Melissa Gorga and Jacqueline Laurita are Horrible, Vindictive, Manipulative Witches; Teresa Giudice Says Melissa Stays Relevant By Fighting With Her; Dina Manzo Suggests Ashlee Holmes Keep Quiet Like Her; More About Melissa from John Karagiorgis
October 21, 2012 296 Comments
Teresa Giudice: Fighting With Me Makes Melissa Gorga Relevant
October 20, 2012
Although the season is over for Real Housewives of New Jersey, it doesn’t mean the fighting is over.
In an exclusive interview with Real Mr. Housewife for RumorFix, Teresa says her sister-in-law, Melissa Gorga, keeps bashing Teresa to “keep her relevant.”
In Melissa’s most recent blog, she said Teresa is doing appearances with Kim DePaola, who puts on the Posche Fashion Show, to return the favor of helping set Melissa up with rumors that she was a stripper.
“I guess Melissa has nothing else to talk about but me,” Teresa tells us. “I keep her relevant. I keep her going. That’s funny to me. It’s a joke. I’m doing appearances with Kim? Yeah, okay. I don’t even want to answer that because it’s not even worth my time.”
Finally, in hopes to put the rumors to rest, Teresa reiterates that she knew “something was going to happen” at the Posche Fashion Show, because something always happens. But in retrospect she admits, “I shouldn’t have opened my mouth.”
But, she wants to make it clear she had nothing to do with the set up.
Although Melissa thinks otherwise, when Teresa’s brother-in-law came to her to say, “You did a good job,” he was saying he was proud of Teresa’s business successes.
“He’s proud of everything I’ve accomplished with Fabbelini,” Teresa tells us. “Every time he sees me, He says, ‘I’m proud of you my sister-in-law.’ Meanwhile Melissa thinks life revolves around her — like he was saying that because of her. It had nothing to do with Melissa. [It would be] stupid for my brother-in-law to even say that on national TV. I didn’t know what was going on. I didn’t even know my brother-in-law was going to be there. I’m so sick and tired of talking about this. I’m done. I didn’t set her up. If that’s what she wants to believe God bless her. I hope she lives a happy life. She [Melissa] already said she’s done with me. She better remember those words. She should think before she talks.”
Melissa Gorga Says Teresa Giudice Should Leave Reality TV
Joe and Teresa’s parents are from the old country and Italian families are notorious for sticking together. I’m sure they are upset at him for going against his sister to chase fame and help Melissa chase fame. I think that upsets them more than seeing him being taken advantage of by Melissa. Melissa will eventually reveal herself to Joe, albeit with the help of RHONJ producers, the truth will come out about her. The producers are going out of their way to overly dramatize Teresa’s statement about Melissa being a golddigger and to help play up the Joe and Melissa’s ‘love affair’. That will only make things more interesting when it all comes crashing down. – Miza, May 1, 2012, Lipstick Alley
In the October 18, 2012 issue of In Touch, Melissa Gorga said:
“If reality TV is causing [Teresa's] family a lot of stress, then she should walk away. But I don’t think she’s there yet.”
Melissa, the hypocrite, on the other hand, would never be a part of something that had a negative impact on her home life:
“If I start to feel pressure at home, you won’t see me on the show anymore,” she adds. “But I don’t think Teresa is ready to take that step.”
Melissa watched Teresa become famous on the show for two seasons and she wanted that for herself too. Funny how she now says that Teresa is addicted to the fame when that’s the same thing she wanted for herself…. FAME! And as much as Melissa thinks Teresa should leave the show, Melissa will be right along with her next season. All the Gorgas are about is trying to get famous off Teresa’s shine. Melissa’s end goal is to replace Teresa and become top dog but, it’s not going to happen. The edit is going to come for every last one of them. And at the end of the season 5, someone’s going to fall, and it won’t be Teresa unless she gets her own show on another network.
