Teresa Giudice Can Handle Criticism But Melissa Gorga Can’t: Teresa to Appear at Bridal Expo as Tabloids Continue to Spread Cheating Allegations About Her Husband
January 16, 2013 65 Comments
Melissa is receiving positive press, with stories as innocuous as her tweeting congratulations to NeNe for being at the Golden Globes award show, yet the tabloids are still printing the same ole negative stories about Joe Giudice’s alleged infidelity, which supports the theory that Bravo is going to use creative editing AGAIN in season 5 to paint Joe Giudice as a cheater, while rumors have been circulating that Melissa Gorga is the real cheater.
The following is the latest story from RadarOnline — notice that the source and the tabloid are making strong accusations about the Giudice’s marriage rather than mere allegations:
- Teresa Giudice’s marriage to Joe Giudice has been on the rocks for a while
- She’s going to dish on the good times in her marriage, not the bad
- She isn’t planning to say anything about their problems
- She doesn’t ever want to reveal the problems in their marriage
- Joe has been accused of cheating on Teresa multiple times
- Joe even viciously called the mother of his four children the c-word on camera
- She is not going to admit that anything is wrong
Jan 15, 2013
Teresa Giudice’s marriage to Joe Giudice has been on the rocks for a while but that isn’t stopping her from giving advice to brides-to-be, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned!
The Real Housewives of New Jersey star is making an appearance Tuesday night at the Coral House on Milburn Lake’s First Annual Brides of LI Expo and she’s going to dish on the good times in her marriage, not the bad!
“Teresa is speaking and she’s going to talk about how to have a happy marriage, how to be a good wife,” a source exclusively told RadarOnline.com.
“She isn’t planning to say anything bad about Joe, or any of their problems. She doesn’t ever want to reveal the problems in their marriage, and she certainly isn’t going to it in front of a whole room of hopeful brides.”
As RadarOnline.com previously reported, Joe has been accused of cheating on Teresa multiple times, and even viciously called the mother of his four children the c-word on camera!
“Teresa knows that she has a marriage that isn’t perfect, but she isn’t going to let on about that at a bridal event!”
On the reunion show for season four of RHONJ Jacqueline Laurita said that Teresa admitted to her that Joe cheated on his wife, but Teresa adamantly denied her accusation.
“A bridal expo is the last place Teresa plans to air her dirty laundry,” the source said.
“She is going to keep it positive and talk about her strong marriage, her children, and not admit that anything is wrong!”
Melissa can’t handle it when she gets negative criticism. Melissa is fine with bloggers as long as they favor her — when they don’t favor her, she gets upset and claims it is Teresa feeding information to them.
In the past few days, since the Reality Tea story about Melissa’s workout DVD, Melissa has been answering tweets and launching Twitter wars with bloggers, calling out Mary at Reality TV and tweeting that AllAboutTRH is a joke:
@melissagorga @Realitytea U need to correct allabouttrh they have some ridiculous stuff about u!! – Ty Turner (@TyTurner92), January 14, 2013, Twitter
@TyTurner92 @Realitytea could care less about that one… Such a joke. – Melissa Gorga (@melissagorga), January 14, 2013, Twitter
“This seems like the first time Melissa has been answering tweets regarding her lies… she must be feeling the pressure or seeing that no one is buying her BS anymore and getting desperate.” – Roger Thatteous, January 15, 2013, Fame-Whorgas
“Melissa is beginning to feel she is untouchable – above it all – and too comfortable – really dumb and is consistent with a narcissistic personality. She had better watch out – if you bite the hand – the hand will come back that much harder and knock you right off that pedestal. How many times has Teresa said that she would never insult or say anything negative about the viewers of the show whether they hated her or were her fans – basically, ‘don’t bite the hand that feeds you’. Teresa never addresses negativity about her and always remains positive. It reminds me of Kathy’s tweet calling Teresa’s fans ‘the army of idiots’. That was pretty much the kiss of death for her and the beginning of her downfall. You don’t insult viewers and should never insult bloggers because they really do have an influence over viewers/readers as well.” – Jeannie5233, January 16, 2013, Fame-Whorgas
Melissa must be realizing that people are seeing through her lies. A narcissistic sociopath can’t take criticism, unlike a sociopath, who could care less what other people think.
A narcissistic sociopath is someone with a combination of narcissistic personality disorder and definitive behavioral signs of sociopathy. People with narcissism are characterized by their excessive and persistent need for others’ admiration and positive reinforcement. They generally have grandiose opinions of themselves and believe they are superior to other people. Narcissists are also frequently convinced that they are above the normal responsibilities and obligations of everyday life, so they usually have significant difficulties maintaining employment or relationships as a result. The narcissistic sociopath has this type of personality along with a noticeable lack of regard for the rights of others and a tendency to regularly violate those rights. One noted difference between a narcissistic sociopath and people with narcissism alone is that the narcissist with the sociopathy reacts strongly and sometimes even violently to negative feedback. True sociopaths generally do not respond to criticism or care what others may think of them. A narcissistic sociopath is unable to tolerate criticism and needs constant praise, as well as deference from other people. Many with this condition present themselves in the best light possible and are able to easily charm others to gain their trust. [Source]
Sources are saying that Melissa announced on Twitter that she is coming out with a workout DVD to beat Teresa to the punch (Teresa had mentioned that she was thinking of doing a workout DVD to accompany the release of her next cookbook). FW reader Sackem pointed out that Melissa is trying to beat Teresa to the punch again by announcing she is writing the book on marriage right before Teresa is due to appear at a wedding expo (Brides of LI Expo).
“OK, so remember some quote along the way to do with the workout video being an attempt to one up Teresa because Missy’s trying to beat her to the punch – that it has alot to do with competition, as Teresa was thinking about releasing a DVD with a cookbook. WELL, wouldn’t it make it interesting for Melissa to announce she is writing the book on marriage right before Teresa is due to appear at a wedding expo? According to Radar online: ‘Teresa is speaking and she’s going to talk about how to have a happy marriage, how to be a good wife,’ at the Brides of LI Expo this week. If the show is in production, I wonder if this event will be covered. I have no idea how far in advance Teresa is booked – this is the only thing in her schedule on her website – BUT I doubt it would be a week before. I also understand you don’t get a book deal overnight either, but is it all a random coincidence? Surely these are the types of events Missy should be doing as PR and wouldn’t Bravo be aware of their availability for shooting – there is such thing as a shooting schedule (this I know because I’m in the game). I mean this is the thing that got the Manzo/Lauritas offside with Teresa, that she was quick to pick up extra business – is Missy trying to use the same tact? All totally random conjecture from a viewer – I’m no expert here! I have absolutely no evidence, just suspicion! – Sackem, January 16, 2013, Fame-Whorgas
FW reader and Twitter sleuth Brittany, you’ve done a great job addressing Melissa’s lies and giving a shout out to FW on her Twitter — please stay strong and don’t buy into Melissa’s BS: