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Teresa Giudice Says “I Was Surprised and Sickened by What Melissa Said About My Marriage” and Says “Melissa is Very, Very Lucky That I’m Keeping Quiet About the Things I Do Know”

July 16, 2013

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“He doesn’t love her. He’s a cheater. He’s an asshole. So he doesn’t give a fuck what she does.” – Melissa Gorga, whispering to her husband on the bus to the Lake George Retreat, Season 5 Episode 7

“Teresa wants me to go through what she goes through in her life. And I feel like she’s so mad that Joe embraces me and he comes home every night, and maybe it’s different over there. But that’s not fair to me.” – Melissa Gorga’s TH, Season 5 Episode 7

Teresa’s friend of five years and co-writer of her cookbooks, Heather Maclean, has been busy tweeting about the show. The following are some of her recent tweets.

On Teresa’s marriage:

So Melissa went to magazine after magazine complaining that Teresa was trying to ruin her marriage when T never said a single thing.

Now Teresa’s own family is on camera saying she has a fake marriage & her husband cheats on her. KNOWING HER KIDS WILL HEAR THIS. #Sick

And for the record, as far as I know & I’ve been with them a lot, they have a wonderful marriage. They’ve been in love since they were kids!

Teresa & Joe are adorable together. They’re best friends. They grew up together. He’s a great dad. You cannot believe the love in that house.

His handsomeness & charm don’t come across on camera like they do in real life. And his heart.

On the mysterious phone call Joe had in Napa during season 4 and Teresa and Joe using the “c” word:

They edited several phone calls together. Work, family, friends… If there was a mistress wouldn’t she have cashed in by now?

…you hate for days while your kids are stuck in NJ with a hurricane? He got pissed off & it slipped out. Not cool but human.

She picked it up somewhere & kept using it all last year (I yelled at her every time because I hate it). Filming with the RVs with people…

On whether or not Teresa has anything to say about the editing of the show:

No. None of them do. And they certainly have enough footage to patch together anything they want. 😦

On Jacqueline saying at the reunion that Joe cheated on Teresa with the babysitter and secretary:

Jac was angry at the reunion for something Teresa said to her so she threw it out. It’s not true. Especially the desk story.

What are the odds that @BravoAndy will bring that back up to her at the Reunion? Or *any* of her hypocrisy? 1 trillion-to-1 😦

On Joey believing that Teresa was part of strippergate:

Kim D. told him to his face that it was her. Jacqueline & Melissa told Joey that it was Teresa, and that’s who he believed.

Teresa just couldn’t understand why he would take a relative stranger’s word over hers. That’s the blood vs water. Not Melissa. Jacqueline.

They not only associate with her, they *apologized* to Kim! Breaks Teresa’s heart. She doesn’t deserve this.

On Joey calling Teresa scum:

I truly think he’s just doing it for the cameras & thinks someday he can take it all back. No one can really be that ugly.

I don’t know if his family will be there when he wants to take it back. 😦

On whether or not Teresa knew Melissa was attacking her husband when she ran to get help at the retreat:

No. She wouldn’t have gone. She would’ve stayed & pulled Joe out. When she got back she broke it up immediately.

On Kathy saying that her mom and Teresa’s dad aren’t talking because of the show.

Any drama is because Kathy joined the show behind everyone’s back to trash Teresa. But Kathy’s going to “fix it” right?

On Joe and Melissa’s infamous audition tape:

No idea if they exist or not. Really, really hope not.

On everything coming to light, including getting caught cheating:

That’s exactly what Teresa thinks: the truth always comes out. Nothing’s come out yet, so she lives and she loves.

Does anyone think Teresa could have caught Joe cheating & been cool with it? As skeeved out as she is about “used” things. 😉

On the Housewives’ Bravo blogs:

They edit them. They aren’t even allowed to tell the truth sometimes if it conflicts with editing.

On Teresa’s Bravo blog for episode 7:

You’re going to be so happy when Teresa’s blog finally gets posted by Bravo. 🙂

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The following is Teresa’s Bravo blog for episode 7.

Melissa’s Meddling
By Teresa Giudice
Tuesday, July 16, 2013 9:29 AM

Hi Loveys!

First I have to tell you, from the bottom of my heart, how much I appreciate you all. I see your Tweets and messages and emails defending me and my family. (Unlike Melissa and Kathy I guess, I do read Twitter!) I love how smart and sweet and loyal and fair you all are. I love that my fans like @Team_Giudice say that they love Melissa because she’s the mother of my niece and nephews even if they don’t agree with her all the time. I feel the same way! Thank you all for seeing the bigger picture, for seeing through the hypocrisy, for calling out what you know is the truth, and for being kind and classy. I know you are because I have met you all over the country and my fans are always the same: AMAZING.

I have no idea why some of my own family members said the things they did on this episode. It’s beyond hurtful. Kids are supposed to be off limits, but they talk about mine. Marriages are supposed to be off limits, but they talk about mine. As much as Melissa likes to talk to everyone about me trying to break up her marriage, I have never, ever done that and I never would. I’ve always said the opposite and I’ll say it again: I hope they stay married for a hundred years because they’re my family and parents of my niece and nephews.

Melissa knows I’ve never tried to, so instead she complains I sit and listen to people talking bad about her when she knew very well I had nothing to do with it. She claims she hears rumors about me doing things to hurt her, but when you go and talk to anyone in our town — my friends, Kim D., Melissa’s “old friends,” even Melissa’s ex-boss and ex-boyfriend — they will tell you it’s not true. I have nothing to do with digging up dirt on her. For one, I could care less about her past. For two, I am busy raising 4 daughters, writing 4 cookbooks, and running my Fabellini, Milania hair products, Skinny Italian Food, and Fabulicious dessert line! Busy!

It is interesting that this episode was filmed this winter, and this spring we all filmed with Andy Cohen for the WWHL special. Melissa was again crying that I was trying to break up her marriage (I guess I should be glad that that rumor is the only thing she can come up with about me, right?) and told Andy that you don’t mess with anyone’s marriage. That was a line she wouldn’t cross. Wow. Yet she crossed it this episode. Like ran across it with a Mack truck.

How could she sit there with a straight face and tell Andy she would never do that when she had JUST done it? I shouldn’t be surprised because I know her, but I am. I was surprised and sickened by what she said about my marriage. And she did it, trashed me and my marriage on national TV, while she was supposedly writing her own advice book about marriage?

She is very, very lucky that I’m keeping quiet about the things I do know. Let’s just say if you believe one word out of Melissa’s mouth about anything, I’m sure she has a bridge she can sell you too. God Bless you both.

I know I don’t have to defend myself about my marriage. Joe and I love each other and we have a very happy, not perfect, real marriage, just like anyone. Everyone who knows and loves me — even if you’ve just met me and Joe for five minutes — knows that. And everyone who knows and loves me are the only people that matter to me!

I arranged the retreat for everyone so we could all heal. All of us. Rosie thought it was a good idea to invite Jacqueline and Caroline because they were part of it. Jacqueline was an important part because she had been my close friend for 10 years. So when she snapped last year and decided to turn against me and hate me and say crazy things about me, some people listened because she had been my friend for so long (which is also why the betrayal hurt so badly).

We all know Melissa was desperate to prove I had something to do with the “set-up” at the fashion show so she could focus on me instead of what whoever was trying to expose about her. Again, I could care less what she did or didn’t do in the past, but it wasn’t me. And she keeps trying to beat an apology out of me. I’m sorry but I can’t apologize for something I didn’t do.

Kim D. explained very clearly to everyone a million times that Melissa was going after her business and her livelihood, so she was mad at Melissa and allowed someone Melissa used to work with to approach her. Melissa was mad at Kim, Kim was mad at Melissa. They tried to hurt each other. Kim apologized, and Melissa and my brother apologized to Kim. It should have been a done deal then, right?

Except Jacqueline got involved. Jacqueline told my brother that it really was me. And for some reason I will never understand, my only brother, my own flesh and blood, chose to believe Jacqueline over me. I know this because he told me. He told me what Jacqueline said, that he believed her, and then texted me, “You’re dead to me.” And we didn’t speak for a YEAR following that. Not over the holidays, not through the hurricane, nothing. So, yes, I blamed Jacqueline. Why wouldn’t I? She knows she was lying, she knows her words had power because she was my friend, and she told my brother anyway.

And Jacqueline, this is for you: I hate to bring this all up again, but I want people to understand how I was feeling at the time, and I want you to understand too. If I told your brother something about his wife that was dirty, and then he texted you, “You’re dead to me,” you would be upset too. I know we’ve moved past it, and I’m very happy for that. I love you and your family.

So when we got together to heal after a year of not talking, I did want Jacqueline to be there so she could look my brother in the eye and tell him I didn’t have anything to do with it.

I’ll admit, I didn’t want her there at first. I was so hurt by Jacqueline, but Rosie convinced me it was a good idea to invite Jacqueline and Caroline. So I made plans for them to be there. And they were supposedly coming. No one told me they weren’t going to come until the rest of them walked through the door. It hurt me because I was planning for it, and I really thought they could help.

And then for Kathy to suggest that Jacqueline was far too busy taking care of her sick child was too much for me. I know Jacqueline had her hands full with Nicholas, but not so much that she can’t still be involved in my life, as we all see on Twitter. I wasn’t buying that as an excuse and neither was Joe.

When Joe said that Autism won’t kill you and that scientists had it, he wasn’t being disrespectful, he was just trying to put things into perspective. Yes, Autism is a serious learning and communication condition, yes it’s a struggle, and it can be heartbreaking, but it’s not a fatal disease. Thank God! There is a huge difference between caring for a child with cancer or kidney disease and caring for a child with Autism. We have other friends, like our friends at NephCure who we see all the time, who aren’t as lucky. Kidney disease can kill you. Cancer can kill you. God willing, Nicholas will get better and grow up to have a healthy, normal life. Maybe even be a scientist! Whoever knows my husband knows he’s not malicious. Jacqueline and Chris, you know Joe would never mean anything bad about Nicholas. He has a special place in both of our hearts.

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So back to the retreat… I was really nervous especially when everyone arrived and it seemed like everyone except Rosie really didn’t want to be there. I could tell their hearts were not open and it broke mine. I wondered why they even came at all.

I thought the team builders were adorable, and they did get us trusting and laughing pretty quickly. But then it went downhill. I finally had my brother face-to-face for the first time in a year, and all I wanted to do was get him to believe me over Jacqueline. That was my “blood over water” speech, I wasn’t talking about Melissa. P.S. When I joked about ghosts in the castle and said we had a “witch” coming, I was also talking about Jacqueline, not Melissa. Not nice, I know, but I was upset, it was a joke, and Jacqueline wasn’t joking with her rants about me on Twitter… Put yourself in my shoes. I don’t think it’s the worst thing I could have said.

But every time I tried to get through to Joey, Melissa would whisper in his ear. At one point, she stepped right in front of me to contradict me and bring Joey “back to her.” It was beyond frustrating. We weren’t there talking about him and Melissa or their marriage or me and Melissa. We were supposed to be talking about me and him.

Maybe if Melissa got on her knees in front of me before this point, we wouldn’t have any of these problems! If she was only that humble normally… Needless to say, her big dramatic pose had nothing to do with being humble or serious. She only did it to make me look bad. And it did make me mad, but I held it together. In real life…

What else? I really hate when Kathy speaks about my parents because she doesn’t speak for them, and they have nothing to do with this. I don’t agree with what she said. Both of us know the true situation. Let’s leave it at that.

And I do really appreciate Rosie and her heart. She didn’t sign up for this show, she was dragged into it. It put her in the middle, and of course she has to stick up for her sister, but I appreciate that she also sticks up for our whole family.

I guess you’ll have to tune in next week to see how it all plays out.


  1. Candace
    July 16, 2013 at 2:16 PM

    That is a very genuine and warm smile. I like Juicy’s way with kids.

    • Detroitrockcity
      July 16, 2013 at 2:29 PM

      I’m going on 32 years of marriage, tomarrow! !!!! What I can’t understand is weather or not you love that person, respect your family!!! My heart hurts for Teresa and her family:( She tried, we will see I guess???? Loven Juicey!!

      • Detroitrockcity
        July 16, 2013 at 2:53 PM

        Can someone resend the pome from I think lifeisgood? The sailboat? I might have the wrong site? I helped me through some really bad days,now I need to pass it along?! If you know what I mean,that would be awsome!!Love to all 🙂

        • Sackem
          July 16, 2013 at 3:02 PM

          Hey there!!!!!!!! How’s tricks? I hope all’s good!

          • Sackem
            July 16, 2013 at 3:03 PM

            Ps you talking about the one with the person who boards the ship?

