sex life and her husband just the same, you spread rumors just the same…don’t be a Hypocrite Sister Melissa.”

    Sorry for the long post but I wanted to give a snapshot of what people were saying. Of course facebook is all pro Messy but at least there is a good number that see right through MeHo.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 7:09 PM

      Thanks Jay for sharing! 🙂

      • Jay
        July 22, 2013 at 8:36 PM

        You are welcome!

    • NinaK
      July 22, 2013 at 8:11 PM

      Loved this! I no longer go to Bravo’s site to read the blogs, but rather read them right here on FW. So it’s good to get a feel for what the reactions are out there. Thanks!

      • Jay
        July 22, 2013 at 8:37 PM

        I don’t watch the show anymore or read the blogs but I had to with this episode. I was just so glad people were not fooled. Now I wish those on Facebook would get a clue.

  29. MurfsGirl
    July 22, 2013 at 6:40 PM

    Someone commented on TSIL’s Bravo blog that there wasn’t a dry eye in America when T and her brother hugged & sobbed. I beg to differ…TSIL’s eyes weren’t red from crying, but from SEEING RED (as she eggmitted)! I don’t know if this is the “role” she’s been instructed to perpetuate, but her reaction (via her blog) was so against the grain of what the rest of us were feeling that I wonder if she was blogging about a completely different show.

    • Miss Alicat
      July 22, 2013 at 7:01 PM

      Sometimes I wonder if the advance copy they get to do a blog entry on is different than what airs, because sometimes the blogs don’t seem to match what we are seeing.

      • July 23, 2013 at 10:01 AM

        They supposedly get their copy on Wednesday before the show, I believe. I think what some of them are hoping is that the casual viewer, the rag mag readers, etc. get snippets of their blogs and take them as truth. We have to remember, we are not “normal” viewers of RHONJ…we go back and watch the shows over and over, watch screen clips, come her, analyze, etc. The normal viewer watches the show once, maybe half pays attention, reads something in a magazine and sees it as gospel. That’s my take on it anyway.

  30. NCGal
  31. Mari
    July 22, 2013 at 6:56 PM

    So glad all of Melissa’s lies are coming out this season! I really hope Bryan talks soon to knock her down that cloud she’s floating on! Anyone ever wonder why rich is always defending Melissa? I bet his ugly ass is in love with her! He is so perverted! Melissa loves his attention and that’s why he’s always on her side! Kathy is seriously blind to not notice that! Rosie probably likes her too! I am so disgusted at how Teresa’s friends turned on her, especially to someone they barely knew! Then again, Danielle was Jacqueline’s friend too and she turned on her as well, which clearly showed who she truly was! I really hope bravo takes out Melissa!!

  32. Sue Ling
    July 22, 2013 at 7:00 PM

    I really wanted Melissa to address Little Joe’s hair-in-a-can.

  33. Jeannie5233
    July 22, 2013 at 7:06 PM

    Been reading through TSIL’s Twitter TL a bit. Today she was waiting to take off from Miami and entertained questions from her Twitter fans. She finds it odd Teresa would run to call the police on her own family. Says Juicy may have deserved a slap because he called her a skank (perhaps Teresa should slap around and scratch the hell out of TB’s face a bit for all the things he has called his sister these past few years); she left her pride at the door “for family”; and that she speaks the truth and NEVER plays up to the cameras.

    I am not eating dinner tonight.

    • MurfsGirl
      July 22, 2013 at 7:36 PM

      Lol, Jeannie! Maybe she could market that…a diet where when she speaks our stomachs churn and we drop the lbs!

    • NinaK
      July 22, 2013 at 8:13 PM

      LOL!! Your last sentence was perfectly delivered and totally cracked me up… hahaha!

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:38 PM

      😀 Love it.

  34. Jeannie5233
    July 22, 2013 at 7:29 PM

    Neither Teresa (understandably) or TSIL addressed what TSIL said to TB in their room about Joe Giudice “going where he belongs”, speaking about his upcoming trial.

    There are so many things – so many – that the Whorgas have done and said on television that would have been enough for me to say “Done!” and walked away without never looking back.

    But this! This is far worse than any thing they have ever done – it’s right up there with remaining mum while Kathy spewed her hate against the Sr. Gorgas at the Reunion. This not only crosses the line – it goes all the way out into the stratosphere and there is is no going back. It shows what these two whores are capable of.

    TB and TSIL are never going to be happy until they break Teresa down and tear her completely apart. Why she puts herself into this toxic situation and allows this to happen to herself over and over is beyond me. Teresa needs professional help – I am dead serious. She needs guidance as to why she allows this and how she can remove herself .

    Teresa – wake up!!!!!!!!

    Just by reading TSIL’s blog, it is plain as day!!!! Walk away from this toxicity. Do not allow them anywhere near you or your family. If they don’t have you to use a punching bag, they will have to find another victim but don’t let it be you anymore!!!

    I think this Season has me even more frustrated than ever before because of two things – I know it is all fake and Teresa is going to be hurt – badly – again.

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:42 PM

      It’s not all fake … scripted, induced yes, but not all fake. Last night, Teresa breaking down OMG that was the most real moment ever on any housewife show, there was nothing fake — not even Meryl Streep could act that. So now, Teresa will be known for table flip and showing real emotion. TSIL keeps trying to find her moment, honey you don’t have the “real” factor.

      • Jeannie5233
        July 22, 2013 at 9:00 PM

        I stand corrected mzjulesaz – you are absolutely right – Teresa’s pain was raw and real and that is why I said Teresa will be hurt badly again. I know that the family dynamic is very real and so fractured, but this “storyline” of them making up and coming together – that is what I meant by “it” being all fake! And Melissa showing “real” emotion? – You are right again! Melissa dabbing at her eyes – at Nicholas’ reveal saying “I love you” to Jacs and last night with her sniffing – now that is fake too!

      • July 22, 2013 at 11:38 PM


      • difromnyc
        July 23, 2013 at 9:20 AM

        I gotta say both Tree and her brother broke down in that episode. He unfortunately did it in front of his wife. And instead of support she kept telling him to stop. Stop crying. Stop talking about it. Just stop. In between her pandering her cause you heard him admit to being embarrassed. Admit that he overreacted. But she’s start talking the minute he started being read and distract the attention away. It infuriated me to see that. If ever a episode showed manipulation it was this one.

        • difromnyc
          July 23, 2013 at 9:20 AM

          real not read.

    • love4peace
      July 22, 2013 at 8:55 PM

      when her contact is up she is gone, i’m sure of it. and if you read her blogs i really do think she is done and she has a happy life. i bet bravo thinks if they show who tsil really is Teresa will stay, but she never wanted to be part of this.

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:58 PM

      Jeannie and Jules, I got wrapped up in the drama of this last episode also. In my heart, I believe Teresa has walked away again. I believe everyone in the world has had to cut ties with someone they once loved for their peace of mind and wellbeing.

      The lack of “together” photos for Father’s Day (perhaps the last for the Sr. Gorga) and no First Communion photo of the girls, first cousins in such a small Italian family, taken together sealed the deal for me.

    • jeanbean
      July 22, 2013 at 9:01 PM

      As always your comments are spot on Jeannie. I also think T needs to leave this show, the rest of the cast will turn on each other. Let them all find their way, she gave them the platform by being the punching bag all this time.I don’t think she is very happy about peoples feelings about slojoe. I would keep these relatives at a distance forever. Bottom line Tsil and slojo deserve each other. Move on T, you have more than paid your dues .And I will never give slojo a pass and blame this all on tsil, he allowed all this to go on.

      • July 22, 2013 at 11:48 PM

        True. It is just hard to accept that blood would treat you this way. You want to believe that they have been brainwashed

  35. Snickers45249
    July 22, 2013 at 7:41 PM

    Love, love, love this blog!

    I especially like the comments….the comment from an earlier person (sorry, don’t remember the name), but she is a lurker (like me). I think she hit the nail on the head regarding Melissa saying over and over “Gor-ga, Gor-ga”. Melissa seems to really know about this blog and it is killing her!

