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Melissa Gorga’s Ex Boyfriend Bryan ‘Bulldog’ Bowen

January 16, 2013

During part 3 of the season 4 reunion special, Joe Gorga said he wants a women who walks a straight line:

“I was there. She was a bartender. She was a school teacher. She was putting herself through college. Me, I’m going to be honest with you. I want a girl that walks a straight line. My father always said, ‘You get the knife, you walk on that knife, you slip, you cut yourself.’ I picked the perfect wife for me. She is amazing in my book. OK?’ – Joe Gorga (Melissa’s expression while Joe is saying this is captured in the screen shot below)

For more than a year, blog commenters have been talking about Melissa Gorga’s ex boyfriend Bryan, who goes by the nickname Bulldog. According to sources, Melissa lived with Bryan ‘Bulldog’ Bowen for two years before marrying Joe Gorga and cheated on Joe with him over a period of years after she got married.

‘Anonymous’ here at Fame-Whorgas posted his Twitter handle (@bulldog_nj) on 2013/01/16 at 4:24 AM.

“1st off let me say Bulldog didn’t ask for this. It came too him. He could of easily popped up when she started but didn’t.” – Christina Lee, January 19, 2013, Twitter

“1st off I got on twitter to support my friend @FrankieEdgar @JRsBarSSH & Boxing. I tweet positive & never once mention I was her ex! It came 2me – Bulldog, January 23, 2013, Twitter

Per his/her comments at Fame-Whorgas, here is how ‘anonymous’ figured out that @bulldog_nj was the ‘Brian’ a.k.a. ‘Bulldog’ whose name and nickname were circulating in blog comments as Melissa’s ex:

Anonymous says:
January 16, 2013 at 4:24 AM

@bulldog_nj (butch/bulldog) ex of Mego twitter

Anonymous says:
January 16, 2013 at 4:29 AM

Check out 93 days ago convo [October 14 to be exact]

Anonymous says:
January 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM

I googled … Twitter and tried the names and it came right up…surprised it wasn’t seen before

Anonymous says:
January 16, 2013 at 9:05 PM

Found him looking thought Roger from jersey shore too. His name bulldog nj really does stand out

Anonymous says:
January 16, 2013 at 8:07 PM

I saw it looking at jersey shore Rogers twitter…..they often converse …..the name bulldog nj caught my eye so I researched due to Mego rumors

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On January 21, 2013, Bryan tweeted that Melissa and her sisters called his best friend, “begging him to talk to me about not saying anything.” On January 22, 2013, Queenz of Media (QoM) deleted all their vile tweets directed at Bulldog and are claiming that copies circulating on the internet are ‘doctored’ (I saved the disgusting tweets in a file because I knew they would try to deny it) — Melissa and her sisters must have called off the attack once Bryan said he was willing to talk to them.

I would think they would never wanna push me. Kim called my best friend yest begging him to talk to me not to say anything lol.

Phone records don’t lie!! I was Being nice by just saying Kim cause I still don’t really wanna go there.

I thought we worked this out yesterday, why wake a sleeping bear!?

Tell your friend n her sisters stop calling my friends [replying to QoM]

You can’t hide what u said u didn’t just help them u might have just covered the dirt of the burial now [replying to QoM].

Melissa’s sister Kim Pirrella tweets regularly with QoM. Here are just a few of those tweets:

Gracie!!!!!!!! “@QueenzOfMedia: @kimpirrella morning poodle. xo” – Kim Pirrella, January 21, 2013

Hello to two of my favorite people! “@justjillianr: @QueenzOfMedia “these are spirit fingers…..THESE are gold!” – Kim Pirrella, January 11, 2013 from Twitter for iPhone

Thank you…luv you 2 “@QueenzOfMedia: @kimpirrella wishing you the most Merry Christmas of all! you can’t imagine how much i adore you! xo” – Kim Pirrella, December 24, 2012 from Twitter for iPhone

XOXO “@QueenzOfMedia: @LysaSimpson @kimpirrella @melissagorga @donnamarco1 xoxo to each of you.” – Kim Pirrella, October 24, 2012 from Twitter for iPhone

NICE! “@QueenzOfMedia: The Queenz Of Media News & Gossip is out! Top stories today via @kimpirrella” – Kim Pirrella, October 13, 2012 from Twitter for iPhone

QoM is Melissa’s mouthpiece, and they spread vicious lies on her behalf. Melissa appeared on their internet show on September 8, 2012:

“Guess what? Melissa Gorga is going to be on The Queenz of Media Thursday!” – QueenzofMedia, Retweeted by Melissa Gorga, September 8, 2012

When Bryan tweeted Kim Pirrella, asking her if she was losing her mind for associating with QoM, she tweeted him back, telling him to get the hell off Twitter and to call her; and she asked him, “What happened to you!” and said, “I think you must be losing your freakin mind.” Bryan replied that he didn’t understand all the hate when he was simply trying to defend himself, and told her he would love to sit and talk without any cameras, and that “a lot needs to be put on the table.”

Bryan tweeted that following about his brain surgery on September 11, 2012 – part of the tumor was not removed, and he still must undergo more treatment:

“I am back and fourth in NYU great hospital and I have one of the best surgeons in the world. God is in my life, I’ll be just fine :)

“Right now what’s most important is my health. I have part of a tumor they cannot not fully take out; there are some complications. 1st things 1st.”

Knowing this, Melissa and her minions told Bulldog on January 24, 2013, that she’s not worried about him making it onto the show because he will be dead:

“So I get the phone call today that she says she’s not worried about me making it on the show because my tumor is back and I will be dead.”

Bryan also tweeted:

“Yes it’s back, my best friend was the one who told her, n thank u everyone! I will be ok, it’s in Gods hands!”

As recently as January 14, 2013, Melissa continued to deny the blog rumors about Bryan:

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The Marcos will stop at nothing to keep their secrets, and Bryan doesn’t need this harassment. The truth is his to keep if he decides to hold his peace, and we need to respect that. He has kept Melissa’s secrets for many years, and he didn’t ask for this — he was just a name circulating around the blogs until his Twitter handle was revealed here at Fame-Whorgas. He needs to reject any offers from Bravo to appear on camera because the producers will twist his words and use editing tricks to protect Melissa and discredit him. Bravo and Melissa are ruthless, and he doesn’t need this BS or these wicked people in his life.

“Let me set something straight I don’t Hate anyone, it’s not in my heart TODAY! Like I said if confronted I will just tell the TRUTH! ;)

“I said this before ill say it again, I Don’t have to like everyone but I can Love Everyone! ;) inner peace”

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Today is my 8-year wedding anniversary to the love of my life. I put my all into my marriage and show Joe respect. I’m not going to get into the phone call we saw Joe Giudice have [at the Napa vineyards]. I didn’t like it when Teresa made accusations about my marriage, so I’m not going to do it to hers. I will leave it to Joe and Teresa to explain it. How they choose to live within their marriage has nothing to do with any of us. I was very upset when I watched the episode, and I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy. I would never want this to happen to her. – Melissa Gorga, Bravo Blog ‘An Honest Mistake?’, August 20, 2012

Melissa boasted in her Bravo blog on August 20, 2012, about how she is the bigger person and won’t talk about Teresa’s marriage, yet she made subtle digs at Teresa’s marriage in the blog. And then, in her typical hypocritical and lying fashion, six days later, on August 26, 2012, she gave an interview to The Huffington Post, where she talked about Teresa’s marriage:

The Huffington Post: In last week’s episode, there was a very controversial moment with Joe Giudice making a phone call. What did you remember what you were thinking while that was actually happening?

Melissa: I had no idea that even happened. We watched it for the first time the way you did.

The Huffington Post: What did you think when you saw it?

Melissa: Oh, I teared up. I really did. I was sitting on my couch and I teared up. It was sad. No matter what issues I have with Teresa, you don’t wish that on anyone. It was very obvious that she knew exactly who he was on the phone with from the footage. It’s sad and I guess she’s in some type of denial right now, but I think eventually she’ll get her head on straight and be ready to deal with it.

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  1. Jeannie5233
    January 16, 2013 at 12:10 PM | #1

    Well, so much for all that positive press on Melissa lately! She’s worked so hard on her image trying to sweep her past under the rug. Slowly but surely it’s all coming out of the woodwork! Yeah!l!

    Can’t wait to see Melissa working out on that DVD – backpedaling as fast as she can on that hamster wheel trying to do damage control!

    WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND – and it won’t be Joey punching her in the face this time!!

    • Phw
      January 19, 2013 at 4:24 AM | #2

      If it was my comment about bryans scare I humbly apologise for it, please tell him I am very sorry my big mouth got ahead of my brain.

  2. Donnabonnadonna
    January 16, 2013 at 12:26 PM | #3

    Her 15 minutes are almost UP! Haha

    • January 17, 2013 at 1:32 AM | #4

      R they friggin 4 real?I mean they R going back to her years way before anything ya know!How crazy is this site becoming.At first the ex said leave me alone it was a long time ago then they wave money at him & now he is ready to make something up.My god this is such A sick site!!!

      • ks2id2tx
        January 17, 2013 at 4:08 AM | #5

        Then why are you here commenting? If yyou’re SO disgusted with this site, why even bother leaving a comment? Doesn’t make sense……..smh

      • Monique
        January 17, 2013 at 5:48 AM | #6

        It’s obvious you can’t read. He said the only time he’ll make his past w/ Melissa known is if Melissa denies their relationship (on the show) when she was cheating on Joe w/ him. Someone tweeted him saying she’ll give him a grand if he airs out all of Melissa’s laundry including pics. He did not respond to it and most importantly I believe he’ll ask for more money even if he had that in mind. Stop trolling and get a clue! Everytime I read your comments I always say to myself “She seriously must be high on meds.” Your train of thought along w/ your bad grammar, hypocritical statements and, your pitiful mental capacity is at level zero! ALL the shit you say is absolutely insane.

      • happylady
        January 17, 2013 at 5:16 PM | #7

        Your spelling is improving Dee!

      • Phw
        January 17, 2013 at 11:10 PM | #8

        Dee if it is such a sick site as you say then you must be a sicko for being here

      • Anonymous
        January 18, 2013 at 7:14 AM | #9

        Take a pill already !! Your giving me a headache !!!!

      • January 18, 2013 at 10:30 AM | #10

        Dee, can you read? He never told anyone to leave him alone, he just said that it was a long time ago when someone asked him what he saw in Melissa. And he has not been offered money other than the $1k that someone offered him on Twitter and he STILL has not said anything. More importantly, what do either of those things have to do with FW? It’s not Fame asking him to talk or offering him money. So why would either of these qualify this site as “sick”?
        Talk about making something up. The bizzare and off-base conclusions that you draw from everything are what is REALLY sick.

      • Anonymous
        January 18, 2013 at 12:20 PM | #11

        You’re reading it and commenting. Troll along now

  3. missym57
    January 16, 2013 at 12:31 PM | #12

    Haven’t even read it yet and I am excited!!
    : )

  4. January 16, 2013 at 12:41 PM | #13

    Oh Lord, you are a giving Lord. U knew we needed a laugh at Melissa’s expense. We asked, we believed and we received..lol.

    So I heard the workout vid goes something Ike this:
    1) warm up: backpedaling as fast as you can ( thank you Jeannie lmao)
    2) flexibility: yoga moves you too can use to give bj’s in a car
    3) cross training 1: learn to take a good punch (which I really really hope is a lie, cos any man who would hit a woman is a _____)
    4) cross training 2: learn to cry on demand while proffering lie after lie (after lie).
    5) cool down: good ideas for that post fellatio bliss
    6) meditation: focusing on Teresa like the zen Buddhists focus n their belly buttons.
    7) face yoga: smirks, victim face and wide eyes will be area of focus

    Wow! Jampacked with all kinds of goodies, huh? And lest anyone think I scooped @chrisstark – not a word of my post is true or accurate. But hopefully u will find it funny nonetheless.

    PS I’m kinda feeling sorry for this bulldog dude. I’m not sure I’m comfortable with someone NOT on the show being “outted”. So until Bryan tells us himself, I’ll keep him outta it – and outta his car..lol.

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 12:44 PM | #14

      AMEN!!!!!

      There has to be something in the workout video where Melissa could be holding a punching bag – protecting her face – while Joey “works out”!!

      • January 16, 2013 at 12:53 PM | #15

        Man,,,, u just can’t make this stuff up. We’ve known about bull-to the dog for awhile now. But this twitter feed is pretty interesting in that he doesn’t seem focused I her AT ALL!! He only alludes to her in response to tinalee. Right, Jeannie? Interesting……( and imma keep my dirty ind out of the gutter..lol)

        • Jeannie5233
          January 16, 2013 at 1:00 PM | #16

          You sure can’t RHOcomix! I’m beginning to think this could all be a Lifetime Movie of the Week – it’s got everything – sex, lies, betrayal! We just couldn’t have Melissa starring as herself – it would bomb.

          But, it’s all finally starting to come out of the woodwork – about time. And I think, slowly but surely, Melissa’s day of reckoning will come.

          • MomaJackie
            January 16, 2013 at 4:18 PM | #17

            I think Minx (Jude Law) should play Melissa, those two could pass for sisters and Sean Astin should play Joey. lol

            Even if Melissa does not get her day of reckoning in Season 5 on Bravo, she may get it served to her in real life, perhaps before Season 5 even premieres.

            After her rant on Twitter about allabouttrh, we know she must read the blogs.

            • January 16, 2013 at 9:19 PM | #18

              She’s starting to sweat… there’s no way she isn’t scared to death. Bravo and Miss Andy can only protect her so much.

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 1:17 PM | #19

        even her mouth gets a workout

      • January 17, 2013 at 1:34 AM | #20

        Melissa took A crap in her toilet last week,ya all care?OHHHH,did she wipe good enough?Did she wash her hands?Fameous 4 making crap up wants to know!

        • Jeannie5233
          January 17, 2013 at 7:36 AM | #21

          You must be very angry – understandable considering the person you admire so much will be falling down pretty soon – oh, and she will be falling down. Someone who portrays themself as someone they are not is bound to be outed – it is just a matter of time.

          There are two kinds of ignorance – the first, being simply really not being aware; the second, being aware, but continuing to cling and react in a way of not recognizing the awareness.

          Clearly, you are the latter – the sad thing, you probably don’t understand what I just said. My sympathies.

        • Anonymous
          January 18, 2013 at 7:18 AM | #22

          Then you should call a plumber to clean your pipes !!

          • Anonymous
            January 18, 2013 at 7:31 AM | #23

            Comment not ment for you jennie ,ABOVE YOU^^!!! Way above “!

            • Jeannie5233
              January 18, 2013 at 10:38 AM | #24

              No worries, Anon! I know – and your comment makes me :) !!!!!

        • kim
          January 19, 2013 at 10:05 AM | #25

          Dee needs to go back to 4th grade grammar class..

    • January 16, 2013 at 1:02 PM | #26

      i just put that scripture up on my face yesterdayluke 11:9 HE is a good GOD

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 4:07 PM | #27

      Hey RHOcomix –

      I just reread this comment – still makes me laugh!!

      But your P.S. stands out to me – this guy is a person who did not sign up for RHONJ. He’s not a public figure and I agree – until he tells us himself, I’ma gonna stay clear and keep my comments geared towards Missy and the mess she has created for herself!!!!

      Good advice and thanks!!!!

  5. sars
    January 16, 2013 at 12:44 PM | #28

    man, these people taunting melissa sound PISSED. it kinda creeps me out.

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 12:46 PM | #29

      It does give you pause – makes you kinda wonder what happened and what were the circumstances they would be so pissed at Melissa? There’s got to be some kind of explanation out there. We just may find out.

    • PHW
      January 16, 2013 at 1:12 PM | #30

      WELL IF YOU RUN WITH THE BIG BOYS YOU ARE GONNA GET HURT MELISSA

      • January 17, 2013 at 9:35 PM | #31

        and if you lay with dogs you will get up with FLEAS

        • Anonymous
          January 18, 2013 at 7:21 AM | #32

          Good one Celi !!HEHEHA !!

        • private
          February 10, 2013 at 12:48 AM | #33

          and what if they don’t have fleas then what.

    • January 17, 2013 at 1:36 AM | #34

      ya think!Alot of what they r making up just to get these ppl to yak is creepy!I mean they will yak about wheather they think she wiped her butt when she went to the bathroom,kind of like awe no life at all!

      • whodat2112
        January 17, 2013 at 2:29 PM | #35

        ?????????????

        • Monique
          January 17, 2013 at 9:02 PM | #36

          I’m with you on that one. ????????

  6. brittany
    January 16, 2013 at 12:44 PM | #37

    Already knew about Brian,he is a hardworker;)lol!

    • Honnie Badger
      January 16, 2013 at 6:38 PM | #38

      ???

  7. January 16, 2013 at 12:49 PM | #39

    PS love his doggies. Great pics!

    Oh my husband wants me to change # 3 to:
    Cross training 1 how to BLOCK a good punch.

    He has a point. I’ve only been in one physical fight in my life. But my big brother and dad taught me two things, how to block and how to run Iike hell. Hey, imma small woman and I’m no hero.

  8. brittany
    January 16, 2013 at 12:53 PM | #40

    I am following him!

    • Honnie Badger
      January 16, 2013 at 6:39 PM | #41

      Uh, yeah. Congratulations, I guess.

  9. chris stark (@stark3923)
    January 16, 2013 at 1:21 PM | #42

    Bryan’s 14 Oct 2012 tweets about RHONJ:

    maybe the truth should come out. Lol nj housewives

    the monkey wrench I could throw in there lol omg

    • Rachel
      January 16, 2013 at 1:37 PM | #43

      I went on his twitter, and he seems to be good friends with Roger from Jersey Shore. Jenny knows Mel from the Sandy thing at MTV…..This all means that Roger and Jenny know the truth…this all seems way toooooo fishy to me (on Mel’s side). I think it’s true, but Idk if she would’ve cheated on Joe.

      • new kid
        January 16, 2013 at 3:01 PM | #44

        made my comment about Rodger before reading yours…sorry. fun fact watching hsn or qvc (get them mixed up) snooki came out with a perfume for Christmas 2011 Theresa’s sil and bro call in singing snookis praises, kissing her booty. That’s why when she was on wwhl she said they met over the phone. I feel as if theres a connection that needs to be made here I just can’t make it PR move or something? Oh BTW I like snooki but didn’t buy her perfume, and yea I know its weird that I remember that. Lol

        • January 16, 2013 at 10:12 PM | #45

          I agree with you about the connection…. If you go to Tre’s make up artists’s website, priscilla distasio, she has pictures of her and Snooki. It looks like their from a long time ago because the guy snooki is with isn’t Jionni (sp). IMO, from the pics it looks like they were friends and actually hungout.

      • January 16, 2013 at 9:24 PM | #46

        What about Melissa is it that makes you even wonder if she would cheat on Joe? Honestly, I’d bet my bottom dollar on it that she would do it without thinking twice and without a twinge of guilt.

    • January 16, 2013 at 1:38 PM | #47

      Chris, in this article I included that tweet along with the other tweets in his timeline from October 14 — see the first image in the article.

      • January 17, 2013 at 12:27 AM | #48

        yes! i was trying to post a link to the entire thread n instead – the comment- section changed it into just the 1st tweet……… i was going 4 the link….

  10. kat
    January 16, 2013 at 1:24 PM | #49

    This comment has been removed by Fame.

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 1:25 PM | #50

      You sound like someone who is related to her,and the truth hurt doesn’t it?!

    • January 16, 2013 at 1:36 PM | #51

      pay day isnt only on friday
      all you people(kat ,dee)do is talk T trsah

    • old NJ girl
      January 16, 2013 at 1:40 PM | #53

      Hey Kat
      Do you miss RHONJ? How is your favorite Kitty? I see you are still sticking up for Lookers just like you did at the S4 PFS. Did Lookers help you after you got fired?

      • whodat2112
        January 16, 2013 at 2:32 PM | #54

        Hey Kat, hows the job search going since you got fired from RHONJ??? I hope Messy MeHo was worth it!!! Has she helped you find a “job”??? … here kitty kitty…lmbo!!!

    • ragincajunchicken
      January 16, 2013 at 3:54 PM | #55

      if melissa can drag poor teresa’s name through the gutter to get on the show,and try to bring her down,bulldog can bring melissa down, like katfish said, it’s a pie,eveyone deserves a piece,melissa is broke and needs a payday,you get a life , you’re another marco sister’s account.

    • January 16, 2013 at 4:31 PM | #56

      But it’s perfectly normal and rational for Missy to slander children. Missy’s been playing this game since before she appeared on the show.

      http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/02/10/melissa-gorgas-destructive-quest-for-fame/#more-44

      The lady went on INTERNATIONAL television to drag her in laws down – she has no scruples. How many articles has she done to gain attention by beating her sister in law? It’s the only way she can remain relevant in her quest for fame. She wanted people to talk – so here we are, talking.

      • LilyM
        January 17, 2013 at 2:41 PM | #57

        ITA !! :)

    • Honnie Badger
      January 16, 2013 at 6:41 PM | #58

      Kat, for a producer your spelling sucks. Are you still licking Melissa between her legs? Go away.

    • MomaJackie
      January 16, 2013 at 7:38 PM | #59

      It seems as though everyone on the New Jersey show is broke, not only bulldog. Melissa is the one who landed herself in the gutter by lying and purposely tore her husband’s family apart on, as Sackem’s comment just remined me, international televison. I just feel that justice is now being served, when I see her floating in that dirty gutter that she created, that’s all. Nothing personal.

    • Aussiefan
      January 16, 2013 at 8:21 PM | #60

      She didn’t give a thought to breaking up her husbands family…why should she have any sympathy!!?!

    • AnnieC
      January 16, 2013 at 8:57 PM | #61

      Kat we do have lives – but apparently not quite as troubling as Melissa’s. I’m not totally buying into this new turn of events (Cohen may be a master manipulator – but he’s not stupid) – guess time will tell.

      • MomaJackie
        January 16, 2013 at 9:34 PM | #62

        See, Cohen thinks he is just that smart and he thinks he is the master manipulator of all of us when it comes to the housewives. He believes we cannot think on our own. Remember he gave himself his own show. He is very much like Melissa. He may even see some of shimself (yes, shimself) in Melissa.

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:30 PM | #63

      “poor” girl… you said it, however she’s the one that put it in the gutter (think that’s where it belong anyway). The real question is why are YOU here reading this site worrying about the people here not having lives? If you’re so worried about Melissa’s name being dragged through the gutter why aren’t you worried about Teresa’s? Yep… it’s hitting close to home huh? You’re all so transparent.

    • January 17, 2013 at 2:47 AM | #64

      Wow! Looser? I guess it doesn’t take much formal education these days. Between the your, you’re, they’re, their and there I just smdh and wonder why these people don’t at least invest in a good Grammer and style software app.

      • January 17, 2013 at 2:49 AM | #65

        The looser reply was for kat ….

        WordPress really needs to get their comment nesting together.
        Peace, RHO

    • tulip
      January 17, 2013 at 6:43 AM | #66

      Kat Rodriguez, perhaps? :)

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 7:20 PM | #67

      Well, my guess would be Bryan (Brian) is reading FAME’s blog. So, kat, here you go:

      Someone said I’m broke that I need $ lol i never even started this! The Poorest person I know is a millionaire! I live Happy & I am ME!

      1:51 PM – 17 Jan 13 ·

      So far, I am really liking this young man’s responses!!!

      kat – So much for your speculations!!!!

    • Anonymous
      January 18, 2013 at 8:06 AM | #68

      So we’ll throw in a few bucks each to ease our minds!! Everyone else is making a buck off this bullshit ,why not him?!?!Brian ,say the word !! We’ll hold an auction ,!! HIGHEST BIDDER WINS!!Ha!

    • DD
      January 20, 2013 at 4:56 AM | #69

      Hi Kat! Did we hit a nerve? You only comment every now and then. It appears when we hit a nerve. You are transparent. I think the skeletons are making some very loud rattles. And we are all listening. Hahahaha

  11. r
    January 16, 2013 at 1:25 PM | #70

    Sad. I feel bad for Melissa’s kids and her husband if all of this comes out, this would even hurt Teresa and her parents to see them in pain. Her past as bad as it is can be forgiven and even forgotten. The belief that we as humans can change and grow is what keeps us moving forward as a people. However, the fact that she continues to hurt others and lie is what finds her in this situation. I don’t fault her for wanting to hide her past, but cheating on her husband and ruining his relationship with his own family is cruel and calculated.

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:35 PM | #71

      She’s acting like Teresa has been out to get her when Teresa has actually been protecting her. She’s the lowest of the low.

      • diggitydawn
        January 17, 2013 at 8:43 PM | #72

        I wish there was a ‘like’ button on here. lol This is *exactly* what I’ve thought the whole time, dch60. Teresa’s protecting Mel in order to protect her parents & her brother, but Mel doesn’t see that. Some people are their own worst enemy (or should that be ‘enemies’? lol).

        • Anonymous
          January 20, 2013 at 3:11 PM | #73

          I agree! I’m from a first generation Italian family to and I understand T -it is Italian pride and saving her parents shame- even if it means protecting your enemy.

  12. Rachel
    January 16, 2013 at 1:27 PM | #74

    I hate how she is trying to act like she is all high and mighty. Everyone has a past, I don’t understand why she doesn’t own up to it, I tell you if she was real people would like her so much better. She’s a liar, and the only reason why she doesn’t own up to crap is because she doesn’t want to admit that Tre was right about her. I’m beginning to doubt anything this woman says, I refuse to believe she is even Italian. People from her past are getting mad at her cause she refuses to admit who she was, and where she came from. I do believe what she said to Tre about not being as stupid as her sisters and she married joe cause of whatever, I believe Kathy didn’t deny it she just said she(MEL) had been drinking. Why would she try to deny that? Just say “yes I said it, and the reason he has money its cause he is such a hard worker, and I love that about him” She doesn’t own up to anything she does and as soon as people start coming out to say who she really is, it’s going to bite her in the arse. So just tell the truth girl! show the world you’re not as perfect as you say you are! Although, even if she admits to it, she’s done cause everyone will know what a liar she really is.

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 1:38 PM | #75

      Melissa doesn’t want to admit,not only becasue Teresa would be right,but becasue she lied to all of us.
      I think Melissa might have got Kathy on to the show.Kathy wants to be team Teresa,then it’s like she is dragged to Melissa side!
      I might be wrong.

      • old NJ girl
        January 16, 2013 at 1:46 PM | #76

        Lookers can’t tell the truth. She lives in a fantasy world that her mind has created when she is a wonderul wife, mother, friend, sister, daughter, daughter in law and all around great person. Have you even seen her eggmit to doing anything wrong. Even when she eggmitted that she had contact with Danielle she never had any emotion just a “yes I did” then moved on like nothing was wrong with what she did and said about Teresa. She told Danielle enough truth mixed with enough lies to legal screw both Teresa and Juicy. Danielle was running right to Kim G and Monica the lawyer suing Teresa and Juicy with the information feed to her by Lookers.

        • Jeannie5233
          January 16, 2013 at 1:58 PM | #77

          ITA – my comment below is very similar to yours! We are on the same page!

      • January 16, 2013 at 4:35 PM | #78

        I believe Kathy was only bought on the show to validate the Gorga’s claims. Missy couldn’t turn up and throw around accusations without someone else supporting her claims – she would have been see as evil from the get-go.

        • Jeannie5233
          January 16, 2013 at 4:44 PM | #79

          Yup – Kathy and Teresa clearly had issues that happened well before this show started. She had an agenda all of her own about Teresa. And look how fast she cozied up to Caroline – I believe it was the second or third episode when she went to Caroline’s house to apologize – and there a new alliance was born.

          • January 16, 2013 at 7:33 PM | #80

            Jeannie — Kathy has done nothing but suck Caroline’s ass since coming on the show. They deserve each other, both boring.

        • Alissa Rose
          January 16, 2013 at 7:12 PM | #81

          Sackem, that is absolutely correct I reckon!

        • January 19, 2013 at 7:15 AM | #82

          kathy picked wrong person to be friends with, bit she would have to plug up richies mouth. bravo thought it was cute,the way he talked,but we didn’t.in real life kathy and mellissa would never be friends, too much age difference,raised in different values.most likely kathy was raised with strict parents like teresa,going to church on sundays, obeying your parents,where mellissa was the oppsite

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 1:44 PM | #83

      Rachel – you are right – most times, if someone is upfront and admits to whatever, people will have a tendency to forgive or be empathetic.

      The problem with Melissa though is she won’t because as was said before, she does have traits that are seen in someone who may have a narcissistic personality. Melissa truly believes the hype about herself and feels very self-entitled to everything she has ever gotten and what is to come in her mind..

      Think about her “apology” to Tre when she was “outed” and was forced to admit she had been in contact with Danielle – it was very offhand and insincere and there was a “but” attached to it, “hormonal because of pregnancy”. Notice the whole story was never addressed and she did not admit to the entire thing – she still denies pieces of her interaction with Danielle.

      Unfortunately, if all of the “truth” comes out, it will be very hard for anyone to have sympathy for her – she has brought this all upon herself.

      • old NJ girl
        January 16, 2013 at 2:03 PM | #84

        Jeannie
        You and I do think alike. I have read many of your postings on here and I agree with them. Keep up the good work. HaHa

        • Jeannie5233
          January 16, 2013 at 2:18 PM | #85

          ;)

      • January 16, 2013 at 9:37 PM | #86

        Did Bill Clinton coming clean about Monica really screw up his life so much that he had to hide? From the other side of the world it doesn’t look like it.

        For me, it’s Melissa’s character and morals that I dislike. Jeez, we are all simply human and have lapses in judgement. I could careless if she cheated, danced, hooked did ounces of drugs, was in a lesbian relationship etc – at least she’d be real. It’s the vindictive, manipulative, self serving and righteous behaviour that gets me. We all love a flawed character, as stated we can offer the sympathy and empathy but someone who is out right cruel and blatant with their lies will never win the popularity vote. Teresa is a flawed character and that is what many find endearing. Brandi – she’s winning at every turn! Bethanny was not a nice person – she was crass a determined, but there was an honesty about her, it’s only now seeing the manipulation with Jason that the tide is turning.
        Love him or hate him – Charlie Sheen – he owns all the “bad” things in his life and he’s kept his audience. Robert Downie Jr. The list could go on and on! Britney Spears. It’s the ones who deny and lie that never get out of the hole – the victims like Lindsay Lohan and Jill Zarin.

    • MomaJackie
      January 16, 2013 at 2:18 PM | #87

      Great post! I totally agree.

      I think the truth about her past would have been a great story line for her, girl who worked at Lookers, put herself through school, made mistakes, but, in the end, with the help of Jesus, she has everything she ever dreamed of. I am not joking here. I think it would have been refreshing to have such a story line for a housewife. It would perhaps give courage to other young women who believe they are stuck in a no win situation.

      • January 16, 2013 at 3:13 PM | #88

        I agree and disagree Moma. If she came on the show that way vs. trying to bring Teresa down then yes, but alas she did not. There is no redemption for her in mind now.

        • MomaJackie
          January 16, 2013 at 4:28 PM | #89

          Exactly my point. She came on the show as a holier than thou, we pay our bills, thank you Jesus and I live a life most girls only dream of. Lies, lies, lies …

          • January 16, 2013 at 4:46 PM | #90

            Sorry was reading quickly at work (yes sick) and thought you meant they could change her storyline and redeem her.

      • January 16, 2013 at 9:38 PM | #91

        I agree!

      • January 16, 2013 at 9:43 PM | #92

        Worked for NeNe. She never denied her past. NOW look at her. Bethanny too. Lying gets you no where and she’ll find out the hard way… if not in season five… it will happen eventually. The longer it takes, the more she’ll have to lose.

        • foofoole
          January 17, 2013 at 10:21 AM | #93

          I totally agree dch60. Lies are always found out and unraveled in the end. When there are so many said/made after so long a time, it is a much further fall and a harder landing. By then, Melissa will probably have started a mini-empire of product/place endorsements, a book, a dvd, a drink, some songs. She will get used to the flow of income and the adoration. Then it will all come crashing down and her hit will be that much harder. Memories of how it “used to be” will be all she has. Those are so much worse than wishes of what you don’t have.

  13. Manuela
    January 16, 2013 at 1:51 PM | #94

    Still amazes me that these Housewives knowing their scandalous past would still do a Reality Show.

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 2:03 PM | #95

      lol! ikr!

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:39 PM | #96

      True definition of a famewhore! Infamy at any cost!

  14. Squeezy
    January 16, 2013 at 2:06 PM | #97

    Cmon stop picking on the VICTIM. lol

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 2:31 PM | #98

      lol!

  15. whodat2112
    January 16, 2013 at 2:35 PM | #99

    I’ve heard about the Bulldog affair/meho’s youngest not being SloJo’s, even before i heard that I thought the youngest Gorga son’s eyes had a different look than the rest. Is it just me or do they look just like Bulldog’s???

    • hwcrazygal
      January 16, 2013 at 5:05 PM | #100

      When I saw the picture I thought the same thing…..Little Joey DOES look like Bulldog!!

      • I live in the neighborhood
        January 20, 2013 at 9:32 PM | #101

        I am sorry can we please leave innocent minor children out of this. Melissa and Teresa’s kids are off limits. They are all beautiful children who are cousins and have the same grandparents. End of story

  16. new kid
    January 16, 2013 at 2:44 PM | #102

    Omg is that Rodger from jersey shore? Theresa’s sil kisses up to snooki all the time, interesting…

  17. brittany
    January 16, 2013 at 3:00 PM | #103

    Do y’all rem season 3 family photo,when Joe Gorga said that Gino and Antonia took after him,but when it came to Joey he said”he’s a good looking boy to,”didn’t say anything about Joey taking after him!

    • whodat2112
      January 16, 2013 at 7:29 PM | #104

      I absolutely remember that and thought it was odd…..

      • hwcrazygal
        January 18, 2013 at 11:34 AM | #105

        Maybe that is the reason Mel was saying Teresa didn’t go to the hospital for the birth of the youngest, hmmm?

        • 4kidsandus
          January 20, 2013 at 4:53 PM | #106

          Abso-frickin-lutely! What that dumb girl dosent get is that, while Teresa dosent like her and makes no bones about it, she will do anything to protect her brother and those kids. I can’t wait for Melissa to get whats coming to her. Karma is a bitch and, Melissa, she has your name ALL over her!

  18. Anonymous
    January 16, 2013 at 3:11 PM | #107

    Melissa’s youngest son REALLY looks like him!! The other two are obviously Gorga’s kids ( they have the strong Gorga facial features) But the little one looks nothing like his siblings….oh oh!

    • whodat2112
      January 16, 2013 at 7:30 PM | #108

      ITA!

  19. BC
    January 16, 2013 at 3:14 PM | #109

    Melissa’s youngest son really looks like him! The other two are obviously Gorga’s kids (They have the strong Gorga facial features) But the little one looks nothing like his siblings! oh oh!

    • January 16, 2013 at 4:37 PM | #110

      I’m sorry BC, but I think it is inappropriate to question the parentage of these children whether it is Melissa’s or Teresa’s. The reality is that Joe Marco (aka Joey Gorga) is the father of all 3 of his children and they love him. They are kids and did not sign up for this. Please respect that.

  20. January 16, 2013 at 3:39 PM | #111

    Sounds like Melissa is going down (and not in the way Joe likes). It’s about time.

  21. January 16, 2013 at 3:43 PM | #112

    i find it odd that we havent seen jogo n melgo together lately.trouble brewing????/ at least a month

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 4:16 PM | #113

      Celi – the Whorgas are still going strong – she tweeted a picture of them together last night eating out in NYC. “my love. . . .Italian style!”

  22. Maj
    January 16, 2013 at 3:46 PM | #114

    What a scoop!!! Great job, Fame!

    Noticing that the Whorga camp is REALLY quiet right now twitter-wise….LMAO

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 3:55 PM | #115

      I know,usually there on running there mouths!lol!

  23. Karen
    January 16, 2013 at 4:21 PM | #116

    Honnie Badger are you now _Honnie on Twitter ? I have been looking for you.
    fame, your doing a great job love.

  24. Jeannie5233
    January 16, 2013 at 4:25 PM | #117

    To each his/her own – but I will not comment on Baby Joey – I have said many times here that genetics can be tricky – my kids look nothing alike. There are many familial traits that do not get passed down to each child. Look how different Teresa’s kids are – Milania and Gia look alike and Gabriella and Audrianna bear resemblance.

    As far as I am concerned, little Joey is a child who is himself – and a beautiful one at that.

    • January 16, 2013 at 4:38 PM | #118

      GMTA — I just posted a similar comment upthread.

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 6:52 PM | #119

        The truth hurts sometimes …..and we all know that Joe forgave is not the baby’s biological father. I’m sure he loves him as his own but its obvious that someone else fathered that baby. Poor kids, I feel for them when the truth comes out….because it will. It always does.

        • January 16, 2013 at 7:28 PM | #120

          I’m sorry, I respectfully disagree as we “don’t” know and quite frankly it is none of our business. I really wish everyone would respect the children and leave them off topic.

          • PHW
            January 16, 2013 at 9:53 PM | #121

            I AGREE CHILDREN ARE OFF LIMITS….YES IT IS INTERESTING BUT NO ONE SHOULD EVER PUT THE CHILDREN IN THIS MESS. THEY ARE INNOCENT ANGELS

        • whodat2112
          January 16, 2013 at 7:36 PM | #122

          No, we don’t know but in my experience rumors generally start with a grain of truth!!! Yes, the truth ALWAYS comes out and that is why MeHo is probably freaking out! I’m not saying he is or isn’t but I do find the timing odd… That is all! I’m def not picking on an innocent child! Please don’t get it twisted! All of the children are gorgeous!

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 8:07 PM | #123

      This is such a sensitive issue – we can speculate all we want about this child’s parentage just like we speculate about just about everything when it comes to Melissa and Joe Gorga – but can’t we please respect this little one – he is a very real little person and just because he is a minor doesn’t mean HE doesn’t have rights.

      Just because their parents made the bad choice to expose these kids and I include Teresa in this as well, doesn’t make these kids fair game. They didn’t have any say in what is happening to them and, frankly, alot of it is appalling. Bad enough what they have to put up with cameras in their face all the time.

      Children do have rights and in my very humble opinion I believe we should respect ALL these kids and their right to innocence – which is just one of the many they are entitled to. Who are we to take that away???

  25. January 16, 2013 at 4:40 PM | #124

    Oh Jeez! All this comes out when I’m sleeping and now I don’t have time to catch up! Nice work to Anonymous! I feel a bit bad for this guy being bought into the spotlight but this is the evil of twitter right? If you wish to remain private, you have to lock that thing down otherwise everything you post goes into the public sphere.

    • Anonymous
      January 16, 2013 at 5:33 PM | #125

      See that’s what I was confused about at first, the anon poster that put the initial comment up about his twitter said “check out 94 days ago” or something to that effect… Doesn’t the OWNER of the twitter account see their posts by days and everyone else sees it by date? I might be mistaken I don’t use my twitter anymore but vaugley remember that.

      Also, he just tweeted, “What Melissa does today is not my business nor my problem, she has her life I have mine.”

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 7:26 PM | #126

        Depends on what device your using to look at responses and expanding a convo

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 7:30 PM | #127

        Depends on device your using to look at a timeline a lot

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 7:48 PM | #128

        I have iPad when I looked up Victoria gotti for example

        Going though her timeline it went by days (ON THE SIDE OF THE POST) 124d – it says

        Not sure how it works if you don’t have an app. Or mobile
        When you expand or look at responses then the DATE shows up

      • Anonymous
        January 16, 2013 at 7:54 PM | #129

        The DAY is shown on the left side of comment

        At least for iPad app. You scroll down a twitter and it goes by days

        Ex. The say something … 142d Is next to it

        You get dates when you expand to see responses to what someone wrote

    • popsy
      January 16, 2013 at 6:21 PM | #130

      I agree that everything you post on there goes into the public sphere but what so many people don’t get is that you don’t have to put truly personal stuff on there at all! No one has to have a conversation on twitter with their wife for pity’s sake. BIzarre

      • January 16, 2013 at 10:08 PM | #131

        Same with Facebook. If you want privacy, meet for a coffee! Don’t put it on the net!

  26. SS
    January 16, 2013 at 6:03 PM | #132

    I may not like Melissa but if the dude you all accuse of her cheat with says “What Melissa does today is not my business nor my problem, she has her life I have mine.” on Twitter. Then we must respect that. What does he mean a long time ago, probably longer than 3 three years right. I don;t like what she cause on the show, but really I think we are exaggerating here.

    • January 16, 2013 at 7:40 PM | #133

      I agree. While it certainly makes a great potential storyline for a Lifetime TV movie there is nothing that has been substantiated and no pictures, nothing — just “sources”.

      Quite frankly I believe this as much as I believe Juicy is cheating on Tre — where’s the proof?

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:45 PM | #134

      Well, it does admit a connection adding validity to the story. He’s not saying they don’t know each other but I understand what you’re saying.

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:58 PM | #135

      That’s one of the tweets but the others are much more telling. I don’t think it’s exaggerating at all.

  27. Anonymous
    January 16, 2013 at 6:20 PM | #136

    Off topic but it’s still too funny…. While searching for pics of baby Joey, IMO looks exactly like his mom and not bull dog – sorry to everyone that disagrees, stumbled on the one that Messys sister posted on her twitter, she captioned it What do you see and no it’s not baby Joey… Well someone posted, “the same garden as the “Jamaica” pics??” So naturally I do a quick google search and what do you know… It is the same garden :P

    • PHW
      January 16, 2013 at 10:21 PM | #137

      Anonymous
      OMG……THE SAME GARDEN? WOW I HAVE TO GO LOOK

  28. January 16, 2013 at 6:32 PM | #138

    Update 6:30 PM EST January 16, 2013: Bryan replied to tweets asking him if what was reported at Fame-Whorgas was true. Here are his responses:

  29. January 16, 2013 at 6:41 PM | #139

    Dear friends:
    Saturday, I was diagnosed with influenza and today with bronchitis.
    I have never been so ill in all my life.
    My illness and drug use have caused me to make a few mistakes.
    I have exercised poor judgement in a few of my posts.
    When I needed to exercise patients; I failed and reacted in anger.

