Teresa Giudice Can Handle Criticism But Melissa Gorga Can’t: Teresa to Appear at Bridal Expo as Tabloids Continue to Spread Cheating Allegations About Her Husband

Melissa is receiving positive press, with stories as innocuous as her tweeting congratulations to NeNe for being at the Golden Globes award show, yet the tabloids are still printing the same ole negative stories about Joe Giudice’s alleged infidelity, which supports the theory that Bravo is going to use creative editing AGAIN in season 5 to paint Joe Giudice as a cheater, while rumors have been circulating that Melissa Gorga is the real cheater.

The following is the latest story from RadarOnline — notice that the source and the tabloid are making strong accusations about the Giudice’s marriage rather than mere allegations:

• Teresa Giudice’s marriage to Joe Giudice has been on the rocks for a while
• She’s going to dish on the good times in her marriage, not the bad
• She isn’t planning to say anything about their problems
• She doesn’t ever want to reveal the problems in their marriage
• Joe has been accused of cheating on Teresa multiple times
• Joe even viciously called the mother of his four children the c-word on camera
• She is not going to admit that anything is wrong

What Marriage Problems? Teresa Giudice Giving Advice To Brides Despite Joe’s Cheating Allegations

RadarOnline
Jan 15, 2013

Teresa Giudice’s marriage to Joe Giudice has been on the rocks for a while but that isn’t stopping her from giving advice to brides-to-be, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned!

The Real Housewives of New Jersey star is making an appearance Tuesday night at the Coral House on Milburn Lake’s First Annual Brides of LI Expo and she’s going to dish on the good times in her marriage, not the bad!

“Teresa is speaking and she’s going to talk about how to have a happy marriage, how to be a good wife,” a source exclusively told RadarOnline.com.

“She isn’t planning to say anything bad about Joe, or any of their problems. She doesn’t ever want to reveal the problems in their marriage, and she certainly isn’t going to it in front of a whole room of hopeful brides.”

As RadarOnline.com previously reported, Joe has been accused of cheating on Teresa multiple times, and even viciously called the mother of his four children the c-word on camera!

“Teresa knows that she has a marriage that isn’t perfect, but she isn’t going to let on about that at a bridal event!”

On the reunion show for season four of RHONJ Jacqueline Laurita said that Teresa admitted to her that Joe cheated on his wife, but Teresa adamantly denied her accusation.

“A bridal expo is the last place Teresa plans to air her dirty laundry,” the source said.

“She is going to keep it positive and talk about her strong marriage, her children, and not admit that anything is wrong!”

Melissa can’t handle it when she gets negative criticism. Melissa is fine with bloggers as long as they favor her — when they don’t favor her, she gets upset and claims it is Teresa feeding information to them.

In the past few days, since the Reality Tea story about Melissa’s workout DVD, Melissa has been answering tweets and launching Twitter wars with bloggers, calling out Mary at Reality TV and tweeting that AllAboutTRH is a joke:

@melissagorga @Realitytea U need to correct allabouttrh they have some ridiculous stuff about u!! – Ty Turner ‏(@TyTurner92), January 14, 2013, Twitter

@TyTurner92 @Realitytea could care less about that one… Such a joke. – Melissa Gorga ‏(@melissagorga), January 14, 2013, Twitter

“This seems like the first time Melissa has been answering tweets regarding her lies… she must be feeling the pressure or seeing that no one is buying her BS anymore and getting desperate.” – Roger Thatteous, January 15, 2013, Fame-Whorgas

“Melissa is beginning to feel she is untouchable – above it all – and too comfortable – really dumb and is consistent with a narcissistic personality. She had better watch out – if you bite the hand – the hand will come back that much harder and knock you right off that pedestal. How many times has Teresa said that she would never insult or say anything negative about the viewers of the show whether they hated her or were her fans – basically, ‘don’t bite the hand that feeds you’. Teresa never addresses negativity about her and always remains positive. It reminds me of Kathy’s tweet calling Teresa’s fans ‘the army of idiots’. That was pretty much the kiss of death for her and the beginning of her downfall. You don’t insult viewers and should never insult bloggers because they really do have an influence over viewers/readers as well.” – Jeannie5233, January 16, 2013, Fame-Whorgas

Melissa must be realizing that people are seeing through her lies. A narcissistic sociopath can’t take criticism, unlike a sociopath, who could care less what other people think.