    I have met Juicy Joe at an event, he was so real, nice and human. Not a fake bone in his body. I have a picture of him and me. He was so kind to indulge my RHONJ addiction!

    Please keep this blog going. It is the first thing I check each day!

    • July 22, 2013 at 8:27 PM

      Welcome Snickers and I’m so jelly … I love Juicy!!! Post more often!

    • charok
      July 22, 2013 at 10:30 PM

      thanks for the story snickers! i admit when i first watched i didnt know what to make of juicy..especially the infamous vineyard telephone conversation. but after the reunion and especially this season, him with the kids, trying to defend his wife, he is starting to change my mind for the better.

  36. Nancy (nsr1076)
    July 22, 2013 at 7:43 PM

    Mama bear my ass!
    If they are in a good place right now then why us she throwing digs at Teresa’s mother in law? Everything bad she has ever said and will continue to say about Teresa is only a reflection of what she is.

    • Nancy (nsr1076)
      July 22, 2013 at 7:44 PM

      Now on to reading your comments. LOL

    • July 23, 2013 at 12:05 AM

      She is jealous that Teresa has a good relationship with her inlaws. She is jealous that Teresa has a beautiful relationship with her parents. She shames people but she feels no shame. She is void of empathy for others. She does not respect her own mother. I sure hope her sisters do.

    • Laram
      July 23, 2013 at 2:26 AM

      I think it was a typo. It should have read mama bear facade made her look like an ass, or she is a mama bear’s ass!

  37. Elle
    July 22, 2013 at 7:45 PM

    I’m still want to know why everyone except Teresa and Joe Giudice get a pass from production in regard to their legal issues. Haven’t they all had (or still have) legal problems? Why is there only open season on the Giudices?

    • love4peace
      July 22, 2013 at 8:56 PM

      me too

    • Bullie
      July 22, 2013 at 10:55 PM

      Here’s the mind blowing part that NO ONE IN THIS CAST besides Teresa is taking into consideration. THE ONLY reason Teresa’s financial issues got pushed into the forefront was because of Danielle. Danielle only talked about it because TSIL & TB passed the information on, maliciously. & THAT IS NOT THE MIND BLOWING PART! The head explosion begins when we all saw Teresa confront Melissa about this, Melissa said “oh, I did it, but I was pregnant/mad at you/hormonal/ect. ect. ect blah blah” (I think Whacko Jacko’s therapist calls this “blame shifting”) AAAAAAAAANDDDDDDDDDDDD TERESA FORGAVE HER. EVEN THOUGH SHE GAVE AN EXCUSE FOR WHY SHE DID SOMETHING SO HORRIBLY SHITTY.

      Everyone talks about not taking sides when Teresa expects them to, but they ALL stand a united front against Teresa. Jacqueline is the worst about this. She didn’t want to be mean to Melissa just because Teresa wanted her to? Then WHY did she do it for Danielle against Dina? Danielle made Jacqueline choose sides Danielle vs. Dina & Jacqueline chose Danielle! Teresa’s table flip must have put the whole damn world in a hypnotic trance because all these people seem to forget Whacko Jacko throwing her relatives under the bus for a PROSTITUTION WHORE (Danielle). What was that cliche Caroline was blabbering around all during season 2 about Danielle? When you hang out with garbage, you start to stink? Well, this shit stinks!!!!!!!!

  38. fbunnie
    July 22, 2013 at 8:39 PM

    This girl doesn’t get it. Every word from her mouth/blog is spiteful. Incapable of real human feelings. A real piece of work… uncultured swine, in the same class as Jodi Arias. When she cries, she cries for herself. She wouldn’t know what a conscience was if one smacked her in the face. She seeks out people with codependency issues (Caroline, Jaqueline, Joe), and uses their weaknesses for her own personal gain.

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:44 PM

      That is how I feel, fbunnie. In Teresa’s words, love, love, love the “uncultured swine” input, with all due respect to the pigs.

    • July 23, 2013 at 12:13 AM

      Yes!! Telling it like it is – When she cries, she cries for herself. She wouldn’t know what a conscience was if one smacked her in the face —- Love this statement!

  39. Suck it Gorga
    July 22, 2013 at 8:45 PM

    I wonder what Melissa thinks when she reads T’s blogs…probably like “Damn, this bitch is good. How do I do that??” Lol. She desperately wants to be like Tre it’s not even funny. That MeGo Slor probably has her head spinning like the exorcist right now. And I thought T was nice in this blog! She is holding back for her family. I bet if her family said it was ok, she would destroy Melissa in a second with all the crap she knows. And she probably still wouldn’t stoop to a low level because Tre is classy. MeGo Slor needs to go. I’m so freaking fed up with her lying punk ass. I wish I could see her face when Bravo lets her go.

    • Laram
      July 23, 2013 at 2:28 AM

      I always think that, also! She can’t keep up with T, never could, never will. That there is the problem nobody can fix.

  40. b
    July 22, 2013 at 8:58 PM

    Those screen shots of Jacqueline are so creepy! That was really a chilling moment. There was no expression on her face and no emotion, she looked soulless and empty. When Teresa was confronting her, again there was NOTHING. She didn’t even blink and her facial muscles didn’t twitch or move at all, BIZARRE! I think that Jacqueline is the biggest snake of them all. One minute she’s the sweet, fun and goofy friend/SIL you can pour your heart out to, the next minute she’s stabbing it! Also in some of the episodes she will seem drunk, “out of it” and emotionally unstable and with the blink of an eye she’s sharp as a tack, manipulative, stirring the pot and whispering in peoples ears. It seems very calculating to me so I have to wonder if SOME of it is an act with Jacqueline.

    • NinaK
      July 22, 2013 at 9:38 PM

      Totally agree on all counts. I have to add, though, that I think some of her lack of visible emotion or facial movement is from all her Botox injections!

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:47 PM

      My answer to your post, Botox, Xanax and booze. Jac cannot appear “normal”.

    • July 23, 2013 at 12:23 AM

      I believe she is deceitful. She thrives on drama just llike her daughter stated. Pouring your heart out to her is part of her plans. Why? Only someone who uses information to create drama would be so upset that her “friend” did not tell her about a problem in her life. The problem with thriving on other peoples problems – sooner or later problems come knocking on your door and you know someone out there just like you is enjoying it.

  41. love4peace
    July 22, 2013 at 8:58 PM

    hey fame is there anyway you can forward this to jackho, so the next time she tries to copy you she will have a study guide

  42. JennyS
    July 22, 2013 at 8:58 PM

    I just realized something reading this post and looking at all the pictures.

    I hate all these f*cking people except Teresa and Joe Giudie. I really do. Melissa is a pot-stirring troublemaker. Joe Gorga is a wimp and frankly, pretty stupid. Richie is the biggest piece of crap with his pop-o-collar, three chins and Buddy Holly Glasses. I’d like to check his mouth to see how many flies are in there, because he must catch a lot leaving it open all the time like he does. Kathy not stopping his comments on Teresa’s marriage? Wow. Both of them, plus Melissa and Joe Gorga are such massive pieces of sh*t, if I were Teresa, I wouldn’t even bother trying to reconcile with these losers. Caroline is a fake bully who is always present where there’s drama. Jacqueline and her huge head should go back to Easter Island and make sure to take a book on the plane on how to be a better parent.

    And the other characters they sprung on us who aren’t even part of the cast? Melissa’s hag sisters, thankfully not on much this season are the sludge you would find at the bottom of a barrel of sewage. Lauren sucks probably the most though. She’s a miserable, bitter, 2.0 rendition of her stupid mother who wouldn’t know a day of work if it hit her in the face. Unless of course, if it was wrapped in 8 pounds of bacon, then she might recognize the bacon at least. She couldn’t even be bothered to stop shoveling food in and had to get “daddy” to buy her a lapband for the easy way out. Lauren Manzo has not one redeeming quality at all. Her brothers Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum are ridiculous too, getting involved in their mommy’s drama. Why do we have to deal with Rosie? She’s a vicious nasty bitter woman who clearly has both a drinking problem and an anger issue. The only thing that makes me hold out a tiny glimmer of hope for that bitch is that Joe Giudice seems to (now) have respect for her. Maybe.

