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Melissa Gorga Admits to Glamour Magazine That She Met Joe in 2003, When She Was 24, Not at 21, Like She Says in Her Book

September 10, 2013 584 comments

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A few weeks ago, Melissa and Joe stopped by Glamour magazine for an interview. In the interview, Joe conveys that he “got married young.” When Glamour asks, “How old were you when you got married?,” only Melissa answers, and she answers truthfully, for a change, saying: “I was 24 when I met him, and I got married at 25. We got married within a year.” However, in her book she states she met Joe in 2000 when she was 21 and he was 26, a story they conjured up to erase four years from her past and to hide the fact that Joe was almost 30 years old, partying with college-aged kids, when he met her in Cancun during the filming of MTV’s “The Real Cancun” in March of 2003.

Also in the interview, Melissa declares that RHONJ has “always been where Teresa’s the crazy one, so they’re trying to bring out a little bit of a softer side, but it’s not really working.” She asserts that next season producers “need to switch it up a little bit,” and says they are going to bring in new people, but she doesn’t think “they’d actually take anyone out” because “they don’t want to mess with us.” She explains that the new people would have to be family, “like somebody else’s sister-in-law,” because that’s “why people are so into the show.”

As far as new cast goes, Melissa reveals that she’s “suggested a couple people, but then they’ll try them out and be like, ‘Ehhh’.” She expresses that she wants producers to “bring in more younger people because I’m one of the youngest of the Housewives of all the franchises.” She conveys that she and Joe are angling for a spinoff: “That’s what I want to do. I don’t want to do the drama in the family. I want to be like, the Melissa and Joe fun spin-off family!” Joe chimes in with: “We’ll give ‘em drama! We have drama!”

On the secrets to a successful marriage, Joe divulges that “98 percent of the time, I’m a man” and tells wives to “respect your husband, and he’ll respect you.” He suggests wives make their husbands dinner and have sex at the end of the night since it only “takes 10 minutes.” Melissa boasts: “I sing, I’m on this reality show, and I do all of this – I make him the king in my house and in return I’m the queen.”

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The following is the interview published in Glamour magazine on September 9, 2013.

Melissa Gorga Lied in Her Book About Meeting Joe Gorga in 2000 – They Met in Cancun in March 2003

August 18, 2013 328 comments

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In her sex and marriage advice book, Melissa Gorga is backdating events by three years so she can deny knowing people who are coming forward describing events from 1999 through 2003 and so she can deny accusations of adultery in the first five years of her marriage, when she and Joe argued frequently, from 2004 through 2009. She is trying to erase her past to support her fairytale.

Melissa didn’t meet Joe Gorga until 2003; however, she wrote in her book that she and Joe met in Cancun in 2000 when she was 21 and Joe was 26. She claims they went out on their first date in early 2001, got engaged after five months (which would still be 2001), and then set their “wedding date for August 20, 2004.”

Joe says in Melissa’s book: “Back in 2000, I went to Cancun for a spring break vacation with a bunch of my friends. At twenty-six, I was a little old for spring break…” According to Joe’s timeline in the book, he see’s Melissa “at Joey’s” in the winter of 2000 and gets her to agree to a first date a few weeks later. Melissa said: “It was instant, we were engaged six months after we met and we were married four months later, so within a year we were married.” Melissa said: “From engagement to wedding in five months? Oh, why not? It was five months between our first date and engagement. We might as well make it a tradition. So, there is was. The date was set for August 20, 2004.” – Saddle_River_NJ, August 13, 2013 at 11:40 AM, Fame-Whorgas

Of course, Melissa is lying – they didn’t go from dating to engagement after only five months in 2001 to setting a wedding date for August 20, 2004, three years into the future.

Back in season 3, in one of the earlier episodes, Joe and Melissa were in their front yard (it may have been the scene where Melissa was doing cartwheels and acting like a cheerleader), and Joe asked her how long they had known each other (or something like that), and she said since she was 24-years-old, which would have been 2003 (Melissa was born on March 21, 1979).