A narcissistic sociopath is someone with a combination of narcissistic personality disorder and definitive behavioral signs of sociopathy. People with narcissism are characterized by their excessive and persistent need for others’ admiration and positive reinforcement. They generally have grandiose opinions of themselves and believe they are superior to other people. Narcissists are also frequently convinced that they are above the normal responsibilities and obligations of everyday life, so they usually have significant difficulties maintaining employment or relationships as a result. The narcissistic sociopath has this type of personality along with a noticeable lack of regard for the rights of others and a tendency to regularly violate those rights. One noted difference between a narcissistic sociopath and people with narcissism alone is that the narcissist with the sociopathy reacts strongly and sometimes even violently to negative feedback. True sociopaths generally do not respond to criticism or care what others may think of them. A narcissistic sociopath is unable to tolerate criticism and needs constant praise, as well as deference from other people. Many with this condition present themselves in the best light possible and are able to easily charm others to gain their trust. [Source]

Sources are saying that Melissa announced on Twitter that she is coming out with a workout DVD to beat Teresa to the punch (Teresa had mentioned that she was thinking of doing a workout DVD to accompany the release of her next cookbook). FW reader Sackem pointed out that Melissa is trying to beat Teresa to the punch again by announcing she is writing the book on marriage right before Teresa is due to appear at a wedding expo (Brides of LI Expo).

“OK, so remember some quote along the way to do with the workout video being an attempt to one up Teresa because Missy’s trying to beat her to the punch – that it has alot to do with competition, as Teresa was thinking about releasing a DVD with a cookbook. WELL, wouldn’t it make it interesting for Melissa to announce she is writing the book on marriage right before Teresa is due to appear at a wedding expo? According to Radar online: ‘Teresa is speaking and she’s going to talk about how to have a happy marriage, how to be a good wife,’ at the Brides of LI Expo this week. If the show is in production, I wonder if this event will be covered. I have no idea how far in advance Teresa is booked – this is the only thing in her schedule on her website – BUT I doubt it would be a week before. I also understand you don’t get a book deal overnight either, but is it all a random coincidence? Surely these are the types of events Missy should be doing as PR and wouldn’t Bravo be aware of their availability for shooting – there is such thing as a shooting schedule (this I know because I’m in the game). I mean this is the thing that got the Manzo/Lauritas offside with Teresa, that she was quick to pick up extra business – is Missy trying to use the same tact? All totally random conjecture from a viewer – I’m no expert here! I have absolutely no evidence, just suspicion! – Sackem, January 16, 2013, Fame-Whorgas

FW reader and Twitter sleuth Brittany, you’ve done a great job addressing Melissa’s lies and giving a shout out to FW on her Twitter — please stay strong and don’t buy into Melissa’s BS:

Melissa Gorga Poses in Her Swimsuit for Photos from Jamaica, Where They Are Celebrating Thanksgiving Away from Family

A narcissistic sociopath is someone with a combination of narcissistic personality disorder and definitive behavioral signs of sociopathy. People with narcissism are characterized by their excessive and persistent need for others’ admiration and positive reinforcement. They generally have grandiose opinions of themselves and believe they are superior to other people. Narcissists are also frequently convinced that they are above the normal responsibilities and obligations of everyday life, so they usually have significant difficulties maintaining employment or relationships as a result. The narcissistic sociopath has this type of personality along with a noticeable lack of regard for the rights of others and a tendency to regularly violate those rights. One noted difference between a narcissistic sociopath and people with narcissism alone is that the narcissist with the sociopathy reacts strongly and sometimes even violently to negative feedback. True sociopaths generally do not respond to criticism or care what others may think of them. A narcissistic sociopath is unable to tolerate criticism and needs constant praise, as well as deference from other people. Many with this condition present themselves in the best light possible and are able to easily charm others to gain their trust. [Source]

Melissa Gorga tweeted “Well hello Jamaica ” along with the photos of herself above on November 21, 2012.

The Gorgas celebrated the Thanksgiving holiday in Jamaica — they did bring their children along with them for a change, and Melissa tweeted the photo below of herself with her family on November 22, 2012, after bloggers pointed out that she was tweeting photos of only herself.

Melissa Gorga is a Pathological Liar Who Most Likely Suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder

“Teresa has kept my husband, Joe, and his family (me and my three children) away from everything she has been going through and everything that has been so exciting in her life for the last three years… She kept us as far away during season 1 and season 2, because I think she knew this would happen when they found us. Karma is a bitch… Teresa likes to be the center of attention. Be beneath her or get the hell out of her way. Well she has met her match! … My sisters and Joe have an amazing relationship. He feels they act more like sisters to him than his own does… he is completely disappointed with the way she treats him and his family.” – Melissa Gorga, No Fakers, May 16, 2011

“Teresa’s never given us any respect… I think when Joe and I started making a lot of money is when she really lost it. She was used to being the biggest and the best, and then when I came in, she felt threatened. She doesn’t want anyone to one up her. Teresa’s fine with you as long as you’re one step below.” – Melissa Gorga, Life & Style, May 18, 2011

“[Melissa Gorga] Missy was at nearly every single family function, especially the ones filmed for Bravo. For years, she sent Bravo ‘audition’ tapes, e-mails, and even spoke with producers and assistants in person. No one was interested in her or her husband, who they mocked behind the scenes… The day of the reunion [season 2], after the first Danielle confrontation (there were more), Tre got extreme anxiety – and this is when she started to put all of Missy’s motives together: coming to every family event for camera time while behind the scenes contacting producers, Danielle, and pulling the best act [their Soprano's-style audition tape] which got her on the show – together with Tre’s brother Joey.” – RHONJ Insider, Comment Posted at Reality Tea, September 17, 2011

