Bravo began shooting season 4 in late May/June 2011, when Teresa’s second cookbook came out (and immediately after season 3 began to air, which was on May 16, 2011). They finished shooting in late September/October 2011. The Posche Fashion Show (PFS) was shot on September 27, 2011, the day before they shot the reunion (for season 3 — part 1 aired on October 16, 2011). To summarize, while season 3 was airing, they shot season 4, beginning in late May and ending in late September, with the PFS as the season 4 finale; they filmed reunion 3 the day after the blowup at the PFS (which would be the season 4 finale).
According to an ‘inside source’ to Reality Tea on May 6, 2012: Melissa is not giving up her desire for fame no matter how much if affects Joe’s family. And in light of all the drama surrounding Teresa, Melissa decided to use that to her advantage and make Teresa look like the bad guy! “Melissa’s strategy this season was to play victim during filming,” our source continues. “She is just a better ‘actress’ than some of the other girls. She really is playing the game of the ‘victim.’” And Melissa’s alleged plans are apparently paying off! “Melissa is very happy the way things turned out. She couldn’t wait to get in the group and turn them all against Teresa.”
“Melissa is so passive aggressive. She says that she is taking the higher road by not confronting Teresa about it, yet she tells everyone else. So, everyone goes around attacking Teresa for her. That doesn’t sound like someone who does not want drama, but someone who wants to play the victim and try to walk away with clean hands.” [nfazed on May 7, 2012, Caroline's Bravo Blog]
In season 4 episode 7, Richie Wakile telling Joe Gorga, regarding sending Teresa a second text about going to therapy together, “put it out there that you’re trying and she’s not,” shows exactly what their intentions are!
“I’m going to be address Teresa, but it’s going to be quick. I don’t buy her apology, and quite frankly it doesn’t matter if she’s sorry or not. I made a decision to eliminate her from my life, and I’m standing by it. Once again, many of you may not understand, and that’s OK. Hopefully by the end of the season you will. Having said that, I’m keeping my comments to a minimum. Watch what happens… You have to understand that we use humor to alleviate frustrating and uncomfortable moments. No one is safe, and we take everything with a grain of salt.” [Caroline Manzo, Family Time, April 30, 2012]
“[In season 2] Melissa AND Joe wanted to come on to surprise Teresa and be on-camera friends with Danielle. I wish that did happen because maybe Caroline and Jacqueline would not be believing all of Melissa’s lies like you will see in season 4… Melissa knows how to lie and get what she wants, but the truth will come out… Melissa is a complete fake. She has tried to get on the show; it never happened until she stalked Danielle and made a video WITH Joe (nice brother) saying they will ‘destroy Teresa’. Yet, they call Teresa garbage for working to support her family and keep a beautiful roof over her family’s head… Like Danielle can confirm, Mel was dying to film scenes with her similar to the ones she does with her sisters and Kathy, where she fabricates lies and bitches about Tre… Joey G and Melissa filmed a tape where they, in the style of the Sopranos, promised Bravo execs they would ‘expose’ and ‘destroy’ Teresa. They also guaranteed to give Tre what she has given them ‘…their whole life’.” [Insider Commenting at Reality Tea, August and September 2011]
“I think the Laurita/Manzo family is against Teresa from the vacation they took to Punta Cana when the Manzo boys and Juicy Joe were arrested for the fight they got into. I believe also that they are angry with Teresa because she is Dina’s friend and still confides in Dina. And I could’ve sworn I seen a scene where Jacqueline says that Dina told Teresa that Caroline was out to destroy her — I believe it if it was said because that is what this show has turned into. Let’s gang up and bring Teresa down mainly by Caroline and her ‘thick as thieves’ family. I am certain that Melissa went behind the cameras and told Caroline and Jacqueline alot of BS about Teresa saying things about them behind their backs. She did that at the reunion.” [POW, May 15, 2012, AllAboutTRH.com]
“Teresa under stress is not articulate, which is a shame since her inability to clearly express her thoughts and her tendency to react on her emotions always seem to get her into trouble. Her cast mates know that Teresa has a hard time expressing herself verbally when she is flustered — they take advantage of it and she just doesn’t get it. She doesn’t see her weaknesses like the others do, and this is how they are able to manipulate and antagonize her. Teresa doesn’t attack and involve herself in the conflict’s of others unless she is defending herself. She has a good heart and tries to speak the truth, which is why viewers are drawn to her. When someone doesn’t have malice in their heart, like Teresa, they are not looking at the other side of the picture. Teresa is who she is…she doesn’t have that malice in her…what you see is what you get. Teresa’s cast mates take advantage of her for that very same reasons. Teresa is sensitive and hot tempered and her cast mates, very aware of this, like to provoke her. And just because her cast mates might be better narrators, doesn’t make their stories true.”