    I am wrong
    I apologize

    Chris Stark aka @stark3923

    • Honnie Badger
      January 16, 2013 at 6:47 PM | #140

      Chris — please feel better ASAP. I definitely recommend some good chicken soup from a deli (not a can!). Lots of love to you…

      • Alissa Rose
        January 16, 2013 at 7:24 PM | #141

        Hi Chris, hope you are feeling better soon, look after yourself and don’t worry too much. Everybody sometimes question things they do, it is just part of being human, doesn’t make you a bad person! We are all just living our lives. I enjoy your posts. Rest and relax. xo

      • PHW
        January 16, 2013 at 10:24 PM | #142

        OH HOMEMADE CHICKEN SOUP IS REALLY A VERY GOOD MEDICINE, WHEN FAMILY IS SICK THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR SOUP FROM MY KITCHEN, DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW IT WORKS BUT A MILLION MOTHERS CAN’T BE WRONG….

    • brittany
      January 16, 2013 at 7:18 PM | #143

      feel better

    • Jeannie5233
      January 16, 2013 at 7:19 PM | #144

      Chris – It takes courage to admit when you are wrong.

      Everyone reacts to medication in different ways and what works for some may not for others. Some may have no side effects while others will exhibit extreme reaction. As a caretaker of my mom who is terminally ill, I have seen, first hand, what a challenge it has been for hospice trying to find the right protocol to manage her pain. I know what meds can do to someone’s personality sometimes – it can be a little unnerving as I have seen it happen.

      I hope you take care of yourself, get better and feel stronger soon!!

    • Meho Whorga
      January 16, 2013 at 7:19 PM | #145

      Hope you are okay Chris get better soon xx

    • January 16, 2013 at 7:41 PM | #146

      Get well soon Chris!

    • old NJ girl
      January 16, 2013 at 9:07 PM | #147

      Chris
      Thank you for the personal apology on twitter. You and I did go a few rounds this weekend.
      I am glad to hear that you will no longer be discussing children. As much as can’t stand Fredo and Ms Lookers I would feel the same way if someone was saying something about Antonia.

      I am sorry to hear that you are sick. I know those of us with compromised immune system picks up germs faster than everyone else and what would be minor for most people lands in bed for a month. Please take care of yourself.

      Chris, you and I will start fresh today.

    • January 16, 2013 at 10:07 PM | #148

      Hit you up on the previous page Chris.

      • January 16, 2013 at 10:50 PM | #149

        SEE I TOLD YOU ALL CHRIS S DIDNT FEEL WELL , ,PLEASE GET WELL IN JESUS NAME CHRIS STARK ALL OUR LOVE FLOWS YOUR WAY
        BLESS YOU

    • January 16, 2013 at 11:45 PM | #150

      Patience

  30. tassiedevil
    January 16, 2013 at 6:46 PM | #151

    WOW this dude is shady now wants to leave mel alone, I bet they have found a new car-park or one of joes old buildings?????

    • January 16, 2013 at 6:48 PM | #152

      Melissa may not have hooked up with Brian since 2009 — according to sources, she cut off contact with her old friends when she became a ‘celebrity’, which would have been in 2010 when Bravo began interviewing her for season 3 of RHONJ.

      • SS
        January 16, 2013 at 7:04 PM | #153

        So what he means by “long time ago” would be 3 years ago? right?

        • January 16, 2013 at 7:06 PM | #154

          My source says they hooked up at the Sushi Lounge in 2009 (she called him to met up with her there and they went to the car in the parking lot and fooled around) — my source says it wasn’t the first time they hooked up during Melissa’s marriage (don’t know if it was the last time or not).

          • SS
            January 16, 2013 at 7:14 PM | #155

            Fame I no fan of Melissa, but how do you know that these sources are actually telling the truth, and not exaggerating the story. I thinking about teresa and joe parents as well.

            • SS
              January 16, 2013 at 7:16 PM | #156

              and children.

            • January 16, 2013 at 7:25 PM | #157

              I can never know for sure, but the source is not anonymous to me — I know his/her real identity and his/her connection to Melissa as well as Bryan (and others whose names have been mentioned in comments on the blogs). I’ve had more than one conversation with my source, and he/she really does know Melissa, Bryan and their mutual friends who witnessed the hookup in the parking lot. He/she was told by their mutual friends that Melissa had multiple hookups during her marriage. The source’s motivation is to get the truth out there — Melissa has ticked off a lot of people from her past and has completely cut them out of her life because she’s afraid of what they know and what they’ll tell. They’re tired of her lies and this fake image she is trying to portray.

              • SS
                January 16, 2013 at 7:39 PM | #158

                So when Teresa was about to tell the story, b4 getting pulled by Melissa, that she (Melissa) dated someone else b4 Joe. Was it this guy?

                • SS
                  January 16, 2013 at 7:40 PM | #159

                  You can tell how uncomfortable Melissa was.

                • January 16, 2013 at 7:56 PM | #160

                  From my understanding it was Bulldog she was dating before Joe, but I didn’t confirm that with my source. Chris Stark’s source told her:

                  “BullDog aka ‘Butchy’ … Mel lived with him for 2 years and cheated on Joe a few years ago with him”

                  http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/12/05/melissa-gorga-allegedly-cheated-on-joe-before-and-after-they-were-married/

                  My source was telling me similar things to what Chris’ source told her (see the link above) plus my source told me Melissa also chased after a guy known as Tommy the Greek, who my source has known since childhood — but I think that she was chasing him before she moved in with Bryan. But it could have been Bryan, Tommy and then Joe in that order.

                  My source first contacted me several months ago but I was waiting for the right time to publish what I was told — I wasn’t sure when that would be but I knew I would know when it came — and then Chris Stark published her tweets, which gave me no choice. Since her source had told her much of the same information that I received, I felt the time had come to publish part of what was told to me (I’ve never published it all). I have to protect my source’s identity, so I haven’t asked Chris who her source is — it could be the same person or not, but they certainly do have the same information about Melissa’s past.

                  • SS
                    January 16, 2013 at 7:58 PM | #161

                    Is Tommy happen to be related to Angelo? the guy who said she work for him?

                    • January 16, 2013 at 8:00 PM | #162

                      No.

                    • SS
                      January 16, 2013 at 8:04 PM | #163

                      okay thanks

                    • SS
                      January 16, 2013 at 8:37 PM | #164

                      and one other thing, Does this mean Joe Gorga already knows who Bryan is?

                    • Fame
                      January 16, 2013 at 8:38 PM | #165

                      I don’t know.

              • January 16, 2013 at 11:48 PM | #166

                It’s about damn time somebody comes forward. She is a complete fake, and than just being a dumb, pompous douche like Caroline and Jacqueline.

                • January 16, 2013 at 11:49 PM | #167

                  I mean, that is worse than being a.. …….

          • brittany
            January 16, 2013 at 7:17 PM | #168

            I have Teresa photos and what Bryan said on my wall,so Melissa unfollowed!

  31. SS
    January 16, 2013 at 8:35 PM | #169

    Brian B. aka Butchy aka BullDog is who Melissa lived with before Joe. Remember Joey said Mel had females roommates Mel needed to get away from? It was Butchy who was training to be a Mixed Martial Arts Fighter; his career ended because of all the coke Melissa and he did… Melissa hooked back up with Butchy several times after her marriage to Joey, even being caught giving Butchy a blow job in his car in a parking lot

    http://www.allabouttrh.com/photoofmelissaondisplay/

    So I guess know Bryan is teaching boxing instead of becoming one because of what is mentioned above. This is what I am gathering with all the sources and websites that have this story. Is it a coincidence or is it the truth

  32. January 16, 2013 at 8:44 PM | #170

    I don’t know the identity of the anonymous commenter who posted Bryan’s twitter handle here at FW early this morning — the person didn’t give an e-mail and the IP address doesn’t belong to anyone who commented here before. The person is not Chris Stark because she wouldn’t do it anonymously, and if she were the one to tell me his Twitter handle, I would have no problem revealing that.

    • Anonymous
      January 16, 2013 at 9:14 PM | #171

      I saw his full name on many blogs from people who had info that clearly knew them both …his last name is not news

      • January 16, 2013 at 9:17 PM | #172

        Like I said, I wouldn’t have been so concerned about protecting his identity if I had known his full name had been revealed in the blogs.

    • January 16, 2013 at 9:51 PM | #173

      Slow clap! That’s why I read here – there is integrity.

      • IhateAndy
        January 17, 2013 at 8:34 AM | #174

        hey Sackem…fyi slow claps usually signify sarcastic unimpressed response..lolz

        • January 17, 2013 at 4:11 PM | #175

          Negative ghostrider, not in my world of 80′s John Hughes movies.

    • Anonymous
      January 16, 2013 at 9:53 PM | #176

      His name is all over AATRH website. Included in interviews with that guy Angelo I believe. It was only a matter of time. He should of protected his tweets

      • January 16, 2013 at 10:04 PM | #177

        His first name is in comments at AATRH as well as other sites including FW, many of which I saved as I read them and included in articles on this blog, which you can easily find if you follow the ‘related’ links at the end of this article. The AATRH Angelo interview is here:

        http://www.allabouttrh.com/melissa-gorga-stripper-or-bartender-exclusive-interview-with-her-ex-manager/

        and Brian is not mentioned.

        It is in comments at the various blogs that I first read about him.

        • January 16, 2013 at 10:48 PM | #178

          Here is a story at AATRH where “Cutie” commented on September 17, 2012, about Brian:

          http://www.allabouttrh.com/allabouttrh-exclusive-interview-with-angelo-vrohidis-says-melissa-was-a-stripper-and-teresa-didnt-set-her-up/

          Cutie says:
          September 17, 2012 at 3:51 am

          Rumor is she was a big whore..cocaine and x ..was engaged to a Brian Bowen aka bulldog from jersey…dated and contacted a high school love from high school east. He has FB,,,that was in jail for a very long time..her husband touches girls inappropriately father died drug/alcohol related. Just ask toms river. They know. It will be out I’m sure….

          A ‘Cutie’ commented on FW in December, saying we need bulldog’s twitter:

          Cutie on 2012/12/06 at 1:29 PM

          Someone should ask missy about BULLDOG on twitter….I’m sure it will bring him out to tell his side. If she is ever on watch happens live and denies him, I’m sure he will be pissed. He has been and their story has been on multiple sites under the comments. It obviously has some truth too it. I heard that they were engaged and he goes down the shore a lot.