“I met the brother of the Montville housewife [Teresa]. What an awesome guy, very successful, owns alot of buildings, and he is her younger brother. He is very young. Wow!! His house is the most amazing house in Montville, in a very prestigious development. It’s an OMG! Cribs doesn’t even have houses like that. He has a beautiful wife and family; she is only 29! living in a house like that! God Bless. If the Montville housewife is anything like her brother, she should be interesting. I’m sure she will be; they must come from a great family. I know of some of the other girls.” – Melissa Gorga, Commenting ‘Anonymously’ About Herself and Her Husband, December 21, 2008

Joe and Melissa Gorga were angry that they weren’t benefiting from Teresa’s fame. Melissa Gorga stalked Bravo’s producers for three years, campaigning to get on The Real Housewives of New Jersey, but it wasn’t until she stalked Danielle Staub that she finally succeeded in getting Bravo to cast her. Had Teresa Giudice not reacted to Danielle when she brought up Melissa and her lies during reunion 2 (many lies were told, but only the one about Teresa ’not acknowledging her nephew’s birth’ made the cut), Bravo would have continued to reject Melissa as a potential cast member because they thought she was boring.

Here is Melissa’s tweet (and her sister’s tweet) after Danielle’s ‘nephew’ comment during reunion 2, which infuriated Teresa:

Melissa Marco-Gorga Wow Wow Wow!!!!
August 30, 2010

Lysa Marco-Simpson what happen…………hit a nerve?
August 30, 2010

There were many lies from Melissa that Danielle repeated during the filming of reunion 2, but only the ‘nephew’ comment make the final cut.

Reunion 2: The Scoop from an Insider Commenting at Reality Tea on September 17, 2011:

“There was so much of what is now relevant information edited out of the reunion last year [season 2] because, at the time, it was irrelevant. Danielle used Melissa’s name verbatim, and among many other things, discussed Tre ‘not speaking or associating with her own family’ and being a horrible aunt [the same accusation Melissa made in her sixth Bravo blog, Light at the End of the Tunnel, posted on June 21, 2011].

“When Teresa was arguing with Danielle, which was edited down, she CLEARLY told Danielle Staub to not ‘break up’ her family – not ‘bring up’ her family as she tried to assure us. This is why… the day of the reunion [season 2], after the first Danielle confrontation (there were more), Tre got extreme anxiety – and this is when she started to put all of Missy’s motives together: coming to every family event for camera time while behind the scenes contacting producers, Danielle, and pulling the best act which got her on the show – together with Tre’s brother Joey.”

“Teresa said she got mad at the country club (after the Posche Fashion Show in season 2) when Danielle said her house was in foreclosure because Danielle was snooping around in her business. The truth was that it was Melissa talking to Danielle. Melissa wanted Danielle to befriend her like she did Kim G, but Danielle was too smart for this. Danielle was right. Bravo ended up replacing her with Melissa, after all.” [Ragin'Cajun, Reality Tea, April 20, 2012]

“Not only was Danielle getting fed information about Teresa and Juicy’s personal issues but so was Kim G and Monica, the attorney suing Teresa and Juicy. Lookers Dancers has proven to me that she will do anything and everything to take Teresa down so she can be the star of the show and the family. Personally, I think the sole reason Teresa was waiting in the chair outside the bathroom at the S2 fashion show was to find out how Danielle was getting all her information and who she was telling the information to. Things were going down hill quickly at that point and she knew someone was selling her out but she didn’t know who it was. Danielle held the secret of who the rat was. We all know now that Looker Dancer was feeding information to DS.” [old NJ girl, AllAboutTRH.com, May 20, 2012]

It’s a good thing that not all of Teresa’s friends or family members think like Joe and Melissa… if they did, Bravo would have been inundated with audition tapes promising to destroy Teresa.

“Kim G and Ashley’s boyfriend were in scenes with Jacqueline because she had nothing going on in her life, but that doesn’t mean every other cast member needs to start adding people to their scenes. By this reasoning, Caroline’s 9 other siblings should be pissed at her, Dina and Chris. I mean, 3 of their siblings are on TV and 9 aren’t. The nerve! Teresa had her family there. What gets shown is up to the producers. Did she make her brother, his wife, her sisters, her cousins and their families an integral part of her scenes in S1 and S2? No. She wanted to show off herself, her daughters and her marriage (for better or worse). And she did. Shrug. I don’t think any of those are valid reasons for the Gorgas to resent Teresa unless they are famewhores first and family second.” [Lola16, TelevisionWithoutPity.com, May 19, 2012]

When the Gorgas signed their Bravo contract and joined the show, they promised to bring family drama and to ‘expose’ and ‘destroy’ Teresa with total disregard for the well being of Joe’s parents, sister and nieces. Melissa and Joe have no shame. Melissa sold out her husband’s family, with his blessing, for a shot at fame. The Gorgas love fame more than family.