Joe and Melissa Gorga, along with Melissa’s sisters, want Teresa to walk away from her reality TV career and give it to them. Unfortunately, Bravo is bringing back Melissa, but they have no plans to cast Melissa’s sisters, according to a former RHONJ post production supervisor on September 17, 2012:
Q: “And Melissa? Will she be back?”
A: “Yes (abridged due to privacy of source), she will definitely be back.”
Q: “Melissa’s sisters?”
A: “No, no, we get what they try and do on twitter and it takes the sparkle off the series; they won’t be housewives anytime soon.”
Melissa hoped to run Teresa off the show she helped make popular because she wants the spotlight all to herself. But Teresa is too strong to let that happen. She will not be bullied off the show by a bunch of horrible, vindictive, manipulative witches — this includes Jacqueline Laurita and Melissa’s sisters, Kim and Lysa. Melissa is the one that should be kicked to the curb because Teresa is the bona fide star of the show, and Melissa will always be in her shadow.
“Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure! #runner #positive thinker! My lil sis @melissagorga is a #rockstar on #RHONJ.” – Kim Pirrella
“I have 3 beautiful children and 2 beautiful sisters, my lil sis @melissagorga happens to be #OnDisplay on #RHONJ http://telly.com/LIPBO” – Lysa Simpson
“I’m a wife, mother and over protective sister to @melissagorga & @kimpirrella. #RHONJ” – Lysa Simpson
Melissa Gorga and Her Sisters Love Jacqueline Laurita
Teresa: I found his [her brother's] g-string [from his days as a Chippendale dancer] in his room.
Jacqueline to Melissa: She was probably smelling it.
“Yeah like the C word is a term of endearment for your wife” hahahaha @JacLaurita #RHONJ” – Lauren Manzo’s tweet about Jacqueline Laurita’s snide remark directed at Joe Giudice during the October 21, 2012, premiere of season 4 episode 24 (lost footage)
Dina Manzo Suggests Ashlee Holmes Keep Quiet Like Her
Joe Gorga Says He Wants a Women Who Walks a Straight Line and Joe Giudice Calls Joe Gorga a Loser for Not Protecting His Sister
During part 3 of the season 4 reunion special, Joe Gorga said he wants a women who walks a straight line:
“I was there. She was a bartender. She was a school teacher. She was putting herself through college. Me, I’m going to be honest with you. I want a girl that walks a straight line. My father always said, ‘You get the knife, you walk on that knife, you slip, you cut yourself.’ I picked the perfect wife for me. She is amazing in my book. OK?’ – Joe Gorga (Melissa’s expression while Joe is saying this is captured in the screen shot below)
According to Penny Drossos,
“If Joe knew half of the truth of not only before marriage but during their marriage, he would cry.”
Joe Gorga is under the wicked spell of his wife, who whispers lies about Teresa into his ear and he believes them. Joe Giudice put Joe in his place during part 3 of the season 4 reunion special:
“When other people call his sister names and he doesn’t stick up for her, that makes him a loser.” – Joe Giudice about Joe Gorga
More from John Karagiorgis’ (@JohnnyTheGrk) October 18, 2012 Interview with Real Housewives Blog (Click for Full Interview)
Was Melissa always so superficial and materialistic?
O, YEAH! She was envious of what everyone else had. She lived out of a “friend’s” closet for about six years. Borrowing clothes, shoes, whatever she could get her hands on. Maybe that’s the reason she felt the need to shoplift while living in Florida (charges and the warrant have since been dismissed). She was envious of everyone and didn’t have any friends with designer duds to borrow, so instead she just attempted to steal them.
Did Melissa go to college?
Yes, she did, after she got her GED. She was working at Lookers and going to New Jersey State College. Did she ever teach? No. She was a a student teacher/ teacher’s aid and after two weeks she told Joe she couldn’t handle it. So she never actually taught and never obtained a teaching certificate in any state. She went to work as his secretary. She basically went from Ho to Housewife.
Why are Joe and Melissa really selling their house?