          Cutie on 2012/12/07 at 10:35 AM

          We need bulldogs twitter

          http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/12/05/melissa-gorga-allegedly-cheated-on-joe-before-and-after-they-were-married/#comments

          • SS
            January 16, 2013 at 11:34 PM | #179

            When Melissa said her father hit a tree and pass away, that really didn’t much sense to me? There is a lot of what we don’t know about her upbringing, that made her act out these ways.

  33. tassiedevil
    January 16, 2013 at 10:13 PM | #180

    FAME

    As sackem said, INTEGRITY also COMPASSION for peoples feelings that is why I come to your site,

    you have a large following and 99.9% are fun and educated people to interact with on here, that is why I enjoy coming on for my daily fix. (it has taken me all bloody day to do a basket full of ironing as I keep popping in for update on this juicy gossip)

    Cheers
    Tassie

    • January 16, 2013 at 10:16 PM | #181

      Thanks tassiedevil!!!

      • popsy
        January 17, 2013 at 7:56 PM | #182

        ITA

  34. Victoria Veney
    January 16, 2013 at 10:34 PM | #183

    Looks like Melissa got alot of explaining to do!! :-)

  35. SS
    January 16, 2013 at 10:46 PM | #184

    What does it mean that he is getting lawyers?? lol

    • SS
      January 16, 2013 at 10:50 PM | #185

      and who’s he calling Monkey wrench

      • January 16, 2013 at 10:58 PM | #186

        “Throw a monkey-wrench into it” is an idiom that means to stir things up.

      • Jeannie5233
        January 16, 2013 at 11:07 PM | #187

        By “monkey wrench”, I think he may mean that he could really stir up some trouble by throwing a monkey wrench into the “perfect life” Melissa is now portraying on RHONJ because of things he may or may not know about her.

      • January 16, 2013 at 11:17 PM | #188

        Put a spanner in the works is the same… anyone else? Moma? There’s got to be a good Cajan one!!!!!!!

  36. tassiedevil
    January 16, 2013 at 11:35 PM | #189

    I wonder will the Manzos Lauritas & Walkies apoligze to Teresa after reading what is out in the media-sphere this week, didn’t they acuse Teresa of lying about Melissa.

    Bravo are most likely running round like chooks with their chopped off, for a new story line.

    Headlines for 1st episode Caroline calls T meet for lunch to say I’m sorry as they are talking, in comes Jacq (returning carolines pie dish) she then says I didn’t hear you say you hated me in the RV Melissa told me you said it.

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 7:09 AM | #190

      Oh tassie! Please don’t hold your breath waiting on any apology from any of them! i wouldn’t want you to pass out! J/K! I do, however, like your “headline” – very funny!! Unfortunately, none of these people give a rat’s ass about what they have done – they only care about themselves getting more “pie”!

      • Jeannie5233
        January 17, 2013 at 8:43 AM | #191

        I forgot to mention that while the Manzo/Laurita/Wakile clans are so busy looking to get more “pie”, they are not seeing that they will be getting it – a HUGE serving of “humble” pie with a large helping of “crow” on the side.

    • diggitydawn
      January 17, 2013 at 10:22 PM | #192

      They don’t strike me as the kind of people who like to think or ever admit that they’re wrong…they *always* have to be right. As Jeannie said – please don’t hold your breath, we don’t want you turning purple & passing out! LOL

  37. SS
    January 16, 2013 at 11:50 PM | #193

    Something is very fishy here, why would the Christina Lee gal speaking with this dude write on twitter that “People need to get a hobby” its like we are taking this too far, and bulldog doesn’t care for her. lol

    • Anonymous
      January 17, 2013 at 12:41 AM | #194

      How do you know it’s related to this?! It could be about something else completely unrelated. I think she would of tweeted Brian or stated it out in a tweet. I don’t think it’s related

    • Anonymous
      January 17, 2013 at 3:16 AM | #195

      I don’t think that has to do with this. Her timeline has her bluntly saying things and how she feels. Like her disagree with MTV teen mom among other things. If she was taking about getting hobby I feel it was about something else or she would of mentioned this out right

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 7:14 AM | #196

      I think Brian’s friends have been protecting him, which I can see. He has been relatively flying under the radar and now, all of a sudden, he is probably, (or wil be soon) being bombarded with all kinds of inquiries. Bottom line – he is probably a little ticked at Melissa for exposing herself on reality tv, thereby opening up all kinds of Pandora boxes of her past – and he is part of that.

  38. SS
    January 17, 2013 at 12:30 AM | #197

    I don’t care about Melissa past as much. But it is the present day that annoys me about her. The fact that she communicated with someone that did not like her sil, pisses me off. And never mentioning it to Teresa at all. The fact that she release nasty articles about Teresa, and lies about almost everything just gets to me. That’s not a family member I would love have around. She loves to say Teresa is the source for the articles that don’t favor her, how about the sources that dish about Teresa?. Whether or not people come out and dish on her past, doesn’t matter to me, it is they way she is acting now. Trust me no matter how much editing bravo does to them,like Teresa said in S3, she is very transparent.

    I laughed when she said that bravo called her up randomly on a drive home. then she says that bravo 1st facebooked her to provide them her number. Okay Melissa, during the time you got the fb msg to the time they were trying to contact you, why didn’t you speak with the sil who is already on the show. Clearly it looks like you were trying to hide something!!! I don’t like Melissa personality right now, so whatever she did in the past isn’t going to change my feeling towards her. I laugh at people who say “she such a good sister in law” REALLY? okay let me see one of your family members do what she did.

    The ONLY they can fix there family drama is behind close doors, ie NO cameras. Seriously I don’t think this chick Melissa would do that.

    • January 17, 2013 at 11:30 AM | #198

      Her past does explain why Teresa and her parents would have had a problem with her in the first place. Melissa has been claiming to anyone and everyone that SHE is the victim, she’s always been a good girl, has always been a loving wife to Joe. I think the fact that she cheated on Joe as recent as 2009 is very relevant to what’s going on now.

    • diggitydawn
      January 17, 2013 at 11:42 PM | #199

      Melissa having *ANY* kind of contact with Danielle was a really lowdown, dirty, sleazy, nasty thing to do, not only to Teresa, but to her nieces & inlaws as well. What *REALLY* gets to me (besides Mel actually doing this) is that Teresa’s brother that she loves so much stood by & let it happen. Shoot, he may have even been a part of it, for all I know. If he didn’t (or doesn’t) have a problem with his wife spilling private info to a person his sister was having problems with, then that says everything I need to know about him right there – everything I need to know about her, too, as far as I’m concerned. While on camera, he shouts from the rooftops how much he loves his sister & her kids, how he’ll always be there for them, no matter what…but actions speak louder than words, as the old saying goes. We’ve seen just how much he loves them, how much he’s ‘there for them’ when the cameras aren’t there. We’ve seen him skip his goddaughter’s – & other nieces’ – birthdays, events, etc. He’s skipped all kinds of celebrations with them. For Joey Gorga not to have a problem with his wife doing something like that to his sister tells me that he doesn’t give a rat’s hair about anyone or anything but himself. In my eyes, neither he nor his wife can come back from that. Neither can be trusted concerning anything. Teresa would be better off focusing on her family & the ones in her life who’s actions SHOW that they love her & care about her.

      • January 17, 2013 at 11:44 PM | #200

        diggity, not only did Joe Gorga know, he was an active participant:

        Teresa’s brother has been directly contacting me for the past year and a half, letting me know how he feels about his sister… And not once do you see her with her brother and her sister-in-law and their beautiful children. Not once! But she glorifies everybody else. Why couldn’t she show her real family? Why? Just tell me why? Because they have more than her maybe? Because she’s jealous of them maybe? Or maybe they would have told the truth and said Teresa goes off like that all the time. ‘It’s not just Danielle. Teresa’s certifiably crazy.’ I think they’re going to have their chance now to speak the truth. Go for it, I’m all behind you.” – Danielle Staub, September 6, 2010, Out.com

        http://famewhorgas.wordpress.com/2012/06/12/jacqueline-laurita-says-teresa-giudice-should-ignore-the-fact-that-melissa-gorga-contacted-danielle-staub/

        • diggitydawn
          January 18, 2013 at 5:33 AM | #201

          Wow. Just wow. An active participant. You know, I have a sister that’s 6 years older than me. We’ve had our ups & downs like all siblings do. Our mom is certifiably crazy & has narcisisstic personality disorder. She drove a wedge between my sister & me from the very beginning. Whenever my sister & I were on good terms, I kept my heart guarded, because I never knew when the knife to the back was coming. We would make a pact that we’d never let Mama come between us again…only to let it happen again. There was something that happened to me when I was younger (I won’t go into what it was) but my sister never believed me. But a couple of things happened this past year that made my sister have an ‘Aha’ moment…she’d blocked out some things from childhood but, at that moment, the memories flooded her mind. She was on her way here from her home in another state because our stepdad was having a triple bypass (our mom was in the nursing home with dementia). The combination of her remembering these things & our stepdad, who has always accepted & loved us as his own, was fighting for his life turned her completely around & now she is my closest confidante (next to my husband). She now would fight anyone who messed with me. She is 55 years old & I’m 49. We both mourn all the wasted years, wishing so badly that we’d figured all this out many, many years ago. I tell my story for this reason – Joey Gorga, for whatever reason(s), is letting years & years go by, fighting with the one person who would have his back like no one else. He’s wasting so many years over petty BS. One day, hopefully before he & his sister reach mine & my sister’s ages, he will have his own ‘Aha’ moment & turn things around. I really pray that it happens soon, because we aren’t promised tomorrow – we aren’t even promised the next second of our lives. Wasted years – & for what? D-List (F-List, maybe?) ‘fame’ & a little bit of cash? It’s not worth it. Sorry for rambling on like I have, but I just see so much with this whole situation that could be turned around so easily & so quickly. Wasted years that need not be wasted – what a shame & a heartbreak.

          • Jeannie5233
            January 18, 2013 at 12:07 PM | #202

            I, myself, am estranged – permanently – from my sister. My story is much different than yours and there is no possibility of us reconciling. However, I want to thank you for sharing your story diggity – one of forgiveness, reconciliatoin, love, and moving forward. I am so very happy for you and your sister. While it may not be one I can apply to my own circumstances, your beautiful story can be a lesson many people could learn from.

            • January 18, 2013 at 8:51 PM | #203

              Thanks Jeannie. : ) I’m so sorry about you & your sister but I do understand. Sometimes there is no way to overcome things & you just have to move on. Family can be so complicated, can’t it?