        • Jeannie5233
          July 16, 2013 at 3:05 PM

          DRC – I hope you have been alright as I know you have suffered so. I can only hope your pain has diminished slightly and I have included you in my daily prayers all this while. Here is what you are asking for:

          “Gone From My Sight”

          I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and the sky come to mingle with each other.

          Then someone at my side says: “There, she is gone!”

          “Gone where?”

          Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear the load of living freight to her destined port.

          Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says: “There, she is gone!”, there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: “Here she comes!”

          . . .Henry Van Dyke

          • July 16, 2013 at 3:34 PM


          • Detroitrockcity
            July 16, 2013 at 3:44 PM

            Thank you Jeannie! Your the best, you have the arcives imprinted in your mind! Love love love you!!:)

          • LifeIsGood
            July 16, 2013 at 4:14 PM

            I posted too quickly, Jeannie! I saw your response just as I hit “post comment”.

            • Jeannie5233
              July 16, 2013 at 4:20 PM

              Oh No-no-no!!! I am so glad you posted your version too!! You and I share a love for these because they have such beautiful meaning and so much comfort can be taken from them!!!!

          • Kimmers
            July 16, 2013 at 8:24 PM

            That is lovely, truly lovely.

          • Laram
            July 17, 2013 at 12:39 AM

            Beautiful. Stop making me cry, tho, today. Lol. Everytime I get on this site today to read and post, I get teared up for some reason with everyone’s stories. I feel for you all!!!! And thank you for letting me keep you in my thoughts and heart with prayers.

        • LifeIsGood
          July 16, 2013 at 4:09 PM

          Glad to oblige. It was written by D.H. Lawrence

          The Little Ship

          I stood watching as the little ship sailed out to sea.

          The setting sun tinted his white sails with a golden light, and as he disappeared from sight a voice at my side whispered, “He is gone”.

          But the sea was a narrow one.

          On the farther shore a little band of friends had gathered to watch and wait in happy expectation. Suddenly they caught sight of the tiny sail and, at the very moment when my companion had whispered, “He is gone” a glad shout went up in joyous welcome, “Here he comes!”

          • JUST ME P
            July 17, 2013 at 3:18 AM


          • Stefanie
            July 17, 2013 at 6:54 AM

            My Pastor read this at my husband’s funeral last year. He read it because my husband was a navy man and this how it pictured him coming into heaven.

      • Sackem
        July 16, 2013 at 3:04 PM


      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 3:10 PM

        WHOOHOO DRC!!! A well-deserved big CONGRATULATIONS to you! Hope you do something to celebrate such a special event – if not tomorrow, then another time to recognize what an accomplishment that is in this day and age!!

      • July 16, 2013 at 5:30 PM

        Congrats Detroit! That is amazing in this day and age. Guess you must have got an advance copy of Melissa’s marriage book, huh? 😀

        • Detroitrockcity
          July 16, 2013 at 8:09 PM

          Hahaha Princess!! Sorry,had to buy toilet paper, we were fresh out!! Maybe next time ((Never))!! 😉

      • July 16, 2013 at 6:54 PM

        Congratulations to you and your husband.

      • agatha
        July 16, 2013 at 6:55 PM

        Happy anniversary!!!

      • July 16, 2013 at 7:53 PM

        Happy Anniversary @Detroitrockcity. 25 years myself. Hope you have many more.
        I am lovin Juicy myself..

      • July 16, 2013 at 7:56 PM

        Congratulations and happy anniversary, Detroitrockcity!

        • Detroitrockcity
          July 16, 2013 at 8:49 PM

          Thanks Fame, your site is my fav get away!! You Rock! :)!!!

          • July 17, 2013 at 11:08 AM

            You’re welcome, Detroitrockcity. WordPress holds your comments in moderation because you don’t provide an e-mail address. If you provide one – it doesn’t have to be real – your next comments after I approve the one with the e-mail address should automatically post. Also, you have a comment in moderation right now that gives a link to where you can watch the episodes online, but if I approve it, TPTB will probably shut it down, so I think we’ll let that remain your secret.

      • JUST ME P
        July 17, 2013 at 3:25 AM



    • July 16, 2013 at 3:28 PM

      It is refreshing to see.

  2. Anoneemouse
    July 16, 2013 at 2:45 PM

    Would much rather have Juicy as a Father (who is a “hands on” Dad) than Gorgamonster whose hands are only on his wife.

    • July 16, 2013 at 3:07 PM

      Or on his crotch.

      • Anoneemouse
        July 16, 2013 at 3:59 PM

        Haha! Or in Juicy’s crotch!

  3. Sackem
    July 16, 2013 at 2:49 PM

    That is a brilliant blog. That family is broken. How the rest of them can be blind to Melissa is beyond me, I guess fame and fortune is a funny thing. Cookbooks and sprinkle cookies.

    I think Teresa nailed it. I appreciate her telling us how it is. Maybe Jac was to far into a lie to remain sane.

    430am Feed. A bit bleary eyed.

    • Detroitrockcity
      July 16, 2013 at 2:56 PM

      I think they should invest in fortune cookies,?Hit or miss;)

      • Detroitrockcity
        July 16, 2013 at 3:23 PM

        Hey Sackem! Bet she’s getting big! Hope you all are well! Just sent mine of to camp upnorth^^ 🙂 😦 ?!? 3 weeks!? I think I’ll be ok??: )

        • July 16, 2013 at 6:16 PM

          5 months and almost 6 kg – I got a petite one with a huge personality! Now I understand as a mum that 3 weeks is a LONG time!!! Come hang with us!!!

          • Detroitrockcity
            July 16, 2013 at 7:47 PM

            Im always here even if I don’t comment,Im laughing, crying,yelling,screaming,but mostly praying with all of my (((Fame-ily))!!! Makes my days alot more pleasureable! 🙂

            • Sackem
              July 16, 2013 at 10:02 PM

              That’s awesome!

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM

      On the Bravo blogs, someone commented about Jacko missing the Season 3 reunion and how she always uses the excuse of being over emotional as a reason to not show up and it got me thinking…

      Jacko’s reason for not going to the retreat had nothing to do with not wanting to be a distraction or needing to spend time with her son (which she does need to do). It was because she didn’t want to be called out about her real involvement in strippergate.

      She missed the S3 reunion because she didn’t want to be called out about her tagteam confrontation with Teresa on her deck.

      It seems she always manages to make herself unavailable when there’s the potential of being confronted in her involvement in the shit-storm.

      Nice little avoidance technique.

      • Kimmers
        July 16, 2013 at 8:38 PM

        rfeliciat, I think you hit the nail on the head. She does conveniently extricate herself when she could potentially be in the hot seat. She is a coward and the Queen of deflection. Funny because it is what she accuses Teresa of.

        • haddasah4
          July 16, 2013 at 9:06 PM

          What would motivate Jax to tell such a hurtful and damning lie for Teresa? I am not saying Jax didn’t do it, but I wonder if she is capable of being THAT EVIL.

          A theory I have: What if the rogue producer lied to Jax and texted her Teresa did it? Don’t producers manipulate facts to create drama? Isn’t that Kat producer a snake who got fired?

          Maybe the truth falls in the middle….On the stripergate episode, Jax said “my friend texted me saying you were at the salon with the guy earlier that day……”. Maybe the producer confirmed that Tre was at the salon with him, and then Jax (being an emotional idiot) jumped to the conclusion Tre had a hand in it??? Of corse we all know Tre stuck up for Melissa at the salon and did not know bald guy was gonna be at the fashion show.

          Eitherway, Teresa is rightfully upset at Jax for not “keeping her mouth shut” and rightfully mad at her brother for believing Jax over her.

          • July 16, 2013 at 9:56 PM

            I think that is probably exactly what happened…either a producer (which I think is exactly who it was or Jac would have named names already) or a “friend” as Jac said. Thing is, after 10 years of friendship, you would think she would have, at the very least, talked to Teresa or investigated further before opening her damned mouth. She knew, just as everyone else did, that it was set up drama and that production HAD to have a big hand in it all. That is the thing…like with this Jan / Penny / Teresa / Kim D. / Jennifer thing…they could all be telling the truth as they experienced it. No one knows exactly what the producers said to each of the others in order to set that scene up. And that’s all good and dandy for everyone else to pull the editing card but they can’t see that, JUST MAYBE, a lot of this crap Teresa is blamed for is editing as well? Whatever… I get so pissed off just even thinking about it. Maybe I DO need to get a life 😀

            • LifeIsGood
              July 17, 2013 at 6:49 AM

              I’ve always thought that the producer sent those texts to Jax – the timing of their arrival is too convenient. At the time, Jax was really annoyed with teresa. Combined with the BS being fed to her by Melissa and the producer – once she got the text she ran with it. The producer told her what she wanted to believe.

              I understand that their agreements with Bravo would prevent Jax from confirming this publically. But it would be nice if she owns up to it privately to T.

          • July 17, 2013 at 2:27 AM

            You know if you look back, it wouldn’t be the first time Jac heard something second-hand, jumped to conclusions and caused a lot of pain because of it. Remember the Danielle book, table-flipping show when Dina asked Jac about the showing of the book because Dina knew she hadn’t done it? Jac flipped out, turned on Dina saying she showed the book around town etc. Come to find out at the first reunion, Jac wasn’t even there and admitted she had gotten her facts wrong. Deja vus. You think this woman-child would learn.

            I hope, after all Teresa has been through, her and Juicy’s businesses just get more and more successful. I hope, if she wants her own show, she gets it on another network after her Bravo one is up. Maybe on E! and make sure she and Juicy have Exec Prod credit so they can control it. Really have zero respect for Andy Cohen.

          • Dianna
            July 17, 2013 at 10:59 AM

            This is why Jac owes Teresa an apology…
            When Jacs walks outside the posche fashion show this is what she says “ you know what I heard them earlier and I heard him say something like I’m gonna try and embarrass her or something like that. You know what this was a set up. (M responds) J- No I think it was a set up. (M responds). J- that’s what I’m saying well I think that she’s the 1 that set it up I’m kinda annoyed at her right now. Because I heard something earlier. Etc.

            I’ve been posting this on bravo or versions of it. Jac flat out LIED

      • Sackem
        July 16, 2013 at 10:04 PM

        Good point! Emotionally unstable and physically unavailable.

      • Laram
        July 17, 2013 at 12:46 AM

        Yep, it is @Deroit. Hang in there @sackem. I’m now trying to stunt my 16 yr old daughter’s growth w going to University. Just Kidding. I’m so proud of her and the little woman she has become. I didn’t get it when they grow so fast, until age 12 hits. Whoa! Again, I am treasuring every day of 16-18 before college. Guess it never stops!!

        • Laram
          July 17, 2013 at 12:48 AM

          Why did this post of mine post here? I was posting to @Detroit and @Sackem? Sorry, folks, and Celi!

          • Laram
            July 17, 2013 at 12:49 AM

            I rhink it is me, and my dying iPhone. :-).

        • JUST ME P
          July 17, 2013 at 3:42 AM


      • Olivia
        July 17, 2013 at 1:20 AM

        I think Jaq was in on making it seem like Tre set up Melissa. The Bravo producer at the time Cat Rodriguez was the “friend” that was texting her, I would not be surprised if they planned the whole thing and Jaq’s part was to tell Joe Gorga it was Tre’s doing. She didn’t show up tothe reunion because she felt like she may have been called out on it. I mean if they set Tre up, they could do the same thing to her. So she ran hid like the coward she is. It also makes since why she wasn’t fired for refusing to show up. If Cat Rod asked her to say it and Bravo fired her she could do damage by going public with the info and proving they “script” the show. Even though we all know it. I mean why else would they not fire her? She isn’t instrumental to the show. He story lines revolve around her kids, and Tre. She’s boring, she sits at home with a glass of wine her hand and wines to husband about other people’s business. She doesn’t have a fan base like Tre has or Dina did. That’s just my theory as to why Bravo treats Jaq with kid gloves.

        Just wanted to say I love Tre’s blog this week. She told the truth and showed love to her fans. Melissa could learn a lesson from her. I really do hope that Tre finally snaps and tells what she knows on Melissa. She just needs to cut her brother loose. My SIL came between my brother and I I hadn’t spoken to him in nearly 6 years, but i realized that sharing bloodlines doesn’t have to keep me in a toxic relationship with someone. Joe Gorga is out to hurt Tre, not only emotionally but financially. Which would not only hurt Tre but her children (his nieces) and thier parents as well as I am sure Tre helps her parents financially. They probably don’t need it but she loves them so much that she does it anyway. I think if the fan outcry is loud enough Bravo will get rid of the Gorga’s they are not only a liability to the network because of their violent acts towards others, but ratings are going down faster than Melissa on her Ex Boyfriend.
        This is my first post here! I usually lurk, but the hypocrisy, lies & outright lies by the Gorga’s made me feel the need to post.

        So Hi there Melissa, I know you read this blog just wanted to let you know: you look like you should be running in the Kentucky Derby with your long horse face instead of awkwardly gyrating on stage while lip syncing horribly written and produced music trying to be a pop star. Stop embarrassing yourself and your children they are innocent and didn’t ask for jizzrag of a mother like you. Your husband is in love with his sister. He is gross and vile. You copy Tre’s looks and way of dress because you know your husband fantasizes about her like the deranged lunatic that he his. Enjoy this so called fame you stepped on your families for while you have it, it won’t last long and not soon enough you both will heading straight to hell in a pair of gasoline panties.

        • Olivia
          July 17, 2013 at 1:37 AM

          Pardon the typos*

        • Rahima Noor
          July 17, 2013 at 2:33 AM

          This is my first time posting after about 12 months of lurking but I must say loved your post!!

        • Cee_See
          July 17, 2013 at 5:22 AM

          Hi Olivia! I like the word ‘jizzrag’ you used! Melissa’s actions seem to be bringing out a lot more people against her vs. for her! I’m glad Teresa “warned” Melissa about the things she does know about Melissa! After the way Melissa has been treating Teresa I would say that Melissa has it coming if Teresa FINALLY flips out on her! I wouldn’t hold it against Teresa because she’s a bigger person than I could ever be! If I were Teresa I would have exposed that skank along time ago! I always felt that one reason why Teresa puts up with her brother and SIL’s vile treatment is to help them out financially. They are the parents of her neice and nephew’s and I’m sure Tre knows that without her they would have no storyline. Therefore, they wouldn’t be on the show making some much needed cash to pay for there phony lifestyle! That’s just my opinion why Tre puts up with her roid raged brother and his shore whore of a wife! Tre is just helping out her little brother but it has hurt her parent’s tremendously and now she’s sick of it!

          Olivia, I like your open letter to Melissa and her singing career! My guess is the few fans she does have are the ones filling her head with thoughts of being the next JLo! Keep embarrassing yourself, Melissa, and next time take all your kids to Disney World and Universal! That just ticks me off how you don’t have birthday parties for your kids! Yet, you make sure you have a party! What a selfish mother you are and Joey is ok with that? Something tells me that his birthday was celebrated with a party when he was younger. Why he is ok with his kids not having b.day parties but his skank wife having ’em says a lot about their family dynamics! If I were a kid I’d rather have Tre & Juicy as my parents vs. Tre’s younger brother and his skanky wife!

  4. Sackem
    July 16, 2013 at 3:00 PM

    Celi- much love to you and your family. The courage and strength you have is just so amazing. I hope justice is delivered – in both the courts and the jailhouse. You will forever be in my thought! Xx

    Ps posted this on the previous thread to Celi. I just wanted to make sure you knew you have my support. You’re an amazing woman and I will send one up for you and yours.

    • July 16, 2013 at 4:25 PM


      • July 16, 2013 at 5:35 PM

        Celi, there are other messages for you on the previous thread as well. Please know that you have a lot of people thinking of you!

        • July 16, 2013 at 7:11 PM


      • TiaGia
        July 16, 2013 at 6:55 PM

        Celi, praying for you and yours. Psalm 91 & Nahum 1:7. Much love and prayers, Gina

        • July 16, 2013 at 7:13 PM


      • July 16, 2013 at 7:19 PM

        Left you a message on the previous blog. My heart goes out to you and your family. With God’s grace you and yours will remain strong. As I stated before, you and your family are always in my prayers.

      • Laram
        July 17, 2013 at 12:52 AM

        Celi–posted on other thread as well, can’t get you and your gdaughter out of my head. I cried telling my husband about it, and felt like I knew you. He reminded me of praying for the angels that protect you and her, which was nice bc he didn’t know what I had posted and he and I raised differently.

        God Speed, our Celi!

        • July 17, 2013 at 10:31 AM

          thank you ms laram n your husband ,soooooo kind of you 2

  5. JerseyStrong
    July 16, 2013 at 3:02 PM

    I LOVEEEEEEE that Teresa is finally putting it out there like it is. No more is she standing by the wasteside, they can dish it on national TV she can give it in her blog. I am so happy the Gorga’s are starting to get a bad edit… though not enough of one to truly show them and their darkness. This is making Teresa in my opinion vindicated for whatever she was accused of because as the footage shows they said everything and more. If it keeps going like this with the edit Missy’s sister will have to threaten bravo again.

    I love the photo of Juicy with the baby, that’s the same look my dad gets when he sees my niece. He is so happy to be near that child and loves her. I see that look he has with his children too, he just loves those 4 guidice girls more than life.

    Sorry if my sentence structure was incoherent I got so excited about the post I was mashing at the keys like a rabid squirrel.

    • Laram
      July 17, 2013 at 12:55 AM

      Yeppers @Jersey Strong, I agree! Teresa deserves vindication more than any housewife on any franchise! That’s why we are here! :-)!

  6. Bissy
    July 16, 2013 at 3:04 PM

    Everytime I watch this show, seeing T, Joe and the kids together always put a smile on my face and in my heart (most of the time they make me laugh out loud). Just loved the monters scene, you can tell they play that allot.. so cute 🙂 . I always want to see more, cause their household is real. The kids run around, make noise and mom & dad doing what parents do best. BE parents. As for the other families on the show, I always fast forward past them. Don’t find them interesting at all. I usually don’t watch any scene with Carolyn in it, but was hoping the scene with Carolyn and Albert would have been cute to watch “NOT”. It seemed forced and I didn’t feel a connection at all, for the rest of the cast same thing. Everything seemed so forced and the focus on T to much. So sad.. 😦

    • Candace
      July 16, 2013 at 4:48 PM

      Juicy is a sweet, loving dad. I really like the photo at the top….a true smile, even for someone else’s child.

      • Laram
        July 17, 2013 at 12:57 AM

        So cute!! @Candace!

  7. Jeannie5233
    July 16, 2013 at 3:07 PM

    So Josephine tweets his sister-in-law Lysa birthday wishes on June 8th. On May 18th, Teresa celebrated her 41st birthday. On Josephine’s TL on May 18 there is. . .”crickets”.

    Oh yeah, he’s all about “loyalty” and “family” all right! How disgusting Josephine and his wife are. This tweet says it all to me – he publicly pronounces his love for Lysa and calls her “my love”. Lysa answers with her own knife: “I love you like your my own”. How that must have hurt Teresa when her own brother didn’t even acknowledge her birthday; let alone tell her he loves her.

    It is clear Josephine identifies himself as a Marco. No matter how much Teresa wants reconciliation, she is not going to get it and she is going to get burned big time. My heart breaks for her.

    • Go scratch groupie
      July 16, 2013 at 5:08 PM

      IMHO Joe Gorga is jealous of T & Juicy. He is the big man in the Marco family because he & Mel have a bigger house and live a more extravagant lifestyle. Which he cannot compete with T & Juicy in that way ( never could) so he became more jealous and perceives any success Teresa has as a slight to his ego. What a sad little man with his house of cards. He will never be a good brother to her. Sorry T but it is what it is ~ pls tell him and his lowlife wife to go scratch and be done with it.

      • July 17, 2013 at 7:12 AM

        I agree that Teresa’s brother gets the attention he craves from the Marco family. He also knows he is hurting Teresa buy collecting other women who will be the the sister he never had – yada yada.

        When Teresa is satisfied that she has done everything within her power to make peace and now it is time to put all of her energy into her husband, children, and others who enjoy being in her life, she will let go of her brother and have peace about it.

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:05 PM

      This entire gang had multiple opportunities to spend quality time together since they are all in this “good place”. In my opinion, Teresa has walked away, AGAIN! I believe this time for good. She is only being a good employee and playing along for Bravo.

      When I read your last paragraph, I answered, “Of course he sees himself as a Marco, because he is a nasty, ugly, mean girl on the inside”.

      • July 16, 2013 at 8:12 PM

        I agree Moma…she seems over it. Hopefully. The comments toward Jac in her blog make me a little nervous (I can’t remember now if she expressed love towards Jac or Jac’s family though). I hope to hell she isn’t trusting that woman. Someone commented on the Bravo site that if she insists on having Jac in her life it should be a surface relationship…fun and cordial only, nothing deeper. I agree and the same for her brother and sis-in-law. If she insists…

        • Silvana
          July 16, 2013 at 9:15 PM

          Well you know what they say keep your friends close and your enemies closer maybe that is what Teresa is doing with Jac. Hell I know I do that with certain “friends” in my life people I am stuck with.

          • July 16, 2013 at 9:49 PM

            Silvana, I only hope that is her mindset with Jac. Teresa seems so naive when it comes to friends and trusting so easily..

            • Silvana
              July 17, 2013 at 9:39 AM

              Hey what bout his statement bout his burning sensation think he better get to the dr’s quick I think his shore whore gave him VD:-)

    • Laram
      July 17, 2013 at 12:59 AM

      @Jeannie, sometimes I wonder if they text each other, and twitter is part of Bravo rules of not-so-contract. I agree, but I have been a Polly-Ana in past. I just wonder of he called her or texted her, and Teresa isn’t one to brag about it on Twitter?!

      • Jeannie5233
        July 17, 2013 at 11:46 AM

        I’m sure they text each other but I would bet dollars to donuts he never acknowledged her birthday. And, knowing that they are supposed to be putting on a good front they are in such a great place that would have been the perfect opportunity to publicly “show some love” to his own sister. He has no problem doing it with his SIL .

        Lara – you are just not as cynical as I can be at times – 🙂

  8. Sharshar
    July 16, 2013 at 4:00 PM

    Teresa’s blog is up and I must say it is honestly the best blog of her’s I have read in a long time. She calls out Melissa on so many things! If Andy skips over the hypocrisy in the show at this reunion than I just quit. I have so much respect for Teresa, she is a hero for people going through similar situations. And I think we can all relate at some point with not getting along with an in-law. She really impresses me, that despite all the mud being thrown she never stoops to their level. She gives her fans a heroine they can be proud of. That’s why I will always be Team Teresa.

    • July 16, 2013 at 5:46 PM

      Does anyone think Andy will have the balls to go full out on the rest of them like he has Teresa in the past? I almost think he HAS to but then again, nothing surprises me with him any more.

      • Anonymous
        July 16, 2013 at 6:49 PM

        Knowing him, doubtful. He’s so biased and he can’t stand juicy for the “gay” slurs.

        • July 16, 2013 at 8:04 PM

          See reply to Moma below…

      • July 16, 2013 at 7:07 PM

        No way. It will be another Teresa bashing session. Andy appears to be even more jealous of Teresa than Josephine and Missy.

        • July 16, 2013 at 8:08 PM

          But he almost HAS to don’t you think? In order to at least have the appearance of being unbiased? Does the network have ANY say in the reunion discussions? I don’t know how all that works. Hopefully if Andy doesn’t discuss it, Teresa can get some words in about some of it on her own and that it won’t end up on the cutting room floor. I’d love to see the unedited footage from all these things.

          • Laram
            July 17, 2013 at 1:02 AM

            I get you, @Princessvodka, and hope so, as well. Again, their contracts are all up 2015, so maybe? He would be smart, to do so!

            • Laram
              July 17, 2013 at 1:03 AM

              Or is it 2014, with contracts? So confused. I think it’s next year.

              • July 17, 2013 at 6:19 AM

                I have NO IDEA about when the contracts end. I was hoping after this season, but I have no idea. Jeannie????

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:44 PM

      What kills me is that Mel fans are still slinging mud. They bitched last week that Teresa didn’t address the episode (which she did, succinctly) and were pissed that she spent the last 3 or 4 pages posting recipes. This week, she addressed every facet of the current episode and they’re still not satisfied!

      • haddasah4
        July 16, 2013 at 9:10 PM

        Melissa has fans?

        • Sharshar
          July 16, 2013 at 9:19 PM

          ^^^RIGHT! When will they stop drinking the Kool-Aide and get real already! Melissa can’t keep her story straight from one talking head interview to the next. Princessvodka Andy should acknowledge the hypocrisy of it all but he won’t because he has too much pride. You think he would do whatever it took to keep Teresa on the show and happy since she is carrying the franchise really.

          • July 16, 2013 at 9:45 PM

            I hope you’re wrong Sharshar. I just don’t see how he CAN’T and be perceived as having any integrity at all. If he doesn’t then he truly has no balls.

        • JUST ME P
          July 17, 2013 at 4:04 AM


          • July 17, 2013 at 7:26 AM

            Also, their are people online who use it for a playground to mess with people. They go somewhere there is a hot topic or majority of people who stand for something and make a comment to attract responses. They have no interest in the topic, just interested in how many responses they get.