    I can’t with this show. I really can’t. I am happy the tide turned with the edits, and happy to see that there are a lot more comments out there from viewers that finally say something negative about the rest of the cast and not just Teresa. But I really don’t like any of them and truly wish someone would just give the Giudices their own show. I’d like to see what the girls are up to, just day to day, genuine stuff. Not like the first season where Teresa had them in acting and all, just seeing them at the damn grocery store would be entertaining. And hearing Juicy-isms. I’d love it. I want Juicy to do the Talking Heads and Teresa and the 4 girls to just go wild.

    • jeanbean
      July 22, 2013 at 9:11 PM

      Wow jenny don’t hold back. I will not forgive DonCaro or Rosie either. They showed their true colors last season and it wasn’t pretty. Kathy must be dizzy from rolling those eyes,way to contribute NOT.Rich will get his from the dad of a girl he insults one day..LOSER. But Caro I will never believe this redemption tour you are on..TOO LATE!

    • love4peace
      July 22, 2013 at 9:12 PM

      here here

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:17 PM

      Great post JennyS. I agree with you on almost everything, except I am saving my opinion as far as Rosie is concerned. Yes, she does get angry when she drinks (I read Bravo feeds them drinks like candy). Yes, I did dislike her somewhat in the last two seasons. But, I did not really like Teresa in the first two seasons, she was just the crazy friend. I will follow Joe Guidice’s lead on this one.

      • July 22, 2013 at 10:28 PM

        Moma, good point! I love, love, love those clips of juicy and Rosie. They are priceless.

      • July 23, 2013 at 10:05 AM

        Same here Moma…I hated Rosie a few weeks ago, but she’s starting to redeem herself in my eyes. I will wait…

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 9:19 PM

      LOL!! Please tell us how you really feel 🙂

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:20 PM

      LOL right on Jenny S! Totally agree with every word.

  43. July 22, 2013 at 9:07 PM

    I’m totally speculating here as we are almost to the 1/2 way mark into the season … how is Bravo going to spin this to once again make Teresa bad? This has gone on way tooooo long. They are not in a good place anymore nor do I believe they ever really really were. Bottom line is the Teresa show or Melissa show? If it’s the Melissa show BB Bravo.

    • nuttyz
      July 23, 2013 at 11:20 AM

      I have a feeling Melissa and Joe are gonna use the fact that Bryan is threatening to expose them as a reason to hate on Teresa again. They will definitely blame Teresa for “setting this up”. They will prolly say at the reunion that Teresa did an awful thing but “we can’t say what, just wait and you’ll find out” Just like Caroline did with Danielle and then with Teresa past two seasons.

  44. July 22, 2013 at 9:27 PM

    Oh, Fame, your site appears to be getting so many “hits”. I have tried to reply to several comments and the internet will not let me. This is what I experience when I try to comment on Bravo. Good for you Fame. Your hard work seems to have been rewarded.

    • July 22, 2013 at 9:40 PM

      To expand on Moma’s comment, Fame, you’re the best!!!! It has been so wonderful to find a gathering spot and to “get to know” so many on here. I only wish we could learn more about YOU (not asking you to share…that wouldn’t be too smart, I realize!!). It’s just so crazy how this blog has grown since I was a lurker. I wish you were making a shit ton of money off of this.

      Thank you, thank you, thank you for all that you do!

      • July 22, 2013 at 9:51 PM

        Double that for me. LOL

        • July 22, 2013 at 10:24 PM

          Triple for me!

  45. July 22, 2013 at 9:43 PM

    Im only a cheek turner for so long..You bash my name now I bash yours. I don't hide behind others n fake accounts Ya rats..— Bryan (@bulldog_nj) July 23, 2013

    • Jeannie5233
      July 22, 2013 at 9:51 PM

      House of Marco aka GraceTheEvil aka QOM are on his timeline asking him questions.

      • July 22, 2013 at 9:59 PM

        I don’t see any of that Jeannie????

        • July 22, 2013 at 10:02 PM

          I don’t understand this stupid Twitter, at all.

        • Jeannie5233
          July 22, 2013 at 10:09 PM

          I am talking about the responses to Bryan’s tweets. Some of them are asking him questions. Some of them are good peeps – some not so much. They affiliate themselves with GTE aka QOM and, in my opinion, if you follow and converse with this person, then that means you condone what he did to Bryan (just awful, awful things – horrible) and you have no business being on Bryan’s timeline asking him these questions. The questions are a bit confrontational as well – it’s none of their business and Bryan will reveal what he wants to reveal when he wants to reveal it regardless of whether they “want to know.”

          • July 22, 2013 at 10:19 PM

            I am not seeing it. I even followed Grace again for a second to see if I could see anything. I think a lot of people follow these people to be nosey (that was my reason, anyway). I don’t see ANYONE asking him questions though. Probably something I’m doing wrong…UGH.

  46. July 22, 2013 at 9:54 PM

    Long time reader of this blog. I just want to add that I think that TSIL has totally convinced her husband that anything Teresa says about her is a lie to try and break up their marriage and this is why she has to blame all the rumors about herself on Teresa being the instigator; once she does that she stands the best chance of Joey not believing the allegations against her. This is why Joey is so adamant that he hates his sister, he is brain-washed with the selective things she reads him and information she feeds him. Anyway, given that she’s keeping company with Jonathan Cheban and Kris Jenner, I’m sure her ego is inflated to the point where she thinks so much of herself that it’s just a matter of time that she leaves Joey for greener pastures.

  47. July 22, 2013 at 9:55 PM

    Just a few quick comments
    Love, love, love Teresa and how she is calling Melissa et al out on this crap. I knew that once she saw what was said behind her back, the good place they were in would being to stink. Teresa really needs to just walk away. As long as slo Joe is with Melissa, things will never be right in the family. Melissa won’t let them be.

    Melissa is beyond contempt and she really needs to leave Filomena out of it. I don’t think you want to get Mama Juicy riled up. I’m sure she’s proud of her son standing up for his wife. I don’t know what show Melissa watched because her descriptions of the action was not what I saw on my screen. I would have loved to be a fly on the wall when she realized her mic was on in the bus. She needs to leave my screen, now.

    Jac–stay out of it. This is none of your business and if you had stayed out of it from the get go, the family might be in a different place.

  48. MurfsGirl
    July 22, 2013 at 9:56 PM

    I am but one of a big family…me and four brothers (two older, two younger). The only thing I remember fighting about was who had to get up and change the channel on the TV! We now all live in different parts of the world…throughout the US, Belgium, and Saudia Arabia. When my Dad passed away, I saw three generations CRYING when they played taps and discharged the 21-gun salute at his funeral…my Mom and family friends, me and my brothers and our spouses, and the grandchildren. RHONJ gals, get your SH*T together…we’re all on a short timeline!

    • July 22, 2013 at 10:01 PM

      OMG, so true. I hate to read to obits, as half are younger than I am and half are older. Life is so short and to be angry about the small things (book deals, etc.) is just a waste of time.

  49. Elle
    July 22, 2013 at 10:01 PM

    My reunion wish list:

    -No orchestrated gang up on Teresa
    -An appearance by Danielle to discuss if/how she was contacted by TSIL as well as any other little tidbits she would like to share with the viewers.
    -A reel outing each of them, i.e. TSIL saying she never attacks Teresa’s business ventures followed by her doing exactly that, etc.
    -No Manzo spawn
    -Light on the husbands; at the very least no Spaccone Rich

    I have a feeling they will all be love and light, we’re in a better place, and the past is the past in order to avoid being exposed as hypocrites…whether it’s true or not.

    • love4peace
      July 22, 2013 at 11:04 PM

      my reunion wish is andy says tsil is not going to be attending the show because she was fired

      • July 23, 2013 at 10:08 AM

        THAT would be AMAZING!!!

    • July 23, 2013 at 10:07 AM

      I don’t think they are going to be all love and light. The cover has been ripped off of that one.

  50. GPM
    July 22, 2013 at 10:09 PM

    Thank you so much, Fame, for the transcript outlining Wacko’s involvement in the Posche Fashion Show debacle and her sizeable contribution to the difficulties between Teresa and her brother. I read her blog today and was absolutely astounded at how delusional she was with respect to her own involvement. You set it out in a way that couldn’t be more clear!

  51. July 22, 2013 at 10:12 PM

    I know this will seem odd … but this is the song that I feel Teresa has to be thinking — from a brother / sister perspective. Crazy by Patsy Cline (again brother – sister perspective).

    • July 22, 2013 at 10:19 PM

      That didn’t work — sorry … here are the original lyrics. Like I said not all but most of the lyrics apply.

      Crazy, I’m crazy for feeling so lonely
      I’m crazy, crazy for feeling so blue
      I knew you’d love me as long as you wanted
      And then someday you’d leave me for somebody new
      Worry, why do I let myself worry?
      Wond’ring what in the world did I do?
      Crazy for thinking that my love could hold you
      I’m crazy for trying and crazy for crying
      And I’m crazy for loving you
      Crazy for thinking that my love could hold you
      I’m crazy for trying and crazy for crying
      And I’m crazy for loving you.

      • love4peace
        July 22, 2013 at 10:27 PM

        this is so funny, my mom loved here had all of her records. me and my sister shared a room when she was mad at me she would play this all day and night to drive me crazy. my mom loved it so she got away with it. i gonna have to listen to it just to take me back 30 something years.

        • love4peace
          July 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM

          oh and that sister is my best friend

      • July 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM

        And PS TSIL — when you can sing this song without autotune etc., I might buy it. This is a true singer.

  52. Isolde
    July 22, 2013 at 10:32 PM

    Hi everyone, hope all are well. TSIL’s blog is of course, ridiculous and vicious! There is one point that I want to make as both Teresa and TSIL addressed it in their blogs. Please watch the beginning of the episode very closely when they are still all bunched together during the fight. TSIL rags on Teresa, saying that she ran away and didn’t care if they killed each and Teresa says “why didn’t TSIL break it up, why did she have to do it”?

    At the beginning of the episode, after Teresa ran for help, Teresa did come back into the room, on the right hand side of the video. Teresa immediately pulled Melissa out and then Kathy. Security still is not visible in the scene. Once Teresa pulled Melissa and Kathy out of the way, she had access to her husband and got him to break his hold of Joe Gorga–which is when Gorga goes flying backward. It is then that you see the two security guards on the left hand side of the scene, but only after Gorga was freed from Joe’s headlock. Teresa did in fact break up the fight and getting security, as she states in her blog, that she arrived back in the room before the security guards. It is of course, happening very fast and you have to watch closely, but it was shown in the 5:41 minute tape that was up a few days ago, and then shown again in last night’s episode. Please keep your eyes on the right, and watch closely, as it happens very fast.

    I am making it a point to bring this up, because of TSIL’s blog and her tirade during the episode where she keeps calling Teresa a disgusting pig because she ran out and didn’t help. The Whorgas once again used this for talking about Teresa and her products, saying she didn’t care if her brother got hurt, only she cared about her next book deal, etc. Teresa was the level headed one, got security and then went back in and got to her husband and got him to free Gorga. TSIL is only making the big deal, because she wasn’t trying to break it up, but joining in the attack, and once again, Teresa showed that she was a better woman than her. Also, I completely agree that Joe Giudice could have really hurt TB by hitting him more, except that he showed restraint and put him in a headlock. Teresa’s claim that her Joe would not hurt her brother rings true in that he held onto him to avoid Gorga from hitting him, but he did not hit him after he put him in the headlock–thus Gorga bit his testicles. Joe Giudice did not start the fight, did flip and punch Gorga, but then placed him in a hold. I am sure that he did that out of love for Teresa, Teresa’s parents and children, and even Gorga himself. This is why Joe was able to calm down and even joke that he might take Gorga fishing the next day, because he does not have the hatred or anger towards Gorga as the Whorgas do with him and Teresa. How many times did TB and TSIL say that they hate the Giudices???

    Please watch the episode and the break up of the fight to see the truth, since TSIL doesn’t want to admit it or give Teresa credit for anything. LOL, TSIL probably doesn’t want to admit that Teresa also pulled her off Joe Giudice as easily as she did either–tough girl that she is!!

    • July 23, 2013 at 1:09 AM

      Your right, it is very brief. Everything happened so fast but that is proof of this;

      1. What Teresa and Juicy are made of while under sudden attack.
      2. What TSIL and TB are made of while attacking.and things are not going their way.
      3. What Kathy, Rich, and Rosie were really doing to “help”

    • July 23, 2013 at 10:09 AM

      By golly, you are spot on. She DID break it up…1st by getting security and 2nd, literally.

  53. July 22, 2013 at 10:41 PM

    Great post once again Isolde!

  54. July 22, 2013 at 10:42 PM

    I don’t post very much but ❤ FAMEWHORGAS. Busy taking care of my grandchildren!

  55. Becca
    July 22, 2013 at 10:44 PM

    Who does Melissa think she is? First she picks on innocent children now she’s making digs at an elderly woman? That just shows her poor character and just how unbelievably narcissistic she is that she feels as though she can say anything she wants and suffer no consequences or repercussions, and feel no remorse.

    And if I were Melissa, I would shut up about Filomina Giudice. Wasn’t she the one who punched one of Melissa’s ugly sisters at the Christening? She should watch herself.

  56. pjbottoms
    July 22, 2013 at 10:54 PM

    I have mentioned this over at SH and I think it applies to this situation as well. Melissa got the edit she wanted at the PFS last season with help From Jac and Miss Kitty Litter Producer who was sending Jax text messages. None of the cast members were going to confront Melissa. maybe they would have if they were not able to use their cell phones at the event. There were also numerous people present at the event to throw shade at Melissa. I’m D. Was pissed at Melissa for bad mouthing her store and was willing to invite the bald guy in to get back at Melissa. in the end Melissa for the edit she wanted. Joey believed Jac and Melissa and refused to speak ro Teresa for a year. Melissa got what she wanted because she can forever be a victim of the big set up that nobody gives a shit about anymore.Now it is a different story this season because Melissa doesn’t want Joey to get along with his sister. If that happened, Melissa would have to stop playing the victim card. At the retreat Melissa,was snowing her ass and providing sound bytes in hopes of getting her story edited for the show. It didn’t happen and she comes out looking like an idiot. As for Teresa threatening SIL, it is not a threat if the information is harmless.If Melissa would just trust Teresa, she would be a lot happier.

    • July 22, 2013 at 11:06 PM

      PJ you are so spot on re: the fashion show. She had that grimy smirk on her face in the bathroom. So was loving every single moment of it.

  57. Dianna
    July 22, 2013 at 11:18 PM

    Fame thanks for re printing the convo at the fashion show.

  58. rfeliciat
    July 22, 2013 at 11:33 PM

    Omg! I can’t keep up with you guys!