“Melissa, your husband said last night, on WWHL that you and Teresa have not got along for years, so what I don’t understand if this is the case why would you join a show that she has been on the cast of for years. And then to make matters worse you did it behind her back. What were your intentions…..I’m guessing to be famous. You were willing to ruin your husband’s family to go on a T.V. Show. You knew exactly what you were going to do, and that was to bash Teresa any chance you can. Did you think by joining the show it would make the family better, no you knew it make it worse, and yet you still did it. You sit back and play victim but in reality if you didn’t want all of this to happen you wouldn’t have joined the show. I think the most disgusting person is your husband: that is his sister ,and he bashes her and starts unnecessary drama so he can get more screen time. There are conversations between he and Teresa where you can see shock on Teresa’s face because she can’t believe he is bringing the topic up on camera. Not one of the other husbands does interviews other than your husband because you both so badly want to be famous. Have you ever thought you should thank Teresa?…because if she weren’t on the show you would have never been asked to do the show and your storyline is Teresa…just a thought. You are manipulative and have turned your husband against his own family. I think the best judge of character in all of this are Joe and Teresa’s parents: they see both sides of the story and you can tell when they are around you they are extremely uncomfortable. You’re a sad excuse for what a woman should be: you light the fire and then walk away. Its disgusting/sad what you have done to a family that once was so close without you. Common dominator of the problems would be you. If I were Teresa I would be thrilled you weren’t talking to me because I would want nothing to do with you. Congrats, you did destroy the Gorga’s family. You win.” [Elise1148, May 8, 2012, Melissa's Bravo Blog]
“When I read Wendy called Teresa a lonely ‘bully’ it upset me. Who is Teresa bullying? What show is Wendy watching? Because the only bullying I see week after week is the entire cast ganging up on Teresa and setting Teresa up. They even bully Teresa of things they are guilty of themselves. People need to start standing up for what is right and telling the truth about what is going on on this show. It seems like people are afraid of upsetting Andy (who is also a bully) instead of being truthful about how terrible what the cast of this show are doing to Teresa.” [Heather on May 11, 2012, AllAboutTRH.com]
“I have to laugh when either Ricky, Melissa, Joey or Ricky say statements [about Teresa] like “she is a cancer that needs to be cut”, “she is not going to change so you need to let her go”, she is an awful human being and needs to go”. Last time I checked, these four characters followed her relentlessly until they get into the show (which was/is Teresa’s place of employment) — they followed her, they wanted to be around her to portray themselves as victims. If anyone needs to go, it’s them, but they won’t. The problem is that Andy and the Bravo producers don’t seem to care what the right thing to do is.” [Cartwheelssays, May 15, 2012, LynnNChicago.com]
“They think that drama brings in ratings and that in order to have drama, they must villainize one of their cast members. First it was Danielle who brought a lot of it on herself. Now it’s Teresa. Andy got a glimpse of how she might react to her own family drama at the season two reunion. So he finally answered Melissa who had been knocking on Bravo’s door for a long time. Many of us try to voice our concerns on Twitter and we get blocked. Or on Bravo blogs and we don’t get posted. Or as callers on WWHL and we don’t make it through. Andy could care less what the plain and obvious truth is or what is the right thing to do. He has just as much a hand in destroying that family as Melissa does.” [Cara, May 11, 2012, AllAboutTRH.com]
“I get you and Caroline now. You are the only housewives with no ambition. You all are forgetting that Theresa did not invite you into her family problems; she was forced into it because of the addition of Kathy and Melissa. Also it was extremely obvious that this friendship turn was going to happen on season 2. Anybody that didn’t figure that out really doesn’t understand the Jersey housewives.” [Viewermina, May 25, 2012, Jacqueline's Bravo Blog]

It is obvious that Teresa will be ganged up on during season 4.