  9. Kiwi
    July 16, 2013 at 4:05 PM

    Hi Everyone! This is my first time commenting though I always have my daily fix of famewhorgas 🙂 I love this blog.. I honestly dislike Melissa.. She’s the one that wants to wear Tre like last years Versace just like Dina’s comment about Danielle in season 1… By the way, what the heck is up with those cheekbones, she looks odd.. Yikes!!!!

    • July 16, 2013 at 6:07 PM

      Kia ora my fellow antipodean!

      • Laram
        July 17, 2013 at 1:05 AM

        Lol. Welcome Kiwi. We love Aussie’s sense of humor!! All of you!

        • Laram
          July 17, 2013 at 1:07 AM

          And your reality driven perceptions! At least I do! Some of my BFF that I met later in life are either Austrailians or Canadians.

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:46 PM

      It seems the last coupla episodes, her voice is sounding closer to Teresa’s than her own. She’s quite the mimic.

      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 8:03 PM

        When she mimics Teresa she sounds just like her – she actually does a good job! – and you are right – I’ve noticed it too that she is talking more and more like Teresa. Kind of weird, I think!

        • Laram
          July 17, 2013 at 1:08 AM

          Sociopaths or BP’s do that, tho.

    • Kiwi
      July 17, 2013 at 9:20 AM

      Thanks for the Welcome guys. I am not Australian :).. I just love the fruit and it’s my pug’s name too :).. I am a Dominican from Miami 🙂

  10. marcy
    July 16, 2013 at 4:46 PM

    I HATE THE BRAVO SITE AND I TOLD THEM SO…This is another failure at posting my comment.. I ask you all please explain why my comment is censored. And I’ve see with my own eyes how the LIKE box changes, they subtract positive Teresa stuff, but not the negative…OK this what I wrote…(AS usual you rocked with this blog. It’s going to break my heart to see you cry next week, don’t know if I can watch. I wish I could reach out and give you the biggest HUG!!! Stay strong and Love,Love, Love Your beautiful daughter’s that’s the only thing that matters…) What’s wrong with that? very confused and that’s how I found FAME WHORGAS

    • Debbie J
      July 16, 2013 at 5:01 PM

      Marcy – they don’t let me publish either all I said was for her to keep her head held high and how beautiful her family is. And nope they wont add my comments either.

      • Laram
        July 16, 2013 at 9:41 PM

        Ugh!!!! So sick of the Wizard of Oz at Bravo! What the hell is their problem?

        • Laram
          July 16, 2013 at 9:43 PM

          Note to self…never be a HW or belebrity for Bravo. Oh, that’s right, they wouldn’t ask me. Wrong city and bra cup. :-)!

          • Jeannie5233
            July 16, 2013 at 10:07 PM


      • July 17, 2013 at 2:46 AM

        Me neither. I had never posted anything, anywhere about any housewife show but I did this morning on Teresa’s Bravo blog but it never posted. Strange. Oh well. This sight is great. I didn’t know about it before and I have learned quite a lot with facts to back it up about Melissa and little Joey.

        Poor, poor Teresa. Everything she was warning her “friends” about regarding Melissa are all proving to be true. How sad for Teresa and her parents. Such a nice, traditional, loving family and they get stuck with a low-class, disrespectful, jughead for a son and brother.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 5:08 PM

      marcy – don’t feel too bad. You are amongst GOOD company who have either been banned (me), censored or edited. And what is Bravo’s loss is FW’s gain!! 🙂

      • Laram
        July 16, 2013 at 9:43 PM

        Yep, that’s true.

    • July 16, 2013 at 6:04 PM

      Hey Marcy! Same with me! Nothing wrong with that post. Bravo wouldn’t post any of my comments so I eventually gave up and you know what, most of the cast read here! Ha!

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:10 PM

      After all the trouble I had with the Bravo site yesterday, I read Teresa’s blog here. How are the comments going?

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:47 PM

      I just noticed the last 2 days that while I can see my posts as long as I’m logged, when I log out, my posts disappear!

      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 7:53 PM

        Same with me rfeliciat!!! That means you are banned!!!! And any posts you made before you were banned no longer exist.

        So I say Congratulations to you because that means you spoke truth and they don’t!!

        • July 16, 2013 at 9:52 PM

          Hahahaha! Damn! I did speak the truth and to think I did it diplomatically over there!

          Ah well…glad to know I was making enough of a difference to be banned 😉

          Thanks Jeannie!

          • Laram
            July 17, 2013 at 1:11 AM

            I have had one comment out of several make it, and it was stupid, like “lol, love it”. All else were not shown. At first I thought it was lottery driven, until ingot the hint! :-).

            • corky21
              July 17, 2013 at 8:27 AM

              Hah I posted several on Melissa’s blog in answer to the delusional fans, and not one made it in.

              • nuttyz
                July 17, 2013 at 10:01 AM

                Most of my comments are making through now…however there are some in between that don’t approve if I didn’t say anything offensive. I don’t know if they just go at random approving/rejecting comments or what but it sure is frustrating.

    • Silvana
      July 16, 2013 at 9:21 PM

      Marcy I ad same prob and I was the 1st to post on Caroline’s blog!!! There are other negative comments on there but they have not put mine up and it wasn’t all that bad I just asked why she didn’t comment on joe Gorgas attitude at the retreat the fight and to look at getting help for wacky jacky nothing bad. I’m posting from Australia don’t know if that is a problem!

      • July 16, 2013 at 9:46 PM

        They really don’t care where you post from. Bottom line is you have a bunch of YOUNG interns making decisions about what gets through moderation and how they edit those posts to meet the Bravo-Andy directive.

  11. maria
    July 16, 2013 at 5:25 PM

    Watched all seasons until 4, am part NJ Italian-American so the atmosphere and vibe is familiar to me, although MUCH exaggerated … probably the only time I’ll comment. I came across this site because of the icky feeling I started getting during Season 3. We are intense and dramatic, yes, but the acrimony and maliciousness on the show is sickening to me.

    1) I wish for peace for EVERYONE before it’s too late. Even if “optimal distance” needs to be maintained – Respect! Just buried my Father and am so thankful my (very different) siblings and I were a united, loving presence for him as he passed away. 2) I see evidence of (perhaps?) wonderful support and possibly sisterly influence of Dina in Teresa’s attitude, although they are obviously different personalities, and 3) The legacy to their children – is of concern.

    Not to mention the legacy of Cohen and company.

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:51 PM

      I have to admit, I got through maybe the first 3 episodes of Season 4 before I stopped watching, and the reunion? Forget it! 10 minutes into part 1 and I couldn’t finish watching. I only know what I know about how S4 turned out from reading here. But I’ve tuned into this season in the hopes that Tre is vindicated. The jury’s still out.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 9:47 PM

      maria – First, I want to extend my condolences to you on the passing of your father. I am glad for you that you and your siblings were able to experience closeness and togetherness during an extremely difficult time.

      Second, I am glad you did comment and I hope you continue to do so.

    • July 16, 2013 at 9:51 PM

      maria, how beautiful that your father had all his children united together and with him as he passed. I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • Laram
      July 17, 2013 at 1:14 AM

      Maria, so beautiful. Touching story. Please visit here more often if you feel like it.

      Yes, life is way too short to be bafoons with loved ones! Especially parents, siblings and children.

    • July 17, 2013 at 6:49 AM

      Sorry for your loss. You speak words of wisdom. Life is short.

  12. July 16, 2013 at 5:33 PM

    I’ve been lurking on this site for a long time and I just wanted to say thanks to Fame and everyone for getting Teresa’s truth out there. RHONJ is one of the few shows that I watch with my mother. For her 71st birthday I purchased tickets for her (along with my best friend) to meet Teresa at a charity/fundraiser. I paid more for a “special” meet and greet with a limited number of people because it was for my mom and she really likes Goofy Teresa!

    Meanwhile, this was when Tre was getting the “bad edit” and I was so scared that my mom was going to end up hating her before the event . Thankfully I found this site and I was able tell my mom the behind-the-scenes stuff that was happening so she knew Teresa was not the bad guy. Whew!

    Guys, I know this is a Wall O’ Words but I just want to share how much fun we had with the Teresa/Event. My friend flew up from AL (to Pittsburgh) and we had a dinner party using only recipes from Teresa’s cookbooks (OMG, SO FREAKING GOOD). Dessert was her Cannoli Cupcakes and my cousin from Erie, Pa was able to find Blk Water (um, I can’t even describe how awful it is, no lie). Sadly, we could not locate Fabellini.

    On the day of the event my mother, who is not anywhere close to lady-like or fancy, went to a salon and had her hair done. We figured out an outfit and she even wore a necklace! My mother spent years working at a gas station with my father. The whole transformation was shocking and wonderful. We all went to the event and they gave them their VIP passes (which my mother still has as a keepsake). Teresa was a few minutes late, but according to my mother and my friend – It didn’t matter because SHE IS THE SHITS!!!! I have never seen two people so freaking excited and over-the-moon about a celebrity in my life. My husband and I just grinned at each other because those two could not shut up about Teresa and how wonderful she is. Teresa said this…Teresa said…You would think Teresa was their new best friend. It was the absolute best birthday present ever.

    One very important thing: Teresa was asked about the Melissa/Joe/Kathy situation and had the opportunity to say anything she wanted…she did not say one bad thing even though she was being whomped on by everyone! The only thing she said when questioned was, “You know how it can be with family. Sometimes it’s really hard.” Nothing trashy, rude, etc. She talked about the girls, Juicy (who couldn’t come with her because he was home with the girls), how her dad was back in the hospital, how she was leaving that night (from Pittsburgh) to drive back home for a special thing she wasn’t allowed to talk about (Celebrity Apprentice). She was not at all “awkward” as she sometimes appears to be on television (when dealing with fools). My mom and friend had the best time and now Teresa can do no wrong. You can’t believe what I’m going through when having to watch the show with my mother now. She is fed up with those idiots and I’m the one that has to hear all about it.

    So yeah, this is my wordy way of saying a very heartfelt thank you to Fame and everyone who kept digging for details and posting the good about Teresa. Without that information I’m sure my mother would have had an entirely different experience that night.

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:55 PM

      That’s so cool! 🙂

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 7:57 PM

      Nance – I Loved, Loved, Loved this post!!!! Thank you for sharing – 🙂

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:59 PM

      Nance … welcome to the Fame-bily! So glad that you shared this wonderful story with us and am so glad that your mom got the VIP experience! It’s fan experiences like this that make Tre — Super T! She has the it factor and recognizes and loves all fans of the show.

      I hope you keep you posting as we love opinions and stories. I do have to admit this did bring a tear to my eye!

      • July 17, 2013 at 9:00 AM

        Thank you! I had no idea how these celebrity signings work, etc. and I know my mom is just not the type to even do this kind of thing. It was amazing how much my mom enjoyed herself and I fully credit Teresa for the great experience.

        I also have to admit that my mom and best friend were so enamored with her that when a radio station posted pictures of Teresa at the event, my two knuckleheads were in 80% of them. So embarrassing how dorky they were. Hee!

        • nuttyz
          July 17, 2013 at 10:06 AM

          Haha that is so cute…love that you shared the story here. I’m glad they had a great time.

    • Miss Alicat
      July 16, 2013 at 8:08 PM

      That is so awesome. I wanted to go to her signing by me a few months ago, but it was a zoo!!! (and she sold out of the books that were there).

      I posted the other day that Don Caro did a signing at the same place, and the booker (who we actually know, so this is not hearsay), said that maybe 50 people showed up, and less than 30 paid for the book to get her autograph. Reality check!

      • July 16, 2013 at 8:54 PM

        Tre sold out in Houston and SF! WTG. The girl works it! She gets the fans, the others never grasped that concept.

    • July 16, 2013 at 8:49 PM

      Wow, sounds like a really enjoyable birthday for your mother and everyone. Welcome and please post more.

    • Laram
      July 16, 2013 at 9:26 PM

      Love this story, thank you @Nance, and welcome aboard the wonderful site that @Fame created.

    • Nameless
      July 17, 2013 at 12:22 AM

      Ha Nance! I’m from Erie (Harborcreek) and have a cousin in Pittsburgh! I’m glad Teresa is so classy in person. How jealous must Andy be that Teresa is more popular than he is?

      • July 17, 2013 at 8:54 AM

        Andy could never get the draw that Teresa does – this is why I “KNOW” that the polls and comments on Bravo have got to be rigged. So many haters and yet she’s getting her hustle on and people are buying. NO WAY – They wouldn’t offer her writing contracts, wine contracts and hair-care deals, etc., if she wasn’t going to produce.

        And also, Go Steelers! Heh.

    • charok
      July 17, 2013 at 11:16 AM

      thanks for sharing this story! how neat 🙂

  13. GonadGobbler
    July 16, 2013 at 6:54 PM

    OMG SO MUCH SHADE!!! also she confirmed what we have been saying all along– she knows tons of awful sh*t about Melissa but refuses to cross that line. Sigh. Too bad Melissa doesn’t mind running over that line!

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:11 PM

      I think Teresa is holding back for the sake of her parents.

  14. Kara1975
    July 16, 2013 at 7:27 PM

    The bravo site just makes me mad with all the comments on there that are of course mostly bad. It really is bs. I wish Tre could get what she wants and have a decent relationship with her brother but it is pretty obvious skanky mel will never let that happen unless there is something in it for her. I have been with my hubby for 12 years and his family can drive me to the brink of madness and really has done some very wrong things but I ignore it and bite my tounge almost to the point of biting it off for my hubby and my kids. They will always be his family even if I don’t like it. I deal with and to me if you love someone you do that for them.

  15. July 16, 2013 at 7:40 PM

    I was flipping through the Bravo photos of Teresa and Juicy back in the day. They included some photos of TSIL and her brother. They all seemed happy together. I just wonder at what point did all the bullshit start, to change the dynamic of their relationship? It’s just unbelievable to me what we’ve been watching play out over the last 2-1/2 years with this group. Sad really.

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:57 PM

      In my opinion it started when Teresa got on the show. I believe Missy was able to keep up to an extent with Teresa. Their first home was stately and beautiful, Juicy taught the monkey how to flip properties, etc. When Teresa got on the show, started the red carpets, the photo shoots, the fans, etc. I believe this is when Missy and the little mean monkey flipped. Their jealously took control.

      • July 16, 2013 at 9:42 PM

        Yes … the Marco jealously and Kat as well.

        • haddasah4
          July 16, 2013 at 10:11 PM

          God forbid TSIL and Cousin just be happy and supportive of their relative when she reached success…No, no, they had to be greedy, jealous and backstabbing.

          Tre will always have the moral high-ground because she never broke family honor.

  16. July 16, 2013 at 7:45 PM

    The Marco fans are out on Tre’s blog … lots of positives too. I’m responding to every negative just because and we will see what floats through.

    • Debbie J
      July 16, 2013 at 8:28 PM

      I did the same thing

    • nuttyz
      July 17, 2013 at 10:11 AM

      I have been doing that too, so far most of them made it through…surprisingly.

      I understand people have their favorites and that’s okay but the things some of the Melissa fans say are just so baffling. I don’t know whether to laugh or hit my head against the wall. lol

      Fans keep posting how “all Melissa wants is an apology for Teresa bashing her behind her back and then they can move forward” Umm really? How do people ignore the fact that Melissa has been talking crap about Teresa since day 1 is beyond me!

  17. Terri Wedepohl
    July 16, 2013 at 7:46 PM

    Love your Blog!
    Just a Comment.. I believe the CORRECT spelling is GIUDICE vs Guidice

    • July 16, 2013 at 7:54 PM

      Oops, I didn’t notice the typo. Thanks for catching it! I fixed it in the title.

  18. BUG
    July 16, 2013 at 8:59 PM

    Hello everyone!
    I am a huge Teresa fan. My mouth has been hanging open since the first episode when Joe called his sister garbage!!! I swear I have TMJ from watching this show! I commented back and forth with The Marcos on Melissas blog last year until my voice was silenced by Bravo. If I am frustrated by the control and unfair games Bravo my comments, I couldn’t even imagine how Teresa must feel being locked into a 5 year contract with them!
    Thank God for Fame Whorgas. I have been silently watching and cheering you ladies on since last year. I just want to say I see all the staging Bravo does. Watching Caroline and Teresa’s talk I noticed how in one scene Caroline didn’t have her lip gloss on and the next scene she is all glossed up and ready to go.
    I just wondering something… On July 12th you posted a picture of Teresa crying. Is that Joe Giudice holding Teresa? If so, are those bite marks on his hand?
    If you google Teresa’s name it is ALWAYS connected to Melissa.
    I just want to say Thank you FW for giving people the place to have their voices heard. And Thank you to all you ladies who make me smile at least a few dozen times a day:)

    • July 16, 2013 at 9:25 PM

      You’re very welcome, BUG!

      As far as the screen shot of Teresa crying, I don’t remember where I got that from (probably from one of the previews for the fight). It looks like it could be Joe Gorga hugging her (since he’s been on the show, we’ve never seen him show her that kind of affection, but anything is possible). I think that scene may be in the next episode.

      • Laram
        July 17, 2013 at 1:18 AM

        No kidding, welcome. Dang, @Fame, you are getting a lot of new commenters. So wonderful!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:33 PM

      Hey Bug! Comment more!

      • Bug
        July 17, 2013 at 12:42 AM

        Hello Sackem! I will do just that 🙂 I liked Teresa before but because of the Gorga’s and the rest of the scum that have turned on Teresa I have become a fan. I’m happy to have a place to show my support for Teresa and her family.

  19. charok
    July 16, 2013 at 9:03 PM

    did anyone see that mini epidode/preview of next weeks episode tonight? missy is a real piece of work, saying tre is disgusting bc she “walked off’ instead of helping her pull the joes apart…anyhoo, yes i love the photo of joe and the kid…few episodes back, where him and gia having the ice cream and the “growing up/ not to smoke, watch for boys” ect …you could tell he was kinda awkward but he had a concerned sweetness to him too. and even more recent joe giudice chasing the girls around..you know now i think of it, i don’t see much interactions between joe gorga and his kids, aside from cheering them on to dance like strippers or saying his daughter is a “cockblock” –

    • MurfsGirl
      July 16, 2013 at 9:17 PM

      Yes, I saw it. SIL looked/acted particularly unglued (only word that came to mind while I was watching).

      • charok
        July 16, 2013 at 11:55 PM

        and she was scratching at juicy?? wow. gotta get her licks in protecting her man huh? she was unglued when she was on her knees begging and screaming to stop hurting us…and how she had no pride;..well she got THAT right, she has no pride indeed

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 9:19 PM


      OMG!! OMG!!!! OMG!!!! I knew those two would blame the Giudices for the whole thing – who is the scum here?!?!?!

      • nuttyz
        July 17, 2013 at 10:23 AM

        I wouldn’t be surprised if Melissa had that much presence of mind during a fight to ask for help purposely so later on she can crucify Teresa for it. She’s a conniving witch!

        One of the fans actually commented about the whole thing saying how if Teresa was that concerned why didn’t she call 911 instead of running away and acting like she’s getting security as if security is right next door.

        I had a field day with that comment but sadly bravo didn’t let my response through.

    • July 16, 2013 at 9:32 PM

      OMG That’s the matra on the bravo blogs … Teresa ran away. Hello, she is intelligent to realized she needed help so she went for security, pretty logical to me.

      • charok
        July 16, 2013 at 11:54 PM

        mzjulesaz and jeannie5233 =thank you both!!!! missy is the scum disgusting pig here!! i thought it too was the logical thing to get security to break the ruckus up vs trying to get in there and help missy to break up the joes, IF she had tried to help missy you guys KNOW how poison joe and missy would twist and warp, “omg tre tried to hit (either missy or poison or both) again tre would have been damned if she did *( try to help break up the fight) or damned if she didnt ( and well lookee here they are damning her for not helping)

    • newkid
      July 17, 2013 at 3:32 PM

      That bothered me too everyone is always saying how petty and immature the hws are but going to get security was the mature thing to do. I think its what most “normal” ppl would do in that situation.

  20. mj
    July 16, 2013 at 9:13 PM

    Can we start a petition to get the Gorga’s off this show? I cant stand watching them anymore.

  21. Laram
    July 16, 2013 at 9:20 PM

    I love her blog!

  22. Jeannie5233
    July 16, 2013 at 9:35 PM

    Just watched First Look – I knew this would all turn out to be Teresa’s fault.

    The Whorgas are scum.

    Joe’s face is all scratched and he tells Teresa “That bitch was fu*king scratching my face!”

    The Whorgas are scum.

    Josephine TH: I have ten years of hate against this man. Joe Giudice has put that wedge between my parents and I and any opportunity I have to go against him – it’s on!

    The Whorgas are scum.

    TSIL TH: I looked at Teresa at one point like all bets are off. Our husbands are on top of each other. Help me out here! Help me pull them apart and she walked out of the room! I just never want to look at these people again for the rest of my life!

    I am eager to see how TSIL spins this next week in her blog – it is documented, on film, her scratching the hell out of Joe’s face. She wasn’t trying to pull the Joes apart. She joined right in. Afterwards while she is confronting Teresa, she lunges towards Teresa as she is screamingthat Teresa is a disgusting pig and Rosie steps in front of her.

    The Whorgas are scum.

    • BUG
      July 16, 2013 at 9:38 PM

      I agree!!!! Shame on them! Shame on them!

      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 9:41 PM

        Hi BUG!!! I have to tell you Bug is one of my grandson’s nicknames!!! 🙂 Welcome here!!!

        • Bug
          July 16, 2013 at 10:32 PM

          Hi Jeannie!
          Thank you for the kind welcome! It is my husbands nickname for me:) I bet your grandchildren are adorable! Cute as bugs!. I’m so happy to have joined everyone here 🙂 I have been so angry at the way Teresa’s friends and family have turned on her. It’s disgusting!!!!
          Teresa has been through a lot on this show. She has shown me that you can truly make “lemons out of lemonade” out of just about any horrible situation. Watching Gia getting bullied by adult women last year and now this year Teresa’s husband is attacked by Joe Gorga and his little group of “soldiers” makes my blood boil. I get so angry at how bad Teresa and her family have been treated! I was always taught by my parents “don’t air your dirty laundry”. I couldn’t imagine if my life was hung out to dry, like Teresa’s life has been.
          Please forgive me for any spelling errors or if I go rambling off. I’m just a simple housewife from the Midwest, just learning the ropes here…I’m sure I’ll get into the swing of things here real soon!!! 🙂

          • Jeannie5233
            July 16, 2013 at 10:55 PM

            Bug – Yes my grandsons are cute! They are Beanie (firstborn shaped like a jellybean on his first ultrasound), Bug (the biggest most gorgeous brown eyes you’ve ever seen) and Budgie (sings like a bird and hops around like one too)! Love them to bunches!!!

            Don’t worry about ramblings and spelling mistakes! You are among rational, understanding, kind, compassionate, intelligent – oh, I could go on about the community here!! – anyway, my point is we all recognize this is not English 101 and whatever you have to say, even if it is “ITA” or “LOL” is relevant and important. You are already in the swing of things so jump right in!! 🙂

            • July 16, 2013 at 11:00 PM

              Spot on Jeannie. Love your grandbabies nick names. Hey, you are our leader, Fame is our mentor.

              Good night all. Past my bedtime.

            • July 16, 2013 at 11:12 PM

              Such sweet nicknames Jeannie (i’m sure they don’t appreciate them).

            • Laram
              July 17, 2013 at 1:20 AM

              No kidding, welcome. Dang, @Fame, you are getting a lot of new commenters. So wonderful!

              • Laram
                July 17, 2013 at 1:22 AM

                Hey, guys. My phone is on its last heat stroke. Have to replace it, and sorry for comments out of place. G’nite all.

            • nuttyz
              July 17, 2013 at 10:27 AM

              Aww your grandkids names are so cute!

    • July 16, 2013 at 9:42 PM

      I knew it!!!! I still haven’t seen this past Sunday’s episode because of all the comments I’ve read. Honestly? Now I’m only interested in seeing this resolved, so I might just skip this Sunday’s episode as well. Don’t get me wrong, it’ll still be DVR’d, I just won’t watch it until I hear on here that there was finally a resolution (as the cast keeps promising us) and hopefully (and most deservedly), in Teresa’s favor.

      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 10:04 PM

        rfeliciat –

        You probably won’t see resolution (cough, cough) until Episode 9. Last Sunday, Andy said on WWHL that the next TWO episodes of RHONJ were the most powerful he had ever seen in all of the franchises ever filmed. So that means probably the fighting and arguing will continue and Caroline will be called in Episode 8 and then in Episode 9 – that is when they will all have the big AHA moment and begin to be in a “good place”. I’m just guessing here!!!

        • July 16, 2013 at 10:24 PM


        • July 16, 2013 at 10:28 PM

          “Powerful”? I think he must mean shocking and disgraceful.

        • nuttyz
          July 17, 2013 at 10:29 AM

          I started watching last episode but within 5 minutes switched it off. I knew what was gonna happen. I just can’t stand it anymore. And it bugs me out so much that they are gonna bring in Caroline and make it seem like she resolved all the issues. Right, because she is much more able and knowledgeable than trained, educated professionals. Give me a break!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:30 PM

      Ugh, can’t watch the first looks n the Bravo site. if it makes it to youtube, let me know

    • July 16, 2013 at 11:15 PM

      Do you know if it’s posted on Bravo yet? I’m not watching Bravo unless I have too.