    Love, love, love reading everything when I can. 🙂

  59. Scranton Sally
    July 22, 2013 at 11:38 PM

    melissa, we know you or your people read this blog, so I am hoping that you get wind of this- You look like a lunatic.
    I have never seen you filled with such energy as when I saw you during the fight between TB and Juicy, although you didn’t do the little kick dance that I found oddly amusing at the Christening, you were digging your nails in Juicy’s eyes, pulling his nose and scratching his face while TB was biting/ grabbing Juicy’s testicles. You then , as the ever so dutiful wife grabbed the white NY yankee hat that was shoe polished all on the inside (He can call it hairspray if it makes him feel like a big boy) and place it on TB’s naked head.
    Then came your rant at Teresa calling her a disgusting pig for not helping her brother! Ok, to begin with, Tre went to get security, and even if she didn’t why would she fight alongside her brother who just called her scum three times- to fight against her husband who has her back? Why does he need help to begin with……….he also had Rich, kathy and Melissa taking shots at Juicy?
    They go to the room to put a new spin on the latest event, funny how they continue to ask what is all this black tar all over them knowing it is TB’S “hairspray” (shows how the lies flow). Melissa is all huffing and puffing in full victim mode while the Wakile’s are on board to agree with their latest delusion.
    The worst of it comes now- “if my Dad passes now, I’ll have my own funeral”, sadam Hussein is someone’s brother too, He (Juicy) is going away where he belongs for 10 years and he deserves it, He stole his brother’s ID and deserves what he gets….fabellini , cookbooks etc are just gimmicks to make money….etc…….all to ruin Tre’s businesses that she desperately needs to pay off debts instead of declaring bankruptcy and having the government cover the losses.
    Who fantasizes on their dad dying? Does Andy finally get that he bet on the wrong horse and he made a deal with the devil? I am worried that Andy gave his good employee Dr V. his biased opinion of Tre vs Joe , (I was thinking of how poorly Anderson Cooper treated tre- until popular opinion had him bring her back and play nice…..remember?)
    in the words of the world class sage Melissa Whorga…”Shame on you”!
    on a side note what the hell did Rich say…He (Joey Marco) cannot even go to the bosom of his mother…? WTF

    • July 23, 2013 at 1:42 AM

      Love it Sally!!! Messy used the word “eggmit” in her blog…now how would she know that people were mocking her inability to use the English language properly if she doesn’t read blogs or tweets??? Oh Messy…

  60. trixie
    July 23, 2013 at 12:02 AM

    “Who fantasizes on their dad dying? Does Andy finally get that he bet on the wrong horse and he made a deal with the devil?”

    Well look how TSIL threw her own deceased father under the bus to make a buck. In her first 2 seasons her Dad was wonderful and loving- now that she has a book deal, he was a drug addict who would leave for days. I found it odd that she asked her mother on camera if it were OK to put her dead father’s drug history in the book – that maybe 15 people will read- while including the meeting with Mom Aunt and sister in a television national broadcast. Further disturbing was the assumption that her father -while on drug binges- was with other women. Looked like news to Mom. Digging the knife deeper into her mother; she tells Mom that’s why she keeps a good house and sexy image so her husband wont look elsewhere like her Dad did and come home to her. First time I felt bad for a Marco—like Ma, if you didn’t get fat, dad wouldn’t do drugs and he would have stayed home. Melissa is a pig.
    I think Andy is starting to realize he bet on the wrong horse or horsey face. I think people like the SIL and TB have a shelf life.

    • Melissa Is Evil
      July 23, 2013 at 1:14 AM


      You’re SNEAKY and you’re TRASH! Troubled girl comes from a troubled family! And now your oozing your poison and venom onto Teresa, her parents etc!!! You use Joe as your puppet while you work the strings! If you were respectful it would show! But you leave trails and trails of proof and evidence! You can’t blame just Teresa you only blame Teresa because you know that’s a weak spot for Joe. That’s why I know you’re wicked, evil, and no dam good! You’re just mad that you can’t control everyone’s oppinions which are true so you go for the jugular with Teresa. This has everything to do with covering your tracks and confusing weak minded people! Who are easily conned! Who taught you to be this way? You are tainted and those that are intelligent and street smart pulled your stank rotten card a long time ago! This evil wants to see Teresa fail she could care less about her family or children because this is ALL about Melissa and her tight rope and hold and control! Plain and simple! Now don’t go blaming Teresa for what you created Melissa k! You are constantly dreaming in your own fantasy but the truth of the matter your as rotten as they come.

      Some may think my wording is harsh, but nothing is wrong with calling out the devil! There are plenty of females and males like ol’Melissa! One must expose the Cancer which is fungas that will creep in like mold and inhibit and spread its poison! It seems to be working, but eventually there will be a wall to hit. By the time Joe figures it out he’ll be stuck on dumb. He’s a sucker and that is why she picked him! He’s easy to manipulate. Joe is just a tool to be used that is all. She wears the pants and Joe wears the pantys. She is not to be trusted ever!!!!!! Joe she isn’t really interested in you only in what you can give her. Melissa’s a wobbly wheel she will switch if she has to. And if there are no witnesses and she thinks she can get away with it she will cheat on you with that mystery man on you in a hot second.

  61. Piper 66
    July 23, 2013 at 1:13 AM

    Perhaps the Gorgas should be concerned about the investigation that is going on. It’s been a real mess!

  62. Rachel
    July 23, 2013 at 1:19 AM

    Guys, I don’t know if someone said it before but I’m reqatching the episode and when sloJo is talking to Dr. V about the people T hangs out with that spread the cheating rumors, I think he acknowledge the site as you guys have suspected….he distinctly said “so by hee planting these stories about us…..blah blah”

    • Rachel
      July 23, 2013 at 1:20 AM


  63. July 23, 2013 at 1:28 AM

    Hello! I’ve never commented but I’ve been lurking and reading for a while now…I’m a long time Teresa fan and it never ceases to amaze me how low these crackerjacks will go to throw mud on her. Did anybody catch how Messy used “eggmit” in her blog??? Somebody’s been on the Famewhorgas website…but she doesn’t read blogs or tweets??? “LI-AR, LI-AR…bitch is a LI-AR” in my best Wacko Jacko voice… He he 🙂

    • July 23, 2013 at 1:46 AM

      Welcome Sassy! I hadn’t noticed that on the eggmit … will have to look. Thanks for pointing it out.

      • July 23, 2013 at 2:22 AM

        Thanks mzjules! I love, love, love Fame and it’s nice to see that so many other people are fed up with these psychos. Glad there’s a place to vent about it!

    • Laram
      July 23, 2013 at 2:35 AM

      Yes, I did. She reads on here and on Allabouttrth, probably now on Stoopid Housewives blog, as well since T accidently tweeted SH instead of UClosetFreak, who is a T fan. Eggmit is a name of a commenter on these sites, as well.

  64. July 23, 2013 at 1:36 AM

    Some truth leaked out of your heart in this statement “Teresa can threaten me all she likes. All day long, or all night in the hot tub.” What kind of woman feels threatened by her sister and brother in law spending time togther in a hot tub all night? Is that what kept you awake all night? Good grief, your cracks are showing.

    • Cee_See
      July 23, 2013 at 6:23 AM

      For Tsil to bring up Tre and Juicy in a hot tub, enjoying each other shows her jealousy in my opinion! She’s jealous that she wasn’t able to ruin their night instead it brought them closer together! If my man took up for me and won the fight it would make me fall in love with him all over again, be it a physical fight or a verbal one! If my man started a fight because of me and lost I’d probably feel ashamed, like Tb! Let’s say Tb did kick Juicy’s butt I’m more than positive Tsil/Tb/Richie/Kathy would have had a party and they would have all been sharing a bathtub, drinking champaign! Since they all are a bunch of loser’s they get offened that the people they tried to bring down won’t go down they get upset and make judgemental remarks about their state of mind! What a bunch of losers! I’m sure if it showed Tre and Juicy pouting and crying about the fight all night long they would be saying, “Teresa got what she deserved!”. Teresa is damned either way with these irrational vultures!

      • July 23, 2013 at 10:30 AM

        I see TSIL , TB and JAcaloon in this artcle. I am glad God led me to it. I have closer this morning from some people in my family, especially my mother. FAMILY JEALOUSY- THE SHAMEFUL SECRET BEHIND ABUSE AND BETRAYAL By Sister Renee Pittelli http://www.luke173ministries.org/466782

      • Dixie
        July 23, 2013 at 11:41 AM

        I think they thought they were going to get last years’ edit, that it would look like Teresa just left the fight and then went upstairs to have fun with her husband, laughing and drinking. That tells me that type of edit is what TB and TSIL were used to. They aren’t used to the truth being shown, and you can tell from TSIL’s tweets she is reeling from it.

  65. Piper 66
    July 23, 2013 at 1:44 AM

    Yup! Cocaine! Well people who are dead broke sell dope . Sad that they couldn’t give up their fake lifestyle. Oh boy …

  66. July 23, 2013 at 2:34 AM

    Please excuse the ridiculous amount of comments that I’m posting…I’m new and fired up! Messy looked so ragged in this episode…all the shots of her sitting at the table made her look horrible. Bravo to Bravo for finally showing just how ratchet she really is. And in regards to Bulldog…he should take a page from Kenya Moore and make his tag line “If you come for me, you better make sure I’ve sent for you”…I hope he throws Pandora’s Box right at the middle of her five-head and dings her good.

    • Cee_See
      July 23, 2013 at 6:32 AM

      You know, Sassy Girl, I thought she looked like a thug’s mistress or something skanky like that, too! Her hair looked awfully thin and flat I think she lost a little too much weight when the episode was being filmed.

      • July 23, 2013 at 7:47 AM

        Idk what it was but she just looked wrecked from head to toe…but then again, the bed she made for herself is probably getting pretty uncomfortable. That’s why she didn’t get any sleep 😉

        • Goldenthread
          July 23, 2013 at 11:23 AM

          You could see the anger and insecurity MeHo exhibited. Even when the blonde therapist asked for slow Joe to follow her for a private talk. MeHo was fuming!!!! You can see that she was not happy that her husband was going to have a chat with the therapist. She was not happy because he didn’t ask her!!! She’s a psycho, control freak. She creates the problems. Last season left me so annoyed with all of the bullying but I am glad MeHo is bing shown for what she really is!

          • July 23, 2013 at 1:48 PM

            That makes 2 of us, Goldie!!!

  67. Laram
    July 23, 2013 at 2:40 AM

    As I posted a few weeks ago, and in earlier thread ^^, if Bryan is going to sell to highest bidder, he should get it done with sooner than later. His health should come first. He should sell it to People, and have Fame or Faux reach out to All producers of Wendy, The View, and contractually have it published 2 weeks before reunion, so that we as viewers and commenters can defend him, Teresa, etc, and let Bravo be forced to address.

    His health needs this off his chest, and mind. He deserves the highest bidder for medical bills.

    • July 23, 2013 at 2:47 AM

      Agreed Laram…he deserves peace of mind. Hard enough for him to deal with without being dragged into a mess he never wanted to be a part of.

  68. Just_G
    July 23, 2013 at 3:31 AM

    Not sure why but the song Dirty Little Secret keeps playing through my mind during all this drama!

  69. Jenga
    July 23, 2013 at 3:35 AM

    Melissa is young and beautiful. Teresa is wrinkly and old looking.

    • July 23, 2013 at 1:50 PM

      Me thinks you’ve gotten into the Kool-Aid…

  70. July 23, 2013 at 3:57 AM

    WOW! On Messy’s Bravo blog, she is getting body slammed over and over and over again. Love every second of it! And the things Bravo is letting through tells me Miss Andy knows the jig is up with that group of nuts. There were several posts referring to the incessant campaigning by MeHo and SloJo and how they told bravo they would take Teresa down in an audition tape and how could bravo do that etc. Very interesting. Along with the edit the fame whorgas are getting this season, this reunion better be one huge redemption song for Teresa and her family, the family that didn’t sell their soul to the devil for fame and $ (looking at you Baby Joey).

    • Goldenthread
      July 23, 2013 at 11:24 AM

      Yes!!! I agree!

  71. Detroitrockcity
    July 23, 2013 at 4:49 AM

    I could not watch the whole thing,I’m sorry messy makes me sick to my guts!!i helped raise my brothers (twins)!! My guess is Joey has seperation issues! My brother had a hard time when I got married and went Texas! He had heart surgery, 4 of them,they said he would not make it!?? I had to come home, he needed me! He became a man, is living life large and
    thanks me every day for coming home! He now has 3 beautiful kids! He’s 37, they said he would not make it 1 year! My point is life is so short, ya never know what tomarrow is going to bring! Make up be happy for what is left

    • Detroitrockcity
      July 23, 2013 at 5:03 AM

      Forgive, let it go, start over,or just go!! Teresa loves her mom and dad like I do and thats the most important thing “right now ” Save the bull shit for later!! ;()

      • Detroitrockcity
        July 23, 2013 at 5:15 AM

        I held him in my arms, and prayed!! God gave him his life back!! Saved all of of us from that lose!” Embrace life cuz we only have a short time to make it right!!! 😉

        • Detroitrockcity
          July 23, 2013 at 5:29 AM

          I held him in my arms, and prayed!! God gave him his life back!! Saved all of of us from that lose!” Embrace life cuz we only have a short time to make it right!!! 😉

          • Detroitrockcity
            July 23, 2013 at 5:54 AM

            Sorry that copied twice, but all im saying, please love eachother, love your sister!! I miss my brothers, but we at least see eachother once a week! We all have busy lives, but we always keep in touch!

            • Detroitrockcity
              July 23, 2013 at 6:06 AM

              I also have 3 sisters, but that’s another story!”!”! 🙂

            • July 23, 2013 at 10:39 AM

              Don’t be sorry. I loved reading twice “I held him in my arms and prayed”

        • July 23, 2013 at 2:36 PM

          that is absolutly beautiful,to hold him in your arms n pray
          this is what it is all about
          bless you sweety

  72. hummusbreath
    July 23, 2013 at 5:03 AM

    I will approach this day with a renewed sense of vigour and a clearer understanding of the world around me. I feel as though I now have something in common with other lucky individuals who have benefited from coming into contact with some of history’s great educators—- Confucius, Socrates, the Dalai Lama, Maria Montessori, Maya Angelou. I can now claim membership to this “Club of Enlightenment” because I have just been schooled by none other then renowned Professor of Truth Melissa Gorga (Masters Degree in Emasculating Husbands, Bachelor’s in Innapropriate Dressing, Major in Delusional Thinking and Minor in Auto-Tunining).

    I feel very blessed that Prof Gorga has taken time out of her busy schedule of lecturing ambitious girls down at the Shore on how to trade up from their dodgy houseshares to an “impressive” mansion (just don’t turn on the taps) to explain a few things that my poor, thick brain has been misinterpreting. I feel like one of those lucky little primary students who benefited from her brief, but no doubt illustrious teaching career. And for her efforts, i will be eternally grateful (and perhaps start wearing spider leg eye lash extensions and enough fake tan to match my ronsealed garden fence to properly show my loyalty to this amazing woman).

    First of all, Melissa jumped into the altercation between Slow Joe and Juicy to break it up. She was using the age old calming techniques of kicking, slapping and scratching to bring this unfortunate fight to a positive conclusion. She was not, i repeat NOT fighting dirty and taking out her frustrations of being married to man who wears shoe polish on his head, leaks poision and chews on other mens genitals.

    Next, Prof Melissa would “Jump in front of a moving train for my husband and kids”. Her willingness to keep her family safe is an admirable quality (but unfortunately does not extend to ensuring her young children are properly restrained while inside of a moving vehicle but we all know it is much more important to take part in grand displays of “Mama Bearism” and not waste too much effort on the more mundane, day to day gestures like clicking the very complicated straps on a child’s car seat).

    And, if her family is threatened in any way, you could not drag Prof Melissa away. That is commitment! Unless of course there is an envelope opening anywhere in the tri-state area that might require her presence to add a bit of classy glamour. Then all bets are off.

    I now know that the Gorga’s marriage is all about “love, honesty, passion, respect and loyalty” (honestly Prof Gorga don’t go spilling all your secrets before releasing that bestseller!). And here I was thinking that it was about jealousy, obsene materialism, greed, insecurity and an insatiable desire for fame. Silly old me!

    I was intrigued to learn that Joe is actually a passionate and sensitive man and NOT just emotionally unstable and a potential physical threat to the public.

    And Prof Melissa has not just been experiencing a realistic, non-biased edit this season. In fact she has just toughened up to face the avalanche of horrific insults (horsey face, dum dum) being hurled every once in awhile by her evil in laws.

    Sorry, i must rush off because the tv repair man is here. I must be experiencing difficulty with my screen because according to Prof Melissa, she is very “small” while my television is presenting the contrary!

    • Detroitrockcity
      July 23, 2013 at 6:17 AM

      Love love love me some hummus! Can I get some fresh bread, this shit is stale!!! : )

    • Cee_See
      July 23, 2013 at 6:38 AM

      Thanks for the laugh! Your a very good commenter! I like the “Minor in Auto-tunning”! I’m going to read this again and laugh a little bit more!

    • July 23, 2013 at 7:43 AM

      ^^ HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Love it!

    • Saddle_River_NJ
      July 23, 2013 at 9:01 AM


    • Jeannie5233
      July 23, 2013 at 9:30 AM

      oh hummus – what a fabulous read! I so enjoyed this – WONDERFUL!!!!!!! 🙂

    • July 23, 2013 at 10:18 AM

      Best post ever!

    • July 23, 2013 at 10:58 AM

      What a treat! Thanks for “Enlightning” lol

    • trixie
      July 23, 2013 at 12:29 PM

      Thank you for a much needed laugh! You are quite clever, and if you keep it up, you may one day, get a book deal much like the brilliant prof Gorga!

  73. DD
    July 23, 2013 at 8:08 AM

    hummusbreath That was awesome. Hahahahahahaha. I too loved it.

  74. IhateAndy
    July 23, 2013 at 9:02 AM


    THis is just a steam of consciousness of thoughts which at times, I try to logically conclude, but its rather late in my neck of the woods, so I will just begin. BTW I hope you guys give me feedback and hope I am not repeating anything. This site has so much to read and I do my best to keep up with current discussions!

    Ok firstly, I wanna briefly compare Messy and T based on their moral and spiritual beliefs and why I think Teresa has displayed a more authentic spiritual belief than Messy.
    T seems to draw strength from her religious belief esp during the bankruptcy and Juicy licence issues. Not to mention, I said this before and I am gonna say this again: If I had friends that go way back and they turn on me on International TV, I would be in a psychiatric ward right now. Imagine the level of betrayal? I applaud T just for surviving a bunch of harpies coming at her and not to mention a TV network betraying her! Heck, even DAnielle, a tough chick who hung out with drug lords and ‘saw it all’ couldn’t handle Bravo and the harpies. (LOL we should trademark that “Bravo and the harpies” AKA “Andy and the Harpies”).
    May I also add, that not only did T survive this and handle it with grace, but she didn’t play dirty once! If she gossiped, it was to try to understand the situation…but I digress..

    2.I see Melissa’s flaw is hiding behind her religion. Which BTW is hypocritcal and a sin in itself, right? Messy types do give religion a bad name, after all our basic ethics and values come from religion like it or not, and I hardly see Melissa as a ‘christian woman” who seeks peace, stays away from gossip, doesnt backbite and reflects on her arrogance and ego. Teresa on the other hand, although not a “Thank you Jesus” type every 2.5 seconds) is more spiritual but doesn’t hide behind God/Jesus nor does wear it on her sleeve. ( I cringe E.V.E.R.Y SINGLE time Messy would say “Thank You Jesus”. BTW a motto of hers which was uttered by her almost each episode on her first season, has reduced in frequency. For that, I thank Jesus.

    3.Ok so lets just quickly cross reference religious belief with action/behaviour: If we cross reference the two women’s religious beliefs and their character and morality, Teresa wins hands down. Teresa respects her parents and respects others. I mean the woman still interacts with Carowhine with some dignity and and a respectful cautious air. The worst thing she said to anyone’s child is “I prefer if she didnt use a lapband”, it wasn’t a dig, Actually they asked T what she thought, so to me that Q was a set up. I don’t hear T attacking other mothers childrens. Do I realy have to point out Messy’s examples, ppeoples? EXACTLY

    4. What about the spirit in which the two women talk about one another?

    Melissa: is spiteful angry and venomous in her attacks. She actually talks to others about Teresa to escalate or fuel further tension and draws others into her feud (e.g. lunch with her 2 gfs regarding her book news or another e.g. having the whackolis and co. for brunch.) She doesn’t discuss T in the spirit to understand, reflect or gain advice on how to deal with it, but rather a place to foster hate and keep the spirit of T hating alive.
    Ah yes, our Messy was “subtle” to the viewer who wasn’t Team T. Back handed comments like “We pay our bills” perhaps seemed a cheeky dig from a younger brighter Sister with a bit of ego, which was ‘cute’ because people perceived her as ‘cute’ esp for the viewer who were indifferent to Teresa and wanted fun on the show. However, the undercurrent of that comment was to me a crack that showed some dark elements to her character: I remember thinking “Gee Wizz girlfriend, thats your SIL and you don’t seem to be too concerned about your “F-a-m-i-l-y”, instead you are gloating that you “pay YOUR bills”. That was my AHA moment regarding Messy. She enjoyed that her SILs weaknesses were surfacing and had no intention to play them down. Instead she took to her highlighter from her ‘teaching days’ and highlighted anything she could find that was discriminating in the form of TH. Yep she was ‘cute’ wasn’t she?

    4.Now compare how Teresa digs and backbites. They are cheeky and silly, including Juicy’s. i.e. Carwash comment, Carowhine being 1/16th italian and the Olive Garden comment. Even when juicy calls Messy horseyface, she whinces. When she talks about others it is to talk and try to understand the situation. Messy talks to further insult. We even saw it a couple of weeks ago when she was luncing with her friends and takes digs at Teresa’s marriage (she needs to read my book cos their relationship sucks comment), even this week where she NEEDLESSLY and VINDICTIVELY puts down Teresa’s products. There was no need for that. The lipsinking comments by Teresa in comparision to Messy is nothing hurtful. EVEN when the opportunity presented itself to T to take her SIL down and humiliate her in the form of these stripper rumours, T didn’t once feed it. Honestly, I would be so tempted if I was Teresa. She could make Andy happy, and get revenge on Melissa…. but it shows you who is the better person here. She not once played it up. Not once!

    At the reunion last season, ppl came at her, she tried to come back, but she knows it doesnt work for her, cos the poor dear is not very good at being cruel or being a good actress. I mean she even felt sorry for Danielle in the end. BTW her anger towards Danielles past morality is an indication of her convictions, although expressed in anger was a mistake she readily admits. But Danielles 19 engagements really was a HUGE trigger for Teresa. ITs clear she views marriage as sacred and pure.

    BTW You guys most likely will think of better examples than me, but these ones just came to mind.

    OK a bit about BRAVO: I am still cautious about Bravo though and I have said this before, its my hypothesis and I am throwing it out there: the viewer now includes a production company as an element of character and plot (even ppl who dont read Famewhorgas, are annoyed at Bravo for the biased editing etc). I actually don’t think Bravo mind this at all. Its a totally new playing field for Reality TV, remember us viewers are savvy. Its the 3rd wall as they call it in reality TV playing a character and role in the plot. The TV company will come up the hero backing the righteous horse. I do believe this is all planned and has kept us glued and emotionally engaged on a level that is to reality TV that is on air at present.
    Big Brother’s 3rd Wall is a great example of it being a character in the show but unlike BB whos 3rd Wall is available to us and we know it exists, it does however try to remain neutral and ‘all knowing’. The character the 3rd wall plays on NJ however, is bias and cunning…almost like a housewife itself. Except “her” character is the ultimate femme fatale of all housewives, she is all powerful, vengeful, spiteful and like all characters that want to be loved, they know they need to go through a process of redeeming itself…and we might just see this soon…A quick example: people who remember risque madonna circa Sex book? Well America backlashed and her albums were no selling well after that “Bedtime Stories”. So how did she get her audience back? She went spiritual and reflective with Ray of Light..That was her way to insert a possibility in her audiences mind “oh she went through a phase, shes good now”. Not only did it work, but she attracted new audiences. I honestly don’t see why a TV network run by homosexual men would apply the “Madonna principal” to their products.