Also in her book, Melissa wrote that Joe Gorga was a womanizer who had been engaged twice. “His truth – he got engaged at 20 to his high school girlfriend that he was faithful to for 10 years; they broke off the engagement, and he had flings.” How could he be faithful for 10 years to his high school girlfriend (he was born on August 15, 1974 or 1975), have flings but also be engaged a second time (she gives no details about this), all before meeting Melissa when he was 26 in Cancun in 2000? Why would a publisher not fact check the dates before releasing this book? It’s obvious the dates don’t match up.

Teresa provided the true timeline (excluding them meeting in Cancun in March 2003) in a testimonial (TH interview) in season 3 episode 6:

Melissa met Joe Gorga in Cancun in March 2003, she started dating him in October 2003, she moved in with him in December 2003, and she married him in August 2004.

The following is more of the timeline:

She moved to Florida with her mother and had a lesbian relationship as a 16-year-old in 1995, she was arrested for ‘retail theft’ at age 18 in Florida in 1997, she graduated from Boca Raton High School in 1998, and she moved back to New Jersey sometime after 1998.

In her book she is claiming she met Joe in 2000, but she was living with Bryan Bowen during the two years prior to meeting Joe, which was actually in Cancun in March 2003 [Bryan told CY Interview on August 17, 2013, that "a lot of negative stuff has been said about me, which I will address, just not at this moment"].

From 1999 until January 2004, she was a college student (she graduated from New Jersey City University in January 2004). During 2003 (based on a “pay register” she provided), she worked at Lookers Gentlemen’s Club, where “Joe Gorga used to come see her when she was a bartender” (per her April 12, 2012 interview with Reality Tea).

She may have been living with Bryan in early 2003, and didn’t start dating Joe until seven months after first meeting him in March 2003. According to Byran’s tweets, he kicked her out, she went to live with some friends for a few months, and then she moved in with Joe Gorga – and she told Bryan she was going to marry the millionaire if he didn’t stop seeing other woman.

Melissa is trying to eradicate three to four years of her life, from about 2000 through 2003 when she was clubbing and partying with Fred Caruso, Tommy D, and others, and then living with Bryan “Bulldog” Bowen before meeting 28 or 29-year old Joe Gorga in Cancun in March 2003, when MTV was filming “The Real Cancun”.

Click here to see photos of Jan Marie DeDolce with Melissa Marco, which were taken in April 2003 and posted on NJGuido.com; this also was the time period when 24-year-old Melissa was working as a “bartender” at Lookers Gentlemen’s Club.

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Melissa desperately doesn’t want the truth of how she and Joe Gorga really met to become public knowledge.

During part 2 of the season 4 reunion, when discussing the gold-digger accusation, Teresa mentioned that Melissa was dating Joey’s friend before dating her brother, but Melissa cut her off, screaming that it’s all lies. The following is the exchange between Teresa and Melissa:

Teresa: This is what happened. She dated my brother’s best friend.

Melissa: What! Woe, woe, woe! Excuse me!

Teresa: She never wanted anything to do with him [Teresa's brother]. She knew him back in Cancun days.

Melissa puts her hand on Teresa’s upper arm and pushes her back while screaming: What are you talking about?! Say it to me! Say it to me.

Teresa: Get your hands off of me. Do not touch me. I’ll press charges right now.

More yelling from Melissa, which makes what everyone is saying inaudible.

Melissa: I never married him for money. Ever, ever, ever! We fell in love. Because that didn’t happen for you doesn’t mean it didn’t happen for me. You wish that my life was like your life and everyone can see it now, and you hate that. She’s sitting here talking about my husband, my marriage, how we met. It’s all bullshit. She’s lying! She’s lying! (Andy tries to interject and change the topic.) This is not fair. I don’t even want (Andy is still trying to interject). I’m not going to fight anymore because everything’s a lie!