  23. STLHousewife
    July 16, 2013 at 9:52 PM

    I never comment on the blogs, but the First Look has me on the floor. Not only is the behavior disgusting, but the talk of the “black stuff” is hilarious. My assumptions have been confirmed……Joe Gorga uses the spray on hair for bald spots…..obviously in black. I wonder if anyone will call him out on “hair makeup”?!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:27 PM

      I’m so very glad you did! I’ve always felt he has the John Travolta hair circa 2000’s about him.

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:53 PM

      I thought it was weird how fast Mel went, picked up his hat, and put it on his head so fast. If it was me, I would care about my husband’s hat. I would ask if he was ok!!

      • STLHousewife
        July 16, 2013 at 11:25 PM

        I believe Melissa stated it was shoe polish or something when they were still in the Ballroom acting like clowns. Really…..I’m still laughing to myself. I’d like to re-watch, however I can not find the video anywhere.

      • Elle
        July 17, 2013 at 12:02 AM

        That hat action was hysterical. For someone so concerned about her husband her attention to that hat was really funny. Was it Rich who said “What the f***is all this black tar?” I feel like I just had a wink and a nod from editing.

        • July 17, 2013 at 12:14 AM

          It was Rich. Melissa tried to say it was shoe polish 😀

          Rich also said “You got him” to Joey, talking about Juicy. Yep, Princess Joey…you got him all right. Now someone just needs to throw some feathers on Juicy so he will be tarred and feathered 😀

          • Calypso
            July 17, 2013 at 12:45 AM

            Oh that’s hilarious Princess.

            • July 17, 2013 at 6:23 AM

              And someone else mentioned that is probably what that weird “tattoo” on the cops head was. Hilarious. I am feeling like an immature little high school girl…I have a feeling this spray on hair is going to have me laughing for weeks.

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:55 PM

      LMAO…one of her fans just asked her on Twitter why she ran his hat over to him so fast.

      @melissagorga Theresa is truly a selfish delirious person….I have one question….Why you run to put Joey's cap on very fast?????— Kelly Martin (@KellyDaizeekel) July 17, 2013

      • Bug
        July 16, 2013 at 11:13 PM

        Lol! I wonder how long it will take Messy to delete one of her faithful followers????

        • July 16, 2013 at 11:20 PM

          That’s what I was thinking. Watching first look again…when Joey pushes Melissa away, looks like a smudge right under the buckle of his hat, it is also all over Juicy’s chin, and when hooker is yelling at Teresa, there’s black spray on hair all under her left arm pit. Now this, I’m telling you, is the funniest shit I have seen in my entire life. I love this!!!!

          • Bug
            July 17, 2013 at 1:28 AM

            Oh I am right there with you!!! I need to watch it again. That lil ball biter is so worried about how he looks. I find it funny he has decided to shave his that big black mess of paint or shoe polish. Bravo actually had a poll up asking us to vote if we liked Joey with hair or without. My opinion is you could’ve voted either way….lil Joey is bald anyway you voted! hahahahahahahahaha!

            • Gloria
              July 17, 2013 at 10:01 AM

              Sorry Bug, I didn’t see your comment about Joey shaving his head. This in one scene I will NEVER forget.

          • Gloria
            July 17, 2013 at 9:23 AM

            That is too funny, princess I gotta go watch it now. I’m thinking this was around the same time that he decided to shave his head.

            • July 17, 2013 at 10:28 AM

              I will probably watch it 50 more times today after I get off of work. Golden…!

    • July 17, 2013 at 11:48 AM

      Teresa’s brother definitely is having issues with his hair loss. I was taught it was impolite to wear a hat in the house! And a couple of bro’s scenes really look like he used that spray on stuff (thanks for calling that out) and now we have shaved head Joe. Guess he doesn’t realize that even with the bald head you can still make out where his hairline is now. Maybe bro and TSIL are having a race to see whose hairline hits the nape of their neck first…….

  24. RedVelvetCake
    July 16, 2013 at 9:54 PM

    Did you guys see all that black dye on Joe Giudice’s t shirt,it was lil Joey Marco’s toupee and spray on hair,Melissa was holding down lil Joey’s toupee while he was bum rushing Joe Giudice

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 9:59 PM

      That must be why she grabbed his hat and he quick put it on!!!!! LOL!!!!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:05 PM

      @ STL and RedVelvet O…M….G…! That’s hysterical!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:25 PM

      Too funny

    • Bug
      July 16, 2013 at 10:37 PM

      LOL! That might explain why lil Joey took his shirt off!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:42 PM

      You’re being serious, aren’t you?

      • July 16, 2013 at 10:50 PM

        Yep, you are. I just saw the comment from someone else above. That is hilarious. I thought Melissa ran her skanky ass over there with the hat awful quickly. I never would have figured that out but what the hell else could it be. I wonder what was edited out…Melissa put the hat on him with the brim facing forward and the next thing you know, it’s backward. Maybe showed a big ol’ spray on hair shit stain across his hair (or part of the spray on hair shit stain smeared off, I should say). I just love this site!!!!!

        • Pippi
          July 17, 2013 at 2:18 PM

          Oh my God you ladies have me in hysterics!!!

  25. July 16, 2013 at 10:25 PM

    Oh my goodness. I just figured it out, while watching Triple D with my hubby. The entire show is scripted and the plot is made from day one. Melissa dictates the entire season BEFORE she gets more hair. Something was not right from the start. I remember when she stated she did not like something about Caroline’s meddling, etc., (one of the first or second episodes) she did not have the new hair. Then I just remember that greenish dress on almost every episode in the TH’s, she is talking about what happened at that time.

    If anyone has them all recorded, give me some feedback. Why didn’t I keep my recordings is beyond me.

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:28 PM

      Oh, I forgot to mention to mention, the no weave, greenish dress is still talking in First Look for this week.

      • July 16, 2013 at 10:48 PM

        I agree Moma! Plus they need to come up with their own material instead of taking all their insults from last season. Even Mel sitting by the window pouting wasn’t original, that was her cover image for On display.

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:45 PM

      Moma, I must be an airhead tonight, I can’t really figure out what you’re saying. I can to an extent (scripted from day one) but the Caroline meddling, hair, etc. is throwing me off. I just don’t catch all the stuff you guys do!!!

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:05 PM

        princess, just trying to say, Melissa is without her weave in almost all of her TH’s, the ones with her greenish dress. Her TH’s at that time, seem to take us through show, after show, after show.

        • July 16, 2013 at 11:27 PM

          Ohhhhh, okay, I get it. Sorry, I’m kinda dense lately 😀 And I am just giddy, giddy, giddy about this spray on hair stuff!!!!

        • July 17, 2013 at 11:53 AM

          IIRC – Simon from RHNY said that they sit down and show each wife a clip from the various episodes and ask for a comment on it and if they don’t get what they want – they ask leading questions. So being in the same outfit makes sense – TSIL in the green dress was particularly catty in all her comments.

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:35 PM


        • July 16, 2013 at 11:55 PM

          Sweet Celi, I couldn’t figure out what the black crap was AT ALL. I did wonder why the heck Melissa ran over there with that hat like her life depended on it, I just didn’t connect the two. I couldn’t really watch it closely the first time…hubby was yakkin’ his jaws asking me why I watched this crap. I was so mad after listening to Melissa yell at Teresa that I went and strapped on some ankle weights, grabbed my hand weights, and did a short treadmill work out while I did some strength training with my arms. I wish I would have read about the spray on hair first because I still haven’t stopped giggling. Not only did he get outed as the pu__y he is (sorry in advance Celi…I know you don’t use language like that), but now everyone knows he spray paints his hair on.

          Hey Melissa, quick word of advice for Princess Joey…they do some very realistic tattoo on hair. Google it.

          • AutumnL
            July 17, 2013 at 1:28 AM

            So THATS what was on top of the security guard’s head too, finger smears of hair dye-paint. I could not figure it out either.

            And I laughed during tonight’s sneak peek, when Juicy says: “What the hell is this all over me, her makeup?” and Tre says, “PLEAAASE!”, as if anyone even has to ask. The idea that Teresa was seriously thinking Melissa had that much makeup on…cracks me up.

            and this is why Mel runs over and shoves the cap on his head so quickly. The secret is out now.

            ps: was posting earlier w/my phone, not sure the comment came thru. Just hate that tiny thing!

          • July 17, 2013 at 10:36 AM

            tooo funny
            i think i was close to hysteria last pm, just needed a diversion ,so thank you

    • July 16, 2013 at 11:06 PM

      OK … so you are saying that Melissa didn’t get her weave prior to doing the TH’s therefore they were filmed prior to the actual season since she had it during filming?? I’m dense for picking this kind of stuff up.

      • Jeannie5233
        July 16, 2013 at 11:28 PM

        I think I read somewhere that the THs are filmed afterwards when the producers and editors have put the story together and the ladies sit down and are shown the scenes and asked questions and to make comments about them, prompting them at times with a train of thought or feeding them with what another character might have done or said, hoping to get the right response out of them.

        • July 16, 2013 at 11:40 PM

          I Tweeted Heather about this…I’m really curious about the process now.

          • July 16, 2013 at 11:56 PM

            Does anyone know if you tweet someone if it shows up on their wall or whatever it’s called? Its not showing up on Heather’s and I’ve never Tweeted anyone before. Probably has her settings set so that she has to approve any Tweets to her?????

            • AnnieMarie
              July 17, 2013 at 1:13 PM

              Hi princess, when you tweet someone, it doesn’t show up on their wall unless they retweet it. They are still able to view it on their homepage. I usually use twitter on my phone, not my computer. On my phone, I have to click on @connect or something like that to see if anyone has tweeted, favorited, or retweeted anything.

              • pjbottoms
                July 17, 2013 at 3:39 PM

                You are right. You can also see the original tweet if the person answers or responds to the tweet. That’s why there are other names included in some tweets. Sometimes you don’t even see the original tweet. For example Melissa will write @JaneDoe Thank you XXOO and we have no idea what Jane said.

        • July 17, 2013 at 1:21 AM

          I didn’t think they were shown the scenes, but heck who knows. I just thought the producers prompted them.

          • Jeannie5233
            July 17, 2013 at 11:37 AM

            I don’t know how much of what I said is accurate mzjules – it’s just what I read somewhere – I can’t recall where, otherwise, I would source it for you all. I do think some, if not most, of it is though.

  26. Cindy sanders
    July 16, 2013 at 10:30 PM

    Melissa and her husband Joe are so jealous of Teresa & her husband Joe. They wormed their way onto the show. Melissa don’t bother writing a book. As if you could give any advise worth reading. Your a little want a be. There are idiots in the world that even bought Charles Manson’s book. But you are so full of yourself that you think anyone with a little sense thinks your a good person. I believe Teresa when she says you don’t know the real Melissa. I knew from day one you were a phony. You are not happy if Teresa and her brother are ok. You are the problem Melissa and always will be. Your a bad person!

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:58 PM

      She wanted, along with the Marcos and Joey – oh yeah and the Wakilies, what Tre had so bad they sold their souls to the devil. They keep asking Teresa to apologize … for what and they need to be specific. On the same note, They need to apologize to Teresa and acknowledge their nefarious deeds all for their piece of the pie.

  27. July 16, 2013 at 10:32 PM

    I am happy Teresa put an example in her blog about Melissa and her lies like we all point out and see. Plus, FINALLY someone is addressing about how the kids should be off limits and they weren’t! I do not think Teresa is 100% innocent all the time, but I feel with this last episode she was truly trying and should get some recognition for that. I’m glad the Gorgas true side is starting to come out, but it is coming out slowly. Everyone still turns a blind eye to it and still tries to pin something on T or Juicy to take our attention off of it. For example, the comment about Autism. They are always going to be damned no matter what they say or do. After Sunday’s episode, I believe it was on WWHL or on other blogs people are saying T went to go Juicy and that instigated the situation which started the fight between the two Joes; therefore, excusing Joe Gorga’s actions. Those weren’t the exact words, but it was similar to that. I feel T and Juicy handled it like any husband and wife would. I do not think she went out there to have Juicy go in there and fight. I feel she was truly upset and had enough. Earlier at breakfast, they were all talking about walking away from situations before it went too far. I am proud of Juicy for going in there. I would be pissed if my husband did not go and defend me. If Juicy didn’t stand up for Teresa, they would be saying he wasn’t a man or a good husband because he didn’t defend her.