We know this because of the episode that aired during season 3 but actually was filmed during season 4: the cookbook debacle was filmed during season 4 but was taken out of sequence and included in season 3. Teresa’s cookbook ‘Fabulicious’ came out in late May/early June 2011; so season 4 starts with Caroline demanding a apology about the cookbook comments, with Teresa apologizing and Caroline refusing to accept her apology, which sets the tone for the entire season.
We also know this because Melissa came straight out of the gate in season 4 with her “Teresa is trying to ruin my marriage” claim. She makes this claim based on Teresa’s comment to her brother in private, months before they started to film season 4, that Melissa will leave Joe Gorga for a richer man, which her brother brought up on camera in the season 4 premiere and then shared with the entire cast. But what they didn’t tell the cast was that this comment was provoked by the fact that Joe Gorga was texting Joe Guidice, threatening to tell his sister that Guidice was cheating on her if Guidice didn’t back off Gorga about the money he owes Sheila Guidice.
- The Posche Fashion Show was filmed on September 27, 2011, at the very END of season 4.
- The reunion was filmed the next day, September 28, 2011.
- Melissa blogged on her website on September 30, 2011 that Teresa set her up.
- Part 1 of reunion 3 aired October 16, 2011.
RealHouseKnife said on July 18, 2012 at StoopidHousewives:
The truth is obvious for all of us to see without having to “read between the lines”. Ok here are my two cents…
1) Teresa didn’t sabotage no one (double negative intentional) but apparently it’s ok for Don Caro to sabotage Dina’s business, Kathy to sabotage Teresa’s books (saying she stole her mom’s recipes), the Whorga’s to sabotage their sister (s-i-l)’s show (by going on there to bad mouth her and make her “fall down” so the “angel from God” could build her back up), yet none of the cast members call each other out on this vile behavior. EVERYONE but Teresa gets a free pass on back stabbing and bad mouthing except her.
2) Ms. SH had a story on how the producers have developed relationships with the cast members, particularly the Manzos/Lauritas- as evident on twitter.
Is it possible that the producers feed the others information about what is going on in Teresa’s life to sabotage her/make her look bad per instructions from Mz. Ann-dee??? Think about it, I never read in any tabloid that Teresa and Joe slept in separate rooms (and I doubt she would disclose that if it were true), and I’m not sure Teresa would say that to Jacqueline since she has said they sleep together but Joe has a room downstairs for closet and bathroom purposes (which we all agree is common amongst married couples that have the space to do so). Yet Milania happened to say something about it and it was caught on camera (therefore heard by the producers) and what do you know, all of a sudden WackyJacky is commenting about it in her talking head interview. Hmmm????
Also, notice Teresa’s surprise when WackJack mentions the garage/apartment/closet (which she did not have correct info for… no closest) that the Guidice’s are building and then all of a sudden it’s in the tabloids and WackJack is again commenting about it in the talking head, there too production had first access to what was taking place, maybe they leaked it to Jack and the Whorga brother to comment on. I wouldn’t put it past them.
In addition to the cast sabotaging Tre, I think production (under the instruction of Mz. Ann-dee) have also attempted to sabotage her to make her and her family appear in the worst light possible. Remember when the pyschic told WackJack that Teresa would have daggers coming from every direction? Boy, that was an understatement.
But God is good, and Teresa (although far from perfect), is a woman of faith who deep down is a person of morals, values, and a good heart — as are her parents — and we as viewers see that and that’s why we see right through everyone else’s intentions.
StoopidHousewives Uncovered Lead Producer’s Bias Against Teresa Giudice
Why do viewers get the feeling that the show is a Teresa Giudice bashfest? Let lead RHONJ producer, “Cat” Rodriguez’ tweets tell the story!
Using the twitter name @YourFriendKitty, Co-Executive Producer “Cat” has communicated frequently with the New Jersey crew… except for Teresa Giudice! “Cat” also stepped in at the Posche Fashion Show… something that is a no-no for a “reality” producer … to assist in defending Melissa Gorga when things got a bit rocky after Melissa’s ex-boss from Lookers showed up!
Ms. Rodriguez is no longer Co-Executive Producer of the RHONJ. Don’t know the REAL reason she was let go from her duties at the RHONJ… can only surmise that either ratings dropped or that Bravo caught on to her obvious bias toward everyone but Tree! Ms. Rodriguez is also NOT listed on IMDB in any producer capacity
http://stoopidhousewives.com/2012/08/11/real-housewives-of-new-jersey-who-killed-seasons-three-and-four-of-rhonj-a-little-kitty-did/