During part 3 of the season 4 reunion, out of nowhere Joe Giudice asked Melissa how did she and Joey really meet?:

Juicy Joe to Melissa: How did you really met Joe Gorga?

Poison Joe, enraged, screams: Shut the fuck up about my fucking wife!

Melissa freaked out during reunion 4 when Teresa and Juicy brought up how Joey and Melissa met probably because she and Joe allegedly were involved in group sex activities when they met in Cancun in 2003 (she was clearly excited for herself and Joe in episode 11 when she “found swingers” at the gay club). On August 8, 2013, xjrsygrl7733 commented about this on Fame-Whorgas:

“Boy Melissa, why don’t you tell in your book about how you really met Joe Gorga. At Cancun when you had group sex with 5 or 6 of Joe’s friends. There are pics & video of that outing. Can’t wait for that to come out. And maybe you should talk about how many years you continued to see your ex AFTER you married Joe. Happy Marriage?? AHAHAHAHAHA!!!”

Apparently Melissa is now denying ever knowing Penny. Penny explained how she knows Melissa in a blog at Faux Reality Entertainment. The following is an excerpt.

I met Kim D years ago while shopping at her store. We became friends instantly and she in turn started coming to my hair salon. Soon after, Kim D hired me to style the models for her shows. That is how I met the ladies from The Real Housewives of New Jersey.

Before I ever heard of Kim D or Teresa Giudice, before I ever heard of Bravo TV or The Real Housewives of New Jersey, I was friends with Jan – a friendship we maintain to this day. I also knew Melissa Marco (now Gorga). Melissa and I shared mutual friends – friendships I continue to maintain. Melissa frequented the salon I eventually bought. She came into the salon regularly and even had her bridal party styled by my girlfriends and staff. I was puzzled when Melissa claimed she never met me. Then again, Melissa seems to deny knowing a lot of people from her past. Just wait and see who else she denies knowing.

During season 5 filming, I was “invited” by producers AND the person hosting each event I attended. By invited I mean asked / told to attend the event, either verbally, in writing or both. Even though I was present during the events, the edited versions that have been aired to date are deceiving (whether intentionally or unintentionally). For instance, drinks with Teresa, Kim D, Jennifer Dalton, Jan and me at Bellissimo’s: I was told to bring my friend Jan to the filming to discuss Melissa Gorga (a continuation of the discussion started at Kim D’s holiday party), not Milania Hair Care Products. Filming lasted close to 4 hours. The edited version does not accurately reflect the theme of the conversations. Teresa did leave the table when she became uncomfortable with the conversation.

Note from Fame: Each Housewife is assigned a producer, and the “extras” are also assigned producers, so what a producer tells one Housewife is not necessarily what the same producer or another producer tells another Housewife or “extra.” So Teresa’s producer could have told her that taping at Bellissimo’s was going to be with Kim D and others to discuss Milania Hair Care while Penny was told it would be a meeting to continue the discussion about Melissa cheating, which was started at the holiday Posche Fashion Show on December 3, 2012.

Also in episode 12, Joe Gorga says in his TH that, “when it comes to Melissa, I love her boobs, and the only thing I’ll do again is maybe get them a little bit bigger.” But he did not buy her boobs – Robert Palumbo, the former owner of Le Chateau Allure salon (before Penny took it over), paid for them (it is rumored that she performed sexual favors for him in exchange for them and other things).

The following are more comments from xjrsygrl7733 – and don’t forget to read her new comments on this blog (some excerpts below).

xjrsygrl7733 said on 2013/07/24 at 10:43 AM at Fame-Whorgas:

Hello, This is my first time commenting on this site. I tried to comment on Bravo TV blogs and they won’t post anything I say about Melissa. Sometimes they even change what I say in my posts. Everytime I comment on how I know Melissa & the rest of the cast & certain things in Melissa’s past they won’t post them! it is starting to make me mad because I see horrible posts about Teresa that Bravo has no problem posting but if you say something bad about Melissa it won’t be seen! Melissa obviously has Bravo in her back pocket!