John doesn’t know the exact numbers in their bank accounts nor does he care to know. But allegedly the Gorga’s power was shut off a couple of weeks ago. And as the guy was there turning the power off Joe tried to use his “I am a celebrity card’. The guy didn’t want to hear it; he was just there to do his job. Joe is also allegedly borrowing a lot of money from a lot of people. He pays some of his debtors on a weekly basis. Missy proclaimed “At Least We Pay Our Bills” [except for a pesky foreclosure, and the sub contractors, and the service providers].
I asked John if he thought Melissa was outspending what he is able to bring in on a monthly basis. He said he could not comment on it because he doesn’t know or care to know what they have in their bank accounts. I stated that I believe that when they first got together Joe probably showered her with gifts, dinners, whatever she wanted. And now in her quest to be famous and “take down Teresa”, she has probably spent him into the poor house. John added: “And a lot of aggravation and a lot of stress. I actually feel bad for the guy; he’s a worker.”
On Joe and Teresa repairing their relationship:
I (Me – Housewives Blog) honestly believe that if Joe and Teresa had time to talk and be around each other without Melissa being there they would be able to repair their relationship without Melissa interfering.
John on Melissa at the Reunion and her smugness and comments to Teresa:
She said, “Teresa look at me I am done with you and you’re done with my kids”. To me you are nothing but a piece of shit. You want nothing to do with her, fine. But don’t take away your husband’s kids, who happen to be her nephews and niece, and say that my kids are done with you too. That right there tells me you are nothing but a malicious, vindictive, arrogant, egotistical and envious bitch because she is using her kids as weapons. In that statement right there I felt for Joe. I looked at the TV and said that this guy has it bad. I don’t think it was lies — I think it was from the heart, and Melissa knows that, and it “hit to close to home for her”.
Me: Then to turn around and tell a magazine that Teresa called Antonia ugly. And when Teresa writes an open letter on her blog (To My Darling, Beautiful Niece) to her new niece and nephews — to turn around and tweet that Teresa wrote a “lying blog” about Antonia. I am not sure how you lie when you are clearly speaking from your heart.
John: If I actually had Joe’s number I would call him up and say, “You know what bro, you got it bad, whatever it is, it is.” I felt for the guy. When I saw her use her kids as pawns in that vindictive manner, the way she did, I felt for the guy, I really did. I whole-heartedly felt for the guy. You don’t use your children as pawns. If you use your children in that way, you are a piece of shit. That’s your husband’s family.
Me: When Joe said at the reunion, “My children don’t have grandparents because of you,” that is probably something that Melissa has said to Joe.
John: After seeing that, I believe it. I think she has literally brainwashed him; and as a hard working family man, he doesn’t deserve that. I can understand Joe. We both come from traditional families with strict values and expectations. We are family men and will do anything for their happiness.
Definitely done something to her nose. Has Melissa had plastic surgery other than her breasts?
Melissa wasn’t always the attractive lady we see now. Even up until a few years ago, she had a “plain-jane” look about her. I don’t know if she has had any other plastic surgery, and I don’t know that Melissa would cop to it if she has had a nose job or some restructuring of her face.
John: O, yeah, she’s had a nose job. If you look at her old pictures you can see that it was contoured or reduced.
Who Set Melissa up at the Fashion Show?
John put his good friend Angelo up to it because Melissa was bashing Penny’s salon and other friend’s businesses.
Does he have any idea who Jacqueline was texting during the Fashion Show?
Jacqueline was probably texting with Caroline and Lauren because they didn’t want to say anything out loud because they were mic’d.
What was Teresa’s involvement in the set-up?
She had no friggin’ idea what was about to happen. She didn’t know a damn thing. She didn’t know about Angelo. If she did know anything it was that Melissa was going to be the target and that was it — because she was bad-mouthing Kim’s store and Penny’s salon. She didn’t know that me and Penny brought Angelo; she didn’t know that Angelo was Melissa’s manager when she danced. She had no idea what was going to happen. It’s a shame this whole time Teresa was taking the blame because, unlike Jacqueline, we honored our confidentiality agreement. You know if you play with people’s businesses, karma’s a bitch.