  39. Nima
    January 17, 2013 at 1:44 AM | #204

    Melissa is now kissing nene leakes azz in hopes that nene can get her a gig on an NBC show. Nene twitted Melissa #imarichbitchsisterfromnj.

  40. Rozy
    January 17, 2013 at 2:15 AM | #205

    We should leave Bryan alone we are looking like loonies lol, and I say this as a current follower of his. If he wants to talk I’m sure his celeb friends like Roger can lead him in the right way I.e. gossip mags. Hmm, or Tommy the Greek will.

  41. Rozy
    January 17, 2013 at 2:16 AM | #206

    Sorry, meant to add that maybe Tommy the Greek will speak up.

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 7:01 PM | #207

      From your lips to God’s ears.. . .

  42. ragincajunchicken
    January 17, 2013 at 4:14 AM | #208

    melissa was the only housewife to congratulate nene leakes, nene must have deleted the tweet to melissa because ,i did not see that tweet in nene’s timeline

  43. Monique
    January 17, 2013 at 5:50 AM | #209

    Is he friends w/ Roger? J Woww’s fiancé from Jersey Shore?

    • Sky
      January 27, 2013 at 1:38 AM | #210

      Yes, also friends with Love from Mob Wives

  44. IhateAndy
    January 17, 2013 at 8:46 AM | #211

    Bravo just sounds like a gang of employed misogynists headed by Andy holding a pink flag. Its so sad.

  45. brittany
    January 17, 2013 at 11:14 AM | #212

    wOW CHECK Bryan lastest tweets!

    • hwcrazygal
      January 17, 2013 at 11:26 AM | #213

      One thing I saw is he said he has never been called “Butch” and doesn’t know where that name came from…

      • brittany
        January 17, 2013 at 11:40 AM | #214

        That rumor started flairing.I herd that was what Melissa called him,behind his back!

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 11:51 AM | #215

      This particular tweet is the most telling and, once again, confirms they know each other.

      “There’s a lot I could say but I’m not. Melissa and I know the truth. If I wanted 15 mins of fame I could easily do so..I never asked 4this!”

      I also have to say I respect the fact HE “never asked 4this!” He has Melissa to thank for pissing so many people off with her deceptions, and grandiose delusions of celebrity. If I were him, I’d be mighty angry at her for this.

  46. January 17, 2013 at 12:34 PM | #216
  47. January 17, 2013 at 1:26 PM | #217

    On a side note, it’s hysterical that the twitter account @WakilesMustGo (or whatever the exact name is) received over 200 followers in the blink of an eye yet they got a measly 52 or so people to join them at the meet and greet in Illinois which I’m sure was advertised for quite a while… lolol The proof is in the pudding. bloop

  48. brittany
    January 17, 2013 at 2:03 PM | #218

    Check Brittan60142154,Bryan tweeted me.

    • January 17, 2013 at 3:50 PM | #219

      He seems like a nice guy actually!

      • Jeannie5233
        January 17, 2013 at 4:07 PM | #220

        Of course we don’t know this guy from a hole in the wall, but based on what he has been tweeting so far, whle being coy, it appears he is being a “gentleman”.

        But one never knows. He may come forward. Melissa has angered alot of people in her past – heck, she has angered alot of people nowadays too! Maybe now would be the time to start payback!

        Honestly, I really hope he does – and on his own terms, beating Bravo to the punch! If this were to happen now, can’t you just see the Bravo honchos (Andy and Co.) all scrambling trying to salvage their show!!! Horrors! What kind of a storyline could they come up with to top this?!?!?

        I know it won’t happen but I can dream!

      • January 17, 2013 at 6:43 PM | #222

        I agree 100% with Brittany and Sunshine… I’m on your side!

      • Jeannie5233
        January 17, 2013 at 7:34 PM | #223

        Just made a comment upthread to kat in reference to the comment made about Bryan(Brian) being “broke”.

        Read his response – a very nice one.

        Like I said in that comment, he must be reading this blog!

        • January 17, 2013 at 11:22 PM | #224

          I agree 100% with Brittany and Sunshine… I’m on your side!

  49. Jeannie5233
    January 17, 2013 at 3:24 PM | #225

    I know this is WAY off topic but Jacqueline Laurita has tweeted that Nicholas is enjoying his new Vitaeris 320 Hyperbaric Oxygen Chamber along with his Ipad.

    http://healiohealth.com/products/index/4517

    If you click on the above link, you too can learn of the benefits of owning your very own hyperbaric chamber all for the price of – WAIT FOR IT!!!!

    $19,900!!! NO, you did not read that wrong – it costs $19,900!

    Are these people delusional or what???? Where on Earth does one find almost $20,000 for an oxygen chamber? Oh I know – rape your company of all assets, hide the monies, and use to live your life lavishly. I just can’t. . . . .

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 3:32 PM | #226

      Jacs article at Parenting.com is now out titled “Autism Is Not A Shameful Secret”

      http://www.parenting.com/blogs/special-needs-blog/jacqueline-laurita/autism

      The following is the last paragraph of the article:

      “I often wonder what led me to this life as a reality TV personality in a seemingly meaningless, drama-filled series. I didn’t know it would be a platform to help others. Whether you have a child with autism, some other disability, or none at all, we all need support. I hope you will follow us on our journey in this new Parenting column, and I hope you’ll let me follow yours.”
      .

      And so the exploitation and spinning begins!

      • January 17, 2013 at 3:41 PM | #227

        I’m not sure if I can bring myself to read anything she puts out there.

        • January 17, 2013 at 3:42 PM | #228

          Don’t want to give her my traffic!

      • MomaJackie
        January 17, 2013 at 6:31 PM | #229

        Thanks for sharing. I read it Sackem and it is nothing that any of us has not read before. Jac is a complete fool. If I had a child with autism there is not one thing said in that article that would help me in any way. If I remember right in her first story it was some insurance glitch that dictated the three month wait. Now it is because there was a three month waiting period to see the developmental pediatrician. With their resources I am certain they could have seen another equally qualified pediatrician sooner. Her reference to having an autisic child as being “shameful”, what kind of a mother is she? And how could be ashamed to share this? I would have had everyone I knew, even the people on this blog praying for my child. Every child is a gift. The only thing she should be ashamed of is herself and her husband.

        The article was all about Jacko, her grief and struggles. Follow her on her journey? Her journey started months ago and still nothing to share by her grief and struggles. Not one word about what plan had been put in place, the diet changes or any type of treatment she may have tried and experienced some success with.

        Oh yes, the exploitation and spinning was begun. I just know in my heart that she will use blk in the treatment of Nick and he will improve. I doubted this story from day one and I hoped it was not so.

        • January 17, 2013 at 6:44 PM | #230

          Oh no. Sounds terrible!!!!

    • January 17, 2013 at 4:58 PM | #231

      Bryan is not on s5 …Bryan name is…. a phone call is…….but it is more on line of the Kim D. and Teresa looking to defame poor innocent Melissa = in my opinion.

    • January 17, 2013 at 5:01 PM | #232

      A man in MN/Wisc invested this item. His son was in the US Navy Sea Cadet Program with my son at Fort Snelling. My son would come home and tell me all about the dads invention and how they where trying to get the product to market. I have to think on it more to remember all the stuff my I was told. I remember the man was high up in the Navy and was retired from the Navy.

    • happylady
      January 17, 2013 at 5:33 PM | #233

      Didn’t Michael Jackson have one of those?

      • Jeannie5233
        January 17, 2013 at 5:40 PM | #234

        Yup. Apparently, the Autism expert has found that this is another treatment for Nicholas – and while that may very well be possible, how does she afford this? Notice the amount – $18,000 of that money could have gone to Susan G. Komen.

    • Jeannie5233
      January 17, 2013 at 5:59 PM | #235

      According to Chris Stark , filming for Season 5 will end with the release of Caroline’s book (March 26th I think).

      Arguments for motions in the Laurita bankruptcy case will begin March 14th. So that leads me to believe there will be NOTHING mentioned about the Laurita’s financial woes during Season 5.

      • 4kidsandus
        January 20, 2013 at 5:19 PM | #236

        Except maybe at the reunion. Muahahah!

    • Anonymous
      January 18, 2013 at 7:55 AM | #237

      Jennie what’s this oxygen machine ??Why do they need it for autism therapy ??What does it do to help?

      • Jeannie5233
        January 18, 2013 at 11:53 AM | #238

        Anon – I am not familiar with hyperbaric oxygen therapy for autism, as I am certainly not an expert on that or autism, for that matter, I have no idea how it would work but here is the link Jacs offers on her TL explaining the benefits of it:

        oxyhealth.com

        Hopefully, this will answer your questions :)

  50. brittany
    January 17, 2013 at 3:33 PM | #239

    lol,@ jeannie5233,and I herd Bryan is supposed to be on s5

  51. January 17, 2013 at 5:04 PM | #240

    Dear ED. B who CO-Owns http://tvfishbowl.com

    I would like to make a sincere apology for publicly defaming your good name and business.

    Last week I falsely accused you in a blog of being a poster named Secret Admirer.

    I am wrong.

    I am filled with humiliation and sorrow.

    I have never called anyone out on my twitter account or in a blog before my illness last week.

    I have never fought with anyone publicly in a blog or on twitter prior to my illness.

    My illness and meds has caused me to make a series of poor judgement last week.

    I hurt you and I am very sorry for the pain I caused.

    I am in the wrong.

    • Anonymous
      January 18, 2013 at 8:27 AM | #241

      Chris, I’ve always respected you and your writings ! Don’t knock yerself so much!! Your a great gal with alot to say !!Always glad to hear from you!Keep well ,Meha !!

  52. suziezee
    January 18, 2013 at 12:21 PM | #242

    Troll along now, Dee

  53. Anonymous
    January 19, 2013 at 2:53 AM | #243

    I enjoy bulldog And his way of handling this. Im a straight girl but his friend Tina lee is a cute one .I think the tv would love him and his friends. Seems to be loyalty there between him and his friends unlike Mego and fam. It’s refreshing to see actually. Her past was going to catch up to her anyway not his fault by any means. He seems like a straight shooter and genuine……….I like him …there story seems interesting looking forward to seeing this play out

    • January 19, 2013 at 2:55 AM | #244

      I like him too. It’s nice to see loyalty among friends and, like you said, I appreciate that he is a straight shooter and genuine.

      UPDATE 1/19/2013: When this article was first published, someone made a stupid comment about Bryan’s scar, which I didn’t catch until later when I went through them. When I saw that, I modified settings so that comments from first-time posters would be held for moderation until my approval.

      I understand why Bryan was offended — like Bryan said, he didn’t sign up for this and everyone needs to be respectful of that.