I grew up in Toms River NJ & recently moved to NY. I know Melissa & everything she has come on the show & said is a complete lie.

She was a dancer at Lookers. I saw her myself & she danced in a thong like the rest of them!

She cheats on Joe & always has. She used to make fun of him when he started coming around. She would say he was too short & she was only using him for money.

I know these things because I dated a friend of her ex boyfriend.

I couldn’t stand her. She constantly would flirt with other people’s men, even her “friends” men. She was known for being a whore & never had girlfriends because of it. No one in Jersey liked her & that’s why you never see any friends of Melissa’s on the show. She doesn’t have any & she is afraid of what they will say.

There is so much more I could say & I hope I can post the truth on this site.

xjrsygrl7733 said on 2013/08/03 at 9:17 AM at Fame-Whorgas:

I grew up in Toms River, & I know Melissa, her sisters, the Guidices & the Lauritas. Melissa & I hung out with the same group of friends.

In 2003 when she was dancing at Lookers I was dating the friend of Melissa’s ex boyfriend. She did not like me & I did not like her. Joe Gorga was friends with Melissa’s boyfriend at the time. Melissa did not look like what she does now. She was very plain & homely & Joe Giudice is not the one who came up with the nickname horsey face. That’s what everyone called her!!

She did not have many girlfriends because she was known for hitting on everyone’s man. Melissa was never a teacher. She was going to school when she met Joe but on her 1st day of STUDENT TEACHING she decided she didn’t like it & quit. She was never a substitute teacher, another lie she has told.

There were always rumours of Melissa cheating on Joe, way before the Housewives show & Teresa is not the one who started that rumour at all. People came to Tre about Melissa cheating years ago! People came to Tre’s family & told them the truth about Melissa when they 1st started dating. That’s why Melissa’s inlaws don’t like her. It was because of what everyone already knew about her. They knew she danced, partied & was gold digger. That’s how she got her fake boobs. She did some extras for a certain guy & he bought them for her.

The dislike for Melissa really has nothing to do with the Giudices but with who Melissa was as a person before she started dating Joe! She is not a nice person, lies about everything & is completely fake. She is a known cheater & she always has been. If you ask anyone in the Toms River area about Mel they will tell you the same things I just did.

Excerpts from xjrsygrl’s comments on August 18, 2013 at Fame-Whorgas:

She got her boobs in 2003, I think.

I saw pictures from the Cancun trip in 2003. I know several people on the trip had pictures & video from that but I don’t know who has any still. I’m sure someone still has something interesting from that trip but I don’t know who. I have a friend Rachael who has said that those pictures do still exist but if it’s true I’m not sure. It might be a matter of finding them since it was 10 years ago.

I don’t think she lived with Bryan as a real girlfriend. When they were dating I remember them going back & forth a lot. He would see other girls & she would see other guys. I don’t think Bryan was ever serious with Melissa. I think she was into him a lot more. When she was seeing Joe in the beginning I think she was still staying at Bryan’s house sometimes. But he broke it off completely with her & a few months later she was married to Joe G. I had heard at one point that she was staying with someone who worked at Lookers but I don’t know for sure.

She did not meet Joe Gorga in 2000. She met him in March/April 2003 on the Cancun trip. Many of my friends went on that trip but I couldn’t go because I had a 2 year old at the time. I was 24 & so was Melissa. Joe was like 29 or something. My friend called me the next day after the group sex night & told me what went down. It was after that, that Joe G started coming to Lookers to see Melissa but she was still seeing her ex (and others). Melissa would make fun of him & say he was desperate & pathetic! When Mel walked away we would all crack up because everyone in Jersey called Melissa desperate & pathetic as well! Then she started seeing him but continued to see her ex & other people as well!