    I saw the 10/15 min. preview for the upcoming episode on Sunday. I am disturbed by Joe Gorga’s temper/anger problem. If you have built up anger towards someone for 10yrs (he says in a TH that’s why he went after Juicy and blames Juicy for the problems between him and his father), there are other ways to handle that besides physical violence. Him saying that excuse does not justify the behavior he CHOSE to do towards another person. How is this helping the situation? He is always complaining and putting all that blame on T, and touched a little bit about Juicy, but all of a sudden you have to attack him for it? I feel he is truly sad about the relationship between Joe Sr. and Juicy. Those feelings are understandable, but where was this anger last season in the Laurita’s basement when Juicy said something about tools or all the other times they were together? Why did he not attack him then for the relationship he has with your father? One would think when they went on that RV trip it would have came out then when your stuck on vacation in RV with that person! Also in the clip, when they finally get the guys away from one another, Mel is trying to keep Joe Gorga back and he pushes her quite hard off to the side to try and get at Juicy again. I can’t put my finger on it, but watching that part nothing seemed right about it. It was quite forceful and not what a husband does to a wife ever. Everything about it was just unsettling. He also chucks a water bottle at the ground quite close to Mel while she is standing next to him. Again, he didn’t even seem to care that his wife was quite close to him when he did that, and it could have easily hit her. Everyone talks about Teresa having mental issues, but I feel Joe Gorga has true anger/temperament and psychological issues. Something is truly off about him. How come nobody says that? The look in his eyes during the fight and in his TH’s just creeps me out. It makes it even more disturbing knowing that he is a father. I find it ironic that Mel bashes T for everything, even breathing, but then wants her to help her brother??? In a TH, Mel says T should have pulled Juicy off of Joe instead Teresa just walked out of the room. No Mel, T had common sense to go get outside help because she knew there was nothing else she could do and the cameras showed that you ding bat. Security even had a hard time breaking them apart. 2 women are not going to pull 2 guys off of one another when they are in a heated fight. Plus, I do not put it pass Joe Gorga that he would have taken a swing at his sister and said it was an accident. Melissa, Teresa did the right thing whether you like her or not. There is no way to paint her in a bad light for going to get security.

    Sorry for the long rant. The preview just pissed me off because they are trying to excuse everything they do. It’s just annoying and disgusting. Give it up already.

    • July 16, 2013 at 10:52 PM

      We love long rants and different opinions here Brynn. I love everything you said and it’s driving me crazy that Tre is getting nailed for doing the responsible thing. My hubby (not a biker) does hang out at biker bars. Having said that the women know if a fight breaks out get the men from inside/etc. (lots of them) and call 911. Crap why would Tre want to get in that kind of situation, she did the smart thing. In my word — fight (not often), get the boys to break it up, get the girls safe (not in the fight) and call 911. It’s all quite logical to me.

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:29 PM

        Very logical. Too many things can happen, even accidentally in the heat of the moment like that.

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:31 PM

        Hi Mzjulesaz!

        I visit this site often, but I do not comment very often. This last episode with the backlash that Teresa is STILL getting is just nuts! I agree with you that women know what is the right thing to do in a situation like that. Besides, what woman would want to jump into a fight with 2 guys? On the “media circle” that Fame has mentioned with Andy, W.Williams (not a fan of her either) bashed Tre BAD which I thought was uncalled for and could not believe the things she was saying. I don’t know how Tre handles it so well because I would have cracked by now. I like the fact that you can tell Juicy has had enough of the “Teresa Bashing”. Him looking at the ceiling while Teresa and Joey were talking, and stepping outside with Roise says a lot with where he is at with everything.

    • Elle
      July 17, 2013 at 12:35 AM

      Completely different post-fight behavior from the Joes. Juicy seemed lucid and in control while Brother Joe seemed far from that. I found the way he shoved hiswife out of the way kind of disturbing too.

      • pjbottoms
        July 17, 2013 at 3:35 PM

        @Elle ITA! I think it might be all the steroids. I really think Joey Gorga has wanted to have a real fight with Joe!

  28. July 16, 2013 at 10:32 PM

    Oh, if anyone is wondering, I had “Rubin’s vase” done to me in high school. It appears I see things differently. Both images were blinking back and forth.

    • Anonymous
      July 17, 2013 at 8:01 AM

      Hi Moma,

      Please pardon my ignorance but I have to ask, what is “Rubin’s vase”?!

  29. July 16, 2013 at 10:42 PM

    I forgot to mention… Jacqueline I would not be laughing in your blogs, on twitter, and making accusations about other people being crazy. I am definitely not a fan, but I would be pissed for how they are portraying you on the show this season. The editing stick has hit you bad this season. You look like a damn loon. Ask for a raise.

    • Bug
      July 16, 2013 at 11:06 PM

      Bravo has made it appear like she’s spending a lot of her time, sitting on her big comfy chair, pulled right up to the kitchen table so she can tweet about Teresa all day long while her son is playing with the ipad and her dog is outside showing his jealousy on the deck! I agree with you Brynn, she looks like a loon and a hot mess. Maybe she’s spending a little too much time in Nicholas’s air tank with her bottle of Bailey’s.

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:19 PM

        Hi Bug!

        I agree with you as well. Hot mess is the word I was looking for! 🙂 She is getting so much praise for what she is doing, but I do not understand how people (besides us @FW) are not picking up on her irrational behavior especially in her talking heads.

        • Bug
          July 17, 2013 at 1:08 AM

          Having an autistic child does not give you the right to sit on your computer and cyber bully Teresa with your irrational tweets against another person. It doesn’t give you the right to mess in other peoples family business. It does not give you the right to ridicule and make fun of Gia at your home on television. You do not get a free pass, Jacqueline, from being a good person because you have financial issues, family issues, and your son has autism. Show some grace and dignity about a friendship that has ended. We have all had friends who come and go in our lives…show some maturity in this matter. I agree with Teresa it’s time for you to worry about your own family. You wanted your son so desperately…he’s here and needs you. Not a distracted mommy who twitter rants all day.Take care of your children, your husband, your home and that poor dog. The kid doesn’t need an air chamber, a sucker or an ipad… he needs his mother to be focused on him. Not Teresa or fame!

          • July 17, 2013 at 7:41 AM


          • July 17, 2013 at 12:03 PM

            ITA and I really wonder if beautiful Nicholas is simply developmentally delayed because he did not get the attention and stimulation from his mother when he was younger ( I have a friend who went nuts when her daughter’s ped said her kid needed more stimulation as she wasn’t where she was supposed to be on the milestone growth charts). Now Nicholas is spelling words like “social”, which makes no sense for his age….
            All kids have different coping mechanisms. Ashley lashed out until she was kicked out of that house. CJ is all but a ghost – quiet to avoid attention. And Nicholas needed how many months to get his diagnosis……….at least he is getting the simulation and attention he needs to thrive. IMHO, Wacky Jacky will not be a stable, nurturing mother until she gets help with her own problems, issues, etc.

  30. July 16, 2013 at 10:45 PM

    Hope all is well with everyone who posts or reads here. Jeannie, happy your mother is holding on. Sackem, kiss that baby girl for me. celi stay strong. Thank you, Fame, for this site.

    I read the struggles many of you have and keep ALL of you in my prayers.

    Welcome new posters. I encourage all to speak their minds. It is getting ugly in New Jersey.

  31. July 16, 2013 at 11:18 PM

    I just want to shout out a big welcome to all of our new fell posters/bloggers! We love new insight, eyes, and opinions! Fame has created a great forum and we are all Fame-bily.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 16, 2013 at 11:24 PM

      Yes, a big welcome to all! Thank you mzjulesaz – I can never remember how we spell Fame- bily!! I always forget the “b”!!! 😉

      • charok
        July 17, 2013 at 12:02 AM

        thank you mzjulesaz and jeannie5233 for the welcome for us “newbies” 🙂 ive been reading and again love love love this site for months now. only for last few episodes have compelled me to post..i love all the “veteran” posters as well as fellow new ones…insights and points of view are always great!! i always pick up on stuff i missed over in the episodes or what have you thanks to other posters..<3 (supposed to be a heart icon )

  32. July 16, 2013 at 11:23 PM


    For the next episode, can you please try to post stills of Melissa slapping and scratching Jie Giudice’s face and eyes? I would like to see if she was pulling Joe Giudice off and being aggressive or just getting some cheap shots in?

    Also, why does Andy always bring up Kathy’s plastic surgery but never Melissa’s OBVIOUS nose and lips?

    See note: this is why people won’t admit to cosmetic stuff because once you do one thing people are always asking about every damn thing on you all the time and just associate you with being all fake… Kind of annoying.

    Attention everyone: we need to start calling in to WWHL and voting in polls..fixed or not, just do it. Teresa has the biggest fan base. There should be more questions calling out the cast’s hypocrisy. If the are enoug if them Andy will ask on air.. Especially at the reunions!

    Thanks 🙂

    • July 16, 2013 at 11:26 PM

      We need to ask the questions that Teresa has been thinking of but has too much respect for her family to ask, especially on tv … But we can ask for her 🙂

      • July 16, 2013 at 11:38 PM

        I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again.. If Teresa ever was (I thought she was too du,b to write a blog but I guess she is able to maintain this website?) in charge of this website..no offense, but she would never call it fame whorgas. She’s old school Italian and cares about reputation. Se wouldn’t want to make her own family look bad… And the final proof of this. She was a Gorga and her beloved parents are Gorgas. She would never include the name Gorga in a website to bash them even if she wanted to..it would just be called messy missy.com

        • Nameless
          July 17, 2013 at 12:30 AM

          Should somebody check if Teresa has reserved the domain name “STFUMelissa.com”?

    • July 17, 2013 at 1:13 AM

      Try and try and get errors. As for the phones they are so staged on WWHL .. Lilly, Lucy, whatever from Ilinois gets through all time but no one else does???? I can’t remember if I read it here or somewhere else, but WWHL is actually rehearsed and set up. 😦

      • July 17, 2013 at 12:06 PM

        LOL she reminds me of the teenage boy who used to call in all the time.

  33. Bug
    July 16, 2013 at 11:30 PM

    Thank you Momajackie I just want to say I am so glad to be here among friends and away from Bravo. So nice to be heard

  34. Elle
    July 16, 2013 at 11:50 PM

    Melissa: “We’re white trash now. You understand that?”


    • charok
      July 17, 2013 at 12:03 AM

      ha ha ha SHE said it….no one is arguing with you there missy sweetheart!!! white trash indeed!

      • Bug
        July 17, 2013 at 12:50 AM

        Ohhhh….But if Teresa made that comment about white trash…Teresa would have to explain all day and night what she meant. At the reunion show, Andy would ask Teresa to explain just what she meant and tell her how many “White trash” viewers were offended by her comments! The reunion better go a different way this year.

        • July 17, 2013 at 1:06 AM

          I totally must have missed the white trash comment — when was that?

          • Bug
            July 17, 2013 at 1:11 AM

            It was on First Look tonight

  35. caffee taylor
    July 16, 2013 at 11:55 PM

    What is the black tarry stuff all over everyone after the fight?

    • July 17, 2013 at 12:11 AM

      I read that Joe Gorga puts that black stuff on his head to cover the bald spot. Makes sense considering it was all over Juicy.

    • charok
      July 17, 2013 at 12:15 AM

      caffee taylor i think other posters said it could be that spray on hair /color (remember the old commericals that balding men would spray on their hair color/give appearance of more hair?) on poison joe.?..someone else pointed this out and mentioned how quickly missy gave poison joe his hat after the scuffle…makes sense to me anyhow!!! they were saying in the episode how it was like black shoe polish i believe…at first i thought i heard juicy joe said that he thought it was make up/ from missy???? now im gonna have to dig it up and watch it.

      • Saddle_River_NJ
        July 17, 2013 at 10:12 AM

        It’s Ronco’s GLH Spray on Hair. The same folks that brought us the Kitchen Magician, Pocket Fisherman and the Showtime Oven. The Gorgon Monsters are becoming are fast becoming laughingstocks of the internet. Sadly they cause so much emotional pain in the process….

      • JerseyStrong
        July 17, 2013 at 4:15 PM

        Have you guys heard of Caboki? It might be that, a lot of my guy friends us it to cover their rapidly thinning hair. Then again what am I saying that crap is expensive and low rent people such as themselves wouldn’t use it. I hope to god in the full episode they make fun of it and state what exactly it is.

    • Elle
      July 17, 2013 at 12:17 AM

      Dark cloud causing black rain? Or maybe someone was using something like this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GeF7A05zQ8 as shoe polish. It’s a mystery.

  36. Autumn
    July 17, 2013 at 1:24 AM

    First: you damned well know Melissa has been a Whorga every season but got a better edit up to now. She didn’t suddenly become a conniving bitch-she’s always been one and I’m glad she IS being exposed more for her true inner green monster self.

    Second: in the dinner pic posted by Fame here if all the Whorga clan– WHERE did Sergio come from? What’s an insurance broker and his gf doing hanging around the inner fameWhorish circle? Anyone care to speculate? We’ve heard Mel & and Joe have no real close friends- yet the 2 guts are close enough to be taking their shirts off and posing for ea other at a hotel? And now Sergio is at family dinners ? WHAT’S THE ANGLE? Bc I’m sure there is one.

    • Saddle_River_NJ
      July 17, 2013 at 3:09 PM

      Maybe Sergio is the “special friend” the Midget “hangs out with” when Missy is “visiting friends” (as in the parking lot of Sushi Lounge). Kind of the Gorga take on “date night” – albeit with other people…

  37. July 17, 2013 at 1:39 AM


    Please go to Instagram and type in the #hashtag joeygorga or look up a public profile by the name of kaitlyninked

    There is a pic of Joey gorga with 3 women partying and clawing at him and one even has her leg in him while he holds it.. Whether these are fans and nothing went further than the pic I do not know…but I do know there are no pics of joe giudice in anything like this situation and yet he gets talked about…taste of own medicine ?

  38. July 17, 2013 at 2:33 AM

    Ashlee Holmes is actually looking pretty good..

    Looks like she had some weight loss and her nose, lips, cheeks/cheekbones, eyebrows, gums and teeth done. I mean its a lot but a good job I think

  39. Leesa
    July 17, 2013 at 3:05 AM

    Can we just stop already with all the ill-hatred. In reality you folks don’t know what really happens or what Melissa goes through in her personal private life. Anyways, Melissa you keep doing your thing girlfriend. Melissa is a singer, song writer and dancer; she is our generations Paula Abdul. Haters make you famous but you just keep on loving.

    • Jeannie5233
      July 17, 2013 at 11:32 AM

      Hi Leesa, chebella, Go_Me_77 aka goldcoins79 and all the other handles that you have used here the past few months –

      TSIL is so lucky to have a fan with multiple identities and personalities – that’s the only way she could possibly build her fan base.

      As far as her being the Paula Abdul for your generation, while I like Paula and she is an award winning artist, at least that’s better than comparing TSIL with Xtina Aquilera like you did on your last post. Unfortunately for you though, TSIL won’t be winning any Grammys any time soon even if LA Reid produces her.

      Gotta give you credit though – you keep trying! Rock on!!!

      • Anonymous
        July 17, 2013 at 2:37 PM

        whatever. Melissa makes rhonj.

  40. July 17, 2013 at 3:07 AM

    Did anyone else catch the first look tonight? Melissa is screaming at Teresa for not helping her brother, calling Teresa a disgusting pig. She is certifiable.

    • charok
      July 17, 2013 at 10:19 AM

      yup i thought that too missy is a certifiable piece of work misskarma= the gall to call tre a disgusting pig? perhaps she needs to look in the mirror, and since she lives in a glass house she should NOT cast stones( being missy) btw i dig your name – made me think of those e cards you see about (hoping that when karma pays a visit/ karma kicks butt while wearing stilettos!) however in missy’s case i hope karma is wearing steel toe boots myself!

  41. Anoneemouse
    July 17, 2013 at 8:35 AM

    I watched the preview for next week’s episode. I believe I know what the mysterious “black tar” substance was that everyone had on them after the fight. Once Joey Marco breaks away from the fight, you see Melissa RUN, not walk, but RUN over to him with his little hat and puts it on his head. During the worst part of the fight, this is how she reacts? That’s because that mysterious “black tar” is probably the black shoe polish Joey Marco used to cover up his bald spots on his head.
    Also, this last episode – did anyone notice how Joey Marco’s friendship with Chris Laurita is rubbing off? Laurita looks really buff and almost….roided out….notice how his mouth kept moving like he was grinding his teeth. Roids or possibly…maybe something else?

    • Marty
      July 17, 2013 at 10:34 AM

      Tha black tar is from Whosey faces knees. She gets it in the parking lots 😉

    • Caralokismom
      July 17, 2013 at 12:10 PM

      What a great observation, I will have to watch that scene again.

  42. July 17, 2013 at 8:43 AM

    Thanks for the nice welcome! I’ve been wanting to share my Teresa Story for a while, but could never find the proper outlet. I didn’t want what was a very nice memory for my mother to be tainted by people who just do.not.get how Bravo/Andy/Gorgas manipulate situations for their way too many nefarious reasons.

    Last night I caught up on the last two episodes. If I ever had a friend that grabbed my cell phone like Jacqass did and then behaved like that in a store, I would be D-O-N-E. Just because life hands you a curveball (autism) that doesn’t give you the right to act any way you want. And to be perfectly honest, I seriously doubt the authenticity of her storyline. As a mother of two (grown) boys, I can tell you that if my child had any condition that involved my having to help him at home, those cameras would be Gone. The Bravo contract would be voided and my focus would be where it should be.

    When Melissa was packing for the trip and fake-talking to her kids my eyes were rolling so hard I gave myself a headache. And that fake laugh! Yuck! Am I the only one that noticed she’s really play-acting the role of mommy hard when she’s around her own kids?

    I’ll spare everyone my (curse-filled) feelings about the fight. I’ll just say that the person in previous comments that called Joe Gorga a Little Hate Monkey was spot-on. I’m perfectly okay with being and staying on Team Giudice because the others are way too messed up for me.

  43. Saddle_River_NJ
    July 17, 2013 at 8:47 AM

    Not for nothing – if the Parking Lot Princess actually reads this blog (and others), hopefully she will realize how the tide of sentiment has changed against her. I’m seeing it on quite a few places that the negative comments about Prissy are increasing substantially. No amount of moderation or editing can clear out such a groundswell. If she were smart – she would do everything in her power to try and resurrect the Gorga’s reputation. She may relish her 15 minutes of fame, but she will go down in flames and end up being an annoying footnote in reality TV. Prancing around like a slutty 15 year old, lip synching to a grossly auto-tuned “song” that someone else wrote is not talent. “Writing” a book about marriage when your own one is a pathetic mess doesn’t fool people. She should read the blogs and be very afraid…

  44. novasage1
    July 17, 2013 at 9:40 AM

    Is there a link to the first look? I cannot find it anywhere. Thanks!

  45. July 17, 2013 at 10:35 AM

    I’m so glad I don’t have to work today…this site is cracking me up*.*

  46. Jersey
    July 17, 2013 at 11:30 AM

    Melissa and Andy will open their eyes in September when Mel’s book sales tank like Carolines. This is the only way we can get our message accross to the NBC executives. They should fire Mel and Kathy and bring back Danielle and off a job to Kim D. This is the only way the Gorga/Guidice fued will end. As long as the Gorga have an audience, they will continue to spew hate toward Teresa. I think Kim D and Danielle can bring on the drama Andy craves for his show. I always likes Daniell’e girls.

    • pjbottoms
      July 17, 2013 at 3:26 PM

      @Jersey I agree! Money talks! Danielle has always had so many demands for Andy to come back on the show–certain housewives had to be fired, and others had to say they were sorry publically. I can assume Andy will not re-hire anyone who dictates or even influences who or who is not cast on the show. Bravo did want Danielle back for the Season 4 finale, but she refused. I think she wants to come back on her own terms. I also think Caroline and Jac don’t want her back because Danielle knows too much about them and Andy looooves the Manzos! I too have always thought Danielle’s girls were lovely!

  47. Detroitrockcity
    July 17, 2013 at 12:13 PM

    Put in my email,sorry didn’t know, to bad you can’t put up that website but I understand! Would not want to be the one to have his hard work ruined again!! Thanks again for all your hard work!!! Much love from the (((D))) ; )

  48. Happy Holly Daze
    July 17, 2013 at 12:45 PM

    Off Topic… I’m off for a few days… I volunteer with Kalamazoo Animal Rescue, and I have a litter of kittens that are very sick.. One passed away on Monday, and another is trying to as well, but I am fighting for her to shine…. But anyway….. I have an Off Topic question… While, off, I thought I would go back to the 1st posting on Famewhorgas, and start reading…. Is February 2012, the first posting on here?? Wow!! Please let me know if there is an archive or anything… thanks… My email is Newfoundlandborn@sbcglobal.net

    • July 17, 2013 at 1:48 PM

      February 2012 is when I created FW. I have two articles dated February 5, 2012, one dated February 6, 2012, and seven dated Febuary 7, 2012.

      Here’s the link to the the first article:


      The first was not really the first because I moved the ones dated in early/mid February around a bit.

      On the right hand side, above the headline for each article, is the title and link to the next article in line, which is the easiest way to navigate from beginning to end or vice versa.

      There are 206 articles (listed in order – based on the last time it was updated – at the “Articles” link at the top of the page. The longer articles have a “Continued Reading” button at the end to see the rest of the article.

    • July 17, 2013 at 3:22 PM

      OMG Holly — wow, you have more tenacity than I do! I came here after the S3 reunion I think and it took me a full weekend non-stop to read everything. Enjoy!

  49. July 17, 2013 at 1:17 PM

    hey i have the most amazing news ,(no ,im not pregnat at almost 70)hehehe
    we just got a call from ca we dont have to go to court thursday bcus we said we would take it to a grand j and they accepted the punishment that was given june 24th plus 2extra weeks in .so thank thank thank you all for prayer.

    • Meri
      July 17, 2013 at 2:16 PM

      Great news Celi! So happy you and your family do not have to relive it again in the court! I will keep praying for your daughter and family to be able to have peace from this horrendous monster.

    • July 17, 2013 at 3:23 PM


  50. nuttyz
    July 17, 2013 at 1:20 PM

    I’m so annoyed with all the hypocrisy and Melissa fans calling people names that don’t happen to agree with them. I had to let it out and post a long comment on bravo, not sure if it will go through though so figured might as well share it with you guys. 🙂 Sorry for the long rant!

    For everyone who feels the need to insult people that are siding with Teresa and refer to them as “haters” “soldiers” “lunatics” etc. Here’s food for thought.

    Let’s agree that Teresa has done everything bad that you can possiby think of. Trash talked Melissa, Said hateful things about Joe and Melissa and their marriage, Disrespected Melissa, Been friendly with people that dislike Melissa or bad mouth her. Claimed that Melissa cheats. She’s done it all.

    Now let’s ask ourselves this –

    1. Does Melissa trash talk Teresa and Joe? – YES

    2. Does Melissa say hateful things about Teresa and her marriage? – YES

    3. Does Melissa disrespect Teresa? – YES

    4. Is Melissa friendly with people that trash talk Teresa? – YES

    5. Did Melissa claim that Joe Guidice is a cheater? – YES

    And none of this is speculation, this is all from what has been shown on TV.

    Now if the issue viewers have with Teresa is that she’s not loyal to her family and that’s an unattractive trait. Then why is Melissa not as guilty as Teresa? If two people are displaying the exact same poor behavior then either both of them are wrong or both of them are right. It can’t be one or the other. You can’t excuse ones behavior by claiming it was “tit for tat”. That doesn’t justify the ugliness we has seen playing out on our television past 2-3 seasons.

    And in my eyes, the apology has to start with the Gorgas – Joey and Melissa. Only because they came on to the show and started bashing Teresa from the get go. Case in point – Christening episode. The first glimpse we had of them was when they were bashing Teresa, calling her names and disrespecting their family.

    I don’t care if they had bad history before the show. The fact is, prior to Gorgas coming on the show we had no clue about this so called “bad history” between them. We never heard Teresa bad mouth her family. So if the Gorgas came on to the show knowing that they have issues, then they should have just suck it up and played nice in front of the cameras instead of airing their families dirty laundry and bringing shame upon their parents.

    As for people being such a big fan of “giving someone a taste of their own medicine”. I would think that more people should side with Teresa then. Since Gorgas threw the first “punch” (I don’t mean that literally now) first episode they were aired. So technically, anytime Teresa has bashed Melissa or Joe since they came on the show…that truly would be the definition of giving someone a taste of their own medicine.

    Personally it’s the hypocrisy that’s truly baffling to this “lunatic”.

    • July 17, 2013 at 3:19 PM

      Excellent post … I will look forward to seeing it on Teresa’s blog. The are bashing Tre over there.

  51. Ket
    July 17, 2013 at 1:54 PM

    On the bravo website there is a video called “jersey outtakes”, and a clip
    Of Melissa talking about what johnny says-do u think she is talking about the Greeks?

  52. Geeg
    July 19, 2013 at 9:19 PM

    Memo and Fedo are like she said… Trash!!! I asked my husband do men bite another man’s testicles when they fight? He looked at me like I had lost my mind for asking!!

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