Me: I think if you open your eyes and look past taking sides, that you could see that in that moment Teresa’s anxiety was very real as is her pain now because she doesn’t speak to her brother And you could tell that way — with the way Melissa sits there like she is bored unless the conversation is about her — that she doesn’t care. She doesn’t care that Joe doesn’t have his family, that her kids don’t have their cousins, because she is getting what she wants.
John: Look at all her pics — she is keeping her kids around her family.
Me: I don’t know those people. But Lysa Simpson has blocked me on Twitter because I see through the bullshit and don’t buy everything Melissa says.
John: From what’s been said, Lysa and Kim (Pirrella) have been trying to get on the show forever and they (Bravo) won’t even pay attention to them. Kim, Lysa and Melissa are all part of the same tree. Lysa and Kim go to my friends club, go in the back, and get happy as hell and come back out. I have never met them, and I have no desire to meet them. My married friends have told me that Kim and Lysa have hit on them at a party in front of their wives.
So now that Melissa knows the truth, that Teresa didn’t set her up, why do you think she isn’t speaking to her?
She will never agree to that because she will never look at the truth, so she has that edge against her and so she has that control over Joe.
I have a feeling in the next season Melissa is going to get what’s coming to her?
Of course she is. When people are coming forward and say, “You’re gonna deny, this or that? You’re going to tell me I didn’t buy you those because you did this for me?” Really?!?! Melissa is going to get what is coming to her. She had her make-up artist attack my wife calling her a “coke whore” and she looks like a “crack-ho” (for the record, Penny has never touched a drug in her life). Do you really want to go down that road with me? Do you really want to know who the coke whore was? Do you really want to know who it was that sucked guys off to accommodate their habits for free, free nights at shore houses, or for other free shit? I will only warn once, and our friends are all ready to come forward when I ask them to.
Does John feel bad about exposing Melissa?
Not at all. Did Melissa feel bad when she was bad-mouthing Penny’s shop? Absolutely Not. Penny had her whole crew there at the Fashion Show and they all spoke on camera and they got edited out. Until you come out and apologize to everyone you’ve wronged, nothing is to stop this tidal wave, and it is going to hit like tsunami.
Me: I don’t wish Joe anymore pain; he’s been through a enough. But I think he’s gonna have to hurt to see through her bullshit.
John: He deserves the truth and should have shut his mouth and listened to what his sister had to say. We know of many people who would go public and speak on camera with explicit info that would expose the truth. Enough is enough. They’ve bashed businesses, attacked on twitter with troll accounts, had their employees attack, and had others on twitter come after us. We’ve received threatening phone calls; and every time I invite them to step up or shut up — still never confronted.
Me: I don’t want him to hurt anymore, but I think he has to hurt and see the truth.
John: Sometimes truth comes with pain. The good thing about pain is, it let’s you know you have the strength to overcome it.
Does Melissa still see other men inside her marriage?
His friend saw her a little over four years ago. And he happens to be her ex-boyfriend.
Me: So they were…
John: Chitty, Chitty, Bang, Bang
Me: So there is a rumor that Joey might not be Joe’s.
John: I can’t speak to that. I don’t know. I do know that I was told by a friend of mine that he was with her a little over four years ago.
Me: Was Joe out of town or ….
John: No, just because she called him up. Also happens to be the person she lived with for a few years.
Me: Is this the sushi restaurant guy we’ve heard about?
John: Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! He goes by “Bulldog”. He was training to be an Ultimate Fighter but their “partying” habits ruined it. He even jokes about it — says if he knew she was going to get on the show, he would have recorded the last few times he was with her.
Me: What’s his beef with her?
John: She acts like he doesn’t even exist anymore because she is “famous” now. She does that to everyone she knows.