Like Jan, Teresa was there at the sushi lounge when Mel was with her ex & there are many other people who have seen her cheat!

Melissa & I hung out with the same group of friends. In 2003 when she was dancing at Lookers, I was dating the friend of Melissa’s ex boyfriend. She did not like me & I did not like her. Joe Gorga was friends with Melissa’s boyfriend at the time.

Melissa was never a teacher. She was going to school when she met Joe but on her 1st day of STUDENT TEACHING she decided she didn’t like it & quit. She was never a substitute teacher, another lie she has told.

There were always rumours of Melissa cheating on Joe, way before the Housewives show & Teresa is not the one who started that rumour at all. People came to Tre about Melissa cheating years ago! People came to Tre’s family & told them the truth about Melissa when they 1st started dating. That’s why Melissa’s inlaws don’t like her. It was because of what everyone already knew about her. They knew she danced, partied, & was gold digger. That’s how she got her fake boobs. She did some extras for a certain guy & he bought them for her.

[You and Joe met in] Cancun when you had group sex with 5 or 6 of Joe’s friends. There are pics & video of that outing.

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The following are previews for episode 12.

Cancun and the Real Story of How Joe and Melissa Gorga Met

October 12, 2012 231 comments

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There must be a lascivious story behind how Joe and Melissa Gorga met in Cancun in March 2003 because they’ve fabricated an unbelievable story about how Joe didn’t approach her in Cancun even though he said to his best friend, “that’s my wife”, when he first saw her there at the pool. She and Joe deny actually interacting in Cancun, which doesn’t ring true, and they both overacted during the season 4 reunion when the topic of how they met in Cancun was brought up. They are hiding something about what happened when they first met there. They both say they officially met later in the summer of 2003 at a Jersey Shore club and Joe said, “you’re the girl form the pool” in Cancun and “he remembered how my hair was.” I think the Greeks (Penny Drossos and Johnny Karagiorgis) and others know the real Cancun story (apparently with photos to back it up) and are waiting to expose it on camera in season 5, if given the chance.

“Melissa Gorga, Yea long lost fuck of joe gorga back in Cancun! Don’t make me break out the Picts….. Actually @frankabba has em on a cd.” – Pete Giudice, September 19, 2012, Twitter

During part 2 of the season 4 reunion, when discussing the gold-digger accusation, this was the exchange between Teresa Giudice and Melissa Gorga:

Teresa: This is what happened. She dated my brother’s best friend.

Melissa: What! Woe, woe, woe! Excuse me!

Teresa: She never wanted anything to do with him [Teresa's brother]. She knew him back in Cancun days.

Melissa puts her hand on Teresa’s upper arm and pushes her back while screaming: What are you talking about?! Say it to me! Say it to me.

Teresa: Get your hands off of me. Do not touch me. I’ll press charges right now.

More yelling from Melissa, which makes what everyone is saying inaudible.

Melissa: I never married him for money. Ever, ever, ever! We fell in love. Because that didn’t happen for you doesn’t mean it didn’t happen for me. You wish that my life was like your life and everyone can see it now, and you hate that. She’s sitting here talking about my husband, my marriage, how we met. It’s all bullshit. She’s lying! She’s lying! (Andy tries to interject and change the topic.) This is not fair. I don’t even want (Andy is still trying to interject). I’m not going to fight anymore because everything’s a lie!

During part 3 of the season 4 reunion, out of nowhere Joe Giudice asks Melissa Gorga:

Juicy: How did you really met Joe Gorga?

Joey, enraged, screams: Shut the f–k up about my f–king wife!

Penny Drossos ‏tweeted on September 19, 2012:

51 cards n 51 witness’s …

John Karagiorgis ‏tweeted on September 19, 2012:

Do you really want to get ugly @melissagorga @joegorga ? @PDKhair is holding cards & there’s 51 more cards in deck! Wanna play?

So the real story of how they met in Cancun is obviously a subject that the Gorgas don’t want discussed, especially on camera.

