Cancun and the Real Story of How Joe and Melissa Gorga Met

October 12, 2012

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There must be a lascivious story behind how Joe and Melissa Gorga met in Cancun in March 2003 because they’ve fabricated an unbelievable story about how Joe didn’t approach her in Cancun even though he said to his best friend, “that’s my wife”, when he first saw her there at the pool. She and Joe deny actually interacting in Cancun, which doesn’t ring true, and they both overacted during the season 4 reunion when the topic of how they met in Cancun was brought up. They are hiding something about what happened when they first met there. They both say they officially met later in the summer of 2003 at a Jersey Shore club and Joe said, “you’re the girl form the pool” in Cancun and “he remembered how my hair was.” I think the Greeks (Penny Drossos and Johnny Karagiorgis) and others know the real Cancun story (apparently with photos to back it up) and are waiting to expose it on camera in season 5, if given the chance.

“Melissa Gorga, Yea long lost fuck of joe gorga back in Cancun! Don’t make me break out the Picts….. Actually @frankabba has em on a cd.” – Pete Giudice, September 19, 2012, Twitter

During part 2 of the season 4 reunion, when discussing the gold-digger accusation, this was the exchange between Teresa Giudice and Melissa Gorga:

Teresa: This is what happened. She dated my brother’s best friend.

Melissa: What! Woe, woe, woe! Excuse me!

Teresa: She never wanted anything to do with him [Teresa's brother]. She knew him back in Cancun days.

Melissa puts her hand on Teresa’s upper arm and pushes her back while screaming: What are you talking about?! Say it to me! Say it to me.

Teresa: Get your hands off of me. Do not touch me. I’ll press charges right now.

More yelling from Melissa, which makes what everyone is saying inaudible.

Melissa: I never married him for money. Ever, ever, ever! We fell in love. Because that didn’t happen for you doesn’t mean it didn’t happen for me. You wish that my life was like your life and everyone can see it now, and you hate that. She’s sitting here talking about my husband, my marriage, how we met. It’s all bullshit. She’s lying! She’s lying! (Andy tries to interject and change the topic.) This is not fair. I don’t even want (Andy is still trying to interject). I’m not going to fight anymore because everything’s a lie!

During part 3 of the season 4 reunion, out of nowhere Joe Giudice asks Melissa Gorga:

Juicy: How did you really met Joe Gorga?

Joey, enraged, screams: Shut the f–k up about my f–king wife!

Penny Drossos ‏tweeted on September 19, 2012:

51 cards n 51 witness’s …

John Karagiorgis ‏tweeted on September 19, 2012:

Do you really want to get ugly @melissagorga @joegorga ? @PDKhair is holding cards & there’s 51 more cards in deck! Wanna play?

So the real story of how they met in Cancun is obviously a subject that the Gorgas don’t want discussed, especially on camera.

Note: Included in my blog, ‘Melissa Gorga: Lookers’ Dancer Wearing the Cross in 2003, Gold-digger and Cheater?‘, are comments I collected over the past year from people who allegedly knew Melissa before she married Joe. It’s an interesting read.

Club Deko (now Club Ikon) April 12, 2003

The photo above of Melissa Gorga from was taken at Club Deko (Club Deko is now Ikon Lounge) in Sayreville, NJ, on April 12, 2003, and was sent to Fame-Whorgas by Dilettante (@AutumnLeaves61). Melissa’s bridesmaid Jan Marie DeDolce is the other woman in the photo.

The photo was taken a month after Joe Gorga first met Melissa Marco, if you believe Joe’s story of when they met, which would have been during Spring Break in Cancun March 2003 (and the same time MTV was taping ‘The Real Cancun’) when Melissa was 24; Melissa stated it was when she was 21, but she’s obviously lying.

Joe told Ryan Seacrest that he first saw Melissa during Spring Break in Cancun (when she was 24, which would have been March 2003), but he claims that he didn’t speak to her (even though he said to himself ‘that’s my wife). He said that he randomly ran into her six months later in a club at the Jersey shore, which would have been around October 2003.

In June 2011, Joe and Melissa told Ryan Seacrest:

“I was in Cancun. I was sitting in the pool and I had a girl on the right and a girl on the left. They were fighting over me. Kissing one, kissing the other one. As I was doing the turn, I saw this girl across the pool, curly hair, leopard bikini, sunglasses. I look over to my best friend while I’m holding these two girls and say ‘that’s my wife’.” However, they did not even speak while in Cancun. It wasn’t until they got back to New Jersey that they randomly met. “We were out, we were down at a beach club and he came up to me and said ‘you’re the girl form the pool,’ he was persistent. It took him a couple of times, I didn’t give him my number right a way,” Melissa says. “He freaked me out a bit, he told me what I had on, the hotel I was at, the sunglasses I had on, he remembered how my hair was.”

A year later, in July 2012, Melissa described their first encounter to She stated that she first met Joe when she was 21, which would have been 2000 and not 2003; however, her timeline doesn’t make sense, so she has to be lying about her age at the time they met (she probably lied to cover up the fact that Joe Gorga was 28 and well beyond the age for partying with college kids during Spring Break). During the interview with, she also said they met again back in New Jersey in the summer:

“Originally we saw each other on Spring Break in Cancun, we were so young! I was there for my 21st birthday and he was 25 and everyone from New York and New Jersey would always go to Cancun for Spring Break. We were both there and he was there with his friends and he says that I went walking by with my girlfriends and my bikini, and he remembers everything that I was wearing like it was yesterday. He pointed to me and said, ‘That’s going to be my wife’. His best friend that was with him confirmed this story all the time, so that was kind of the first time we met unofficially. Then we were back in New Jersey in the summer at a Beach Club and he saw me and it just went from there.”

In May 2011, Melissa told a similar story to but didn’t give her age or the year they met:

Their paths first crossed during a spring break in Cancún. “He saw me … and he looked at his best friend and said, ‘That’s gonna be my wife’,” says Gorga, who adds that when they ran into each other back in Jersey, “he came over to me and said, ‘I saw you in your leopard bikini in Cancún.’ I said, ‘Well, why didn’t you talk to me?’ He said, ‘Well, you didn’t look like you wanted to talk.’ And it went from there.”

In her most recent rendition of their love story, in April 2012, Melissa said Joe Gorga used to come see her when she was a bartender at Lookers Gentleman’s Club while in college. According to a ‘pay register ’ that she released in December 2011, she worked at Lookers the entire 2003 calendar year.

Here’s how she describes the early stages of their relationship, when she was 24 years old:

“It was one of those things that we went out on a first date and we saw each other every day after. We both just knew, we were at the age when we were ready to settle down. I was graduating college and he was 28 and he was done partying, so it was a good time for us really. It was instant, we were engaged six months after we met and we were married four months later, so within a year we were married. It was one of the things where I think a lot of people wait because when you’re younger you don’t have the money for the house or the wedding, but we were fortunate in that regard and it just worked for us.”

Here’s an excerpt from Melissa’s Bravo blog, “Like a Prayer”, where she gives another story about how they met:

“I think a big misconception about me and Joe is that we got married and were just rich and had everything we could ever want. Not true. When I first met Joe and for the first few years we were married, he owned a landscaping company. We did well for two newlyweds in our 20s, but nothing like we are now. We worked for it together.

From the day we got engaged, Joe asked me to work in his office as his secretary and suggested not going into the school system to be a teacher. I had just graduated college and really wanted my own classroom. I did go to a teachers’ fair and got hired as a teacher, but after discussing it with Joe, I decided not to take the job and to work with him in his office. Joe felt like with me backing him up rather than have a stranger running things, we would make the business more successful.

Well Joe was right. I worked in that office 9 to 5 Monday through Friday and did it. Even when Antonia was born, I used to bring her and all her toys to the office and I would work all day with her there. It wasn’t always easy. There were times (like the one you heard me remind Joe of) that we couldn’t even buy diapers when Gino was first born. 2008 was definitely a hard year. We had invested in real estate and the market went sour. I’m sure everyone remembers that and is still feeling the effects of the economy.

Joe and I are gamblers, and I mean that in a good way. We take chances and sometimes we win and sometimes we lose, but as long as we have our two hands and each other, we can always get back on top, and that’s what we did.”

In season 3 episode 6, Joe tells the the story of how they met in Cancun, and he says she was working three jobs at the time and explains how he promised her he’d put her on a pedestal. Melissa had her boob job in the photo above, at age 24, as a college student, studying to be a teacher. In season 4 episode 20, Melissa says she was a second-grade teacher when she was bartending at Lookers in 2003. However, in her April 2012 she told that she was in college (she didn’t graduate from college until January 2004 — see photo below of her college diploma, which she tweeted on September 24, 2012) when Joe visited her while she was working at Lookers (which, according to her pay register, was in 2003). During part 3 of the season 4 reunion special, Joe Gorga said Melissa was a teacher when he met her and in the next breath says she was in college when her met her. So their story is falling apart because they can’t keep their lies straight.

“My college degree;.) #rhonj” – Melissa Gorga, September 24, 2012, Twitter

Why would a 24-year-old working her way through college to become a elementary school teacher need, or have the money to pay for, a boob job unless someone helped her out, like maybe her bosses at Lookers (and why would they pay for them unless there was something in it for them)?

I was blessed with a pretty sexy ass, so I wear short shorts to tease: ‘I know you want me, but stay over there’.” – Melissa Gorga, season 4 episode 6

Timeline from season 3 episode 6, etc.:

She moved to Florida with her mother and had a lesbian relationship as a 16-year-old in 1995, she was arrested for ‘retail theft’ at age 18 in Florida in 1997, she graduated from Boca Raton High School in 1998, she moved back to New Jersey sometime after 1998, she started dating Joe in October 2003, she moved in with him in December 2003, she graduated from New Jersey City University in January 2004, and she married Joe in August 2004.

TRANSCRIPT of Melissa Gorga admitting she LIED about being a teacher and was never a teacher PLUS VIDEO:

From the August 2011 MyFox video (when asked about what she was doing before being on RHONJ):

“I was a stay at home mom, I went to school to become a teacher, I never actually went and got the job, I graduated and got engaged all at the same time and my husband wanted me to run his business for him.”

From the season 4 finale at the Posche Fashion Show (taped on September 27, 2011):

Melissa: “First of all I was a school teacher, it’s very different from being a dancer. When your brother met me I was a school teacher do you understand that?”

Teresa: “No, you were going to college.”

Melissa: “And I was teaching second grade.”


Video of Fox Good Day New York (6 minutes into video — it is the LAST one posted on the blog link):

Source for Photo:


Website URL

TheMoo, AMoussa, Founder and Creator, Member Since 13 Jan 2003

The has a forum where in 2003 members were discussing the Lookers’ dancer wearing the cross:
[Warning: some of the language is crude]

I copied some of that 2003 discussion about the “Lookers’ dancer wearing the cross” (which sounds like Melissa) here:

So let’s summarize: has photos of Melissa partying in 2003, and that site also runs the forum where in 2003 members were discussing the hot Catholic-girl dancers at Lookers and the dancer with fake boobs and wearing a cross.

For another photo of Melissa Marco at, posted April 7, 2003, click on the link below (photo labeled, “This pinned topic is for you to share who or what picture is hot for the week. Hotties of the week”):

To quote Melissa:

“I think there are far too many ‘kawinkydinks’ and the writing is on the wall.”


  • ‘Tommy the Greek’ from Marlboro, NJ, is the Man That Melissa Gorga Wanted
    “You have pulled Teresa and Joe away from each other by manipulating his own thinking. When is enough enough? You were nothing more then a simple girl who wore imitation clothing to try to fit in or always wore the pink fuzzy sweater everywhere you went. You targeted only men with money and did anything for them to gain their acceptance. You ‘stalked’ Tommy the Greek from Marlboro, NJ, and did whatever he wished even though you knew he was using you. You even went to the extreme of following him in nightclub bathrooms. His family didn’t except (sic) you and you ‘settled’ for Joe because of the home he lived in. Joe comes from a proud Italian, old fashioned family with morals and values. But you managed to manipulate his mind and because his family is supportive, you were excepted (sic).”

    “You were nothing more then a handoff from Joe’s friends, wasn’t he third in line? Love at first sight my ass. Yea he saw you in Cancun while his and your friends had ‘fun’ from the very first day, but you wanted nothing to do with him until he caught up with you at Lookers with one of his friends you were actually going out with. Another joke. F*cking hand me down. Then you found out he had money and you went on the prawl. Shall I continue? Nah, I’ll save it for when Penny gets on the show and one at a time we’ll be getting our hair done by Penny and Robert and exposing everything. Oh, you remember Robert don’t you? Lol, Season 5 will be interesting.”
  • Melissa Gorga “Settled” for Joe
    “Yes you met him on spring break, but you didn’t give him the time of day and said he was too short and not your type. Joe was persistent though, I’ll give him that. Once you saw he was a hard working man with money in his pocket, nice home, and can easily manipulate him, you locked him in.”
  • Real Housewives of New Jersey Melissa Gorga’s Ex Was a Girl Who Reveals Melissa’s Lesbian Past!
  • Is Joe Gorga Gay, Does He ‘Swim in the Man Pond?’; Is Melissa Gorga a Closet Lesbian?
  • Melissa Marco was arrested on July 16, 1997 for “retail theft” in Palm Beach County, Florida
  1. REALLY?
    October 2, 2012 at 11:03 PM | #1

    I don’t have a twitter, but I do look at the TLs occasionally by looking up the name on Google. I think I read on Pete Giudices twitter that somebody named Frank Abba had pics of Joe and Melissa having sex in Cancun on a disk but wouldn’t release it because she has children. Also did anybody watch Bethenny on Anderson today talking about the RHONJ reunion? She got in her little dig about Teresa. Ugh can’t stand Bethenny!! Here’s the link

    • October 3, 2012 at 12:20 AM | #2

      I NEVER liked Bethenny. I always thought she was a mean b*tch

      • Bionic
        October 3, 2012 at 3:40 PM | #3

        Bethany needs to go mind her own business. She lied and amp the amount that she really made by selling SG (which really sold for not even a third of what she claimed then again it its 10000000000 more than what she ever had) and she is lying about the state of her marriage. Jason doesn’t even live at home. NEXT!

    • Evelyn
      October 3, 2012 at 12:21 AM | #4

      That mention of RHONJ was such a cheap grab for attention. And, they got it.

      • Jamie
        October 5, 2012 at 5:55 AM | #5

        Well, there was nothing wrong with what she said. She only uttered what most people are thinking, Teresa is an animal!

        By the way, B. didn´t “get her dig in”, she was actually asked about it by Anderson.

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:54 AM | #6

      I use to be a Bethenny fan but this season I started to turn over the way she dealt with her husband and staff, even the guys doing renovations to her unit. Poor Jason was castrated and she went behind his back by discussing issues he obviously felt were behind closed doors issues. I think she’s on the top of the heap and would have trouble kind of sharing a similar success, particularly as she and Teresa are constantly compared. I don’t know, I just get a vibe that she has a “this place ain’t big enough for the both of us” attitude.

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 8:31 AM | #7

      My daughter and her girlfriends WERE huge Bethenny fans until they went to see her when BF was on a press tour. They ALL came away so disappointed saying she was one of the most egotistical persons they had ever encountered. They also said they were not alone in their impressions of her – A lot of people walked out midway and afterward, were complaining about how bad she was. These are women who were always having “Skinny Girl” parties – well not anymore. They won’t buy anything that has to do with her. BF has a new talk show coming up – I think it is on FOX.

      The thing is, as long as we, the viewers/fans keep watching these shows, attend appearances, read the articles in the tabloids, buy the products, etc., we have no one to blame but ourselves for fostering the extension of these peoples’ “15 minutes of fame.” I know I am guilty of it but I am trying! That being said, I am looking forward to Teresa’s NEW cookbook coming out next Spring!!!!

      • Jeannie5233
        October 3, 2012 at 11:14 AM | #8

        Sorry for making another comment on this thread but I just saw a video of Anderson Cooper last night talking with Jimmy Fallon on Late Nite commenting on how Teresa’s family continued to “attack him on Twitter” even after he apologized! GEEZ Anderson – what are you a 12 year old??? Give it a rest!!!! I have now lost what ever shred of respect I had for him – he is a tabloid trash journalist.

        • elemcee
          October 3, 2012 at 4:23 PM | #9

          Why is Anderson Cooper talking about Teresa on Jimmy Fallon? Isn’t that really weird?

          • Silvia
            October 3, 2012 at 10:59 PM | #10

            exactly my thoughts. I watched Jimmy Fallon and all Anderson was talking about was reunion and his love for honey boo boo child. He came off so lame…IMO- since he officially came out and got that lame talk show he is loosing credibility in my eyes. Why would respected profesional of his caliber go and get talk show at the first place? and Bethany – I’m sad about it since I’m her fan! she is clearly afraid of losing the spotlight specially now as T. is getting bigger and more popular then ever, BF is going national with her talkshow and she is deffinitelly shaking her boots over the new “kid” in the block….:-)

          • elemcee
            October 4, 2012 at 12:11 AM | #11

            @Silvia, so he is just a fluff reporter now… He had better learn to be funny then!

    • Jill
      October 3, 2012 at 12:44 PM | #12

      Teresa is a dog! Considering she is using “skinny” anything for her product line, leads me to believe Bethenny has reason. She couldn’t even use her own ideas, she had to steal someone else’s! Just like someone writing her blogs for her!

      • tforce
        October 3, 2012 at 1:33 PM | #13

        Jill- if you did your research then you would know that Teresa’s “Skinny Italian” was already copyrighted before Bethanny’s Skinny Girl beverages. There was also a book out before both Teresa and Bethanny about a “Skinny” Diet. Bethanny didn’t invent the word Skinny. She was just smart enough to put it on a bottle of liquor and capitlize on her 15 minutes of fame. There is nothing new or orignal about her idea.

        • donewithbravo
          October 4, 2012 at 3:05 PM | #14

          Are you referring to the book, “Skinny Bitch”?? Because that was published in 2005. I agree that B.F. then used the “skinny” idea for her margaritas, and then Tree used it also. It’s not a copyrighted word (“skinny”). They BOTH got the idea from the book that was a NYT best seller many years ago!

          • tforce
            October 5, 2012 at 4:12 PM | #15

            @donewithbravo…I couldn’t remember the name off the top of my head. They both used their popularity to their advantage. Like you said, you can’t copyright the work “skinny”. I was just pointing out that Teresa had her “Skinny Italian” book copyrighted before Bethheny’s “skinny girl”.

            • donewithbravo
              October 5, 2012 at 4:34 PM | #16

              I guess they both had the idea to jump on the “skinny” bandwagon while it was hot.

      • October 15, 2012 at 2:14 PM | #17

        lil witch i bet you wish you werte rolln in her cash.most all have goast writers.
        tre wears a 2 at times a 4 what do u wear?????????????????//i wear a 18-20
        i love bethany

    • REALLY?
      • SunnyAZ_1
        October 3, 2012 at 4:31 PM | #19

        Another mag? I wonder if they are being paid for a 7 cover deal? Such hypocrites…

      • Dubbalicious
        October 3, 2012 at 10:00 PM | #20

        Jacqueline knows no bounds. Nothing’s off limits. She’s actually frightening me. Then we have the other two yutzes, I wonder what pearls of wisdom they’ll contribute to the story. If anybody followed Taylor Armstrong on HWBH, then you’ll understand why I feel as if I’m reliving the Ninja Pool Fight. Jacqueline’s stories are becoming more desperate and outlandish and we haven’t seen the second part of the reunion yet!!

      • LilyM
        October 3, 2012 at 11:24 PM | #21

        Can one of us get the interview post in here so not to go directly to US Magazine and give them the impression that we care about what this women have to say… lol

      • October 4, 2012 at 9:33 AM | #22

        They need to talk about Tre so as to get attention Hehehehehehe how lame

      • October 15, 2012 at 2:16 PM | #23

        i dont want to see them ever again

    • MomaJackie
      October 3, 2012 at 9:44 PM | #24

      I will “reply” to the first comment on the individual top story. Thus making the boycott list available on every topic.

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      • October 4, 2012 at 1:30 AM | #25

        Noooooo!!!!!!!!!!! Not Vegemite!!!!!!!!!!! I’ll die!!!!!!! Made our nation great… curse you Bravo!! *shaking fist*

        • Heather
          October 4, 2012 at 2:01 AM | #26

          LOL ! sackem :)

        • chioma
          October 4, 2012 at 6:47 PM | #27

          lol that was funny sackem

          • October 4, 2012 at 10:33 PM | #28

            You don’t understand, to an Aussie it’s a staple. Every morning Vegemite on toast or cheese and Vegemite sandwich for lunch, you can have it with avocado, on a cracker. It’s a wonder spread in every kitchen. Us Aussie are “Happy Little Vegemites as bright as bright can be…. it puts a rose in every cheek”. As you can tell, the jingle is very much a part of our culture – it’s that serious! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! Evil Andy’s got me by the short and curlies with this one…

        • October 16, 2012 at 12:17 AM | #29

          Sackem.. no fears, Vegemite is a nation icon from “down under”. F Bravo and enjoy your vegemite on… toast?

          Whats your favorite way to enjoy vegemite? now THAT would make an interesting poll

          • October 16, 2012 at 2:07 AM | #30

            rhocomix…no doubt the poll would be rigged so that the answer is overwhelmingly:

            “Served as a dip, using Teresa’s skull for a bowl”

            or possibly:

            “As a filling for Kathy’s QVC Cannoli Kit”

            or if it were up to Jacqueline:

            “With Bailey’s sauce and Xanax sprinkles”

    • Anonymous
      October 5, 2012 at 12:13 AM | #31

      So glad there’s some light being she’d on the cockroach that is Bethany. She’s a first class bully &WHY do so many love her beat downs of Kelly, Jill, hubby, asst’s and the like? Why? There’s a lot of repressed anger out there which get off seeing that! She’s diagnostic, and got mama issues. In spite of considerable (booze earned) money thrown at the therapist, little attn. on her Electra complex has been addressed. She repeats it over & over, with glee and an overbearing skeletal grin. Fox may be sold, but their reputation isn’t one I’d be interested in hooking my boozy star to… Never would buy a “housewife” product, for the simple reason I’m not contributing to the Andy C. Mama issues factory. Pure unresolved unadultered civilization 2012. God help us we need that Mayan shift of consciousness!

  2. paula2
    October 2, 2012 at 11:16 PM | #32

    My thanks to you for showing the lies! She’s a sly one.

  3. October 2, 2012 at 11:20 PM | #33

    If Melissa Gorga didn’t lie and only spoke the truth, this blog wouldn’t exist. But she lies constantly, and her lies hurt other people, so this blog and others like it will continue to call her out on it. I’d prefer she just be honest and tell the truth, and admit to all her past lies and clear Teresa’s name.

    Bravo not only encourages the lies but has a hand in fabricating them to keep the drama going.

  4. REALLY?
    October 2, 2012 at 11:21 PM | #34

    Here is what is on Petes TL
    Pete Giudice ‏@PeteGiudice
    @HousewivesLives @melissagorga @Real_HW_fan Really!!! Yea long lost fuck of joe gorga back in Cancun! Don’t make me break out the Picts…..
    Hide conversation Reply Retweet Favorite

    Pete Giudice ‏@PeteGiudice
    @PeteGiudice @HousewivesLives @melissagorga @Real_HW_fan Actually @frankabba has em on a cd.
    Expand Reply Retweet Favorite

    These are from Sept. 19th BTW

    • October 2, 2012 at 11:23 PM | #35

      Yes REALLY? I forgot to include them, but I’m including them now.

      • REALLY?
        October 2, 2012 at 11:33 PM | #36

        Fame, I work a lot and I try and do research and get on here and comment when I have time but I read this blog everyday!! Please keep up the good work, this is the best blog by far!!

  5. Confused RHNJ viewer
    October 2, 2012 at 11:26 PM | #37

    Did you notice the “cross” necklace that was mentioned in one of your previous articles?

    • October 2, 2012 at 11:36 PM | #38

      I can’t tell for sure if it is the cross, but it very well could be.

      Melissa Marco

      I’m annoyed with Melissa and her lies. She should own that she worked as a dancer (not a stripper) and stop blaming Teresa for outing her since it is not true. No one really cares that she worked as a dancer (I don’t believe she took off her clothes)… they are just tired of the cast making it out to be Teresa’s fault that she was exposed. I think she wants to drag this story out in the tabloids to keep the buzz about her going until season 5. And the only way she can do that is to keep pointing the finger at Teresa and to keep denying that she was ever a dancer.

  6. Confused RHNJ viewer
    October 2, 2012 at 11:33 PM | #39

    Oh and the nightclub life for Melissa continues lol (msg sent to Joe G, but found on Lysa Simpsons twitter)

    lee baron ‏@leejbaron
    @joegorga hey joe if im looking to book your wife for a nightclub event in arizona who do we contact DM me please if you get this thanks Lee

    • KS2ID2TX
      October 5, 2012 at 1:46 AM | #40

      Uh oh! Careful! Teresa might see that & call to stop them from booking Melissa! (Sarcasm, by the way!)

  7. October 3, 2012 at 12:31 AM | #41

    #rhonj PROOF Jacqueline Laurita bought Twitter followers

    Jac Laurita People Mag on Autistic Son reach 48 million home n gained her less than 5k followers on twitter that week.

  8. nikki
    October 3, 2012 at 12:44 AM | #42

    This is just plain wrong. Who freakin cares if Melissa strippedyou stupid a holes. Stripping is legal u dumbasses. Look at that photo. She doesnt even look like a stripper. No boob hanging out the red halter covers her. No makeup. Look like 21 or 23 both ages r legal to drink or strip for that matter. She was witha cute guy &cute couple in this photo. Looking pretty innocent while Joe Gorga is partying with 2 woman at a Cancun frat party at the age of nearly 30. This is not abnormal or wrong. Let me tell you what is wrong.
    Kim D. I call her Kim de puke ola cuz when i see her ugly old Lurch from The Adams Family face i want to puke. & that drunken truck driver voice. Uhg. You want a real story? Fame folklore gas? Or you want keep printing bullcrap to support your hate for Melissa? Kim D is a cokewhore and drug dealer or was in both Flemington & Wayne NJ. I have heard this countless times just like i know Gino Gorga owned a show repair shop. Common knowledge in North Jersey. Why do you think Joe go says “hey go sniff a line you dirty ass whore”? Cuz she is blow whore from way back. Melissa & Joe might be broke but Kim isnt all she claims to be either. Watch out Kim D your karma is coming.

    • dunnwrightpr
      October 3, 2012 at 12:53 AM | #43

      No one cares if Melissa was or was not a stripper. If you were to read this blog in its entirety, you would understand the point of the piece is to prove Melissa is a liar, not a stripper. When someone constantly lies, their credibility is shot and you can no longer trust anything they say (this holds true for rational, logical people), so to call readers of this blog names and take up for Melissa highlights the dire need for this website to exist. Thank you.

      • October 3, 2012 at 1:00 AM | #44

        Exactly. Thank you dunnwrightpr. Melissa is still denying her past and is still accusing Teresa of setting her up, knowing her brother won’t speak to her because of it. Tell the truth and move on. Don’t play victim when you’re the one doing the victimizing.

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:10 AM | #45

      Relax! It’s about the lying not the act. Take it down a notch.

      • nikki
        October 3, 2012 at 2:47 AM | #46

        Okay i got it now. (Takes deep breath & chills out) its about the lying. You got to admit though, especially after this Reunion, all these bitches be lying about 1 thing or another. It is really insane. & i gotta admit i just dont get all upset over strippers. Itd be cool maybe is Meliss just said “hell ya i was a dancer when i was young & single & made bank too” Teresa with her oldfried egg titties and plant of the apes forehead couldnt have made money as a dancer. Bartender maybe. Stripper? Not unless they were stripping the varnish off furniture.

        • October 3, 2012 at 8:08 PM | #47

          Yes Nikki, they’re all lying. I understand you don’t particularly like Teresa and fair enough. I do like her but, like a lot of Teresa supporters, I don’t think she’s 100% innocent (she doesn’t always articulate herself well and is quite impulsive etc) and I don’t think she’s perfect… The thing that has riled me up is the pack mentality of the rest of the women and their hipocrasy. They make a lot of crap up in an effort to bring one person down. For example ALL of them have money problems based in suspicious dealings and yet they point the finger at her and continually talk about it. Even Jac tried to to talk about it at the reunion, lead by Andy (I wonder why Andy hasn’t expanded on everyone else’s issues particularly when Jac bought hers up an the show… what the hell happened with BLK??) Teresa never talks about the other’s finances and it all started with Melissa plotting behind her back to set her up with Danielle in Season 2… Missy even admitted it but this too is ignored!! Then they flying into a rage insisting Teresa set Melissa up at the fashion show when Jac has admitted on twitter that she knew, she was talking with Kim D!

          I also respect the way Teresa keeps picking herself up after being relentlessly attacked and has parlayed her personality into a business which drives the rest of them mad!!! She’s not the smartest of them all but she is the most tenacious.

          The link to the US Mag above looks to me to be an article pulled together by the mag, like many articles about Teresa. They have pulled some quotes from the show. Should Teresa pin it on them? This has been the crux of their argument with her most of the season. The difference is she posed for pictures mainly out of vanity but also if they’re going to print something about you, why not make some money off them, they’re making money off her by selling mags. Melissa sold her story about Teresa to US Magazine but they all think it’s ok… madness! She can say all she wants that she didn’t get paid, Teresa said she didn’t get paid for the articles, only the pictures, why believe one and not the other? I’ll give you the skinny…. they all get paid for even appearance they make, it’s the business so they’re all guilty. What is the difference between Wendy Williams, Anderson Copper, US Magazine, twitter? Nothing! They are all versions of tabloid journalism and publishing!!!

          The extent they have gone to get Teresa makes no sense… some sprinkle cookies and a comment in a cookbook (when we see them all religiously bash her behind her back … remember the Manzo Kids in Punta Cana before the book came out??) and they’re given a free pass. It’s a joke. The thing that has become obvious to a lot of us is the hand Bravo has played in all this… won’t bore you with all that evidence… have a wonder through the site.

          • October 3, 2012 at 8:24 PM | #48

            Great reply Sackem. What do you think about the link between and (posted my comment about this about the same time you were posting yours)?

            To quote Melissa: “I think there are far too many ‘kawinkydinks’ and the writing is on the wall.”

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:17 AM | #49

      #rhonj We all know Melissa Gorga was not a stripper she has no dancing skills but she has blow job skills ON DISPLAY

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 8:15 AM | #50

      Hi Nikki – This stupid a _hole and dumbass welcomes you. Bless your heart – you are certainly entitled to your opinions as the rest of us are. But I won’t be calling YOU names. “When you resort to personal insults to make a point, you have already lost your case.” Have a nice day and peace to you.

    • Confused RHNJ viewer
      October 3, 2012 at 10:33 AM | #51

      I could care less what Melissa Gorga did in her past or even in the present. But the act is usually insignificant compared to the coverup. Remember Watergate? Joe Paterno (not that Melissa G’s past has ANY historical or moral significance).

      Also, let’s just say for example that your claims against Kim D are true. Then if she was in that life style, she could possibly have dirt on Melissa and Joe, don’t ya think????

    • ThatOtherChick
      October 3, 2012 at 12:52 PM | #52

      It’s NOT ABOUT whether or not she was a stripper, it’s the constant LYING. If she was a stripper and just came out and admitted, “Yeah, I was a stripper”, then there wouldn’t be an issue. Or maybe if she didn’t react the way she did at the fashion show, we wouldn’t have cause to believe that she was one.

  9. angela
    October 3, 2012 at 12:48 AM | #53

    “Bravo’s “Real Housewives of New Jersey” was the top-rated cable program of the night, with the first part of its all-conflict, all-the-time reunion show” …Surprise! Why oh why, would Bravo want to script that show! After all, its is not big business right? The more conflict, the more “buzz” and everyone buys into the drama. Bravo would like to thank all of the fans….keep the drama, conspiracies, theories, etc….going. and then to divide it into three parts…..3x the revenue! awesome! keep discussing these idiots……everyones’ pocket just got a lot “bigger”……there are a lot of bankruptcies to pay for, debts and court and the pocket that feeds us all: advertisers. Thanks fans!

    • james
      October 3, 2012 at 5:27 PM | #54

      Andy Cohen’s and NBC/UNIVERSAL/Bravo’s pockets get bigger for sure. Everyone else is paid a set salary. They may receive a small bonus for doing so well with the ratings but overall the cast only makes 5% or less of the generated revenue pie based on what someone indicated was their salary in a comment of another post.

  10. October 3, 2012 at 1:12 AM | #55

    Wow Melissa has had a lot of work…. was’t that a part of her cookbook issues? That Teresa would supply a picture of what she use to look like, repeated in a nasally mock Teresa voice like a mature adult? I mean she’s an attractive lady but again, where’s the lie on Teresa’s behalf?

  11. Anastasia
    October 3, 2012 at 1:26 AM | #56

    I find this all comical. I like Kim D, but without Penny and Johnny she doesn’t have anything. She’s trying to be a housewife and she thinks she’s going to use Penny for info. If the fans want the drama on Melissa, Caroline, & Jacqueline then we know its Penny with the dirt. Penny needs to be cast S5.

  12. Billy Bronx
    October 3, 2012 at 1:33 AM | #57

    Melissa is a ho that (edited out) and even got Robert, salons previous owner, to buy her tits just by (edited out) and spending summer at his shore house. Deny it you ho, I f—ing dare you. (Edited out). Did you take Joey in the lookers parking lot & (edited out)?

    (Edited out by Fame-Whorgas)

  13. October 3, 2012 at 1:36 AM | #58

    the people in the photo are Sergio, Jan and Matt n Mellisa

    • October 3, 2012 at 2:56 AM | #59

      Do you know who “Pretty Ricky” is? And did Jan use to date Joey Gorga? There was statement on the njguido website from a Pretty Ricky that talks about Pretty Ricky and How Jan use to date his cousin Joey. I always wondered if Jan was the one Joey was engaged to before Melissa and if the rumors were true about Melissa stealing him from her.

    • kas6787
      October 3, 2012 at 11:08 AM | #60

      Why does this Sergio guy look familiar Chris ? He reminds me of someone who appeared on that nitwit Patty’s millionaire dating show and also showed up with some obscure connection or just screen time on mobwives way back.

  14. October 3, 2012 at 1:46 AM | #61

    Ck out the guy that runs this site – His goes by TheMoo, could it be this guy?

    He posted a picture of Melissa and friends partying in 04/2003.

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:47 AM | #62
    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 12:00 PM | #63

      Just did a little research – His name is Anthony Moussa – on the bottom of the page are his contacts. Did a little Googling and came up with the name. I actually am afraid to explore his website – scared I’ll get spammed with God only knows what from the looks of it – It is all about NJ nightlife and, from the little I can see, the underbelly of it. Could be wrong but I’ll pass. LOL

      • October 3, 2012 at 8:09 PM | #64

        Source for Photo:
        TheMoo, AMoussa, Founder and Creator, Member Since 13 Jan 2003
        Website URL

        The has a forum where in 2003 members were discussing the dancer wearing the cross:
        Warning: some of the language is crude.

        I have copied some of that 2003 forum discussion about “the dancer wearing the cross” (which could be Melissa) here:

        So has photos of Melissa partying in 2003 and the site also runs the forum where members were discussing the hot Catholic girl dancers and the dancer with fake boobs and wearing a cross. To quote Melissa:

        “I think there are far too many ‘kawinkydinks’ and the writing is on the wall.”

        • October 3, 2012 at 10:01 PM | #65

          There are guys on there that specifically speak about melissa including a guy name Pretty Ricky and he said the girl standing to the left her is dating my cousin Joe. I always wondered if he was speaking about Joey Gorga and if that was the girl Melissa stole him from

        • October 3, 2012 at 10:06 PM | #66

          Ck out some of the comments:
          TheMoo, on Apr 7 2003, 09:22 PM, said:
          The ladies haven’t picked any guys yet. La Bella you are so damn hot!!!!
          Who’s La Bella?
          She’s in the first pic I posted, she would have to tell you who…I’m not sure she want anyone to know

          PRETTY RICKY, on Apr 8 2003, 01:54 AM, said:

          Guido Garducci, on Apr 7 2003, 09:04 PM, said:
          is that 2nd girl on the left melissa m?
          Yeah GG thats Melissa Marco, and thats Jan next to her in the black top on the right, my cousin Joey’s girl!!!!!!
          holy shit … i went to HS with Melissa … actually, i’ve know her since like 7th grade …
          she’s looking good….

          • October 4, 2012 at 10:38 PM | #67

            I missed that he said Jan was Joe Gorga’s girl…… interesting.

        • October 3, 2012 at 10:18 PM | #68

          Just something you may want to look into, this photo were possibly taken the weekend before the week of 4/7 @club Deko Maybe you can find out when Spring break was at her college for that year. Normally it’s at the end of March beginning of April

          I know this year for the school spring break is between 3/29 and 4/5 Wondering if it’s about the same time every year.

          If it’s taken the last week of the March and First week in April, Spring Break would’ve been in 3/31 to 4/6 So how are these photos being take in NJ around that time?

          Just a thought I can’t prove yet I mean she couldve went for only a few days, she couldve went before her actual school spring break. Many other factors there but it’s definitely something to look into.

  15. isolde
    October 3, 2012 at 3:31 AM | #69

    Chris: what was Matt to Melissa? Do you know? Do you know if the other couple are friends and where and when this photo was taken? This was supposed to be after she met Joe Gorga, and if so, in Melissa’s words, that once they went out on first date, then they were together everyday after that.

    The poster, Nikki, takes issue with the stripper label, well no one said she was a stripper, they said “dancer”, and Melissa admitted that why wouldn’t she work at that club, when you had old men asking for a drink and giving you $100 bill, so she would have been stupid not to work there. Melissa making that statement alone, was enough to convince me that she did work there, liked working there, and enjoyed the money. If she was just a bartender behind a bar, no one would give $100 for a drink and say keep the change. She was dancing and we all know it. Like Fame said, own it and stop lying about it. It is all the lies that she tells that everyone cannot stand. When someone constantly lies, (her age when she attended college, when she met Joe and where, whether she latched on to Joe because of money, how long she worked at Lookers and how often, etc. etc.) There is nothing but continual lies, and now she is doing it to Teresa, telling lies, in order to make Teresa look bad (the whole contacting Danielle scheme), telling the other cast lies to make herself look good and get them upset with Teresa. Melissa is just a jealous, vindictive and plain evil person to scheme and lie to try and take the spotlight from Teresa and break up this family in the process. She has no conscience, whatsoever, or she could not do what she is doing to her husband and his family. That isn’t love, it is sick and pathetic behavior. I believe nothing that comes from her mouth, and I am so glad that Fame started this website to help get the actual truth out and expose all the lies.

    • Anonymous
      October 3, 2012 at 3:17 PM | #70

      SOME people do give you $100 and say keep the change…just saying ;D

  16. isolde
    October 3, 2012 at 4:01 AM | #71

    On another note, at the reunion, Jacqueline says that the same night that her and Teresa talked about their friendship in the RV, that later that night she overheard Teresa through an open window, saying that she hated Jacqueline, couldn’t look at her and they all were just jealous of her being on magazine covers. Teresa asks who she was talking to and Melissa said she was talking to her. Teresa says it is a lie, and that Jacqueline should have recorded her or knocked on the RV door and said that she overheard her. Of course, Jacqueline did neither.

    As everyone will recall, the next day, Caroline and her children, ask Jacqueline what came out of her conversation with Teresa, and Jacqueline stated that “Teresa did not admit to anything, but that she had to respect Teresa’s boundaries and let Teresa come to her if she wanted to talk and not ask so many questions. This is when Chris Laurita asks the women what was their end game, and Caroline said she is done and Jac will have a casual friendship with Teresa. Also, when Caroline and Kathy ask Jacqueline about the conversation, Jacqueline says the same thing about boundaries and they ask her if she is okay with that and if she thinks Teresa is sincere.

    My point is that Jacqueline says she overheard Teresa saying all the other stuff later that same night, but then why would Jacqueline not have told her family or Kathy, that no, she did not believe Teresa was sincere because she was talking behind her back afterward. Do we believe for one minute, that if Jacqueline overheard Teresa say all of that, that Jacqueline would have kept quiet and not confronted Teresa the next day, or told her family what Teresa said. Jacqueline would have told that in a heartbeat if she overheard anything, especially given the tension between the women. I think this is something that either the producers or Melissa told Jacqueline that Teresa said. More likely, Melissa; especially since Melissa said at the reunion that Teresa said it to her. These women have no shame to tell the lies that they are making up about Teresa in order to discredit her. None..

    I, also believe this is when Jacqueline swore on her son that is autistic, in order to convince the viewers that she is telling the truth, and Teresa is lying. That was so shameful and made me so angry, because 1) She didn’t swear on her other children, only Nicholas and she is lying, 2) She is using Nicholas and the autism to garner sympathy and to make people say she would never swear on him unless it is true. How dare she use her son and his illness, in this manner. Could she stoop any lower than she has already? Apparently so, and I should think that her family would have a problem with her doing that. So pathetic that she lies to begin with, but then uses her sick son to swear on his life (not her other children, only him), so she would be believed, because no mother would swear on her sick child to a lie. I don’t know which of these women are worse anymore, as each one keeps stooping lower and lower. We know all the lies they are telling, and Melissa makes them up to begin with and hurting her family, Jacqueline is using her sick son, and Kathy calls her aunt and uncle terrible names, and this was all within Part 1 of the reunion. Bravo should be as disgusted as the viewers are, and get rid of these low class, dishonest, jealous women.

    Sorry to go on so about this, but as an honest person and a mother, I really cannot stomach what is taking place on the show, and the lack of honesty, decency and most of all respect. None of these women besides Teresa has any credibility. Teresa may be crude, but at least she has more boundaries than the other cast members.

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 8:00 AM | #72

      If Teresa and Melissa were having the conversation in the RV, why didn’t Melissa say anythihg to Jacqueline? Or defend Jacqueline? If Jacqueline did overhear it, why didn’t she go banging on the door of the RV or have any type of reacton whatsoever??? Doesn’t make sense.

      The only thing that does is – After watching the season themselves, Jacqueline and Melissa conspired to cook up this story and are “sticking to it” – sticking it to Teresa, that is. Both of them are disgraceful – Teresa is far better off without ANY of them.

      • October 3, 2012 at 12:06 PM | #73

        If Teresa had said what Jacqueline and Melissa are claiming:

        1. Jacqueline and Melissa would have told the others on camera in California.
        2. Jacqueline would have tweeted about it while the episode aired.
        3. Jacqueline would have written about it in her Bravo blog for that episode.

        • October 3, 2012 at 1:48 PM | #74

          It is always entertaining to watch people search for truth in what we see of the Real Housewives. Who knows what the “truth” is? They all seem to be crooks and liars. I know this is the Famewhorga site, so obviously it is going to be anti Gorga… what I wonder is where is the anti Giuidce site. I stumbled upon the court judgement in a lawsuit against Joe where Teresa is named, and wow – you know they are seriously shady when you read the summary/judgment. The judge had some harsh things to say.

          • Jeannie5233
            October 3, 2012 at 1:57 PM | #75

            With all due respect, I hope you have also stumbled across the Manzos legal issues – all well documented and available on the internet as well as Jacqueline’s current bankruptcy – which, includes possible embezzlement, which, by the way is far more serious than Teresa’sand considered a federal crime – also all public record. Look it up – oh, and don’t forget, Joe Gorgas’ 20-something lawsuits against him, his alleged rape charge, and his machinations and manipulations in real estate. Most of it is all documented on this website – however, if you feel you must look elsewhere, go for it – it is ALL PUBLIC RECORD.

            Enjoy your perusing – once the effort is made, I am sure you will be come to some very different conclusions and realizations. Good luck.

          • October 3, 2012 at 8:14 PM | #76

            Hi Grace, I kinda feel the majority of sites out there are pro Gorga/Manzo/Laurita/Wakilie… I could name 5 off the top of my head!!!!

            Did you know how much bad business Joe Gorga has done? That the Wakilie’s have been sued for dodgy practises? How about the Laurita issues and can ANYONE tell me what really happened with BLK? How did they go from representing it to being accused of stealing the idea to all of a sudden owning it? That never clicks with me!!!!

        • isolde
          October 3, 2012 at 11:49 PM | #77

          Exactly my point, Fame, that we would have heard about it long before the reunion. In fact, if it had taken place as Jacqueline said, she would have said it on camera in Napa, when she was asked about it by Caroline the next day, or when Kathy and Caroline were asking her about when Kathy was doing their hair. There was no mention of it, and as much as they were exposing Teresa on camera, every chance they got, if it had been overheard by Jacqueline, she would have exposed it on camera. Melissa and Jacqueline concocted this to make Teresa look bad at the reunion. I don’t get Melissa and Jacqueline being close, if as Jacqueline admitted, she knew about the set up the week before the fashion show from Kim D. If Melissa is not part of the conspiracy, then why wouldn’t Melissa be upset from Jacqueline, with all the things that Jacqueline, herself, has now admitted to. Melissa is fine with it, isn’t upset about the set up, and continues to blame Teresa to suit her own purposes.

      • Anonymous
        October 3, 2012 at 1:57 PM | #78

        I seriously doubt Tre would confide in Melissa (of all people) regarding anything to do with Jac or Caroline. At the end of the trip when Caroline and Tre squared off – Jac pretended to sleep – never saying a word. If she was upset or hurt why not back Caroline? In Jac’s talking head in the sour grapes fight episode she says “I’ve gotten to a better place with Teresa and I really don’t want to go backwards”. If she had overheard this after their RV conversation would she really be in a better place with Teresa and not want to backwards?

        • Jeannie5233
          October 3, 2012 at 2:05 PM | #79

          Exactly!! That is my point – that is why that whole scene at the Reunion was so contrived – I really do believe Melissa and Jacqueline are in cohoots along with Caroline and Kathy’s along for the ride. Knowing what they would be facing at the Reunioun, they all came up with this plan to drive the final nail into Teresa’s coffin, so to speak. Notice every time anyone of them says something, all of them pipes in, shakes their head, acts incredulous, makes a comment and/or mutter under their breath, to back up what is being said/screamed at Teresa – every time. No wonder she has a hard time responding – who wouldn’t?? Nauseating.

    • adioslunatic
      October 3, 2012 at 10:46 AM | #80

      Fantastic observations!

    • Anonymous
      October 3, 2012 at 8:02 PM | #81

      I just want to point out another editing point:
      In the previews leading up to the Sept. 30 reunion show when Jacqueline swore on Nicholas, you could see and hear Caroline telling her not to do that. However, when the actual show aired, Bravo did not show Caroline having the same response. I wonder why they did this

      • Tiff
        October 5, 2012 at 12:55 PM | #82

        I noticed that too… shoddy crap.

    • Anonymous
      October 3, 2012 at 9:40 PM | #83


  17. Anonymous
    October 3, 2012 at 10:21 AM | #84

    Do you remember the episode on the boat where Melissa said she wouldn’t pursue a friendship with Jac because she was Teresa’s friend?? Looking back, even the most simple things appear calculated. I think I almost forgot the way Melissa came on the show, she had a game plan from day one to ruin Teresa’s popularity, there was never going o be sharing.

  18. Anonymous
    October 3, 2012 at 10:29 AM | #85

    I didn’t buy followers,maybe it had something2do w/our 6million viewers w/the reunion&my openly talking about Autism#Grateful @uarethequeen
    12:31pm – 3 Oct 12. – Jac Laurita

    • October 3, 2012 at 12:00 PM | #86

      Jac Laurita People Mag on Autistic Son reach 48 million home n gained her less than 5k followers on twitter that week.

    • Cathy
      October 3, 2012 at 12:03 PM | #87

      It’s ok Jac…don’t you worry about it..we understand!! Nite Nite…rest your pretty little head! LOL

  19. October 3, 2012 at 10:30 AM | #88

    I wish Teresa could get off the network, and I would never turn to Bravo again…. And that my friend you can take to the bank. The sponsor… I am slipping away from them also.. They have no dignity.

  20. October 3, 2012 at 10:42 AM | #89

    Just called my insurance company Nationwide. They contiune to sponsor it I will drop them too. Bravo can put that in their pipe and smoke it.

    • SharShar68
      October 3, 2012 at 11:21 AM | #90

      Is there a way to compile a list of the sponsors during RHONJ? If we all try to express our disdain on Twitter to them, we may get somewhere. Public grievances on Twitter isn’t something they ignore. Trust me!!

      • MomaJackie
        October 3, 2012 at 6:47 PM | #91

        This is a list from the seanson finale. I have been busy, but I promise to re-watch Part One of the Reunion and add any additional sponsors. (I did not include movies or Bravo)

        Clear Hair Products
        Victoria’s Secret
        JC Penny
        Red Robin

        • Joanna
          October 4, 2012 at 1:29 PM | #92

          @MomaJackie Can you post to other blogs as well? Or can I on your behalf?

          • MomaJackie
            October 4, 2012 at 6:37 PM | #93

            Feel free to post it. I stopped going to alot of other blogs, Bravo included. They hardly posted anything I would reply to.

    • October 3, 2012 at 12:20 PM | #94

      Seriously? It’s just a damn TV show and it’s all entertainment. The Nationwide rep is probably laughing with their office buddies at you.

      • October 3, 2012 at 1:06 PM | #95

        See if they are laughing when I take my business elsewhere. I do not condone people being bullied. If Nationwide condones it, so be it, We all have choices.

        • Jeannie5233
          October 3, 2012 at 1:10 PM | #96

          Pamila – a big shout out to you for taking a stand – I have cancelled my subscription to USWeekly and told them exactly why with their biased assassination of Teresa – still getting the next few until it is processed. Yeah, we’re only one but, eventually if enough people do the same thing, the message will get through. Good for you

        • October 3, 2012 at 3:05 PM | #97

          Yes of course you have choices. But my point was — why upset yourself so much (when you probably have enough stuff to deal with already; we all do) about a group of women who get paid to be on a reality show and don’t give a damn about each other except for the money and the fame.

          But you did make a really good point and nicely so. Can’t say I disagree at all with personal choice (reasons don’t even really matter, do they) about products and services.

          If there are high numbers of similar complaints, I would imagine a company will have to take their choice of show advertising very seriously. I’m just curious as to what kind of numbers they need to persuade them to move their commercial out of RHONJ to another show, or another network entirely.

          • October 28, 2012 at 7:29 AM | #98

            Godiva: thank u for reminding me of one of the top reasons I love this site so much. You came w a point of view – and not an uncommon one. U voiced it. The orig commenter responded and explained her pov. And u respected that. Now I know these aren’t the middle east peace talks. But it’s nice to come here and read different pov’s that are well written and respectful of the environment around them. So thank u Godiva. And thank u ladies for sharing how ur making ir voice heard. And thank u Fame. Hope everyone has a ine Sunday.

            PS to Sackem, give us an update on how ur coming along. I dont think I’m alone in saying there are a group of people here who care about u and want to show their support. Peace.

        • MomaJackie
          October 3, 2012 at 6:53 PM | #99

          I stopped supporting the sponsors since the finale. It is really not that hard, with the exception of Kraft, they have their hands in everything. (I will try to put up a list of their top products and believe me, it is so much more than cheese, lol.) By the way, I substituted Top Care Body Wash for Dove. Not only is Top Care cheaper, it works better.

        • October 3, 2012 at 8:17 PM | #100

          Good on you Pamila!!!!! The Rosie incident alone should be enough for these business to think about what they support!

      • elemcee
        October 3, 2012 at 4:10 PM | #101

        They are not laughing, they work on commission. That is a big deal.

  21. October 3, 2012 at 11:30 AM | #102

    There are several list on this site. I think a list is under “Teresa Giudice Talks about Reunion 4″ and “Jac. Laurita was not at Reunion 3″.

  22. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 12:03 PM | #103

    wth is this? albie posts this on twitter of chris leaning in on this dude? I mean, little close for comfort dont you think?

  23. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 12:05 PM | #104


    link of the pic

  24. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 12:20 PM | #109

    I just dont understand why people from her past are holding back from talking?

    • Confused RHNJ viewer
      October 3, 2012 at 12:23 PM | #110

      From the rumblings on twitter — I don’t think that they are. I predict by next Monday there will be plenty of news.

      • Jeannie5233
        October 3, 2012 at 12:31 PM | #111

        I sure hope you are right because next Monday will be the morning after debates of Part 2 with the aftermath of Rosie, Andy’s questioning of Joe, etc. I don’t know if this is the part where Melissa plays the “I’m the victim” card. All I hope is when that airs, all those rumblings about her starts hitting the very public fans and blows right into her face. I doubt it though – unfortunately.

      • Joanna
        • October 3, 2012 at 8:19 PM | #113

          Oh boy Missy’s a crook!!!!!!!!!!!!! How would Jesus feel?????

        • bravofan
          October 3, 2012 at 8:26 PM | #114

          I have to take your word for it, the print is Waaaay dang too small for me to read, anyone have it enlarged?

          • October 3, 2012 at 8:50 PM | #115

            I’m so glad you found Fame-Whorgas bravofan. Welcome!

            Go to the link and then click on the image to enlarge it.

    • hoolie
      October 3, 2012 at 9:09 PM | #116

      My thoughts are, Penny and Johnny have the biggest beef….. so #1 It plays out at Bravo’s scripting if they go under contract w/penny as a housewife/friend of housewife or #2, not picked up and they just let it all out…..
      Either way, the ‘underground’ movement (i.e. famewhorgas, allabouttrh, stoopid housewives) is starting to get some strong current…..and I believe shit will hit the fan :-)

  25. October 3, 2012 at 12:26 PM | #117

    Jac buys twitter followers. When she created Chris twitter account he was gain about a 1,000 followers every hour…. It was even worse than that between 7PM and midnight.- about 4,000 per hour. 20,000

  26. Jill
    October 3, 2012 at 12:40 PM | #118

    Wow!!! Who is the owner of this site? Clearly it’s someone on Team Teresa! I’ll have to do some online research.

    Are you a frien of Teresa? Joe Giudice? Wait…is this site owned by Kim D?

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:07 PM | #119

      I’m pretty sure Fame is just a fan of the show that became disgusted with it once Melissa and Kathy joined the cast.

      I personally don’t like the turn the show took. Knowing that Melissa and Kathy came on the show with malicious intent (which clearly seems to stem from jealously) doesn’t put the two of them in the best light for a lot of us viewers. I mean, Melissa contacted Danielle to try to get air time!!! Can you imagine if Teresa did something that vicious?

    • Sadie
      October 3, 2012 at 6:57 PM | #120

      I’m wondering, too, Jill. Teresa is my favorite housewife (the pickin’s are slim), but the knives thrown at each of the other housewives and all this alleged insider information here is very curious.

    • October 3, 2012 at 7:40 PM | #121

      I am just someone good at research who documented things as I dug for information. And then I shared it by starting this blog. Many of my tips and insider info started out as comments in this blog and others. Other tips come via e-mail … people are talking because they are disgusted by Bravo. There are plenty of other sites that are anti-Teresa … I focus my attention on the many lies told by Melissa (and Jacqueline, who is now lying just as bad).

      I have explained over and over my purpose for this blog and that I have no connections to these people. Please read ‘About’ — link at top of page.

    • October 3, 2012 at 8:23 PM | #122

      Fame’s Batman….

      Look very clearly, as regularly stated… it’s not all about Teresa it’s about the BS the rest of them relentlessly spout. I’m Team Teresa, doesn’t mean I’m directly affiliated with her. Does Melissa run Reality Tea? Have shares in US Weekly and Wetpaint? Hang on Jac’s go to is Radar, she must own it / run it.

    • bravofan
      October 3, 2012 at 8:29 PM | #123

      You know how I found this site? when Bravo blogs wouldnt post positive info that I was posting to teresa, I was so excited to sign on (being a bravo fan), and the minute I started posting there I found it very difficult for the site to approve them. So I made my way here, and it seems very open, and welcoming of honest critique and apparently insider info

      • Jeannie5233
        October 3, 2012 at 9:54 PM | #124

        Hi bravofan – yes, isn’t nice to feel free to say what you want within reason without censorship! There are an awful lot of names I recognize here that no longer appear on the Bravo blogs so it’s nice to see them, as well as you, here. What has been the most frustrating though is when things like this tweeting of Jacqueline today happens, I can’t directly call her on it anymore. But that’s okay – because I really do believe this website as well as others are really starting to make a difference – are really starting to be heard.

    • MomaJackie
      October 3, 2012 at 10:02 PM | #125

      Fame was just searching for the truth, like I was, when I discovered this site. In the words of Judge Judy “if it doesn’t make sense it isn’t true” and Season 3 did not make sense.

  27. October 3, 2012 at 1:00 PM | #126

    Alot of people on here is sick of BRAVO. You try to post something positive on Teresa blog you get blocked. Some people on this site was blocked from replying or commenting. They are taking us for fools…

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:09 PM | #127

      I meant to say also blocked from liking a comment too.

  28. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 1:27 PM | #128

    If you search on the website the blooger tells you all about her expierence with the Marcos

  29. October 3, 2012 at 1:54 PM | #129

    Up thread, Billy Bronx said Robert, previous owner of the salon (La Chateau Allure?) was the man who paid for Melissa’s boob job. I’m guessing Penny Drossos worked at the salon when Robert owned it and that he how she knows so much about Melissa:

    “Melissa is a ho that (edited out) and even got Robert, salons previous owner, to buy her tits just by (edited out) and spending summer at his shore house. Deny it you ho, I f—ing dare you. (Edited out). Did you take Joey in the lookers parking lot & (edited out)?”

    • October 3, 2012 at 1:57 PM | #130

      ‘Melissa’s Former Friend’ on March 1, 2012 at 4:19 pm said on

      “You were nothing more then a handoff from Joe’s friends, wasn’t he third in line? Love at first sight my ass. Yea he saw you in Cancun while his and your friends had ‘fun’ from the very first day, but you wanted nothing to do with him until he caught up with you at Lookers with one of his friends you were actually going out with. Another joke. F*cking hand me down. Then you found out he had money and you went on the prawl. Shall I continue? Nah, I’ll save it for when Penny gets on the show and one at a time we’ll be getting our hair done by Penny and Robert and exposing everything. Oh, you remember Robert don’t you? Lol, Season 5 will be interesting.”

    • October 3, 2012 at 7:33 PM | #131

      Robert Palumbo ??

  30. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 2:13 PM | #132

    Why arent these people talking more and giving us proff about this liar?

  31. Jeannie5233
    October 3, 2012 at 2:29 PM | #133

    Jacs at it again – she just tweeted:

    “If its a solo picture on a magazine,person is getting paid,3 on the cover, one is getting paid. I didn’t choose to do the cover or get paid.” Twitter 10/3/12 @JacLaurita

    “I DID NOT choose 2bpart4coverUSMagazine but they asked me a ques at my last event&I answered it honestly. Quotes were pulled from Reunion.”Twitter 10/3/12 @JacLaurita

    I can’t tell if these are in response to something or she is just rambling on again.

    Now isn’t this EXACTLY what Teresa has been TRYING to say and get across to everyone about the damn tabloids. How they ask questions, you just answer, and then they take pics and “quotes” from “other sources”. She has said the exact same thing over and over and was told she was a liar. And from the looks of it, Andy will be questioning her – AGAIN – on the Reunion.

    Jacqueline is digging herself in further and further – more proof that whole patio “scene” was staged and, yes, a SETUP. I really am sorry – I know she needs help but when is someone going to do an intervention and stop all of this already?!

    • October 3, 2012 at 2:51 PM | #134

      These typical low-rent tabloids have editorial meetings where they decide who to write about and the angle, then the “reporters” craft the story, sometimes with direct interviews and other times with anonymous “sources.” By low-rent (trash) I mean: InTouch, OK, Life&Style Weekly. People is a dirtbag and the others are even lower than that.

      • Jeannie5233
        October 3, 2012 at 3:23 PM | #135

        Now I know why she is tweeting – the NEW cover of USWeekly pictures Jac, Melissa (front and center), and Caroline (there is an insert of Teresa) with the screaming headline:

        “HOUSEWIVES TELL US Teresa’s Dirty Secrets! Fed up, they slam Giudice’s bullyin,. lies, and betrayal – and spill the truth about her rocky marriage”

        This is why I cancelled my subscription to this TRASH – I feel dirty – I have to go take another shower!

        • Annie
          October 3, 2012 at 4:00 PM | #136

          The Manzo family is very friendly with Cheryl Crowley. What a cowinkydink that she is the Executive Director of Publicity for US weekly. Imagine that,lol.

    • October 3, 2012 at 8:27 PM | #137

      That’s what Teresa has said!!! They ask her a question she answers it!!!!!.. Sorry I should have read more of your post before I blew up!! Jeez at least Teresa’s making money off the pictures!!! Seriously, someone needs to confiscate Jac’s iPhone!!!! It is entertaining though, just quietly…… shooting herself in the foot. I wish I was on twitter to say exactly what you have posted!

      • bravofan
        October 3, 2012 at 8:35 PM | #138

        LMAO, Jax is such a whackadoo, busted for doing covers, the VERY thing she attacked Tresa for doing

        • October 3, 2012 at 10:12 PM | #139

          Totally off the reservation or as we say in Australia, a few sandwiches short of a picnic….

      • hoolie
        October 3, 2012 at 9:14 PM | #140

        Don’t worry sackem, i said the same thing outloud (as my family looked at me crazy for talking to my computer)….
        And don’t even get me started with Whack and her phone/twatter addiction…

        • October 3, 2012 at 10:09 PM | #141

          Nice one! How are people not seeing this….. honestly the whole twitter this is an attention seeking / cult of personality type thing. I see it everyday with my “friends” on Facebook venting about a divorce or a fight or whatever… it’s one way to get positive reinforcement.. As if I’m going to tell someone “yeah sucked in you’re getting a divorce” no, I’m going to say oh poor you! We all know she can block folk on twitter to fool herself into thinking that everyone has sympathy for her “Teresa is evil” song on dance. Twitter is a dangerous tool for those with narcissistic tendencies. How can anyone take her seriously after this crap????
          I do like to emit my evil genius laugh though at some of the things she says.

      • October 28, 2012 at 7:43 AM | #142

        Sackem. U can get anyone on twitters posts from or by viewing it on google. I like tweettunnel cos u don’t need to be on twitter – but u do need their twitter handle.

    • isolde
      October 4, 2012 at 12:26 AM | #143

      Okay, so if three are on a cover and one gets paid, and it wasn’t her, who was it? Melissa? If so, then why isn’t there criticism for Melissa, especially if Caroline and Jacqueline were also on the cover and not getting paid? The hypocrisy!! Now, didn’t Jacqueline just give a decent explanation of how it works, on Twitter. Coincidentally, what Teresa was saying over and over, but they kept saying she was doing the articles and saying nasty things about the others, and now Jacqueline says that US magazine took something she answered previously, and put it in the magazine article. This is so ridiculous, because people are calling them out on their magazine cover, she explains the situation, which is exactly what Teresa did repeatedly, and said that all these women knew how it works. Apparently, from Jacqueline’s tweet, she does know how it works, and they just tortured Teresa over and over about the magazines, thinking the viewing public are stupid or ignorant and they would be believed.

      Each day, with her constant tweets, because people are calling her out, Jacqueline continues to provide little tidbits of information that show just how much her involvement was, in deliberately trying to make Teresa look bad. This was all calculated behavior by Jacqueline, and others. The truth becomes more and more disgusting.

      Jeannie, thanks for providing this tweet from Jacqueline, because as you said, she is digging herself in further and further. I have four children, ages 17-21, and I do not have time to be on Twitter to see what everyone is tweeting about. Someone please explain to me, how Jacqueline with two young sons, one with special needs, has time to constantly be doing this. This woman is truly in need of help, an intervention if you will. Honestly though, I hope she continues to comment because she is exposing more of the lies and the scheming that went into the past season of the show. I truly give even more respect for Teresa, for exactly what she was up against. God bless her fortitude, because I know I would not have held up, as well as she did.

      • elemcee
        October 4, 2012 at 12:05 PM | #144

        Exactly, Isolde. I have a 17 year old and a 21 year old, and I have no time. I am always exhausted!!!!! Love your posts so much!!!!

      • Tiff
        October 5, 2012 at 2:41 PM | #145

        It sickens me at how hypocritical they are. Caroline, Jax & Mel are puppets of Bravo and Jax and Mel are puppets of Caroline’s.

  32. October 3, 2012 at 3:22 PM | #146

    #rhonj I went n pulled up Melissa Gorga OPEN ARREST WARRENT = RETAIL THEFT screen shot enclosed … = screen shot

    • October 4, 2012 at 5:33 AM | #147

      I’m frustrated! I can’t open this. I need to install silver light? To view it. But I’m using Andrid cell phone. And my twitter is suspended. And I won’t go back to Twitter or bravo pages. Can I view this another way?

  33. October 3, 2012 at 3:23 PM | #148 = screen shot

  34. ZamySalB
    October 3, 2012 at 4:07 PM | #149



    • October 3, 2012 at 6:46 PM | #150

      this is exactly what i thought today when i read perez…. wendy says get off… anderson cooper says get off n now perez…..

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 6:53 PM | #151

      The scuttlebutt is that supposedly Perez Hilton Andy Cohen, Kelly Ripa and her husband Mark Consuelos (sp?) all went on vacation together this past summer,

      Andy Cohen is on Anderson Cooper’s show tomorrow! Whatever – bring it on, bitches!

      • Joanna
        October 3, 2012 at 6:56 PM | #152

        The Bravo Formula for ratings= Bashing Teresa brings her followers which bring ratings.
        Watch on the internet, not when it airs.

      • October 3, 2012 at 6:59 PM | #153

        Anderson Cooper, Andy Cohen, Kelly Ripa and her husband Mark Consuelos = went on a ten day sailing trip to Croatia……no perez….

        • Jeannie5233
          October 3, 2012 at 7:05 PM | #154

          Thanks Chris for the clarification – it’s appreciated! :) By the way, I’ve been home sick today and your detective work on here has been fascinating – thanks!

      • isolde
        October 4, 2012 at 12:38 AM | #155

        Somebody please watch and report, as it will be interesting if Andy Cohen will bash his own employee, and the most popular and successful of the women on RHONJ. Perez Hilton was on with Teresa, and was definitely friendly with her. It almost seems if there is a campaign in the media (Kelly Ripa, Anderson Cooper, Wendy Williams, Perez Hilton), to bash Teresa and get her off the show, or at least diminish her popularity with the public. What they don’t get is, because of the women ganging up on her on the show, Teresa became more popular. When we saw the lies and the manipulations of all the other women, most being done in talking head interviews behind her back, people began to feel bad for her. Then in Season 4, the attacks by everyone on the Giudices, became blatant, and it became everyone against her.

        It now seems like there is a media blitz of criticism of Teresa, fueled by people associated with Andy Cohen. While Andy Cohen seems to have scaled back some, it seems like his friends in the media, have ratcheted it up. Now, it will be interesting to see what Anderson Cooper has to say to Andy tomorrow, and how Cohen will handle it.

        • October 4, 2012 at 10:05 AM | #156

          This is just a game for Bravo. They have set everyone up. You will see, next season they will calm down with T and amp up the set up for Melissa. Whaco will be back, the sympathy tour. People are talking about the injustice of it all, ratings are soaring, and it’s caching-caching let the cash register ring for Bravo. Andy is laughing hysterically at all of us.

          • October 4, 2012 at 11:09 AM | #157

            I believe you’re right about everything but Whaco coming back… I think she’s too much of a liability for Bravo to bring back.

    • hoolie
      October 3, 2012 at 9:19 PM | #158

      To me (and I’m no one…) I see MAndy/Bravo pulling in all his favors, from other housewives, to nighttime talk show hosts, tabloids/tabloid bloggers/sites.

      He really believed that he would be rid of Teresa by the end of Season 4, that viewers would ‘turn’. Instead, viewership turned on Chuckie…… I am seeing now an all out ‘slight’ going towards T from all the mentioned media sources…. and I thought it was very telling when WW asked her if she was returning for S5, and she said “they’re not going to run me out/away”…. Makes me wonder if Chuckie and/or others did say they would only come back if Teresa was gone….

  35. didipie
    October 3, 2012 at 4:17 PM | #159

    OH MY GOD…a person named @stark3923 found this.AN OPEN ARREST WARRANT FOR MELISSA GORGA shoplifting in florida…

    • October 3, 2012 at 8:28 PM | #160

      2 comments above is Chris….

  36. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 4:23 PM | #161

    I can not open and see. What does it say?

  37. Anonymous
    October 3, 2012 at 5:03 PM | #162


    Here is another link with more details n another #2 picture

    July 16, 1997 Melissa Marco (Gorga) was arrested 4 Retail Theft =Sarasota FL. $1k bond Open Case **NEW DOC** enclosed

    #1 #rhonj Melissa Gorga OPEN ARREST WARRENT = RETAIL THEFT screen shot enclosed

  38. October 3, 2012 at 5:06 PM | #163

    #rhonj I went n pulled up Melissa Gorga OPEN ARREST WARRENT = RETAIL THEFT screen shot enclosed

    July 16, 1997 Melissa Marco (Gorga) was arrested 4 Retail Theft =Sarasota FL. $1k bond Open Case **NEW DOC** enclosed

    • October 3, 2012 at 5:11 PM | #164

      Awesome detective work. I’d like to see FAME really go to town on this, investigating it fully.

      • hoolie
        October 3, 2012 at 9:20 PM | #165


    • Confused RHNJ viewer
      October 3, 2012 at 5:21 PM | #166

      Are these two (2) separate arrests? I’m pretty sure that Sarasota is not in Palm Beach County.

      • October 3, 2012 at 6:34 PM | #167

        1 arrest in sarasota = city = the county is palm beach county public records division

        • hoolie
          October 3, 2012 at 9:22 PM | #168

          Chris- Sarasota FL is Sarasota County……… If it’s in PB County records, could there be a second offense

          • hoolie
            October 3, 2012 at 9:23 PM | #169

            Bonita Springs FL is Lee County…. would it matter what county she performed in vs where the warrant was issued (Palm Beach County)??

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 5:31 PM | #170

      Hi Chris – Melissa has an appearance in Florida this weekend at a flea market – think she will cancel? She has got to know this is out there being “tweeted and retweeted” around in Twitter Land. There has been a death in the family this week, which is sad, but I wouldn’t put it past her to use this as an excuse if she does cancel.

      • Jeannie5233
        October 3, 2012 at 6:33 PM | #171

        Oops. That appearance as a Meet and Greet for K & M Fine Jewelry at the Flamingo Island Market (flea market), Bonita Springs, FL is OCT 20th – not this weekend – Sorry!

      • October 3, 2012 at 6:36 PM | #172

        I keep getting tweets on how Melissa Gorga is n mourning. she was shopping n posing 4 pictures yesterday SEE @PoshBoutiqueNJ timeline (proof) also a marco sister said a cousin died = i thought she tweeted that 2 days ago…. i know when i was posting the pictures of MEL shopping = i knew of the death = yesterday

        • hoolie
          October 3, 2012 at 9:24 PM | #173

          I saw that one of the Marco’s vipers posted it the other day ( With Caroline responding) and then noted today’s and wondered same….. Geesus, they can’t even keep the stories straight amongst themselves….

    • October 4, 2012 at 5:55 PM | #174

      On some blogs, the folks are writing this off as acting out because it was around the time her Dad died…… *slaps palm to forehead*

      • Brynn
        October 4, 2012 at 8:32 PM | #175


        • October 5, 2012 at 2:31 AM | #176

          Seriously! I will never get it……

    • Jeannie5233
      October 5, 2012 at 10:04 PM | #177

      Chris – hope you get this – I just went on RadarOnLine to leave a comment to back you up on their “Exclusive” but it wouldn’t post for some reason – I tried several times. You deserve the props for this so CONGRATULATIONS and Great Job!

  39. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 5:16 PM | #178

    Wow, thank you for showing it. I hope its floating on twitter and she sees its out!

    • Confused RHNJ viewer
      October 3, 2012 at 5:22 PM | #179

      Oh, trust me, it’s EVERYWHERE!

  40. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 5:32 PM | #180

    Oh good. Thanks for the info

  41. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 5:34 PM | #181

    At a flea market? It gets beter and better!

    • chioma
      October 3, 2012 at 6:32 PM | #182

      for real lol

    • October 3, 2012 at 6:38 PM | #183

      melissa is the free entertainment at the flea market = u know = the free music piped into the bathrooms to keep the line moving faster = record peeing… see there is a purpose to Mels music

  42. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 7:07 PM | #184

    Exactly both of Mel’s sisters tweeted on Sunday that their cousin died. Mel tweets it today! WED!!

    • bravofan
      October 3, 2012 at 8:43 PM | #185

      Yeah the sisters said they wouldnt be tweeting the night of the reunion view due to the death, not our missy she was tweeting away….so she just happened to mention it today? wth?

  43. Anonymous
    October 3, 2012 at 8:52 PM | #186

    My Gaydar went off… not to worry.

  44. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 8:55 PM | #187

    these comments are hilarious on Jax tweets BTW, shouldnt it be “posed” and not “poised”?:

    Jacqueline Laurita‏@JacLaurita

    T signed a deal for her covers.She got paid.She admitted it to me.She actually poised for her pictures.She’s admitted that.I tell the truth

    Collapse Reply


    79 Favorites

    11:40 AM – 3 Oct 12 · Details


    @JacLaurita you tell the truth but all you ever talk about it teresa, im with you that she isnt the best person, can we move on now?



    @bunnieloks ur page is private she won’t get that tweet lol leave her alone!!!


    6hSandra D.‏@SFBayAreaGirl

    @Kalyfornia @JacLaurita I disagree… I think it’s important for Jac to get her side out bc T is so vocal (and so wrong!) Rock on, Jacq.



    @SFBayAreaGirl @JacLaurita what happen to promoting what you love instead of spending all your energy bashing what you hate, we heard her



    @SFBayAreaGirl @JacLaurita the first 5 trillion times she talked about teresa, everyone knows she is unstable, why are we STILL talking

  45. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 9:00 PM | #188

    more from Jax tweets:, and I am sorry miss Jax, you are way not getting past it…your carp will start showing up on the internet too, just like melly mel, “I answered honestly”…well tre did too, unbelievable Jacqueline Laurita, biggest hypocrite

    Jacqueline Laurita‏@JacLaurita

    The reunion was an ugly place4everyone involved.I’d like2put it behind me &move forward in a more positive direction w/more important topics

    Collapse Reply


    80 Favorites

    10:51 AM – 3 Oct 12 · Details

    7hJacqueline Laurita‏@JacLaurita

    I DID NOT choose2bpart of cover4USmagazine but they asked me a ques. at my last event&I answered it honestly.Quotes were pulled from Reunion


    2 OctYouBeauty‏@YouBeauty

    The 31 Healthiest Foods You Should Be Eating Now | via @TIMEHealthland

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 9:22 PM | #189

      Hi BravoFan! Isn’t she UNBELIEVEABLE? I was open-mouthed when I was reading this stuff – then she she wants to change the subject and then she starts again. It’s the same pattern but I think people are starting to get a little annoyed with her and are taking her to task. I’ve been a little under the weather today and you gave me a laugh!! But, unfortunately, this is really not funny – she really does need significant professional help – not just a life coach and green tea!

      • bravofan
        October 3, 2012 at 11:23 PM | #190

        agreed, I guess Caro was telling the truth when she said they were “worried” about jaxs stability to show up for the last reunion…nervous breakdown anyone? No restraint

  46. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 9:13 PM | #191

    why is melissa just tweeting about her dead cousin today? did she not know this news when her sisters blasted it out on twitter the day of the reunion show?? Her very close Marco sisters didnt tell her while she wasbusy tweeting during the reunion show about her eye makeup? I see then that melissa had her FAMILY priorities in order. Could it be that she waits till she can use it today after the leak of her being a con with a five finger discount? Pretended perhaps that she didnt know she had already died on reunion night because that would mean it would look distatsteful to be tweeting while the reunion show was showing to the nation? Man Melissa is exactly what teresa has been saying she is….

    Read below from melissas twitter today: Too late mel, old news

    7hMelissa Gorga‏@melissagorga

    Sad day. My beautiful young cousin lost her battle to cancer. My heart is breaking for her two little girls. Vicious disease.

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 9:26 PM | #192

      Apparently she was out shopping at the POSH BOUTIQUE (not Kim D.’s shop – it’s a rival that Melissa is now promoting) yesterday. Chris_Stark mentioned that above –

      Yes, she has been accepting condolences on her cousin’s behalf today – apparently, the wake was today.

  47. stacey
    October 3, 2012 at 9:27 PM | #193

    Exactly her sisters tweeted it Sunday, and she tweeted today. She is a disgrace

  48. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 9:36 PM | #194

    fame did you see this on the chirping tweet today? Andy doesnt believe tre is bullied?

    • bravofan
      October 3, 2012 at 11:28 PM | #195

      wouldnt rosie screaming she will cut out her tongue constitute verbal abuse and therefore bullying?

      • October 4, 2012 at 6:11 AM | #196

        Well the fight between mariah and minaj on American idol. Has caused producers to seek legal advice because if was a death threat from minaj to mariah. What’s the difference?

      • October 4, 2012 at 5:51 PM | #197

        Rosie is just one part of the bully factor on this show. None of them speak rationally or calmly, they are all out for something. Jac’s constant tweeting and texting (if we believe Teresa and having seen Jac in action, I do) constitutes harassment surely! The going onto shows such as wendy Williams and telling lies surely must amount to defamation or slander. It’s not satire….. it is eroding Teresa’s character which is her business. Would any other business tolerate the opposition manufacturing stories about their product? I know it might sound a little nuts but a very fine line is being crossed.

        • October 4, 2012 at 6:34 PM | #198

          You said it Sackem: what the other HWs have said and done has defamed Teresa, and their continued bashing and lies about her on Twitter and in the tabloids constitutes harassment. Andy saying it’s OK because Teresa is strong and can take it is asinine.

          BravoAndy on October 3, 2012 said about Teresa:
          she is in an argument. Bullying is defined as habitually badgering someone weaker. T is a strong woman

          • October 5, 2012 at 2:42 AM | #199

            Poor Anderson Cooper didn’t think so… didn’t he claim Teresa’s family was after him on twitter… silly Anderson though there’s a lot of Giudice twitter handles out there. As much as I hate to say it, the FauxMilaniaG isn’t really Milania… and Santa’s a fake to! Sorry for bursting the bubble!

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 11:40 PM | #200

      When I was trying to get the link for you about the Posche Fashion Show Play-by-Play I saw this and I am thoroughly disgusted. This man who should know bett what the REAL definition of bullying is, should be ashamed of himself saying this. OMG!!!!!!!! I am shocked how uneducated he is!!!!!!!!!!

      I need help – can someone please post this to @AndyCohen Twitter account – It is an article about bullying – particularly ADULT BULLYING. He needs to educate himself before he makes an ass of himself on WWHL Sunday – he says he is going to address this comment.

      There is also a section defining the different personalities of people who are bullies themselves in this article. It is an excellent resource – one that I have used in writing definitions of what constitiutes bullying behavior for high school guidelines.

      Thank you to anyone who can help me with this.

      • Jeannie5233
        October 4, 2012 at 8:36 AM | #201

        If you have a Twitter acount, please send a Tweet to Andy Cohen at:

        and tell him how you feel about his comment of Teresa being a strong woman and therefore not a victim of bullying. A strong person CAN be bullied.

        I ask that you keep your Tweets respectful and responsible – DO NOT GIVE HIM ANY AMMUNITION TO USE AGAINST TERESA.

        He says he will discuss this topic on WWHL this Sunday.

        I am appalled by his uneducated statement – he is saying that it is only an “argument.” This is not about an argument – it is about the incessant taunts, wisecracks, motives, and behavior these women have exhibited toward Teresa for the last two years, INCLUDING WHEN FILMMING STOPPED and up until yesterday. The publishing of this week’s USWEEKLY article is also an example – whose ONLY PURPOSE IS to humiliate Teresa in publc – THAT is bullying.

        The word “bully” is used way too much these days but if there ever was a definition for it, what has been done to Teresa is IT, regardless of whether she is “strong”. Thank God she is because others would have crumbled, or even more seriously, had a breakdown or God forbid, well I don’t even want to go there. Let’s just say there has already been a suicide associated with Bravo. IS THAT THE OUTCOME THESE PEOPLE WANT AND IS THAT WHY THEY ARE FRUSTRATED AND KEEP UP WITH THIS STILL?

        Anti-bullying is a PASSION for me – my personal experiences with it and the aftermath has been a deciding factor of where I took my purpose in life and that is one of the reasons I have become so invested in this – please take the time to read the above article, especially the descriptions of the personality types of bullies. It is very revealing and thank you all for taking the time.

        FAME, thank you for allowing me this venue.

    • October 4, 2012 at 1:05 AM | #202

      Holy shit!!! That is terrible… please read folks!! Andy says Teresa isn’t a victim on bullying on the way to speak at a forum about bullying… WTF. No, threatening to cut someone’s tongue out whilst 4 ladies are screaming at you is a silly disagreement is it Andy? Wow, and I hate to say it because one is as important as anther… he takes a hardline on slurs but murder’s ok? Didn’t sound like an idle threat coming from Rosie’s mouth, more than just a figure of speech. Joe, in his ignorance, was using a figure of speech, no excuses and not letting him off the hook but he wasn’t using the term in a violent fashion.

      • brynn
        October 4, 2012 at 1:28 AM | #203

        Sackem I saw the same thing! Apparently he didn’t google the definition cause it says “use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.” Gee I wonder where he would fit in?!

      • October 4, 2012 at 6:39 AM | #204

        OK now I’m convinced this is an outrage disgusting!! I don’t even know why I’m surprised at this. Just horrible. OK I’m so mad I can’t even think straight! I need a drink or a xanex or a idk. It’s almost 4:00 a.m here. And I know I won’t sleep bcus I’m so mad. But why?.. I don’t know these people. But it’s the unjust treatment poor Teresa and her family has received. Bullying and death threats on national TV! And they do jack shit about this!

  49. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 9:52 PM | #205

    more crazy mels sis



    So @kimpirrella tweets it’s a sad night and she’s w/ @melissagorga reflecting. 4 min later M tweets about eyeshadow. #Shesdeep


    18mSukie Tawdry‏@sukie_tawdry

    @shanandcrew @kimpirrella @melissagorga LOL I guess you aren’t watching the #debate


    6mKim Pirrella‏@kimpirrella

    @sukie_tawdry @shanandcrew @melissagorga lol no had a wake till 9 and DVR’d Can’t wait to watch tomorrow morning.

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  50. bravofan
    October 3, 2012 at 10:12 PM | #206

    Teresa cleared up one more editing snafu by Bravo producers. While it looked like she went back inside to continue partying after the event, she says, “I didn’t go back inside. That was the beginning. When I was saying ‘Hi’ to everyone, that was the beginning, but I guess they ended up putting that afterward.”

    • October 3, 2012 at 10:21 PM | #207

      People were commenting in the blogs that Teresa greeting guests, which was shown after the big blow up, seemed out of sequence… like it was footage from the beginning of the evening when she first got there. I was wondering why she didn’t address this in her blog for that episode. This deceptive editing is ridiculous. Next year will be a repeat of this year, with bloggers trying to get out the truth instead of Bravo just doing the right thing and showing us the housewives lives as unscripted as possible with scenes in sequence.

    • Jeannie5233
      October 3, 2012 at 10:22 PM | #208

      There is a post on Chirping Twit “RHONJ; Posche Fashion Show Play by Play” posted October 3, 2012 that absolutely supports Teresa’s statement that it was at the beginning of the show. It is very interesting and quite an eye opener – how if you watch the dishes on the tables you can see the whole thing is edited out of sequence. I don’t know how to post links so if someone else can, it would be great.

    • October 3, 2012 at 10:59 PM | #212

      Teresa says what she’s allowed to say about the editing. But she can’t tell the truth about how Bravo made her discuss with Melissa who Angelo said he was… and that she refused to do it until pushed by Melissa.

      Don’t ever buy a tell-all book by a former Housewife because their contracts prohibit them from telling us how things really work and what really went down.

    • Benson
      October 4, 2012 at 3:16 PM | #213

      $$$Andy Cohen$$$ is a dirty scumbag. Everyone should call him out on twitter of his lies and editing to take shit out of context. This is suppose to be REALITY TV. He is responsible for the destruction of everyone’s relationship on the show. He most likely gets off to it and masturbates every night to the thought of destroying families and getting women to fight and bicker with each other like feline cats. He is disgusting and I hope someone punches him in his face.

  51. October 3, 2012 at 11:21 PM | #214

    Fame!!! We ran out of space. First of all, kudos for wading into such a gross website that is the guido site. Kind of feel a bit dirty. I’m with you though, too much of a coincidence!!!! I worked in popular bars, respectable ones, through uni and partied a bit, I was photographed in my uniform for nightclub papers, but posing for a hottie of the week thing, it is different. She can say that the photo she posed in was for a friend and it ended up there blah blah blah.. we’ve all seen or heard about The Dirty website, but then I scrolled down through the post, this site seems more local than that. Seems she has quite the name on the scene, a lot of people knew who she was which kind of gives more support to these random commentators who talk about her back in the day.

    As for the stripper /cross comment… if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and looks like a duck you gotta think it’s a duck right? Taking a bit a liberty because it’s not smack in your face but New Jersey doesn’t sound like that big a place and it’s a prominent feature of her personality and appearance.

    You know the ladies are working on the theory that 4 people can’t be wrong, then how can all these other people who are posting similar things and experiences be wrong… just because Melissa says so.

    In my opinion, the real Melissa popped out at the fashion show. The way she spoke to Joe, the shame on you, the manipulation of getting him there and dasmal in distress crap.. all those things made me see her as not so squeaky clean (even more!!!) She’s ghetto… the little asides to Kathy about Teresa being a bitch… she’s far from nice and church going. The little facade that she’s been hiding behind and fooling people with hit the ground!
    I mean who is she? Innocent, church going Melissa who stands by her family with the highest moral code or bit of nightclub fluff who gets down and dirty… my parents threw parties, my friends with kids have parties…. none of them are like the pool party at the Gorgas and I’m in their age group! My guess is (and seeing as though Joe Gorga knows who does what) there was a plate in the microwave and a mirror on the coffee table….. none of which would be approved by The Real Gorga Family!

    Lots of assumption and opinion in my ramble. I’ve just seen Melissa’s type a thousand times in my life experience. We all have! I know girls like her and I know they’re not innocent, I know they like the attention… she’s hardly modest in her attire, and I know some of them can change but I don’t get why she’s trying to hide who she is. She was the party girl the old school Italians didn’t approve of…. why take Teresa down? The same Teresa who said she lost her virginity with Joe… that she couldn’t use tampons till she was married. They are just different people! But why continue to lie and pretend to be something different and offended. It is what it is… and this is why I don’t like her… not everyone gets along with their inlaws but not everyone goes on international TV to expose them for not approving of them. I really cannot understand the continual allegation that Teresa specifically came between Joe and the Gorgas…. why pin this on Teresa? Newsflash Melissa, not everyone has to love you and think you’re cute and they aren’t evil if they don’t. If you ask me… Teresa is the innocent one, through all her brashness and balls. She is actually the good girl.

    Of course the Gorgas took one look at her and thought stripper… as per bus conversation she doesn’t come of school teacher does she?

    • christine
      October 4, 2012 at 11:07 AM | #215

      nicely put and can I just say I love reading your posts!!

  52. likesphotoshop
    October 4, 2012 at 12:49 AM | #217

    Lol Melissa was arrested for shop lifting too funny.

  53. October 4, 2012 at 1:34 AM | #218

    When are the rest of them going to post their blogs? It really bugs me that a) I even both reading them but that b) it’s their job!! Just post it already… us reading them and watching you buys those handbags and paid for that nose Kathy.. better deliver soon!

    • October 4, 2012 at 1:35 AM | #219

      *bother…. couldn’t spell without my fix…

    • christine
      October 4, 2012 at 11:08 AM | #220

      i am anxiously awaiting their comments on the reunion also….why is it taking them so long to post??

  54. October 4, 2012 at 2:08 AM | #222

    Rosemarie Pierri ‏@RosiePierri
    BTW ..Tre is the one who always seems to bring up the parents first not us Pay attention !!!
    Expand Reply Retweet Favorite
    30 Sep Rosemarie Pierri ‏@RosiePierri
    I know some of u may be disappointed in my behavior however, MY DAD was & will ALWAYS be my SUPERMAN! I WILL PROTECT HIS HONOR ALWAYS! Nite
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    I can’t get over the number of people supporting Rosie’s behaviour. Someone said that she should have punched Teresa in the face? How is this behaviour appropriate and justified?
    It still bugs me.

    Most of us consider our fathers or grandfathers or uncles or brothers as such… as does Teresa Why is Mr Gorga irrelevant and disregarded consistently by these people? Kathy and her Mum bought Mr Gorga up in the kitchen in a negative light… when has Teresa slighted Noni or her husband? These people are despicable. Ego and arrogance has a lot to answer for.

    Joe Gorga’s response? All talk no action…. just let your wife do the talking in a magazine after the reunion, knowing what has happened abusing your family some more. Oh wait, that’s right, Lysa Macro writes his tweets…..

    Joe Gorga ‏@joegorga
    How r u feeling today?like a tampon.In a good place at The wrong time. LMAO!!
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    30 Sep Joe Gorga ‏@joegorga
    Come on the Giants almost got the win
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    30 Sep Joe Gorga ‏@joegorga
    That song is hotRT @melissagorga: Do you hear #IJustWanna! On the commercials?!
    View album Reply Retweet Favorite
    30 Sep Joe Gorga ‏@joegorga
    Help help RT @kateecabrera: #HelpFindKara @melissagorga @joegorga @AlbieManzo @chris_manzo @TeamVic
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    30 Sep Joe Gorga ‏@joegorga
    We shouldn’t let the people who aren’t worth it get to us.Fucos on the people who love and accept us for who we r and shower them with love.

    joegorga hope u just heard @KathyWakile call ur mom a f -ing liar!! Wow!!! What a family!!!!
    Expand Reply Retweet Favorite
    @joegorga and ur dad is called a coward? Wow!!! Hope d fame is worth it!!! Unbelieveable!!!!
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    30 Sep Melody Martrain ‏@mbmartrain
    @joegorga you are a disgrace to all men. How dare u let Kathy talke about your elderly parents like that. Oh wait.. U did same thing
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    30 Sep ~ ♫ ♥ Evana ☠★~ ‏@GoodLucKat
    @joegorga you’re too busy kissing Manzo ass to realize that you and T have the same parents that Kathy just ridiculed on National TV, sad.
    Expand Reply Retweet Favorite
    @GoodLucKat @joegorga really sad!!!!

    • October 6, 2012 at 8:19 PM | #223

      I agree with you re: the Gorga parents. It is SO disrespectful!! I also saw comments on twitter (and by Laurenmanzo) commending Rosie. Sadly, I saw 1 by JaimeLaurita calling her a “strong lady”- I’m shocked there isn’t an investigation or FCC involvement in a threat on someone’s life ON national t.v.!
      1 thing we have to remember is Bravo had 10 hours of reunion footage to choose 180 minutes of which to air, and they chose to air the part with the painful comment regarding the Sr. Gorgas & Rosie’s threat – that should give ALL of us insight as to Bravo’s priorities.
      I didn’t watch last week & won’t this week either. I read tweets & that’s enough for me. :)

      BTW, doubt many will get this far in comments but PLEASE don’t watch WWHL tomorrow night! 1) the poll (you know he’s gonna have 1 re:Tre being bullied or not) will be rigged
      2) it’s a HUGE grab at Tre fans to watch just for the ratings!! Don’t give that to Bravo or Andy!

  55. October 4, 2012 at 2:41 AM | #224

    Just went to Danielle’s twitter to see if she’s saying anything controversial… only along the lines that they would expose themselves as bullies eventually. Damn, I really want her to talk.

  56. Llinda
    October 4, 2012 at 6:55 AM | #225

    I am guessing Teresa is extremely busy & doesn’t sit & write her own bravo blogs-do I blame her, hell no! I do believe someone discusses with her what she wants to say & they write for her while she’s doing a thousand other things each day-when you have a BRAND — that is life — something NONE of these other women know nothing about and are seething in jealousy. As far as a mother or any other parent….you better believe they have a very powerful influence on their child’s self esteem. When a parent rules with too much negativity, eating disorders surface. Whether it is overeating, binge-eating, anorexia, etc…All eating disorders arise from emotional problems and become a child’s way of coping for their perceived inadequacies. Lauren’s isn’t severe. She appears to be more of a spoiled, lazy, entited child who is emotionally sensitive, but not “damaged.” she is whiney and manipulative and mom and dad saw a lapband as a way to appease her. Quite frankly it IS absurd she wasn’t providing one-on-one counciling and family counciling to address the root of her problem & instill a healthy physical/nutricious diet. She was/still is a very hateful and spoiled child even though she is a young ADULT. Living at home, only one relationship in her entire life with a boyfriend, all reflects her deep-seeded unhappiness. They have merely put a bandaid on her problem, providing a temporary uphoria of being slimmer. I predict it will not last and she will regain her weight and….until the root of her unhappiness is addressed and dealt with-things will never change for her. Parents are powerful and set a child’s emotional and self esteem profile beginning when children are toddlers. A parents opinion and words last forever in children’s subconscious. Lauren was doomed with a mother like Caroline and two brothers that mommy overtly favors. It is very visible in Caroline’s actions and words. It reflects “loudly” in all 3 of her kids. The entitlement, the jealousy, the inmatuity and cruelty to others that they perceive to be less-advantaged than themselves.

    • SharShar68
      October 4, 2012 at 10:42 AM | #226

      Which is exactly why Caroline’s karma will be that her kids will be embroiled in a similar situation to Joe Gorga/Teresa. Lauren’s jealousy and false sense of entitlement will cause a riff with her brothers’ future wives, etc…and BAM! Caroline will feel the pain of the poor Gorga parents. She deserves it.

  57. Caitlin
    October 4, 2012 at 7:39 AM | #227

    On April 7, 2003 at 9:54 pm someone says on that website that Melissa is her cousin Joey’s girl!! Hmmmm…. Story again is not adding up!!! Unless she dates only Joe’s!

  58. October 4, 2012 at 6:13 PM | #228

    “It’s unfortunate that once again Teresa automatically went to that place and thought I would reveal the nature of our past conversations we had years ago about marriage. I would never reveal any “girl talk” that we had in the past and betray her confidentiality. What made her think I would so quickly divulge that private information when I never did before and have no intention of doing now? She went for my jugular and she pushed me over the edge! ” Kathy Wakile

    Well Kathy, what have you, Melissa, Jac and Caroline been doing all season? I don’t need to write a list do I folks? Ep 1 Season 3. “We pay our bills”

  59. Jeannie5233
    October 4, 2012 at 6:52 PM | #229

    Jacs is very, very quiet on Twitter today – there is only one RT from Jillian Michaels for the entire day. Very unusual. Absolutely nothing else from what I can see.

    There are rumblings in the blogosphere that the exact details of the claims filed against her, her husband, and brother and sister-in-law, re: Signature Apparel Group totaling over $55 MILLION dollars is about to be disclosed and new information of Chris’ infidelities is floating around.

    Frankly, in all good conscience, I truly hope she is alright. She may be wacky but I do not wish ill will of that significance or seriousness on anyone. She just needs help.

  60. Anita
    October 15, 2012 at 9:32 AM | #230

    I am so tired of everyone asking, “how did you really meet Melissa”, everyone asks from Pete Guidice to John and Penny Kariogorgis to Kim DiPaula, but no one says anything. There are only two motives to stay quiet, one, they are hoping to get on the show which makes them just as whorish as Melissa, or two they have nothing on her. Is New Jersey this bad? Wow, feel sorry for the national depiction of this state and its citizens.

  61. brian
    October 17, 2012 at 3:46 PM | #231

    Melissa or “Jordan” Melissa’s “dancer”. Right now someone is ready to release them. Rumors are all around town is the Gorgas are writiing hot checks all over town Joe has even bounced his employees pay. Not cool. It has.been said that Melissa’s boob were paid for by s “dancer” fan. He was a.pilot. not sure about her nose though.

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