    Bravo will come out clean and Teresa will reign. That will be the outcome. But hey, its gonna leave a bad taste in my mouth because they went to a REAL dark place; toyed with a real family for 3 seasons to get this climatic high. Teresa will be compensated and be redeemed. After all its the least they can do, right? In the meantime, I’m gonna need a long shower cos I do feel dirty watching this show…..hmmm maybe a spiritual cleanse?..or a fast…NO BRAVO?

    • Jeannie5233
      July 23, 2013 at 10:02 AM

      IhateAndy – I have very limited time today but I did want to acknowledge your “rant” because thre are so many points that should and could be highlighted.

      Really quickly, though, I will address the “Thank You Jesus” persona of TSIL in Season 3. As you stated, it hasn’t reared its head as much in the last two. I believe it is because that was all an act – it really was to the point where it was almost blasphemous, in my opinion, and she just couldn’t sustain it over a long period of time because it really isn’t who she is. Every other word out of her mouth was thanking Jesus she didn’t have a hang nail that day. Say a phrase often enough and it loses its meaning. And His meaning and teachings should never be taken so cavalierly. The straw that broke the camel’s back for me was when she began selling Tshirts on her website with “Thank you Jesus” on them trying to make a buck from her “catchphrase”. I found that in very poor taste.

      There is so much more I would like to contribute to your comment but I am short on time. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

      • IhateAndy
        July 23, 2013 at 11:26 PM

        Aww Thanks Jeannie. I read it in the middle of the night and I was reading it back after posting and I wish I proof read it before posting! So thanks so much for the reply. I would love to hear your feedback when you have more time. Yes, I agree regarding blasphemous Messy. I think thats what offended me the most about her.. But I don’t want to use these posts to bash Messy et al or enjoying the fact Joey is losing his hair. I’m not really into that kind of dialogue. I am not ‘that’ audience member. But I did see the preview of NJ just now and I was BLOWN away on the compassion and forgiveness Teresa has for Messy. Teresa’s character blows me away, it really does. She has no arrogance in her heart. I actually cried when she asked Messy for a hug. Did you see it?

  75. hobbyath
    July 23, 2013 at 10:23 AM

    I am sorry Fame, i did not read all the comments – to express my disgust over mel, and jacko does not leave time to complement your site or to tell you how I got here – I have been reading your side of story for some time now. I am with you on this one. Do not beat the dead horse, be fair, no low blows…
    I would need your help to express/ explain the old fashion respect – well I am thinking about writing a book. With my broken English, butchering words I say (I can spell every single one of them)
    The thing is, my story and research extends overseas. And I do need to respect their laws of privacy (none of this would be allowed over there)
    Guess what…. I will write my story I have never told before: marriages, cheating husbands, bimbos, child support, the public feeding into it, the differences in law, where to run if you have to pay child support, what to do if you are so pissed off that you want to kill

  76. haddasah4
    July 23, 2013 at 11:04 AM

    Fame: Can I suggest you give Jax’s participation in PFS (including the transcripts) its own blog post? Since she tried defended her actions in her blog this week I think its relevant for viewers.

  77. AJT
    July 23, 2013 at 8:05 PM

    Hi, first time poster, love the blog! It’s great to see someone finally telling the truth especially considering what is said at certain other blogs. It’s driving me crazy that on one RHNJ forum pro Melissa posters keep insisting that even if Teresa isn’t totally responsible for causing the Melissa rumors (stripping, cheating etc…) that she’s still at fault because she remains friends with Kim D. But isn’t Kim D also good friends with Jacqueline? If so, why are Melissa and her fans okay with Jacqueline continuing to speak to Kim D (off camera) yet if Teresa even sits in her vicinity she’s evil and clearly trying to “bring Melissa down”? If Teresa is guilty by association according to Melissa why isn’t Jacqueline? Aren’t the Laurita’s and the Gorga’s friends? I’m starting to think half of the drama on this show is started by Jacqueline off camera.

    And I agree with anyone that said Jac probably has a drinking problem (probably combined with prescription pills which is bad mix) I used check her twitter and it seemed like late at night she’d go on these insane tweeting sprees that made her look unhinged. And by the next morning she had deleted most of it and acted like she never said anything. I had an alcoholic friend who would start drinking early and by midnight she’d be posting totally insane, angry rants on facebook about her family, her ex bf, her boss. And the next morning she’d wake up to like 20 text messages from people asking her if she was okay and then she’d promptly delete every post or deactivate her profile for a week. It wasn’t until she got sober that she admitted that she’d write those crazy posts while very hammered and wake up the next day with no memory of doing so. And despite what Jac’s fans say, I think her mental decline has been going on way before Nick’s autism diagnoses. And much as Ashlee (did we ever find out why she changed the spelling of her name? As an Ashley, I found it odd. Unless she plans to act and there’s another actress named Ashley Holmes, what was the point?) annoyed the hell out of me, I wonder if a lot of her resentment toward her mother is because she saw the real Jacqueline (a complete drunken mess) behind closed doors and it pissed her off that she was portrayed differently on the show… while she was portrayed (by her own mother) in a bad light constantly.

  78. Bridget
    July 24, 2013 at 10:01 AM

    Has anyone else seen the vids Mel has been posting of Antonia twerking. I believe it speaks volumes of the kind of person she is. She is a vile pig. I am so glad she is finally being shown for the trash she is. Her behavior when she is defensive makes it clear she is lying. I also feel like dirt ball Wakile defends her regardless of her behavior bc he is in to her. He was drooling in the stripper scene and is always saying things about her in a pervy way. She prolly already polished his knob in order to keep her secrets buried.
    I’m usually just a comment reader posted before here and there but given how disgusted I am with the Slore I felt the need to post

  79. Elle
    July 25, 2013 at 3:57 PM

    I think the botox has finally seeped into Jacqueline’s brain. She is definitely way out there this season. I understand her child has Autism, as I have friends who have children with Autism also, but it is no excuse to get yourself loaded up on Botox and probably booze and whatever else she is downing; based on her wacko disposition these days. There are regular, everyday people out there working (an actual job), taking care of a family, struggling to make ends meet who have children with Autism that don’t resort to od’ing on Botox, etc. Get a grip Jacqueline, stop being so weak and maybe get a job. You could find that getting out of your ivory tower will help you see that as awful as Autism may be, it is still better than the alternative. Embrace your child and move forward.

  80. Alley
    July 27, 2013 at 5:25 AM

    It’s hard to watch something like this go down, especially with jacqueline and Caroline because they were Teresa’s friends 4 a long time and they decided to flip the switch so easily it’s scary. Teresa probably told her “friends” about what a bitch her sil was how fucked up she really was because that’s girlfriend talk. Now that Caro and jac told melissa everything teresa said about her. It’s sad, jac and Caroline are backstabbers and she should be glad to have gotten them out of her life. There is so much dirt on melissa it’s sad and pathetic. Okay so my opinion on Melissa’s dad supposedly taking off for 3-4 days to get milk DOES NOT SOUND LIKE HE WAS CHEATING! Sounds more of a drug binge to me. Plus, no one at all has stated that Melissa’s father was caught or has cheated but Melissa’s family is trash and will lie like this to get pitty.

  81. pjbottoms
    July 28, 2013 at 7:06 PM

    I rewatched the “Scum One, Scum All” and did an informal “insult” tally. Here is how many times Teresa insulted others: Rosie 0, Juicy 0, Caroline 0, Ritchie 1, Kathy 2, Little Joe 4, Melissa 7. Here is the tally for how many times each cast member insulted Teresa: Rosie 0, Juicy 0, Caroline 0, Kathy 2, Lauren 6, Ritchie 7, Little Joe 32, Melissa 43. Juicy beats Joe by 1 insult in the Joe vs Joey round: Juicy insulted Joey 11 times and Joey insulted Joe 10 times. However, if you count Joey actually starting a fight as an insult, then they are tied at 11 insults each. Melissa insulted Juicy 6 times. The worst insults IMO came from Melissa and Joey (surprise!) Lauren has like 3 minutes of airtime and managed to get out 2 insults per minute. IMO Ritchie would have insulted Teresa more but needed to play peacemaker (badly) to get camera time. Everything Melissa says is either poor me or insulting. PJ

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