Note: Included in my blog, ‘Melissa Gorga: Lookers’ Dancer Wearing the Cross in 2003, Gold-digger and Cheater?‘, are comments I collected over the past year from people who allegedly knew Melissa before she married Joe. It’s an interesting read.

Club Deko (now Club Ikon) April 12, 2003

The photo above of Melissa Gorga from NJGuido.com was taken at Club Deko (Club Deko is now Ikon Lounge) in Sayreville, NJ, on April 12, 2003, and was sent to Fame-Whorgas by Dilettante (@AutumnLeaves61). Melissa’s bridesmaid Jan Marie DeDolce is the other woman in the photo.

The photo was taken a month after Joe Gorga first met Melissa Marco, if you believe Joe’s story of when they met, which would have been during Spring Break in Cancun March 2003 (and the same time MTV was taping ‘The Real Cancun’) when Melissa was 24; Melissa stated it was when she was 21, but she’s obviously lying.

Joe told Ryan Seacrest that he first saw Melissa during Spring Break in Cancun (when she was 24, which would have been March 2003), but he claims that he didn’t speak to her (even though he said to himself ‘that’s my wife). He said that he randomly ran into her six months later in a club at the Jersey shore, which would have been around October 2003.

In June 2011, Joe and Melissa told Ryan Seacrest:

“I was in Cancun. I was sitting in the pool and I had a girl on the right and a girl on the left. They were fighting over me. Kissing one, kissing the other one. As I was doing the turn, I saw this girl across the pool, curly hair, leopard bikini, sunglasses. I look over to my best friend while I’m holding these two girls and say ‘that’s my wife’.” However, they did not even speak while in Cancun. It wasn’t until they got back to New Jersey that they randomly met. “We were out, we were down at a beach club and he came up to me and said ‘you’re the girl form the pool,’ he was persistent. It took him a couple of times, I didn’t give him my number right a way,” Melissa says. “He freaked me out a bit, he told me what I had on, the hotel I was at, the sunglasses I had on, he remembered how my hair was.”

A year later, in July 2012, Melissa described their first encounter to Examiner.com. She stated that she first met Joe when she was 21, which would have been 2000 and not 2003; however, her timeline doesn’t make sense, so she has to be lying about her age at the time they met (she probably lied to cover up the fact that Joe Gorga was 28 and well beyond the age for partying with college kids during Spring Break). During the interview with Examiner.com, she also said they met again back in New Jersey in the summer:

“Originally we saw each other on Spring Break in Cancun, we were so young! I was there for my 21st birthday and he was 25 and everyone from New York and New Jersey would always go to Cancun for Spring Break. We were both there and he was there with his friends and he says that I went walking by with my girlfriends and my bikini, and he remembers everything that I was wearing like it was yesterday. He pointed to me and said, ‘That’s going to be my wife’. His best friend that was with him confirmed this story all the time, so that was kind of the first time we met unofficially. Then we were back in New Jersey in the summer at a Beach Club and he saw me and it just went from there.”

In May 2011, Melissa told a similar story to NorthJersey.com but didn’t give her age or the year they met:

Their paths first crossed during a spring break in Cancún. “He saw me … and he looked at his best friend and said, ‘That’s gonna be my wife’,” says Gorga, who adds that when they ran into each other back in Jersey, “he came over to me and said, ‘I saw you in your leopard bikini in Cancún.’ I said, ‘Well, why didn’t you talk to me?’ He said, ‘Well, you didn’t look like you wanted to talk.’ And it went from there.”

In her most recent rendition of their love story, in April 2012, Melissa said Joe Gorga used to come see her when she was a bartender at Lookers Gentleman’s Club while in college. According to a ‘pay register ’ that she released in December 2011, she worked at Lookers the entire 2003 calendar year.