      Here’s what Bryan said about the comment:

      “It’s crazy how someone on FW made jokes about the scars on my head.i had brain surgery on 9/11 of 2012.TODAY ill pray for you! Lucky u are!”

      He got some support from a Twitter follower:

      “Oh always one asshole around!! LOL ;)

      He replied:

      “why would someone do that? Makes no sense!!” Some are sicker then others.. It’s all good though ;)

      He came back with this:

      “I’m not mad at anyone and I appreciate the nice things I have heard but someone on it said some stupid things.”

      I want to apologize to Bryan for not catching that comment sooner — it was stupid and that is why I trashed it. It takes courage and strength (and of course grace) to undergo and recover from such a serious procedure.

      Here’s what he asked me to copy:

      “Famewhorgas you wanna copy what I say,copy this $ never made me the man that i am,never will!! Integrity,honor&respect! You can’t buy it!!”

      I totally agree with him — he isn’t driven by money, which I respect, and he is a man with integrity, honor and respect, which I admire.

      Here is a Twitter exchange between Bryan and Sushine1335, where Bryan says he doesn’t hide anything:

      Sunshine ‏@Sunshine1335
      actually I heard about you in other website as well, like about last year lol..didn’t think the story was true.

      Bryan
      @Sunshine1335 Good thing is I don’t hide anything. ;)

      And Dee ‏@hwcrazygal tweeted Bryan:

      “You are obviously a man of integrity, sad that you are in this b/c of a famewhore and her steroid girlyman!”

      I totally agree with @hwcrazygal too.

      UPDATE 1/19/2013: I’d like to thank Bryan for the tweet letting me know he accepts my apology for the comment made by one of my readers about his brain surgery scar … I truly appreciate it:

      “I appreciate the apologies from FW. Apology excepted! thank u to the people on twitter defending that! :) it was a rough time 4me& my family.” – Bryan‏, January 19, 2013, Twitter

      “Right now whats most important is my health.i have part of a tumor they cannot not fully take out,there are some complications.1st things1st.” – Bryan‏, January 19, 2013, Twitter

    • Anonymous
      January 19, 2013 at 11:11 PM | #245

      I love how tinalee aka Christina lee has his back. Shows a lot about who he associates with

  54. Anonymous
    January 19, 2013 at 2:57 AM | #246

    Also…anyone ask Mego about the other ex that was mentioned. I’m sure if he was found he might be another great source for info and maybe willing to get it out there.

  55. Anonymous
    January 19, 2013 at 3:39 PM | #247

    I know “Bulldog” personally and the FACTS, if he wanted he could bring more drama to the show then Danielle ever has!! He is also the furthest thing from being money hungry. I read he is “broke”; he has a beautiful home, that’s his, and drives a BMW, doesn’t look “broke” to me.

  56. murfdog21
    January 19, 2013 at 4:56 PM | #248

    ill tell you something right now bulldog is family that was just disgusting he changed his life and is a better person however i am still an animal and will be by my dudes side IF NEEDED!!

    • Anonymous
      January 19, 2013 at 11:14 PM | #249

      You can tell he has a lot of support from his twitter interactions which is nice. That fiesty tinalee is someone I feel will def. spit fire at those who cross him.lucky to have that. Good for him. Wish I seen more friends on his side soon instead is a girl. Where his boys at

    • January 19, 2013 at 11:25 PM | #250

      This is going to get interesting! We’re all just viewers who hate the way Melissa and now her family are so quick to throw anyone under the bus to earn a bit of coin and a chance at the spotlight!

      They are trying to push a family member out of a job essentially due to nothing more than jealousy and ego.

      It’s all about loyalty and respect in my mind! It doesn’t appear that Missy has either of these traits when it doesn’t work for her personal gain. And from reading your post – loyalty is key so I guess we’re coming from the same place!!!

      OLA to the new contributors! I’m not affiliated with this blog, just a long time reader!

    • Jeannie5233
      January 20, 2013 at 10:04 PM | #251

      Hey Anonymous and murfdog21 -

      It is refreshing to see a friend or family member be true and loyal – something we here at FW have not seen with most of the characters on this “scripted reality” show, the Real Housewives of New Jersey. We have been witnesses for the last two seasons of continual bullying and character assassination since Melissa and Joe Gorga became cast members with the intent to “bring Teresa Giudice down” (This is a quote from her brother – how sad.) Teresa has tried her best to remain loyal to her brother and protect him from his life spiraling out of control. Unfortunately, she has been unsuccessful and it has been very sad to watch on TV a family torn apart.

      Most of us here, with the exception of a few trolls, have been very upset with the wrongs that have been done, the betrayal, and the lies that have spread, all at the hands of someone who does not know the meaning of loyalty, honor, integrity and respect. Most importantly, it has been heartbreaking to watch a brother allow his wife to stab his sister and his own parents in the heart time and again all for the sake of fame. A family has been destroyed. For what? NOTHING is worth that. We want to see this person to be seen finally for who she really is. If a person portrays themselves as someone they are not and continually lies and makes up ridiculous stories at the expense of someone else’s personal character, that is an enormous injustice. It is the reason why FAME started this blog and why most of us have become part of this particular “community”.

      I do not believe there is any intention from most of the people here at FW to do anything to hurt your good friend. Far from it. I speak for myself when I say I wish him well and Godspeed. I hope he finds the right people to guide him as there will be many who will try to befriend him, only to “use” him. He sounds like a man who has learned alot of life lessons and is strong in character because of it, which is to be respected. But – there are many “snakes” out there who speak out of both sides of their mouth who will appear to have his best interests at heart when the only interest they really have is their own agenda, what THEY can get out of it, and/or to discredit him. Alot of us here not only read this blog but others and we know what “certain” people are not only capable of but have actually accomplished to hurt someone’s credibility and destroy a person’s reputation. Unfortunately, there are already a few of those “snakes” who are following your friend on Twitter.

      So with all that said, it is good to see he has people like you and others to protect him and have his back. Best of luck!

  57. old NJ girl
    January 20, 2013 at 9:31 PM | #252

    Very interesting tweet from Bulldog today. He said that Lookers always told him that her bother in law, Juicy reminded her of bulldog. Lookers didn’t meet Juicy until after she was with Fredo. So Lookers was in contact with Bulldog after Fredo came into her life.

    • January 21, 2013 at 2:52 PM | #253

      Very interesting indeed old NJ girl!

      What’s funny is she would always tell me her brother in law is a lot like me “juicy”then when I saw him on TV I saw why.He don’t put on act

  58. January 24, 2013 at 7:15 PM | #254

    The Marcos will stop at nothing to keep their secrets, and Bulldog doesn’t need this harassment. He is a good man, and the truth is his to keep if he decides to hold his peace, and we need to respect that. He has kept Melissa’s secrets for many years, and he didn’t ask for this — he was just a name circulating around the blogs until his Twitter handle was revealed here at Fame-Whorgas. He needs to reject any offers from Bravo to appear on camera because the producers will twist his words and use editing tricks to protect Melissa and discredit him. Bravo and Melissa are ruthless, and he doesn’t need this BS or these wicked people in his life.

    Melissa will go into the abyss to protect her fake image, and she will do whatever it takes to discredit Bryan. Bravo and Melissa are ruthless — a match made in hell. Bryan is being pressured to come forward with his story, but no good will come from it (please don’t give your story to any tabloids or bloggers or anyone who gains financially by you coming forward), especially if he agrees to film for Bravo — they will use crafty editing to protect Melissa and discredit him (and he needs to stay away from UsWeekly, Wendy Williams, Anderson Cooper and Kelly Ripa — they’re all in bed with Bravo Andy). Like Bryan said:

    I need to “back away from the devil’s playground” and “I’d rather be an open sinner then a false saint!”

    Heed the warning of a great man of God, Charles Haddon Spurgeon:

    “Expect trouble, for foes are everywhere, but do not enter the thicket with the lion, for he that meets with him, even though he wins the day, will find it a stern struggle.”

  59. January 24, 2013 at 9:10 PM | #255

    I can’t believe anyone, even Melissa, could be so cruel. I’m just now reading the full story of what is going on.

    Bryan said:

    “So I get the phone call today that she says she’s not worried about me making it on the show because my tumor is back and i will be dead.”

    “Yes it’s back, my best friend was the one who told her n thank u everyone! I will be ok it’s in Gods hands!”

    I am sending prayers to heaven for Bryan to have a complete recovery, knowing that God is on his side.

    It is impossible for any human speech to express the full meaning of this delightful phrase: “God is for me.”

    God has been “for us” in many struggles; we have been summoned to encounter hosts of dangers; we have been assailed by temptations from without and within: how could we have remained unharmed to this hour if He had not been “for us?” He is “for us” with all the infinity of His being, with all the omnipotence of His love, with all the infallibility of His wisdom; arrayed in all His divine attributes, He is “for us”—eternally and immutably “for us.”

    When I cry unto Thee, then shall mine enemies turn back: this I know; for God is for me. –Psalms 56:9

    “When I cry unto Thee, then shall mine enemies turn back.” This is no uncertain hope, but a well-grounded assurance: this we know. “I will direct my prayer unto God and will look up for the answer, assured that it will come and that my enemies shall be defeated, ‘for God is for me.’”

    “Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.” –Jeremiah 31:3

    O believers, how happy we are to have the King of kings on our side! How safe we are with such a Protector, and how sure we are with such an Advocate to plead our cause! If God be for us, who can be against us?

    Dear readers, please pray for Bryan’s complete recovery.

    • Anonymous
      January 25, 2013 at 1:52 PM | #256

      Fame, you should bump this blog up to the top so everyone can read the update!

      Bryan, my prayers are with you, here’s hoping to a speedy and safe recovery.

  60. Anonymous
    January 25, 2013 at 4:16 PM | #257

    I see the tweet you posted where you are stating that it wasn’t doctored but as I continued reading your story you copied tweets between Kim and Queenz and the same tweet is there but dated on Jan. 11th .? Hello to two of my favorite people! “@justjillianr: @QueenzOfMedia “these are spirit fingers…..THESE are gold!” – Kim Pirrella, January 11, 2013 from Twitter for iPhone

    • January 25, 2013 at 11:40 PM | #258

      When you take a screen shot of a tweet, and it is the day the tweet was made, it shows only the hour the tweet was posted, not the date of the tweet (unless you ‘expand’ the tweet). The tweets in the image on Bryan’s twitter are screenshots from the day they were tweeted or retweeted (screenshots copied into a file) so they only show the hour not the date of the tweet. The really nasty tweets from QoM about Bryan were Jan. 21-22, but the tweet from in the image from Kim to QoM was on Jan 11 (she tweets QoM regularly).

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