Here’s how she describes the early stages of their relationship, when she was 24 years old:

“It was one of those things that we went out on a first date and we saw each other every day after. We both just knew, we were at the age when we were ready to settle down. I was graduating college and he was 28 and he was done partying, so it was a good time for us really. It was instant, we were engaged six months after we met and we were married four months later, so within a year we were married. It was one of the things where I think a lot of people wait because when you’re younger you don’t have the money for the house or the wedding, but we were fortunate in that regard and it just worked for us.”

Here’s an excerpt from Melissa’s Bravo blog, “Like a Prayer”, where she gives another story about how they met:

“I think a big misconception about me and Joe is that we got married and were just rich and had everything we could ever want. Not true. When I first met Joe and for the first few years we were married, he owned a landscaping company. We did well for two newlyweds in our 20s, but nothing like we are now. We worked for it together.

From the day we got engaged, Joe asked me to work in his office as his secretary and suggested not going into the school system to be a teacher. I had just graduated college and really wanted my own classroom. I did go to a teachers’ fair and got hired as a teacher, but after discussing it with Joe, I decided not to take the job and to work with him in his office. Joe felt like with me backing him up rather than have a stranger running things, we would make the business more successful.

Well Joe was right. I worked in that office 9 to 5 Monday through Friday and did it. Even when Antonia was born, I used to bring her and all her toys to the office and I would work all day with her there. It wasn’t always easy. There were times (like the one you heard me remind Joe of) that we couldn’t even buy diapers when Gino was first born. 2008 was definitely a hard year. We had invested in real estate and the market went sour. I’m sure everyone remembers that and is still feeling the effects of the economy.

Joe and I are gamblers, and I mean that in a good way. We take chances and sometimes we win and sometimes we lose, but as long as we have our two hands and each other, we can always get back on top, and that’s what we did.”

In season 3 episode 6, Joe tells the the story of how they met in Cancun, and he says she was working three jobs at the time and explains how he promised her he’d put her on a pedestal. Melissa had her boob job in the photo above, at age 24, as a college student, studying to be a teacher. In season 4 episode 20, Melissa says she was a second-grade teacher when she was bartending at Lookers in 2003. However, in her April 2012 she told Examiner.com that she was in college (she didn’t graduate from college until January 2004 — see photo below of her college diploma, which she tweeted on September 24, 2012) when Joe visited her while she was working at Lookers (which, according to her pay register, was in 2003). During part 3 of the season 4 reunion special, Joe Gorga said Melissa was a teacher when he met her and in the next breath says she was in college when her met her. So their story is falling apart because they can’t keep their lies straight.

“My college degree;.) #rhonj http://t.co/kFtzK3yc” – Melissa Gorga, September 24, 2012, Twitter

Why would a 24-year-old working her way through college to become a elementary school teacher need, or have the money to pay for, a boob job unless someone helped her out, like maybe her bosses at Lookers (and why would they pay for them unless there was something in it for them)?

I was blessed with a pretty sexy ass, so I wear short shorts to tease: ‘I know you want me, but stay over there’.” – Melissa Gorga, season 4 episode 6

Timeline from season 3 episode 6, etc.:

She moved to Florida with her mother and had a lesbian relationship as a 16-year-old in 1995, she was arrested for ‘retail theft’ at age 18 in Florida in 1997, she graduated from Boca Raton High School in 1998, she moved back to New Jersey sometime after 1998, she started dating Joe in October 2003, she moved in with him in December 2003, she graduated from New Jersey City University in January 2004, and she married Joe in August 2004.

TRANSCRIPT of Melissa Gorga admitting she LIED about being a teacher and was never a teacher PLUS VIDEO:

From the August 2011 MyFox video (when asked about what she was doing before being on RHONJ):

“I was a stay at home mom, I went to school to become a teacher, I never actually went and got the job, I graduated and got engaged all at the same time and my husband wanted me to run his business for him.”

From the season 4 finale at the Posche Fashion Show (taped on September 27, 2011):

Melissa: “First of all I was a school teacher, it’s very different from being a dancer. When your brother met me I was a school teacher do you understand that?”

Teresa: “No, you were going to college.”

Melissa: “And I was teaching second grade.”

LINK: http://www.realitytea.com/2012/04/12/exclusive-melissa-gorga-talks-family-drama-her-music-stripper-rumors-and-how-reality-television-has-affected-her-life/

Video of Fox Good Day New York (6 minutes into video — it is the LAST one posted on the blog link):
http://stoopidhousewives.com/2012/09/28/real-housewives-of-new-jersey-10-things-from-taping-the-rhonj-reunion-show

Source for Photo:

Photo: NJGuido.com

Website URL http://www.nlsociety.com

TheMoo, AMoussa, NLSociety.com Founder and Creator, Member Since 13 Jan 2003

The NLSociety.com has a forum where in 2003 members were discussing the Lookers’ dancer wearing the cross:

http://www.nlsociety.com/forum/index.php/topic/16869-lookers/
[Warning: some of the language is crude]

I copied some of that 2003 discussion about the “Lookers’ dancer wearing the cross” (which sounds like Melissa) here:

http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/09/09/melissa-gorga-lookers-dancer-wearing-the-cross-in-2003/

So let’s summarize: NJGuido.com has photos of Melissa partying in 2003, and that site also runs the NLSociety.com forum where in 2003 members were discussing the hot Catholic-girl dancers at Lookers and the dancer with fake boobs and wearing a cross.

For another photo of Melissa Marco at NJGuido.com, posted April 7, 2003, click on the link below (photo labeled, “This pinned topic is for you to share who or what picture is hot for the week. Hotties of the week”):

http://www.njguido.com/forum/index.php/topic/2833-hotties-of-the-week-weekly-pic-post/

To quote Melissa:

“I think there are far too many ‘kawinkydinks’ and the writing is on the wall.”

Related:

  • ‘Tommy the Greek’ from Marlboro, NJ, is the Man That Melissa Gorga Wanted
    “You have pulled Teresa and Joe away from each other by manipulating his own thinking. When is enough enough? You were nothing more then a simple girl who wore imitation clothing to try to fit in or always wore the pink fuzzy sweater everywhere you went. You targeted only men with money and did anything for them to gain their acceptance. You ‘stalked’ Tommy the Greek from Marlboro, NJ, and did whatever he wished even though you knew he was using you. You even went to the extreme of following him in nightclub bathrooms. His family didn’t except (sic) you and you ‘settled’ for Joe because of the home he lived in. Joe comes from a proud Italian, old fashioned family with morals and values. But you managed to manipulate his mind and because his family is supportive, you were excepted (sic).”

    “You were nothing more then a handoff from Joe’s friends, wasn’t he third in line? Love at first sight my ass. Yea he saw you in Cancun while his and your friends had ‘fun’ from the very first day, but you wanted nothing to do with him until he caught up with you at Lookers with one of his friends you were actually going out with. Another joke. F*cking hand me down. Then you found out he had money and you went on the prawl. Shall I continue? Nah, I’ll save it for when Penny gets on the show and one at a time we’ll be getting our hair done by Penny and Robert and exposing everything. Oh, you remember Robert don’t you? Lol, Season 5 will be interesting.”
  • Melissa Gorga “Settled” for Joe
    “Yes you met him on spring break, but you didn’t give him the time of day and said he was too short and not your type. Joe was persistent though, I’ll give him that. Once you saw he was a hard working man with money in his pocket, nice home, and can easily manipulate him, you locked him in.”
  • Real Housewives of New Jersey Melissa Gorga’s Ex Was a Girl Who Reveals Melissa’s Lesbian Past!
  • Is Joe Gorga Gay, Does He ‘Swim in the Man Pond?’; Is Melissa Gorga a Closet Lesbian?
  • Melissa Marco was arrested on July 16, 1997 for “retail theft” in Palm Beach County, Florida